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Being on the other side...Serious advice needed
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Matthew
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Re: Being on the other side...Serious advice neede
« Reply #1 on: Mar 8th, 2006, 3:54am » |
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Re: Being on the other side...Serious advice neede
« Reply #2 on: Mar 8th, 2006, 8:44am » |
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i don't know....was that a serious advice?
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Re: Being on the other side...Serious advice neede
« Reply #3 on: Mar 10th, 2006, 5:59am » |
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I don't know, was it?
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Re: Being on the other side...Serious advice neede
« Reply #4 on: Mar 10th, 2006, 6:05am » |
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ok i dont know what is this topic for but if you dont know then i will moved this to blabber..
is it a serious advice on love or serious advice in something else ?
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Re: Being on the other side...Serious advice neede
« Reply #5 on: Mar 10th, 2006, 5:44pm » |
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go ahead coochie 
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Re: Being on the other side...Serious advice neede
« Reply #6 on: Mar 10th, 2006, 11:27pm » |
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Dont sweat the small stuff. Just get up dust yourself off and get back on the right track. If gun shy...have a few drinks of mr john daniels and go for it. If it dont work out move on...plenty of other fish in the sea. Always think positive, even when things are their worst. Never live in the past...tomorrow is a new day and a new start on life....keep a smile on your face even though you are hurting on the inside. You think you got it bad? Just remember all the millions of other people in the world who have major major problems and are just trying to survive. Take a chance every once in a while. Life doesnt wait on you. If you not careful one day you will wake up and life will have passed you by. Pray and ask for forgiveness because you know you are gonna want something or need something or screw up something sooner or latter. Dont brown nose to get what you want and dont be a hipocryte. Alway try to give 100% in whatever you do. Dont hide from the world ..expose yourself. Be nice..but dont be nice just to be nice. Stop thinking about yourself all the time and think of others...that will get your mind off of you. Get away for a while and be all by yourself and figure stuff out and then you will realize just how much you miss and need others. Be honest to yourself and others and use both your heart and mind when you want to say or do something. Dont always be a leader let someone else take control every once in a while. The early bird gets the worm....the late bird starves. If you wanna run with the big dogs you have to leave the porch and seek adventure and try different things. Always be positive and look at the bright side of things even when things are not so great. If all of this fails? Get a gun and blow your brains out because you dont really want to live anyway. 
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Re: Being on the other side...Serious advice neede
« Reply #7 on: Mar 13th, 2006, 1:32am » |
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Well, in the first place I don't understand why it took you years to finally realized things are not going to work out? Think of all the wasted time, the emotions invested? I think it would be very unfair to the other party, specially if he has done nothing wrong to warrant your defections? The problem is with you then? If you are the only one having problems, then you should be the only one to suffer. If both of you are having miserable lives since God knows when, why did you wait till it's too far to go back? But then I guess if you want to be happy, the only course of action to take is to get out of the relationship. But will it really make you happy knowing you have cause pains to the other party? Think long and hard before you make a decision. Maybe you just need time to get away from him for a while, but letting go? That sounds permanent. And remember the saying, "you will only realize the value of something after you lose it".
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Re: Being on the other side...Serious advice neede
« Reply #8 on: Mar 13th, 2006, 2:17am » |
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It's not wasted time....its just training for the better times....I never burn bridges or leave a mess....Hell, I'm usually the one getting cast away for the "more exciting"...PRICK!!!....and then i hear from them that they were better off with me in the fist place, but they don't love me....so men have to deall with women's mixed emotions, lies, deciet....and everything else...(I'm sure it goes both ways)....but being with a woman is like reading a book where the text is random and unpredictable, therefore our sense of stability in a relationship is almost non-existant. Everyday is a guessing game and women, more often than not, feed from this and use this aspect of thier personalities to complicate "things" for us. From there everything deteriorates for the man. He looses all sense of security...comfort....stability....trust... It then becomes easier to just move on and start over, in theory. But throughout my life I have seen how devistating a woman can be to a relationship because they act on emotion rather than reason in the majority of situations...then act too proud to admit they can be or are wrong about something(any given issue)...This only muddies the waters for clear communication between the two and thats when the man starts to put distance in between the two. A woman will pull away in hopes to find a more "understanding" companion. The pattern will continue to repeat itself as long as women leave us in the dark about issues...fight over nonsense..(just for the sake of argument)...refuse to communicate and refuse to accept the fact they can also be wrong....A man on the other hand will admit to where he went wrong and at least attempt to find logical steps to move forward rather than dwell on the issue...When you live the problems that is where the time is wasted in a relationship...This is a general statement based on personal observation, years of consulation and moral support to friends...and many years of dealing with the shallowness and selfishness of the common woman....
Quote: "Matt, you need a nice asian girl, she won't treat you this way and she has a sense of shame attatched to her pride making her strive for perfection in the relationship, you're very special you deserve someone as good as you...." Linda Choiu 
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Re: Being on the other side...Serious advice neede
« Reply #9 on: Mar 13th, 2006, 6:28pm » |
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Even though its hard to let go something very dear to your heart but what needs to be done needs to be done. The sooner the better to prevent more damages done to either party. I've always believe that in this heart rending situation both parties are equally hurting bad. Never think its a waste of time but think of all the sweet precious moment you spent with him as a gift which will last you forever. Sometimes we need to act cruel to be nice.... Believe it or not men recuperate faster than any women after a heartbreak. So lift up your head, look forward and smile and take that big giant step with confidence. All the best!
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Never say good-bye if you still want to try- never give up if you still feel you can go on- never say you don't love a person anymore if you can't let go.
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