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mylane
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The USUAL Reason Of LQ's
« on: Aug 2nd, 2004, 6:04am » |
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What is the most usual reason of having LQ (lovers quarrel)?
Its either :
a.they don't have nothing better to do.
b.they love to make up after the break up.
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Hernando
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Re: The USUAL reason of LQ's
« Reply #1 on: Aug 10th, 2004, 10:52am » |
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on Aug 2nd, 2004, 6:04am, mylane wrote:
b.they love to make up after the break up.
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I kinda like this part...
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Re: The USUAL reason of LQ's
« Reply #2 on: Aug 16th, 2004, 10:28am » |
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Lemme share this poem...about Lover's Quarrel 
Lover's Quarrel
Is there truly a bond between us two?
Or just a fantasy of love?
Does fate drive the things I do?
Or is it you, watching from above?
I tire of the struggle-day in and day out
I forfeit, and bow before you.
To be beheaded without shout
or to be knighted for deeds I did not do.
Will you break me?
Or will you shelter this young fool?
Am I so blind that I see
What role I have, your tool?
The battle was long and vicious.
Your goal to win, mine to lose
so when you are victorious,
whom has won? Whom?
If you wish, break me-
I want only rest
But if you demand of me
battle I shall give my best.
And when you win
is it a true victory?
Or will on my face, a grin,
betray me for you to see?
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Re: The USUAL reason of LQ's
« Reply #3 on: Aug 20th, 2004, 10:42am » |
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LQ usually just pop up....there are times that i plan an LQ but it turns out things went out smoothly. The unplan one is more challenging, if u allow that to go out of hand then it can cause break up, but if u just consider it a passing scene, nothing worst will happen. IN my case....LQ arises when i'm about to have my period. It's my normal scenario to be slightly irritable around that time, ohh my hubby tolerated that, and i'm abusive too. part of the loving.
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Re: The USUAL reason of LQ's
« Reply #4 on: Aug 22nd, 2004, 6:13am » |
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Re: The USUAL reason of LQ's
« Reply #5 on: Sep 12th, 2004, 8:50am » |
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hmmm, let's see. I think:
misunderstandings, lack of communication, jealousy (I call it the attack of the green-eyed monster  ), pride, insecurity
Sometimes when there's an issue in a relationship, both parties are driven by too much pride that no one wants to open up and talk about it. Without realizing that the longer they put the issue on hold, the more it gets complicated. Men and women think differently. I think women especially are very imaginative and exaggerated sometimes when it comes to relationship problems. So, sometimes it's not the issue itself that ruins everything but those dreadful thoughts that they make up in their minds.
Example:
Bf and gf are dining together. The guy's cell keep on beeping. Once, twice,.... thrice. The gf gets suspicious. Then a 4th beep, the gf couldn't help asking. Then the guy wanting to be honest told her. It's from [inserts name of an ex-gf], just saying hi and stuffs. The gf wanting to appear calm and unaffected answers with an "Oh, I see". The bf thinks that's the end of it. No biggie. Big mistake. The gf is jealous deep inside. Then she gets quiet throughout the evening, then the next day, and the next day after that. When asked what's wrong she would say "Nothing" when in fact she's been dying to talk about the text messages 2 days ago, but she is too proud to open up about it. She doesn't want to appear like an insecure, nagging and jealous gf so she just keep it to herself. Thoughts of her bf and his ex texting or maybe even calling each other makes her sick. What if they plan to meet up? What if when they do see each other, they'll realize that they still love each other and get back together again? And etc., etc,... more nagging thoughts. The gf is jealous, she's restless, she's unhappy. The bf, on the other hand is clueless. Then petty fights happen. The lesson: Talk it out. Communicate. Be honest about what you really feel. Get those nagging thoughts out in the open. The sooner the better.
He doesn't give me enough time! He's always busy, I feel like I don't know him anymore.....
Sometimes women feel neglected or taken for granted so, in order for their bf's to give them enough attention, they think of ways for them to notice them and one way of doing this is by picking up a fight. I know the guys might think it's crazy, but really it's true. And women love the making up part of the fight. Lol. 
PMS ---- 
Yes it is true. Even the sweetest or the most charming woman can turn into a monster when they have it. Sometimes women can be really grumpy and cranky, without even knowing why! They just have this heavy feeling that when provoked by even the tiniest provocation, would make them flare up. I am not generalizing but it's true with some women. So, when you see your girlfriend unusually quiet, or with a pout, or with eyebrows almost touching each other, BEWARE! Lol,... one wrong move, or one wrong word,... It'll help if the guy is sensitive enough not to overreact. He should be aware of the tell-tale signs as well I guess. Extra special attention and some sweet or romantic gestures could help, I think.
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Re: The USUAL reason of LQ's
« Reply #6 on: Nov 2nd, 2004, 9:17am » |
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i guess one is Immaturity! The no non sense fight that usually occurs between lovers...makin a small mistake into a big issue! 
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Re: The USUAL reason of LQ's
« Reply #7 on: Nov 12th, 2004, 10:31am » |
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Mostly the reasons of LQ when im in a relationship are my jelousy and lack of attention.I am very jealous even if its unreasonable to be jealous and i like when fight starts . One more reason is when he lacks attention for me  , i hate when i know he's free and he's doing other things instead of spending time with me ...but uh oh.....i love when time of "making it up" comes...he he! ....lambingan time..he he....sabay soft punch here and there...LOL!
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Re: The USUAL Reason Of LQ's
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