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(Message started by: watzthat on Jan 12^th, 2005, 9:14pm)

Title: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by watzthat on Jan 12^th, 2005, 9:14pm

Well for you all people you really dont have to follow this thread but sometimes, i think we should remind ourself about those who we love and want to be with and want to be cared by them and want to be loved by them.So i think that make us feel little comfort not to forget the one we love or not to ditch the one we love for our selfishness and ignoring them by drooling over others guys/girls for their things that you dont find in the person you love.i would like to know in what way we can stay faithfull to over love ones. so i must say here about me that yes i do believe in ONE the one who i want to be forever and only wish for her presence, and love for me, all around, and ofcourse i must react them loving them back in the same way.and i must explain here LOVE and SEX are 2 different thing so please dont say that you dont wanna be faithfull to your guy/girl because of not having sex with them etc.IF YOU LOVE THEN BE REAL AND BE FAITHFUL.thank you and come again lol

Title: Re: How Faightful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by norkay on Jan 13^th, 2005, 6:27am

on 01/12/05 at 21:14:45, watzthat wrote:

Well,watzthat,i think i got what you're trying to say after several times of reading your post...lol
As i read your post,you sound like "drooling" for other person is a big big deal to you.That means,you're so jealous.I've been in this kind of arguement anyway, but i always explain that if i drool or i crush another guy, it never means i am decieving my boyfriend.Being attracted to other person is never a wrong thing,you too can be attracted to other girls.I've been dated by another guy while i was in a relationship but as i have said it never meant i was being unfaithful to him.I've been honest with both my BF and the guy i've been dated in the sense that i never lied i have a boyfriend and i love him.I agree with what you said,you must be faithful and honest with your BF/GF if you really love him/her but about what i uderstand that you take drooling or crushing another person as a wrong thing/big deal, no i don't agree on that. ;) ;D

Title: Re: How Faightful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by watzthat on Jan 13^th, 2005, 7:08am

Lol that mean a girl is not fully satisfy and do not believe in the ONE to give all your love and care.i wouldnt even dare to argue about your relation i hope you will have 30 more guys to date to no arguiment over that one.But yeah it will hard for me to really really force myself to say that it is faithful to the one who thinks you love him/her for him/her.but only to have a nite pass as in compromisy basis.then i wish you get lots of attractive guys in your town to date with.lol your life your choice but sorry if my Add was too hard to understand its only because i could be lilttle emotional while typing all that.

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by norkay on Jan 13^th, 2005, 9:58am

going back to the topic you opened, my opinion goes this way.Honesty is the best way to show one's faithfulness to your bf/gf.May i remind you too that if you want to be in a relationship and don't want your gf to be doing such things like those things you seem don't want,be straight in telling her because she may have different beliefs or or rules from yours.Like for example you and me in a relationship,i allow invitations(picky and very careful though) for date like dining date(why deny free dine offer?...hehe ;)) but if you tell me you don't allow that in our relationship,well,i think i'm respectful enough,but again,be straight and don't pretend like it's cool to you when inside ,you are very furious and jealous.

But hey watzthat,you're so confusing...lol....you hate my opinion about saying nothing wrong about having date with other guy but you wish i could get lot of guys to date with ???...uh oh....you said you were emotional when you typed your post, why? did you come here to hit someone from here? Lols.... :P ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by Analyn on Jan 13^th, 2005, 10:53am

I can sense a "tongue-lashing" here..hehehe ... did i miss something? ;D

My piece:

I had a bf from 1992-1996...next bf from 1997-2001...next is 2001-2002...then none-present...what happens? first was a drug user... and I cling to him for I was challenge to change him...second, he impregnated another...third, he lied to me for a year...now, ain't I faithful for loving one a time only? sometimes I hate myself for being one...when I was in highschool i told myself that if i will have a bf, they have to be so many so when one will broke up with me, i won't be hurt for i still have so many ... but when i had one i really only had one..then one, then one...oh, how i wish i'm not faithful...but then, i'm happy now that i am... at least i have something to look back and i can say to myself that i did love them... and it's something to be treasured...owssssss.....

Now, ain't I faithful? go ask my ex...hehehehehe

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by mylane on Jan 13^th, 2005, 12:05pm

hey, I'm always been faithful but my eyes always wander ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by watzthat on Jan 13^th, 2005, 8:55pm

very well ana i must express my respect about the love and faith that you had or have for your bf.you did what was the best to do but if they were bad in some ways that didnt mean they never loved you but well lets take it as it just happened and gone you tried and took challenge that shows enough respect and faith to the one you were.and yeah the moderator aka mylene/mylane you sounded perfect net player who couldnt even bear the truth of this pretty world you deleted my posts or whatever you call it how can you even try to say that your faithful,l for being faithfull you must believe in love and trust in the one you love, faith comes after your sure that the 2 of you love each other second you trust and believe in them for what they are .faith do not arrive from the water pump after you pump or you can buy from the vegetable market anyway not going to make anyone feel better lol.

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by mylane on Jan 14^th, 2005, 2:20pm

hi wazthat ;D

you called me net player...did I ever played with you? please let me know so i can find your record. ;D

And yes I deleted your post, read the forum rules first before u post in our community and if you can't comply with the rules....then I know how to handle you.

and to correct you im not the moderator. I'm the admin here and I know who you are ;)

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by watzthat on Jan 14^th, 2005, 8:29pm

Ok so you can delete my posts according to your rules in this forum becasue truth hurts and hard to practice on how to be truthful but yeah you cannot delete me from the world because you cant do nothing against God`s will and i dont think so it really matter about me if you know me or not.ok Admin.just only one request BE WHAT YOU ARE DONT BE WHAT YOU ARE NOT.hey Ana you still rock girl ;).atleast you had nothing to hide so nice and clear.you did your part well and ifsomeone left you you couldnt really do much about it but good luck in your future.

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by norkay on Jan 15^th, 2005, 7:53am

I think Nelson's bro is here ??? :o....hehehe....J/K ;) :P

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by kim on Jan 19^th, 2005, 9:51am

Geeezzzz. it is so hard to be nice.... Mymy what did you do to piss of this guy anyways? ;D

whatzthat..... ok first of all i'll answer to your post.

I have never been with two guys at the same time. No matter how they treated me. But during my relationships with them i did admire a couple of handsome ppl like brad pitt. And my bf knew that. Admiration is not the same as cheating....

Second.... This is a public forum and everyone is welcome to post in it but if you wont follow the rules then this is not the place for you. Admin ppl have the right to remove you or even block you if you show any kind of disrespect for other ppl in here. I've said this in your other thread and i'll say it in here again.... ATTACT THE ISSUE AND NOT THE PERSON. If you dont agree whith what the person says they so be it. Disagree with the person but dont get mad just because you have different points of view...

Its true that if Mylene (the admin) choses to delete your thread or ban you in here she will only erase your post but she cannot erase you in real life. But it would not be a loss to us if you were banned in here. Infact some ppl might even like it.

People will respect you if you show respect for others. ;)

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by beth on Jan 24^th, 2005, 10:18pm

just take it as simply as this.... l dont think a guy/gurl can say 'l love you'... same time to a different guy/gurl when the already got gf/bf, that definitely l wont call faithfull.
faithfull connected to a very serious committment, once u said u are someone's gf/bf then u close ur 'eyes' to others lol

so... think carefully b4 u make a decision ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by kim on Feb 24^th, 2005, 4:00am

on 02/22/05 at 08:41:26, nelson3082000 wrote:

well thanks kris i really like that comment but u wont get erased i guess and i agree with his comments, i thought everyone has the right to express there attitude in this forum but i see its a dictatorship here, but hey thats just common i guess, not really i guess what they say the forum is for all to exprexx themselves false comment i see.

Nelson everyone has the right to comment here. msy it be to agree or disagree on the topic but we have to stick to the issue and not attact the person who made a comment that you dont like
:P ;)... Calling someone names just because you disagree with what he/she said is out of the rule ;)... But you can call me nasty anytime you want nelson ;D and i promise not to get mad :P

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by norkay on Feb 24^th, 2005, 11:24am

Ahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!! OH my ,oh myyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!
Nelson likes when i'm having a big big laugh! And he just did give me a big one again!

I can hardly understand you Nelson, but hey bro, why is my name always mentioned by you? Is there any blame you want me to take? Come on....talk to me anytime. ;) ;D

Anyway, I've been faithful with all the guys i've been with,but when misunderstanding arouse,it always came out like blames or problems were on me.I never broke up with a guy because of another man though.Something must be repaired i think on me? Can anyone be my carpenter? LOL! ;D :P

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by okasantina on Feb 24^th, 2005, 8:12pm

on 02/24/05 at 11:24:56, norkay wrote:

Can anyone be my carpenter? LOL! ;D :P

I have a hammer here Kris ;D ::) ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by norkay on Feb 25^th, 2005, 5:00am

Oh please Tina dearrrrrrrrrr.I need it right now,badly! Ahhhhh,i hope your hammer would really repair me and not to hurt me? :-/................. ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by okasantina on Feb 25^th, 2005, 6:45am

on 02/25/05 at 05:00:09, norkay wrote:

Oh please Tina dearrrrrrrrrr.I need it right now,badly! Ahhhhh,i hope your hammer would really repair me and not to hurt me? :-/................. ;D

THe good thing is u cannot be repaired with the hammer alone...u need a NAIL dear! nyahahhahahah ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by kim on Feb 26^th, 2005, 5:40am

on 02/24/05 at 11:24:56, norkay wrote:

Ahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!
I can hardly understand you Nelson, but hey bro, why is my name always mentioned by you? Is there any blame you want me to take? Come on....talk to me anytime. ;) ;D

This is what you call TOUGH LOVE ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by okasantina on Feb 26^th, 2005, 1:58pm

I smell something fishy here ::) ::) hmmm... a hammer and the faithful thang? ehhh... ::) ::) ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by mylane on Feb 26^th, 2005, 2:43pm

on 02/22/05 at 08:41:26, nelson3082000 wrote:

u wont get erased i guess and i agree with his comments, i thought everyone has the right to express there attitude in this forum but i see its a dictatorship here, but hey thats just common i guess, not really i guess what they say the forum is for all to exprexx themselves false comment i see.

Moderators have a free reign here. They have the right to delete any objectionable posts.

Repeat offenders will be banned.

We believe in freedom of expression and the First Amendment (United States Constitution). However we are not providing this forum for that freedom. We have rules and they must be honored.

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by beth on Feb 26^th, 2005, 5:08pm

a hammer eh ::)::) hmmm... dis gunna be a violence eh? ::) ::)

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by nelson3082000 on Feb 26^th, 2005, 8:09pm

well maylane do what ya say ans let people express themselves not talk and dont walk the walk.

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by kim on Mar 2^nd, 2005, 8:42am

ok ok ok back to the topic :P.... I'm 100% faithful but 100% A-hole too if i get cheated on ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by beth on Mar 2^nd, 2005, 3:37pm

;D am 100 % faithful once l comitt, but cud be very skeptical once u betrayed me ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on Mar 3^rd, 2005, 6:03am

on 03/02/05 at 08:42:16, kim wrote:

ok ok ok back to the topic :P.... I'm 100% faithful but 100% A-hole too if i get cheated on ;D

OK Gang, I just have to respond...

First, Am I 100% failthful...No. I have cheated on past GF's and I have dated several women at the same time. I am no angel, nor do I claim to be. I didn't make promises to any of them. I did it because I could, and because I wasn't promised to any single one Women. I have no problem with commitment, but only when I feel totally comfortable with "The One". And when I was in a Relationship that I felt and expressed as "Exclusive" I am sure I have flirted or done any number of countless little small things that can be deemed as being "Unfaithful" even when I have been in an exclusive relationship.

Do I think any Gal I have ever been with was 100% Faithful to me...No. I have been cheated on, and lied to. I have experienced the Extreme Highs of such pleasure and euphoric addictivness that is a "Perfect Mental & Physical" relationship, and I have also experienced the Gut-Wrenching lows. The crying on my pillow, the very true and very real "Crying in My Beer" at the loss of a relationship or GF that I held up as "Perfect". Hmmm...Nothing is ever as it seems, no matter how good it may feel at the time. Hind-Sight is indeed 20-20.

I personally don't think there is such a thing as being 100% faithful no matter who you are, or how good you may think you are. I also don't think there is anything wrong with not being 100% faithful. Every person has feelings about either other people, other places or at the very least other lives.

We are all Human, and as such we can think, Daydream and contemplate our feelings for ourself and for others. If my GF tells me she doesn't EVER think about any other Man, then either she's not being Honest with herself and with me, she has lost all brain function(jk), or maybe she has been mystified by my spell..or is it "smell"? ;D

Because I know that I often think about other Women, dang I am thinking about some of them right now, lol, and I tell no lies about that or keep it a secret from any Gal I date. After all, it's completely normal to think and feel this way, so I only expect the same from my GF.

It's only when touching gets involved that I get into trouble. [smiley=catsmiley.gif]

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by beth on Mar 3^rd, 2005, 3:16pm

on 03/03/05 at 06:03:56, Need4Speed8DaleJr wrote:

hmmm... ::) maybe ppl may think wrongly about 100% faithful, doesnt meant l never "think" of other man like my ex bf or things like dat ;D but then thinking and doing kinda different.
But having several gf's same timey... thats another issue hahaha... ;D well at least for me ;D
in my head... l cant say "l love you" to different guy same timey... or having comittment while l got another comittment. that just doesn't seem right, and l cant do it.
But maybe ur case is different dale, if u just dating them without comittment or agreement of being gf/bf or promises.
anyway this is just about what we thought... Now l know what ur opinion about this. heheheh ;D ;D

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by gracia on Mar 4^th, 2005, 5:59am

hmmm seems i missed something here...but anyway...the admin is always here to protect the minors like me....anything that are not appropriate to the eyes of the minors must be erase....i agree on that....we can be ourselves here but have some limit...lets be a model too....we are the carrier of "PEACE" and "LOVE" if possible.

back to topic.....

If admiring someone is unfaithfulness then guess I am, thanks God, i'm open to that to my husband and so is he. Unfaithfulness i guess is when the time you commit yourself to others, or when u do some immoral acts....like playing fire while ur still in union with her/him, worst is when u expresse love to other person aside from ur wife or husband. I guess i'm talking about some don'ts in marriage.

For single out there, i think it is just the same, only that, the losing party cant sue his/her partner for adultery when caught in the act.

Title: Re: How Faithful You Are To Your Guy/Girl
Post by mylane on Mar 4^th, 2005, 11:53am

all i know is i'm faithful in my own definition and way...lol lol ;D