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why is your soulmate not where you live
« on: Jan 16th, 2006, 7:19pm »
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i wonder why the one you love is in the other part of the world is what i want to know
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Re: why is your soulmate not where you live
« Reply #1 on: Jan 16th, 2006, 11:12pm »
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awww poor you! well its simply because you spend too much time socialising in cyber  Grin try getting to know your neighbour. prolly you'll find a soulmate in her too. that solves the prob of you flying across oceans just to meet that special someone  Wink
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Re: why is your soulmate not where you live
« Reply #2 on: Jan 17th, 2006, 2:28am »
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Hell I know the answer to that...because you were born here and whoever they are was born there.
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Re: why is your soulmate not where you live
« Reply #3 on: Jan 17th, 2006, 6:42pm »
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Destiny! Grin Roll Eyes
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« Reply #4 on: Jan 18th, 2006, 5:26am »
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ummm is this a trick question??  Grin  (Sorry, just can't help it).
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Re: why is your soulmate not where you live
« Reply #5 on: Jan 22nd, 2006, 2:12pm »
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sirfire she came here but had to go back... we just had good time here and we talk everyday here in cyper we just can't wait to be back together
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Re: why is your soulmate not where you live
« Reply #6 on: Jan 22nd, 2006, 3:56pm »
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Well sweetie at least you 've met your soul mate and had fun for a bit. Some other ppl out there havent got any chance yet and their dreams just remain a dream till dunno when  Roll Eyes Enjoy what you have for now cos nothing guarantees you a life long happiness. * Cheers!  
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Re: why is your soulmate not where you live
« Reply #7 on: Jan 23rd, 2006, 9:37am »
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I have a few thoughts on this.
 
1: Its much easier to showcase the good and suppress the bad side of ones personality online. One can never have a complete picture of another through a purely long distance relationship as there are elements missing such as body language and seeing their reactions to situational events etc.
 In text chat alone there is also always time to think of the best response to the other.
 
2: With the gaps in knowledge about the other person, it can be a tendancy to fill in those gaps with what one wants to see in the other, rather than knowing for sure that the other person smells or has bad hygiene, shifty eyes or whatever  
 
3: With all this above, I think its much easier to find a person who fits this template of being a "soulmate" than it is in our day to day real lives as there are always pieces missing of the complete picture.
 
This comes from personal experience of mine. I have met a number of people from online who in face to face encounters, seemed a lot different than how I imagined them to be from my online knowledge of them.
 
My conclusion is that you can never really know someone well before spending time with them face to face.
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Re: why is your soulmate not where you live
« Reply #8 on: Jan 24th, 2006, 7:50am »
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Because that would be easy to find or worst be overlooked.  As they say, good things are hard to find and i think that includes soulmate.  Well, as they say, if he/she meant for you, then, whatever happens he/she will be yours in the end.
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Re: why is your soulmate not where you live
« Reply #9 on: Feb 3rd, 2006, 5:31pm »
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Wherever you are.......your there!  Grin
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