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Having Kids... How Important Is It?
« on: Jun 23rd, 2004, 6:01am »
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How important is it for you to have kids? If you found out that your husband or your wife cant have kids will your feelings change?... If for some reason you found out that the person you want to marry cant give you kids will you still want to marry him/her?  Undecided Tongue Grin
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« Reply #1 on: Jun 23rd, 2004, 8:43am »
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very nice question kimmy.  Wink
 
I let the other post first, I'll be back later. Grin
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« Reply #2 on: Jun 23rd, 2004, 7:37pm »
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I would love to have kids someday.  If I found out that my wife could not have kids, I would stay with her and we would adopt.  No matter what, I will stay by my wife's side.
 
If it was my girlfriend, I would still stay with her.  Its not her fault.  Plus i'm not having kids until i'm married.  I will not raise them alone.
 
Either way, she'll be hurt enough to know she can't have kids.  Why should I be immature and leave her for that.
 
It all depends on what God wants me to do.  If He wants me to have 1 kid, fine, 2, fine, 20, um i'll beg for mercy  Grin
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Re: Having kids... how important is it?
« Reply #3 on: Jun 23rd, 2004, 10:04pm »
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if it's the woman who can't have kids it's a different story... almost every married man or man usually change their feelings when their wife/woman can't have kids... no wonder that almost all the women doing their "I do's" are usually on the way or have given birth already... because their men wants a proof that their woman can have their kids...else, they won't marry them... any vioent reaction? hehehe
 
but if it's the man who can't have kids, seldom will the woman leave the man... unless their man wanted or let go of their woman to complete her being a woman.
 
for me, if i know that a man can't have kids i'm so sure that i wish i will be with the man who can make me a woman... and maybe will end up parting ways...however, am not sure too if i can have one... so we better try making one first... Grinoopsss..that's my other me  Tongue
 
 but if i  know after our marriage... i'm so sure too that i will stick to him till death...  
 
i know am not too young nor too old... so i can still go for 5... but 25... i won't beg for mercy...hehehe... if my husband can afford.
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Re: Having kids... how important is it?
« Reply #4 on: Jun 23rd, 2004, 11:18pm »
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I'd love to have kids. For GOD said "Be fruitfull and multiply"  
 
If I was married to someone who couldn't have children. Then that's Gods will, not mind, so be it.
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Re: Having kids... how important is it?
« Reply #5 on: Jun 23rd, 2004, 11:42pm »
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wow son i already love you!! MARRY ME!!!  Grin Grin Grin aw wait that cant happen right?  Cheesy Grin what grace said bout men wanting to have babies is actually very true specially here in pi. Its like men need to have kids so that someone will carry their name. My cousin married someone who couldn't have a baby so he ended up cheating on her n having a baby from anoth girl... Undecided...
If you say you love someone if should be unconditional... I love you because you are sexy n good in bed or  i love you coz you can cook well.... what if the girl had an accident n can no longer be everything you say? wll you leave her too?? Unconditional.... thats the key to a lasting realtionship...  Wink
 
on Jun 23rd, 2004, 7:37pm, madd   wrote:
I would love to have kids someday.  If I found out that my wife could not have kids, I would stay with her and we would adopt.  No matter what, I will stay by my wife's side.
 
If it was my girlfriend, I would still stay with her.  Its not her fault.  Plus i'm not having kids until i'm married.  I will not raise them alone.
 
Either way, she'll be hurt enough to know she can't have kids.  Why should I be immature and leave her for that.
 
It all depends on what God wants me to do.  If He wants me to have 1 kid, fine, 2, fine, 20, um i'll beg for mercy  Grin

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Re: Having kids... how important is it?
« Reply #6 on: Jun 28th, 2004, 10:41pm »
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for me kids is just secondary...husband is the first...if the love is too strong and commitment is on top priority... having no kids is not a hindrance to a happy marriage.
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Re: Having kids... how important is it?
« Reply #7 on: Jun 28th, 2004, 10:47pm »
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I love kids.  Not for dinner mind you, but I would love to have a family.
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« Reply #8 on: Jun 29th, 2004, 9:21am »
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on Jun 23rd, 2004, 10:04pm, cebuanalyn wrote:
no wonder that almost all the women doing their "I do's" are usually on the way or have given birth already

 
They usually say I did rather than I do Grin
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« Reply #9 on: Jun 29th, 2004, 9:13pm »
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on Jun 23rd, 2004, 11:42pm, kimmy_baby01 wrote:
wow son i already love you!! MARRY ME!!!  Grin Grin Grin aw wait that cant happen right?  

 
kimmy, hmmmm TongueTongue  Grin
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