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Wicked_Witch
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UNFAITHFULLNESS: How Do You Cope Up With It??
« on: Sep 16th, 2005, 1:31am » |
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Sometimes, even if the signs are there, we simply refuse to see it. For reasons like we don't want to confront the person for fear of losing him/her. Sometimes we worry about the effects it will have on the kids. Sometimes we refuse to dig deeper into it because we do not want to believe it is true or that it is really happening to our lives. The worse scenario that can ever be in a break-up is having a 3RD PARTY. Because more often than not, it makes it harder for the estrange couple to still be friends right away. But for whatever reason there is, how do you cope up with it? Post away....
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Wicked_Witch
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Re: UNFAITHFULLNESS: How Do You Cope Up With It??
« Reply #1 on: Sep 20th, 2005, 1:25am » |
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I guess everyone is lucky they never had problems with unfaithfulness, eh?  Sometimes even though I suspect, I tried to avoid a confrontation. Because he has always been honest with me and he will never deny it. I've always been afraid to face the truth. And I guess I do not want to shatter the illusions I had that he was the perfect partner. And even if I caught them together, I dont think I can make a scene. But God has always a way of righting a wrong so....
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Re: UNFAITHFULLNESS: How Do You Cope Up With It??
« Reply #2 on: Oct 29th, 2005, 6:42am » |
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With a gun!!!!!!!
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Re: UNFAITHFULLNESS: How Do You Cope Up With It??
« Reply #3 on: Oct 29th, 2005, 1:07pm » |
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with a brave heart  cuz pitying urself won't do any good 
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Re: UNFAITHFULLNESS: How Do You Cope Up With It??
« Reply #4 on: Nov 17th, 2005, 5:12am » |
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Through prayers ... then i`ll be at peace  
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Re: UNFAITHFULLNESS: How Do You Cope Up With It??
« Reply #5 on: Nov 19th, 2005, 12:34am » |
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on Oct 29th, 2005, 6:42am, keensryche wrote:
Oppss....sorry, Keen...I forgot I have this thread here. Im just curious...can u really hurt that person? Would you rather see that person dead rather than let her be with someone else?
Through prayers ... then i`ll be at peace Wink Smiley
This is from Tina. I do not know how to qoute everyone in just one postings so I'm copying it. You gotta be a very strong person if you can just sit and pray while your world has turn upside down coz of the unfaithfulness of someone. Very courageous, indeed! And this goes for Beth, too!
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Re: UNFAITHFULLNESS: How Do You Cope Up With It??
« Reply #6 on: Nov 19th, 2005, 10:48am » |
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well if ya love the girl or guy u shouldnt cheat but sometimesmit happens for various reasons, but it should nt
if ya in love u should be there for her or him forever 
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Re: UNFAITHFULLNESS: How Do You Cope Up With It??
« Reply #7 on: Nov 19th, 2005, 4:21pm » |
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Cut his "thing" off. 
Kidding of course .... I don't know, not been faced with the dilemma.
While I'm a firm believer and proponent of second chances, if it were to happen to me - I'd probably not even going to confront him. Because I don't think there is any logical explanation for what he has done. I'm going to end the relationship without much of a word said between us. No physcho babble, no farewell speech - none whatsoever. Just like that.
How do I cope with it? I don't have to.
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Re: UNFAITHFULLNESS: How Do You Cope Up With It??
« Reply #8 on: Nov 21st, 2005, 1:45am » |
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Wow, Missfarty, you are one lucky woman not to have experienced this kind of problem in your life and I hope you remain secured for the rest of your life.(winks)Or your man will be sorry he ever crossed you! Hahahaha!!
[qoute]well if ya love the girl or guy u shouldnt cheat but sometimesmit happens for various reasons, but it should nt
if ya in love u should be there for her or him forever[/qoute]
Nelson, sometimes things happens that are beyond your control. It maybe your fault or not, but you would still be a part of it. I think the best thing for you to do is to show your sincerity in wanting to right that wrong. I just hope your partner will give you a second chance. And if she really cares, she will, unless you have done something really irrepairable?
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Re: UNFAITHFULLNESS: How Do You Cope Up With It??
« Reply #9 on: Nov 22nd, 2005, 12:57pm » |
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on Nov 21st, 2005, 1:45am, Wicked_Witch wrote:| Wow, Missfarty, you are one lucky woman not to have experienced this kind of problem in your life and I hope you remain secured for the rest of your life.(winks)Or your man will be sorry he ever crossed you! Hahahaha!! |
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Thanks so much. However, the only reason why, is because I've only had very few relationships to begin with. Two and three quarters (I think). The longest was a year - that for me is a milestone already Guys I've been in relationships with couldn't seem to keep up with me. LOL.
Most of the time I feel sorry for them though. They didn't see it coming. Case of mistaken identity I would suppose. I am not entirely "normal". (bwahahahaha)
(Man, the smell of my finger is annoying me. Smells like curry. Must be the chicken I had for lunch -- it says lemon with garlic. Grrrr!) 
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