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mylane
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I just read this somewhere. 
"Man is a social being".
But being alone is inevitable, sure there are people around you, your co-employees, your relatives, acquaintances, etc etc. But a man or a woman needs a special relationship or bond to a certain person.
Someone where he/she would feel comfort and security.
But sometimes, when that person comes into our life, we are so stupid to just let them pass through or even worse, we drive them away.
When the time that you realize their importance and how you really feel for them, they're already gone.
What could a lonely heart do? how could you fight being so miserable when you know in your heart that the person that would make you happy is gone. That whatever you do, She'll/he'll never love you like he/she use to love you.......
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Re: How to fight loneliness?
« Reply #1 on: May 23rd, 2004, 1:16pm » |
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Need4Speed8DaleJr
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Re: How to fight loneliness?
« Reply #2 on: May 23rd, 2004, 1:25pm » |
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I love to be alone. I know that may sound crazy to some of you, but it's true. I live alone, I cook alone. I don't mind. It's when you need to be with someone that makes you go crazy.
So many people get scared when they are alone for any lenght of time. Why? They are scared to get to know themselves. They are scared to sit and think about things, scared that they might not like themselves and they might have to think and face what they are doing in their lives. Most people have never been alone in their life. They look at people who spend time alone as someone who isn't very social. Well, these are the very same people who get all panicked when left alone even for a few hours without human contact. Sad really.
I think everyone should spend time alone, it makes your soul tougher, and clears your mind, making it easier to focus on the goals in your life. Then, when you do spend time with someone, be that your family, or a girl/boy friend, it makes that time even more special.
I can understand the feelings of wanting to be with your girl/boy friend alot, and missing them terribly when away from them. IMHO, it is these same needs and feelings that devestate a person when the relationship ends. Everyone deals with these feelings differently, and that's what makes us all so unique.
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Re: How to fight loneliness?
« Reply #3 on: May 23rd, 2004, 11:26pm » |
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My sentiments exactly, Dale.
There's nothing wrong with being alone. It's not pathetic being alone. When you have so much space, it gives you time to reflect on the more important things.
I'm anti-social. I absolutely HATE being around people. When I was younger, I pictured myself living alone somewhere on top of the mountains. Not a human being in sight. Creating a world of solitute.
Whoever said "No man is an island" must have pissed on his pants.
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Re: How to fight loneliness?
« Reply #4 on: May 24th, 2004, 12:04pm » |
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Loneliness is just like happiness. Its a choice.
Embrace your loneliness for a while because as they say that which does not kill us makes us stronger.
Being lonely is not license to mope and feel sorry for yourself though.
Cry if you must, rant and rave if you must, but remember that you choose when to stop being lonely and make that choice.
Each day when we wake up is something to be un-lonely for because its another chance for us to make things better and make things right and eventually find that elusive happiness we all seem to be searching for.
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Re: How to fight loneliness?
« Reply #5 on: May 24th, 2004, 10:05pm » |
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Well said, My! 
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Re: How to fight loneliness?
« Reply #6 on: May 25th, 2004, 12:33pm » |
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You can walk with crowds and still get lonely. I'm thinking loneliness is a state of mind. I can be alone in the house and never feel lonely. In fact, most of the time I prefer my own company than anyone else's.
How to fight loneliness?
Read. Never pass up the chance to cultivate your mind and soul.
Reconnect. Call an old friend for no reason except to say hello. Most of the time, we are afraid that they might be busy but I'm sure nobody will pass up the wonderful feeling that somebody has been thinking of you.
Listen to music. It is the language of the soul. Get lost in the words and rhythm. Sway to the music.
Get a pet. Dogs are man's bestfriend. Or maybe cats.(oooo cats). Whatever you fancy, remember that animals are intuitive creatures and they can perceive your joys as well as your blue days. If you have a pet, you will live longer.
Take a walk. The world offers a refreshing view of things and as you breathe in and out with the rhythm of your steps, things have a way of happening that your mind gets unclogged.
Still lonely? Go see your doctor. Maybe you're depressed and need help.
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Re: How to fight loneliness?
« Reply #7 on: Jun 20th, 2004, 9:45pm » |
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perhaps Mhy what u mean was...she was being lonely because of the things she had done...like not paying too much attention to someone who cares for her a lot and could be one of the reason that cause her loneliness....and the man was gone.....well.....there are so many fishes in the ocean..if she has the determination..she can surely catch a better one. One has to stop living on the past...rewinding it and making it right is quite impossible. Move on....like what May said.....loneliness is just a state of mind!
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Re: How to fight loneliness?
« Reply #8 on: Jun 28th, 2004, 2:07pm » |
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Try not to dwell too much on your mistakes.
Close this chapter of your lovelife, turn the next page and approach it with new vigor. 
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Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
« Reply #9 on: Mar 2nd, 2005, 3:54am » |
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Learn lessons from your past. It could be that, that someone is not meant for you and most likely will go away. Be very observant of what's or who'll come. You are the manager of your own life, you do what you choose to do. Rationalize things carefully and take notes if necessary.
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