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tarantada
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which do you prefer, your older than ur bf/gf or your gf/bf is older than you? what is the age of your oldest and youngest bf/gf? How many years is the age gap? Does age really matter? or Age doesn't bother you much?
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madd
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Re: AGE GAP
« Reply #1 on: Mar 21st, 2004, 5:22pm » |
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Age isn't so much an issue for me as is the maturity and personality of the individual. However, I wouldn't date a girl under 20. Reason being that its still a young age and they're still just getting their feet wet. Also, anyone below 18 is grounds for statutory rape, which I don't want to be dragged into. The same goes for older women. They have to be mature. I've known some women 10 years older than me and they make me wonder where their brains are. However since I would like to have kids someday, she would have to be young enough to have kids.
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Lynlyn
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Re: AGE GAP
« Reply #2 on: Mar 21st, 2004, 11:42pm » |
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I prefer that the guy is older than me or is of my age.. Men matures late, so it's better that he is older than me.I'd rather be the one to be pampered than be the one to pamper... and i'd rather be with someone who can talk like me and discuss things together rather than being with someone who needs to be told and can't decide what he wants .. hmm... there are those who are younger than me but more mature than me...but still, I can't see myself being with them... I still want you to be older than me just to be with me i don't care if you are 2x older than me... as long as you are still functional ..oopss..of course a good heart, mind and all.. ..and you are not taking "viagra" hehhee.
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mylane
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I prefer to have an older partner but not old partner....again i like older guys but not old guys The youngest is the same old as me and the oldest is well just don't ask...lol Before I always thought that older guys are more mature than guys at my age but i'm wrong, it seems that most of the older guys act so immature compare to the guys at my age. Well age doesn't really matter like i said age is just a number but just make sure not to have a partner whom is half wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy older than you....cause the generation gap would be one of the reason of miscommunication. just an opinion
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Gracia
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Re: AGE GAP
« Reply #4 on: Mar 22nd, 2004, 9:17am » |
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age gap doesnt matter at all.....a bit older is preferable though. I like my man to lead the way, not that i lead the way. or i want to grow up and i want him to be there to guide me or support me. he'll give me room for improvement too. I dont think younger ones will give me that opportunity much less understand me.
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thebeast
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Re: AGE GAP
« Reply #5 on: Mar 22nd, 2004, 5:18pm » |
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I took a 18 year girl last year. She was attending University of Texas Womans University. We had fun and the chemistry was there but we are just in two different generations. She is just starting to get out on her own and she needs to learn about these things. I would feel guilty for taking that away from her so i ended after the third date. So i have an age gap i try stay between 21 to 41.
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madd
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Re: AGE GAP
« Reply #6 on: Mar 22nd, 2004, 8:19pm » |
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on Mar 21st, 2004, 11:42pm, cebuanalyn wrote:I prefer that the guy is older than me or is of my age.. Men matures late, so it's better that he is older than me.I'd rather be the one to be pampered than be the one to pamper... and i'd rather be with someone who can talk like me and discuss things together rather than being with someone who needs to be told and can't decide what he wants .. hmm... there are those who are younger than me but more mature than me...but still, I can't see myself being with them... I still want you to be older than me just to be with me i don't care if you are 2x older than me... as long as you are still functional ..oopss..of course a good heart, mind and all.. ..and you are not taking "viagra" hehhee. |
| Its not the age of the man that makes him mature, its the individual within him that does. I've known guys in their 30's 40's and 50's that are quite immature, and i've known guys in their 20's that are mature. And also vice versa. The same goes for women.
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Lynlyn
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Re: AGE GAP
« Reply #7 on: Mar 24th, 2004, 6:43pm » |
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on Mar 22nd, 2004, 3:09am, mylane wrote: Well age doesn't really matter like i said age is just a number but just make sure not to have a partner whom is half wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy older than you....cause the generation gap would be one of the reason of miscommunication. just an opinion |
| mymy, i can even go to someone thrice my age ... but as i said, you have to be complete still and your heart beats only for me ..the first beat and the last beat i mean..for i'm sure your heart's last beat will be when you are with me..hehhe..joke joke joke... kidding aside, i prefer somebody not more than half my age..maybe +20 of my age and not younger than me even if you insist that you are mature even though you're younger than me..still, you won't have a "pogi" points to me..
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mylane
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thrice as ur age? hmmm...that means older than ur dad and older than ur grandpa? thrice as ur age...that is positive that his last beat is all yours ana I'm not saying is not rite to have a relationship with a partner that is half way older than you. But there will be a generation gap like beast said.... Lemme ask u analyn...have u ever had a partner whom is half way older than you?
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Gracia
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Re: AGE GAP
« Reply #9 on: Mar 24th, 2004, 8:46pm » |
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ana, ur such a demanding creature...u want the first and the last beat....what's about in between joking....anyway, the last will surely be urs as mylene said if u'll settle to someone who's thrice as ur age.... I agree with madd too, maturity is not base on age, its the personality within, but then generally, men at age thirty and up is more mature compared to younger ones. The outlook in life is different, more serious and more dedicated except to few though.
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