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Wicked_Witch
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BETRAYAL...how does one cope with it?
« on: Jan 16th, 2006, 9:15am » |
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At some point in our lives, we have been betrayed by some people who mattered to us. It can be a lover, or a friend. Did the betrayal ever taught you a lesson? Did you ever think of yourself as deserving of it? After the initial reaction which is normally anger, were you disillusioned about life itself? Did you find it hard to trust that person again or you have forgiven and forgotten? Did the betrayal for some time affect your judgement of others? Did you ever wish you can take a revenge on that person? Like an eye for an eye? Or you just moved on and just charged it to one more life experiences? Let's share our thoughts on these, friends, then maybe some can learn from it.
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Wicked_Witch
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Re: BETRAYAL...how does one cope with it?
« Reply #1 on: Jan 24th, 2006, 8:16am » |
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Shuckz...no response.....I take it everyone has been happy all their lives 
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Re: BETRAYAL...how does one cope with it?
« Reply #2 on: Jan 25th, 2006, 10:07am » |
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Mother Witch I take my liberty to be the first to answer lol! 
Maybe because betrayal is such a strong word and some don't feel like they have been betrayed before. It feels like a telenovela plot or something LMAO And maybe because everyone feels confident among the people that mattered most to them to feel betrayed by them.
Anyways, I've been betrayed one two many times... because I think I was so naive and trusting.
But the good thing about being betrayed by someone you think is a friend is that they weren't able to stay longer in your life to do more damage or a deeper irreparable damage to you.
To me, there is no reason to be so doubtful of other people or be untrusting, I trust everyone until they give me the reason not to do so. That's where I start to be cautious of you or pretend you don't exist.
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Wicked_Witch
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Re: BETRAYAL...how does one cope with it?
« Reply #3 on: Feb 6th, 2006, 10:31am » |
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You like to get even, don't you Earthy? It doesn't have to be doing the person bodily harm. Just that we hope the person feels miserable and heap bad luck one after the other the rest of their lives? 
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Re: BETRAYAL...how does one cope with it?
« Reply #4 on: Aug 4th, 2006, 6:09pm » |
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Can we just go on and pretend it never happened? I think I will. Because the world doesn't stop for your griefs. Cry and you cry alone. Laugh and the world laugh with you.
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Re: BETRAYAL...how does one cope with it?
« Reply #5 on: Aug 4th, 2006, 9:46pm » |
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I think i can never go on ... unless i will slap my palm into his face that he betrayed me...unless i will dump unto his bones what he did to me is wrong..unless his conscience keep on buggin him all the time...unless i see him crawling for forgiveness for the pain that he caused me...thats it...thats how i can cope with it i think...lol
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Re: BETRAYAL...how does one cope with it?
« Reply #6 on: Aug 10th, 2006, 6:29am » |
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If someone once betrayed me, it could only happen once. I may always know/remember him/her but will never allow a single touch from either that person or from me. Sorry, my Mom left her being over-protectiveness on me.
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Re: BETRAYAL...how does one cope with it?
« Reply #7 on: Aug 10th, 2006, 10:36am » |
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I understand you ladies, but won't it be much more easier if we just ignore the person's existence? Hate is a very strong emotion. It can consume our whole being if we don't let bygones be bygones. Can't we just leave it to the hands of God to give us the justice we seek?
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Re: BETRAYAL...how does one cope with it?
« Reply #8 on: Aug 11th, 2006, 11:43am » |
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I think if someone betrayed me...i just have to let him/her go. I don't need to be so violent....i'll take the pain, that's part of the package of trusting someone anyway. I'll have to be strong and show to him/her that I wasn't affected though on hemorrhage inside. What's the use anyway, it happened already. All i have to do is be logical. Revenge is a sweet pill when ur in rage, but i don't think i'll ever resort to that, it will only harm me more. Everything heals!
On second thought, i'll cross the bridge when i get there. 
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Re: BETRAYAL...how does one cope with it?
« Reply #9 on: Aug 12th, 2006, 5:16am » |
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I guess what one does depends on the personality of the one that got betrayed. Some people take pride in getting even in the form of revenge, and some nice girl like you, Grace, will just be content on charging it to experience. But you know what? I found out that talking about it and having it actually happened to you are two different things. Sometimes out of anger we do the unexpected, and sometimes though we have played the scene in our mind time and time again, when you come face to face with the situation, it's hard to tell what one person is capable of doing, especially the timid ones. Because as the saying goes, "still water runs deep". And then there's also those that keep on barking but do not bite.
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