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okasantina
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Would u give physically abusive bf a second chance
« on: Jan 9th, 2006, 6:30am » |
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If your heart isn`t the only part of you thats broken, can you mend it?
He raises a fist, tugs your arm and the worst part of it...is that you still love him anyway. Should u stay or should u go? Does a mean man deserve another chance?
Ok get out of the damsel`s shoes to know if the distress is enough to dismiss a second chance.
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Re: Would u give physically abusive bf a second ch
« Reply #1 on: Jan 9th, 2006, 1:01pm » |
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I won't give him a damn chance never never never
Once he hit me... there's a chance for him to do that again and again and again ...
Hitting someone and tell them you love them duh whats that...
once a man hit me that means he doesn't love and he doesn't respect me as a person anymore i wont stick with a guy with no respect for me
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Re: Would u give physically abusive bf a second ch
« Reply #2 on: Jan 10th, 2006, 5:26am » |
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I will have to agree with Earthy. I have been and can be very patient with a lot of things but physical abuse is serious and definitely unacceptable.
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Re: Would u give physically abusive bf a second ch
« Reply #3 on: Jan 10th, 2006, 6:25am » |
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Even i flare up and get physical when I`m emotional. If i claim to be his equal, I should accept that he also has the same tendencies. I`d forgive him for his physical outburst and set standards for future arguments as well...sometimes women provokes thats why they are bumped by men u know...and it all matters about outweighing the good things in the relationship from the bad things. I wouldnt want to throw everything we have just like that. As long as he knows that a second chance doesnt mean he can hurt me again....and why not we can get "out of control" in the heart of the moment right? we are just humans and sometimes we do make mistakes. Just set an ultimatum to ureself..it doesnt necessarily mean that he doesnt love u or what....He`ll gonna soon realize it in the end. Dont get dumb! fight back so he will know who he is dealing with ... lol 
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Re: Would u give physically abusive bf a second ch
« Reply #4 on: Jan 10th, 2006, 6:28am » |
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I would never give a hand a chance to land on me for a second time. I am not even sure if I would give a second chance to see an abusive man again after leaving or sending out from my life.
He could do it when he's still my boyfriend, how much more when I'd be his property?
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Re: Would u give physically abusive bf a second ch
« Reply #5 on: Jan 10th, 2006, 7:10am » |
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I don't easily get mad. And I always accept it if I am in the wrong. But if someone hit me without any valid reason at all, that's a different story. Coz I am someone who carries grudges for a long time. That only happens if i'm not able to get even. He better be a light sleeper after hitting me or ..........
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okasantina
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Re: Would u give physically abusive bf a second ch
« Reply #6 on: Jan 10th, 2006, 7:17am » |
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on Jan 9th, 2006, 1:01pm, earthlingorgeous wrote:I won't give him a damn chance never never never
Once he hit me... there's a chance for him to do that again and again and again ...
Hitting someone and tell them you love them duh whats that...
once a man hit me that means he doesn't love and he doesn't respect me as a person anymore i wont stick with a guy with no respect for me |
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U have ure point there earthling dear...i guess u just dont like to be battered again huh... lol
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Re: Would u give physically abusive bf a second ch
« Reply #7 on: Jan 10th, 2006, 7:18am » |
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on Jan 10th, 2006, 5:26am, Justine wrote:| I will have to agree with Earthy. I have been and can be very patient with a lot of things but physical abuse is serious and definitely unacceptable. |
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It goes like "Once is enough, Twice is too much"
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Re: Would u give physically abusive bf a second ch
« Reply #8 on: Jan 10th, 2006, 7:24am » |
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on Jan 10th, 2006, 6:28am, nOrKAy wrote:
I would never give a hand a chance to land on me for a second time. I am not even sure if I would give a second chance to see an abusive man again after leaving or sending out from my life.
He could do it when he's still my boyfriend, how much more when I'd be his property? |
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Its like an abusive boyfriend will be an abusive husband eh.. 
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« Reply #9 on: Jan 10th, 2006, 7:26am » |
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I just don't have the patience for physically abusive person....I can't accept that. NEVER!
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