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MissFartyPants
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If you think this is a walk in the park, well think again. Has anyone seen the movie "Someone Like You?" starred by Ashley Judd and Hugh Jackman. I think you should  Anyhoo.....
In my book, nice guys do finish last. Their actions are mostly predictable. They are expected to do the "honorable" thing - whatever that means today. Open the door for you, do your nails  , says the things you wanted to hear NOT what you should hear, ass kissers, if I may - and the list goes on. (Please don't throw your shoe at me not until I make my point. I do have a point, I swear). Funny thing is, when these nice guys break your heart it's the most horrible feeling. You never knew what hit you.
On the other side of the coin, enter the assholes. Does "A Walk To Remember" ring any bell? Maybe it's just me, but I've always wanted to have a sense of accomplishment. Even if its of little significance. I mean, wouldn't it be nice to meet a guy that annoys the heck out of you, who is unbelievably cocky -- then one day, you flash him your dorkiest smile and he's hooked. No exposed cleavage or any of the sort. You didnt' even have to pretend to drop your pen. It's like whoa! Gives you that inexplicable feeling...... Not saying I'd date an asshole with the hope of changing him in mind. Although, that is indeed very challenging.
Needless to say, I'd go for the assholes anytime
I'd like to hear your thoguhts.
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ReeBop
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Re: Nice guy or an A-hole?
« Reply #1 on: Apr 27th, 2004, 9:05am » |
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and now you know why I am single...and will remain single the rest of my life....it is true, nice guys finish last every single time
money, mental anguish...they mean a lot, I guess
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teagirl
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Re: Nice guy or an A-hole?
« Reply #2 on: Apr 27th, 2004, 5:32pm » |
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Men are bewildering creatures. Never will I be able to understand one and never will I ever attempt.
I usually steer clear from A-holes because I have such low pain threshold that I cringe @ the slightest HINT of pain. You see, this is my EQUATION:
ASSHOLES = PAIN
So if thats the case, my fate can be found among the nice ones but I had a Mr. Nice Guy for 4 years---he broke my heart so horribly, I'm thinking I'm still reeling from the blow til now.
The problem with Mr. Nice Guys is that they are so darn tootin' nice, its impossible to stay angry with them. Picture this: they clawed your heart from your chest using his barehands, threw it on the ground and trampled it with spiked shoes all the while apologizing to you!
So Nice Guys or A-holes? Well, what attracts me in a guy is his intellect and usually I'm so dazzled with his IQ, I never realize he is the nice-guy type or otherwise until I'm knee deep in the relationship.
If it comes down to these 2 choices, Mr. Nice or Mr. A-hole, I think I will take a sabbatical from the romance department and contemplate a life of total isolation.
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Re: Nice guy or an A-hole?
« Reply #3 on: Apr 27th, 2004, 10:23pm » |
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My sentiments exactly! Thing is, with A-holes, you know what to expect - if they break your heart, you shrug your shoulders and move on.
Men are indeed an enigma. I've given up trying to make sense of it all. Hurts my brain to no end.
Following Teagirl's equation. Mine would have to be:
MEN/LOVE/Relationship = WASTE OF TIME
I'd get my fix elsewhere 
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teagirl
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Re: Nice guy or an A-hole?
« Reply #4 on: Apr 28th, 2004, 4:30am » |
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kuk kuruk-kuruk kuk kuk kuruk
*doing the chicken dance since we dont have a chicken icon*
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Re: Nice guy or an A-hole?
« Reply #5 on: Apr 28th, 2004, 5:55am » |
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LOL silly girl!
Does that mean you'd join my Dead Toenail Society as well? My members has walked out on me 
Hey, won't you add me to your buddylist? clumsilyidiotic is my nick. Fitting name huh?
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Re: Nice guy or an A-hole?
« Reply #6 on: Apr 28th, 2004, 8:37am » |
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this explain why women are attracted to jerks .
there comes a point in a woman's life that they pick the "bad boy" types over the other ones.
The reason? Maybe it's the adventure. Maybe it's the challenge that comes with it.
Like MissFarty said
Quote:| Not saying I'd date an asshole with the hope of changing him in mind. Although, that is indeed very challenging. |
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Re: Nice guy or an A-hole?
« Reply #7 on: Apr 30th, 2004, 1:42am » |
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hmmmm did u just mention the word "jerk" My ?.....lol...I hate jerks! who doesn't? Add the words imbeciles...idiots and chauvinists!  nwei,..uh... I'm not really sure what to say...uh... you see... it's just that once in a while you get to meet someone who you think is a "nice guy" but in the end finding out that he's the so-called "asshole" in the long run Men are great pretenders that's why I guess. I remember someone saying this: "Some men are just stubborn... they just don't know what's good for them even if it hits them in the face!" haha... how true... oh well... I should've known better  How come some guys are just really sooo impossible?... they're like: they go from 60 to 0(duh!)... they come on too strong... they become extra nice to you...gives you extra special attention... in other words act almost like a "saint"...someone you could fall in love with and then!..... oopsss... slam the brakes when you begin to reciprocate... What could be the possible reason for this? Could they be a lil or too insecure to handle bona fide bonding?...Oh well...I think I still would go for the "nice guy" type of guy.... they're always worth the risk.... always worth the love you have to give...always worth everything...
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Re: Nice guy or an A-hole?
« Reply #8 on: Apr 30th, 2004, 1:46pm » |
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on Apr 28th, 2004, 5:55am, MissFartyPants wrote:LOL silly girl!
Does that mean you'd join my Dead Toenail Society as well? My members has walked out on me |
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What are the requirements to be a member of your Dead Toenail Society. My toenails are still alive but my hair is not...
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Re: Nice guy or an A-hole?
« Reply #9 on: Apr 30th, 2004, 5:44pm » |
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Cud you plz tell me how to register on the Dead Toenail Society?? 
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