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okasantina
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Kids Forum! Lets Hear About Their World!
« on: Feb 24th, 2005, 1:04pm » |
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This thread opens way to our children coping on how to handle them, their behaviors, tips, and all about our kids world regarding their life.
Share some ideas, stories and suggestions about our wonderful kids what they do...their problems and the laugh they shared to us as parents. 
And for those singles out there...share ure views, experiences about kids.. 
post awayyyyy 
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Re: Kids Forum! Lets hear about their world!
« Reply #1 on: Feb 24th, 2005, 1:22pm » |
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To start out this thread i will emphasize that this are for mom and dads and even singles on everyday raising, nurturing, teaching and playing
I always encounter lots of parents having a prob about their kids...one of these are ... BEING SHY  How to draw their kid out and make them more at ease around people....this is one of some reasons why some ppl loose their self esteem cause from the start they are shy and timid. Lots of reasons why eh....Sometimes, parents misread their children. There were times kids are really shy its because they just dont like or not interested in the social situation or the activity. In that case, dont force them! If we push them to something they dont like at all, it just spoils their day. There are some ways also like help them to find a HOBBY! Some kids are easy to bore and dont like to engange w other kids...like my son who is easily bores! though he is spontaneous... If u see one day that ure child has a tiny interest in cycling, jumped at it...and looked for other neighbors or cousins who have bicycles too That will start her interest in dealing with other kids right?
Oh well there are more to come...cant tell it now eh...So if u have any questions regarding ure kids just let me know, im a mother of 2 but i cant say im perfect in discipling my kids...i will just explain the details for what i had experienced and googled from the books about parenting
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Re: Kids Forum! Lets Hear About Their World!
« Reply #2 on: Mar 7th, 2005, 7:24pm » |
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Hello! its me again... just wanna share what ive red from the book...
Psychological studies indicates that about eighty-five percent of your child's adult personality has been formed by his or her sixth birthday. So your best chance for success is to lvoe and discipline your child effectively during those first crucial years. There are some suggestions to work on the remaining 15%. Here are those....
*** Keep a journal of ure child. Stay aware of his or her specific needs. Let your child know u r thinking of him or her. Talk openly about future concerns such as vacation, spouse, and children.
*** Build in your home a balanced climate of laughter, adventure, surprises, mutual care, good music and books, and good friends. make it fun to live there. One test of your home's atmosphere is whether the neighborhood kids like to congregate there! (oh really) 
*** Have frequent times of spritual interaction as a family, tailored to the interests and attention span your child. Get him or her involved in contributing to meeting the needs of others.
to be continued................
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Re: Kids Forum! Lets Hear About Their World!
« Reply #3 on: Mar 8th, 2005, 7:27am » |
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I have question to all mothers here. ahihihihihihi
How would you teach sex to your children? 
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Re: Kids Forum! Lets Hear About Their World!
« Reply #4 on: Mar 8th, 2005, 11:01am » |
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hmmm when my son reach his puberty stage...i'll get back to you My
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Re: Kids Forum! Lets Hear About Their World!
« Reply #5 on: Apr 1st, 2005, 7:16am » |
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When my brother was talking to their daughter before when she was still learning to talk,he talked like the way her daughter talked and my sister in law said; "dont let her teaches you how to talk and pronounce words like she does.Talk the right way and she follows you" and don't be the to follow her".I laughed at my brother.I realised it's very true. 
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Re: Kids Forum! Lets Hear About Their World!
« Reply #6 on: Apr 22nd, 2005, 3:47am » |
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Tins you have to answer my questions!
My son turned six last february....i have a hard time handling his being so moody....as if he has woman's monthly thing everyday..very irritable especially when it's time to study...or when it's time that he has to stay home....well, i can't let him be akyat bahay gang all the time...so i have to tell him to stay home. I find it hard to adjust so i ended up reprimanding him often..and i don't like that. He will not raise his voice to me..his temper will mean nothing to me..so instead he'll pour it out to others..and i dont like it either...what i'm afraid is.. what if, if it will become a habit already...and andrea is on the stage of imitating everything she sees...its difficult...she will surely imitate what her brother is doing...is it true that piescians are irritable and moody because i'm sure i still have one to look forward to....because Andrea is too...they both have same birthday...oh motherhood...why will you not come easy 
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« Reply #7 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 5:41pm » |
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on Apr 22nd, 2005, 3:47am, gracia wrote:Tins you have to answer my questions!
My son turned six last february....i have a hard time handling his being so moody....as if he has woman's monthly thing everyday..very irritable especially when it's time to study...or when it's time that he has to stay home....well, i can't let him be akyat bahay gang all the time...so i have to tell him to stay home. I find it hard to adjust so i ended up reprimanding him often..and i don't like that. He will not raise his voice to me..his temper will mean nothing to me..so instead he'll pour it out to others..and i dont like it either...what i'm afraid is.. what if, if it will become a habit already...and andrea is on the stage of imitating everything she sees...its difficult...she will surely imitate what her brother is doing...is it true that piescians are irritable and moody because i'm sure i still have one to look forward to....because Andrea is too...they both have same birthday...oh motherhood...why will you not come easy |
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Same with my 8 year old boy Gracia…he is always bored especially when im the one who is watching tv…geesh how can I watch sponge bob all the time when I wanted to watch cnn news or etc. Its really hard to reprimand him always. I know that child even suffers STRESS like us elders. That’s why even if they always go outside the house to play with their peers, its not enough u know… I know ure a working mom and sometimes easily to get annoyed especially when u got home from work, but your son needs attention. He also feels tired being at home or playing outside always…getting bored in his daily routines. And so what I did is I talked to him personally, I keep on talking to my kids before goin to bed and telling stories … like what your doing when your at that age…who are your friends….everything goes….Yes…they are very irritable when it comes to studying and sometimes I need to argue about it but you should gave them samples on why they should study and what will happen if they will not. Give them options … let them decide and let them think… so in the future they will know how to handle themselves right. Its really a change of attitude especially when they reach the puberty age. ENGAGE HIM IN SPORTS, ask him what sports he really likes…and let him be enthusiastic in what he really wants. That would made him think twice that u really care for him. Child has no contentment, more than us elders…so try to imagine them…they need us more cuz the way of thinking they have is not the way we do…so were just molding their minds on what to think is right for them and what to be avoided. Let him talk, help him come up with actions and then assist him in thinking through the advantages and disadvantages of each action. Help him get into the habit of thinking things through instead of giving litany`s of your demands, lol. I think its not the zodiac sign … my son is a Taurus and my girl is Gemini and im Leo so how can i handle those? Lol…I know its really not easy but its just the way on how you can communicate with them. Even though they are our child they still need respect from us. Calm him down, hug and talk. Okay I hope I answered ure questions based on my own experience. Thanks a lot for reading my thread. Cheese!
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Re: Kids Forum! Lets Hear About Their World!
« Reply #8 on: Apr 27th, 2005, 4:52am » |
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Thanks for the answers Tina....right now my son has a class every morning just an hour though. I don't know if its a right decision, but i just want to inculcate on my sons mind how important studies and since its summer i don't want him to be too preoccupied with play and games and tv. He ask me if the tutorial can be stop because he doesnt want to go...he's bored..he got no classmates.....so instead..i gave him a little incentives so he'll go on with the tutorial...like i give him 5 pesos a day....he's not use to money...so it's like for him...he's in heaven with that amount...poor son...am i doing the right thing?
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Re: Kids Forum! Lets Hear About Their World!
« Reply #9 on: Apr 27th, 2005, 6:03am » |
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Gracia. I am not qualified to tell you that you're not doing the right thing..because mother knows best...however, I have heard that rewarding a kid with money is not good... maybe rewarding him with praises is better...better reward him praises and give the 5 pesos a day to me...
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