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(Message started by: mylane on May 23^rd, 2004, 9:47am)

Title: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by mylane on May 23^rd, 2004, 9:47am

I just read this somewhere. ;D

"Man is a social being".

But being alone is inevitable, sure there are people around you, your co-employees, your relatives, acquaintances, etc etc. But a man or a woman needs a special relationship or bond to a certain person.

Someone where he/she would feel comfort and security.

But sometimes, when that person comes into our life, we are so stupid to just let them pass through or even worse, we drive them away.

When the time that you realize their importance and how you really feel for them, they're already gone.

What could a lonely heart do? how could you fight being so miserable when you know in your heart that the person that would make you happy is gone. That whatever you do, She'll/he'll never love you like he/she use to love you.......

ahihihi....nice huh ;D

post away ;D

Title: Re: How to fight loneliness?
Post by killerabbit on May 23^rd, 2004, 1:16pm

Go to AC1 or join a forum:Dor just buy a PS2:))

Title: Re: How to fight loneliness?
Post by need4speed8dalejr on May 23^rd, 2004, 1:25pm

I love to be alone. I know that may sound crazy to some of you, but it's true. I live alone, I cook alone. I don't mind. It's when you need to be with someone that makes you go crazy.

So many people get scared when they are alone for any lenght of time. Why? They are scared to get to know themselves. They are scared to sit and think about things, scared that they might not like themselves and they might have to think and face what they are doing in their lives. Most people have never been alone in their life. They look at people who spend time alone as someone who isn't very social. Well, these are the very same people who get all panicked when left alone even for a few hours without human contact. Sad really.

I think everyone should spend time alone, it makes your soul tougher, and clears your mind, making it easier to focus on the goals in your life. Then, when you do spend time with someone, be that your family, or a girl/boy friend, it makes that time even more special.

I can understand the feelings of wanting to be with your girl/boy friend alot, and missing them terribly when away from them. IMHO, it is these same needs and feelings that devestate a person when the relationship ends. Everyone deals with these feelings differently, and that's what makes us all so unique.

Title: Re: How to fight loneliness?
Post by MissFartyPants on May 23^rd, 2004, 11:26pm

My sentiments exactly, Dale.

There's nothing wrong with being alone. It's not pathetic being alone. When you have so much space, it gives you time to reflect on the more important things.

I'm anti-social. I absolutely HATE being around people. When I was younger, I pictured myself living alone somewhere on top of the mountains. Not a human being in sight. Creating a world of solitute.

Whoever said "No man is an island" must have pissed on his pants.

Title: Re: How to fight loneliness?
Post by mylane on May 24^th, 2004, 12:04pm

Loneliness is just like happiness. Its a choice.

Embrace your loneliness for a while because as they say that which does not kill us makes us stronger.

Being lonely is not license to mope and feel sorry for yourself though.

Cry if you must, rant and rave if you must, but remember that you choose when to stop being lonely and make that choice.

Each day when we wake up is something to be un-lonely for because its another chance for us to make things better and make things right and eventually find that elusive happiness we all seem to be searching for.

Title: Re: How to fight loneliness?
Post by MissFartyPants on May 24^th, 2004, 10:05pm

Well said, My! http://secure.terrabage.com/~freeworl/groups/YaBBImages/icon_super.gif

Title: Re: How to fight loneliness?
Post by teagirl on May 25^th, 2004, 12:33pm

You can walk with crowds and still get lonely. I'm thinking loneliness is a state of mind. I can be alone in the house and never feel lonely. In fact, most of the time I prefer my own company than anyone else's.

How to fight loneliness?

Read. Never pass up the chance to cultivate your mind and soul.

Reconnect. Call an old friend for no reason except to say hello. Most of the time, we are afraid that they might be busy but I'm sure nobody will pass up the wonderful feeling that somebody has been thinking of you.

Listen to music. It is the language of the soul. Get lost in the words and rhythm. Sway to the music.

Get a pet. Dogs are man's bestfriend. Or maybe cats.(oooo cats). Whatever you fancy, remember that animals are intuitive creatures and they can perceive your joys as well as your blue days. If you have a pet, you will live longer.

Take a walk. The world offers a refreshing view of things and as you breathe in and out with the rhythm of your steps, things have a way of happening that your mind gets unclogged.

Still lonely? Go see your doctor. Maybe you're depressed and need help.

Title: Re: How to fight loneliness?
Post by gracia on Jun 20^th, 2004, 9:45pm

perhaps Mhy what u mean was...she was being lonely because of the things she had done...like not paying too much attention to someone who cares for her a lot and could be one of the reason that cause her loneliness....and the man was gone.....well.....there are so many fishes in the ocean..if she has the determination..she can surely catch a better one. One has to stop living on the past...rewinding it and making it right is quite impossible. Move on....like what May said.....loneliness is just a state of mind!

Title: Re: How to fight loneliness?
Post by Slayer on Jun 28^th, 2004, 2:07pm

Try not to dwell too much on your mistakes.

Close this chapter of your lovelife, turn the next page and approach it with new vigor. ;)

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by gracia on Mar 2^nd, 2005, 3:54am

Learn lessons from your past. It could be that, that someone is not meant for you and most likely will go away. Be very observant of what's or who'll come. You are the manager of your own life, you do what you choose to do. Rationalize things carefully and take notes if necessary.

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by teagirl on Mar 2^nd, 2005, 5:06am

invite your friends over the weekend for some pasta sharing! ;)

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by beth on Mar 2^nd, 2005, 3:22pm

call ur friends n invite em to play pool sumwhere ;D ;D

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by Analyn on Mar 4^th, 2005, 12:22pm

on 03/02/05 at 05:06:54, teagirl wrote:

invite your friends over the weekend for some pasta sharing! ;)

Does this mean you are lonely May? that's why you invite us? hehehe..just kidding..

Me... I will fight loneliness by accepting invitations..especially if it's "CHOW TIME" :D

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by gracia on Mar 5^th, 2005, 3:50am

u dont have to fight loneliness ana..u only have to cancel ur meeting and be with us :)

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by Nani on Mar 5^th, 2005, 7:06am

fight loneliness???

1 Have a baby LOL
2 Start doing Yoga
and last but not least

COOK hehehehe ;D

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by okasantina on Mar 5^th, 2005, 11:30am

Pray, Pray and Pray [smiley=angel.gif]

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by beth on Mar 5^th, 2005, 6:04pm

singggggggg ;D

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by beth on Mar 5^th, 2005, 6:11pm

on 03/05/05 at 07:06:14, Nani wrote:

fight loneliness???

1 Have a baby LOL
2 Start doing Yoga
and last but not least

COOK hehehehe ;D

hmmmm... ::) l need d daddy furst to make d baby, nani [smiley=wall.gif] lol lol lol [smiley=crazysmile.gif]
;D and about COOK hmmm... lemme try.. hope l dun kill anyone... ;D but then am better at eating ;D heheheh...

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by okasantina on Mar 5^th, 2005, 6:11pm

go to saloon and have a change ure ureself...totally ;D

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by teagirl on Mar 6^th, 2005, 4:43am

go shopping!!!

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by Aftr_it on Mar 6^th, 2005, 2:54pm

Retail therapy is good Maykins but boy it does harm the credit card

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by thebeast on Mar 28^th, 2005, 2:19am

If all else fails go see Mr. Jack Daniels at your local bar. Drown your sorrows and hold them up for the whole world to view. Somebody bound to notice ;D

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by beth on Mar 28^th, 2005, 8:06am

lol joel hahaha jack daniels only work for short period :P and it could make u addicted :P u myte get hangover in d morning too

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by gracia on Mar 29^th, 2005, 10:46am

beast ..that will sure fight loneliness and u can forget it for the time being while u are attending to ur hangover ;D

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by isseymiyake on May 12^th, 2005, 2:32pm

How to fight loneliness?
Smile all the time

Shine you teeth 'til meaningless
And sharpen them with lies

And whatever's going down
Will follow you around
That's how you fight loneliness

You laugh at every joke

Drag your blanket blindly
And fill your heart with smoke

And the first thing that you want
Will be the last thing you ever need
That's how you fight it

Just smile all the time
Just smile all the time
Just smile all the time
Just smile all the time
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 6^th, 2005, 4:01am

In all honesty i only feel the loneliness at night when im lying in bed all alone. I get to think of the things i try so hard not to think of during the day. I always think how ironic it is that you have to let go of someone else to be faithful to someone who has been cheating on u all the time you were trying to be faithful and you didnt even know it. :-/ Guess the cliche about the wife being always the last to know is applicable to me. So im dumb! :P Now i fight the loneliness by simply thinking of the good memories. Not those "what-might-have-been-if-things-are-different" kind of thoughts coz it will only depress me and deepen the pain, the hurt, the anger and the loneliness most of all. Im basically a happy person so its easy for me.

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by beth on Jul 6^th, 2005, 3:48pm

watching dvd works for me these days...

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by kim on Jul 19^th, 2005, 11:37am

Make yourself busy... go out with friends and entertain yourself... Work your ass out till you get too tired to even think of being lonely ;D ;D

Aw n one other thing... CHAT yourself to death ;D ;D ;D. That work for some ppl right? ;D ;)

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 20^th, 2005, 11:24am

on 07/19/05 at 11:37:20, kim wrote:

Aw n one other thing... CHAT yourself to death ;D ;D ;D. That work for some ppl right? ;D ;)

You bet it works, kimmy ;DSometimes im having so much fun that i still think of some of the funny things that happened when I go to sleep. [smiley=sleeping.gif] And now I also think of some people I would like to see again very soon....as soon as I wake up, that is ;D

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by Coochie on Jul 27^th, 2005, 7:02am

Nice isseymiyake!!! [smiley=icon_super.gif]
on 05/12/05 at 14:32:27, isseymiyake wrote:

Title: Re: How To Fight Loneliness?
Post by Saffire_65 on Jul 27^th, 2005, 9:28am

on 07/06/05 at 04:01:58, Wicked_Witch wrote:

You are indeed a beautiful witch who rose to the challenge of only thinking good memories of someone who'd been cheating on you. *hugs* [smiley=grouphug.gif]