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mylane
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LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
« on: Feb 27th, 2004, 2:57am » |
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Do you want to be left alone until you're okay or feeling alright?
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You want your honey to settle it right away?
How do you want it to be handled?
waiting for gracia's answer 
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Gracia
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Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
« Reply #1 on: Mar 3rd, 2004, 7:31pm » |
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if i feel like in rage mylene...i wanted to cool down first. I dont discuss matters when we're both in heat or even one is in heat. it's no use. I dont want to talk when am angry, there's a tendency i can utter things i dont mean, and feel sorry after. I prefer to give cold treatment than mean words.
And when am angry My...i'll tell my husband...dont talk to me yet...try later. Well he got sense too to follow orders
One thing i hate most is fighting and shouting and throwing things..
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mylane
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Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
« Reply #2 on: Mar 10th, 2004, 7:10pm » |
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shouting and throwing things...thats a live show where all the neighbor eavesdropping and giving their different opinion....
i remember my female neighbor said once "if i could only lift the fridge i would throw it in ur face (hubby's face)"
that's really funny since you can hear their quarrel....
BT:
i wanna be left alone and talk later when i'm calm...cause i'm so bad when i'm not...its proven.
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ReeBop
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Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
« Reply #3 on: Mar 10th, 2004, 7:17pm » |
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I remember having neighbors that fought all the time. Especially when he was drunk. He would always pound and kick at their door when she locked him out and the police were called several times. I'm glad when they moved out.
When my new neighbor moved in, she told me of all the holes and damage in the apartment....apparently from punching through the walls, kicking and throwing things. Even her metal front door was replaced because of dents on the outside and the inside!
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ray69
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Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
« Reply #4 on: Mar 15th, 2004, 1:57am » |
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The proper thing to do is to be calm when ur in deep arguments. I cant do that. I want to release all the anger thats keeping the hot charge inside me. I envy those who can control their emotions. 
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no need to be basic coz tym will be waistin...
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okasantina
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Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
« Reply #5 on: Mar 15th, 2004, 5:59pm » |
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When im mad.....i just cry....but i cant talk...but if i am really really mad.........i talk even while i am crying sayin everything....that makes me calm. 
But if he is mad...ill just lay low and wait till he calm down. 
I dont like fighting...i want to reassure that at the end of the day our misunderstanding is gone and settled. 
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K....
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Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
« Reply #6 on: Apr 3rd, 2004, 7:16pm » |
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When I'm hurt.......... I just cry. I cry until there's no more tears left....... I may move on and learn to smile again after that but it's hard for me to let go of the pain or to forget about it totally. Sometimes I can get really emotional and say a lot of things that I normally wouldn't say........ sometimes I wish for the other person to hurt the way I'm hurting,.... to feel the pain so that that someone will know how much I hurt... Now I wonder is pain really part of loving?
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okasantina
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Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
« Reply #7 on: Apr 3rd, 2004, 10:14pm » |
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Why live in pain when you dont have to?
“The pain associated with relationships has more to do with fear, than love.”
It is just that for some reasons, many people assume negative emotions are a part or element of love.
Kianna ... Love is not painful, it feels great! The pain and hurt we feel doesn’t come from love, it comes from our doubts, fears, anxiety, perceived rejections, broken trusts, anger, jealousy, envy, etc.
Love feels warm, open, joyous and filled with a deep sense of appreciation.
Pain steps into a love relationship when you switch it from a "wanted relationship," into a "needed relationship." You don't NEED any one relationship. Want? Yes. Need? No. 
hmmmm i think i should post a new topic on this.... LOL!
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Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
« Reply #8 on: Apr 4th, 2004, 9:37am » |
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when I'm hurt I usually just cry.... If I'm hurt real bad,...I cry 'til there's no more tears left... it's true,.... and then I would hate myself for when I wake up the next morning my eyes are so swollen and puffy.
Sometimes I can get really emotional during arguments and I tend to say things that I will be sorry for after I've calmed down. It's just that when I'm hurting I want to hurt the other person too the way I am hurting....... I know it's not nice for usually nothing can be resolved when I act this way... but I don't stay mad too long.... It's like a spur of the moment thing for me. It's like one minute I'm really really mad,...then after some time... I'm not anymore. A quiet look or a hearfelt sorry though is enough for me to forget an argument. Sometimes even a simple touch on my hand will do,..or a hug...
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keensryche
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Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
« Reply #9 on: Apr 4th, 2004, 3:06pm » |
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I wrote a poem/song on this subject. Thought I'd share it to those who didn't read it on Kianna's poem topics.
I still love you
Loves not always fun and bright
troubles will come your way
we don't agree on what we say
and it sometimes will cause us to fight
Emotional anger will take control
our views will disagree
frustration and love has got to be
in order for us to become 1 soul
Love will sometimes try and hide
when mad and not thinking
words can hurt when your speaking
no one wants to give up there pride
I'm not ashamed to admit my own errors
because I'm not always right
God knows I'm not looking for a fight
cus my hearts big and I'm a man who care
As I look back through the years
the good times and the badI woul
most of the times fun, but some sad
living through the laughter and the tears
Thanks you so much for always being there
helping me through my mistakes
admitting my faults is what it takes
for some men saying "I'm sorry" is rare
I know there's times we don't agree
I know there's times my eyes don't see
I know I sometimes say things I don't want to
and even though we don't see things eye to eye, I still love you
For who you are I still love you
For what you've become I still love you
If right or wrong I still love you
Now and forever I still love you
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