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how to tell your lover that he/she is not doing th
« on: May 6th, 2005, 10:41am » |
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how to tell your lover that he/she is not doing the right thing?
Have you ever made love to a guy/gal that you really really love but who is so bad in bed?
How do you fix this dilema? How do you tell him that what he is doing is not pleasing you?
I've said it before n i'll say it again that sex is not the center of a relationship. But to have a good sex life with the one you love will make it all the more lasting...
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« Reply #1 on: May 13th, 2005, 7:51am » |
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Have a good talk with him. Get naked on the bed (both), then talk to him through the whole thing. Be very vocal and make sure he knows that you find him talking about it not only sexy but educational as well cause you're learning how to please each other.
lol lol lol 
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Re: how to say he's not doing the right thing...
« Reply #2 on: May 16th, 2005, 3:14am » |
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talking about it is the best thing that you could do. But some guys dont like being told what to do right? Its the MALE EGO thing 
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« Reply #3 on: May 16th, 2005, 4:39am » |
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about the ego....hmmm nothing we can do so just directly tell him that he damn so bad in bed and a very lousy lover that you rather watch a porno film than making out with him....
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« Reply #5 on: Jul 18th, 2005, 8:44pm » |
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on May 13th, 2005, 7:51am, mylane wrote:Have a good talk with him. Get naked on the bed (both), then talk to him through the whole thing. Be very vocal and make sure he knows that you find him talking about it not only sexy but educational as well cause you're learning how to please each other.
lol lol lol
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nice way of communicating with your partner, just be very vocal with affection 
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« Reply #6 on: Jul 19th, 2005, 11:08am » |
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OMG Hernando is ALIVE!!!!!!!  . Welcum back hernando 
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« Reply #7 on: Jul 20th, 2005, 11:23am » |
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i think you should rename this post to "how to tell your lover that he/she is not doing the right thing"...i often find girls my age lack experience or technique in sex, a lot of them seem to lie still and just expect the guy to pump away. I think sex is a two way street, pardon the pun. Both people need to be involved at a similar level, then the sex will be explosive. It's not just a simple in and out technique. I find the best sex involves not only pelvis grinding but sensual contact involving kissing, position the body in a variety of ways and gaining a level of penetration that will not make my girl feel pain but only pleasure - this level of penetration seems to be different for each girl. However, I do have a problem in that girls my age dont seem to have much knowledge about sex. Hence, the best sex I have had has always been with older women - stereotypical as it may be, it has proved to be the truth in my case.
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« Reply #8 on: Jul 20th, 2005, 12:40pm » |
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I do it in a simple but effective way. When he starts touching you, MOAN if you're a moaner and SCREAM if you're a screamer if you like what he's doing. Keep your silence when you dont. He's bound to notice the change in you and would surely change his style. This is sure to happen if your partner is senstive enought to ur needs and pleasure and wants so hard to please you. 
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« Reply #9 on: Jul 22nd, 2005, 10:06am » |
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on Jul 20th, 2005, 11:23am, Christian wrote:| i think you should rename this post to "how to tell your lover that he/she is not doing the right thing"...i often find girls my age lack experience or technique in sex, a lot of them seem to lie still and just expect the guy to pump away. I think sex is a two way street, pardon the pun. Both people need to be involved at a similar level, then the sex will be explosive. It's not just a simple in and out technique. I find the best sex involves not only pelvis grinding but sensual contact involving kissing, position the body in a variety of ways and gaining a level of penetration that will not make my girl feel pain but only pleasure - this level of penetration seems to be different for each girl. However, I do have a problem in that girls my age dont seem to have much knowledge about sex. Hence, the best sex I have had has always been with older women - stereotypical as it may be, it has proved to be the truth in my case. |
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Your age? Errr what age are you in in the first place?
Yes its true that love making is a two way street but lets face it, most women are not comfortable in letting their partener know what they want. And sad to say that some men dont even care just as long as they finish  ...
And about that "level of penetration"... you know you're the first guy that i'v ever heard to talk about that. It is a very simple thing to do n yet men dont seem to take notice of it. Not all women want it deep specially if they are too damn small!!!!
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