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kim
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have you ever loved someone of the same sex?
« on: Feb 16th, 2004, 2:23am » |
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Have you ever loved or have you ever been in a relationship with the same sex?... girl to girl or man to man.... If you found out that your friend is bi, gay or lesbo would you understand him/her or will you stay away from him/her and why?
hehehe wow ok this is a bit sensitive issue i think hey whats the harm in talking bout it right? 
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Re: have you ever loved someone of the same sex?
« Reply #1 on: Feb 16th, 2004, 2:28am » |
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since i started this forum i think i should be the first one to comment  i have so many friends that are not straight... i dont judge the for that. I judge them for how they treat me and other ppl. A person can be a gay n still be the most wonderful person you'd ever meet. At the same time, a person can be straight but is also a complete asshole. So why should the gender or sexual preference matter anyways? as long as he/she is good to me i'd be good to them
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Re: have you ever loved someone of the same sex?
« Reply #2 on: Feb 16th, 2004, 10:03pm » |
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nope...and never ever....lol...
i dont mind if a good frend of mine is havin some gender issue...i will surely understand that....but my lover? being a gay or somehow having confusion with his gender...omigosh heck no....i could kill him....damn the only violent reaction i can think of...
i dont have anything against HOMO or that kind of relationship with adam to adam and eve to eve....but not my MAN....darn....
i been with lots of gay during HS....its all fun....having some not so straight frends....
kimmy, u got me thinking now about....past relationship...may bakla kaya sa kanila? lol
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Re: have you ever loved someone of the same sex?
« Reply #3 on: Feb 16th, 2004, 11:18pm » |
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I have never felt this way for a male, but i did mistake this one dude that looked like a lady. He was all danty looking but then he turned around and i saw his face and i realized he was a male. Gay dudes are okay i guess. As long as they dont come on to me they cool. I dont want a gay dude for a good friend, but in high school i did but i didnt know he was gay. This dude lettered in 3 sports. He had some girls after him, but he would never go out with any of them. I thought he was just shy. One year my gf at the time had a friend who wanted to go out with him. This girl was probably the most beautiful in the whole school and she wanted him. Well i told my gf i would set something up with them and we could go out on a double date. Well he said no. I said dude u need so snap out of this shy thing or else people will think u are gay or something. Well he finally agreed and we all went to a halloween party together. But he never went out with her again. Then in college i went to visit this diff gf i had at the time and she went to the same school he did. Well the 3 of us went out to this club and had some drinks. Well all night long all he talked about was gay this and gay that and he told me and my gf he was gay. Well in all honesty i was hurt and offended cuz i thought about all the times that we were in the locker room and all the times we talked and partied together. At that very moment i distanced myself from him. Its a werid feeling when one of your friends tells u this. I was brought up to think that its wrong and i still think it is wrong but i also believe its a free country and he can do what he likes. Its just i cant be the same kinda friend to him like i was b4. This thing on the news that the media is covering now all these gay people wanna get married well this is wrong also, but its a free country and if the law says its okay i guess it will have to be okay, but whats next they will want kids probably and this is not a good atmosphere for a kid to be raised in. It will confuse him and its hard enough being a kid as it is.
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Re: have you ever loved someone of the same sex?
« Reply #4 on: Feb 17th, 2004, 12:01am » |
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mymy ya baka isa sa mga ex mo bading
i got a long time crush in hightschool, he would call my brother big bro n he would always give me flowers n chocolates. We never became boyfriend girlfriend.... thats coz i wanted to wait till collage then we kinda lost contact for years. After 2 years in collage a highschool friend told me that he saw my crush wearing make-up n with long wavy hair   ..... SO it got me thinking, maybe it was my brother that he really liked n not me  He should have told me he way gay. We could have had a great time talking bout boys
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Re: have you ever loved someone of the same sex?
« Reply #5 on: Feb 18th, 2004, 3:23am » |
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on Feb 16th, 2004, 2:28am, kimmy_baby01 wrote:| since i started this forum i think i should be the first one to comment i have so many friends that are not straight... i dont judge the for that. I judge them for how they treat me and other ppl. A person can be a gay n still be the most wonderful person you'd ever meet. At the same time, a person can be straight but is also a complete asshole. So why should the gender or sexual preference matter anyways? as long as he/she is good to me i'd be good to them |
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very well said.....
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Re: have you ever loved someone of the same sex?
« Reply #6 on: Feb 18th, 2004, 3:28am » |
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no and never. befriending them is cool since they are very funny.
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Re: have you ever loved someone of the same sex?
« Reply #7 on: Feb 18th, 2004, 10:01pm » |
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I never said gay people werent nice and I dont judge anyone but I do have a right for an opinion. Whats right is right and whats wrong is wrong. To me a gay lifestyle is wrong. It goes against everything I believe in. But like i said i live in a free country and when u live in a free country u have to respect what others choose to do. Even if it doesnt follow my own beliefs. I know lots of gay dudes, but im just not gonna have these dudes as my close friends. Why would i wanna go have a beer with a gay dude and his bf. They would hold hands and maybe kiss and this would make me uncomfortable. Even if he wasnt with his bf it would make me uncomfortable just knowing he was gay. And this doesnt make me prejudiced because i accept it. Listen if u dont like the movie there is nothing thats wrong with turning the tv off or changing the channel
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Re: have you ever loved someone of the same sex?
« Reply #8 on: Mar 30th, 2004, 9:32am » |
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on Feb 18th, 2004, 10:01pm, thebeast wrote:| Listen if u dont like the movie there is nothing thats wrong with turning the tv off or changing the channel |
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Yes there is nothing w it...i have gay friends yes even gay maid but most of them were bad thieves and flirt! I have lesbians cousins and im not against w it....
Joel is right there is nothing wrong w it....what is wrong is how u deal and talk w that person.
I have girlfirends and they are my best friends... and i love them, but it doesnt necessarily mean that i love them for something else... Maybe i just dont understand what they trully feel about it...Who knows 
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kim
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Re: have you ever loved someone of the same sex?
« Reply #9 on: Apr 14th, 2004, 3:19am » |
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ok but how would you feel if you had a friend for a long time n she never told you she was bi? you are always with her n talk about sex with her but then she tells you she is bi.... will you be offended... shocked.... or what??
same questions for guys but change the bi girl to a bi guy or a gay person  )
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