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(Message started by: isseymiyake on May 6^th, 2005, 4:09pm)

Title: ........Unconditional Love...........
Post by isseymiyake on May 6^th, 2005, 4:09pm

got this from a friend & wish to share it with you guys....

There was a time in my life when I became afraid to fall in love. Because every time I fell in love, I got hurt. I thought maybe that's why it's called falling in love. I would give my all, loving deeply and wholeheartedly.

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It would be a truly emotional and euphoric experience. I would be dreaming about the object of my affection day and night, imagining good times together, thinking of what I can do or buy for him to show how much I care. I would feel light, energized and excited, blooming with the joy I feel inside.

Then somehow, something would go wrong and my whole world crash. Disappointment. Resentment. Anger. Pain. Why? Can we not love without feeling pain?

Is it really a price to pay for all the happiness we feel when we're in love?

It was only after many years of soul-searching and reading inspirational writings that I realized that we can love without getting hurt.

Only recently did I understand what unconditional love is all about. Love is one of the most powerful forces in the universe. It is the fire that burns inside, the essence of being. It is a precious gift that defines our purpose in life. If we keep in mind that we can indeed preserve its true meaning, we can love to the fullest and be truly happy

Title: Re: ........unconditional love...........
Post by beth on May 6^th, 2005, 5:03pm

hi issey ;D welcome to d forum, n happy posting ;D

well, l've been in love before n and being hella hurting too cuz of it... but then its life, its all happen in order to make us all more mature and respect love more and more.
l've been so very scared of falling in love again too... its normal cuz we all been hurt by it but in order to get 'it' again u need to take the risk, or u will never know what beneath it...
l've been doing some "war" too in my mind when someone mentioning abt love to me etc etc lately, the decision is ours... also the risk, and lets take the good side, if we hurt again, its for our maturity, if it end up good then it will be great!!! but of course... do everything what your heart say...

if you meet the wrong guy/gurl b4.... mebbe it will make us more respecting him/her when we got the 'right' one...
;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: ........unconditional love...........
Post by gracia on May 7^th, 2005, 2:46am

Quote:

Love is one of the most powerful forces in the universe. It is the fire that burns inside, the essence of being. It is a precious gift that defines our purpose in life. If we keep in mind that we can indeed preserve its true meaning, we can love to the fullest and be truly happy

I agree with you fully there, and only too few were gifted of such kind. We can love unconditionally, but giving up is still the hardest part, it's too painful to give up but then along the way, it will give you happiness because you are doing the right thing. Even if one love unconditionally, there is still pain..pain is always a part in love, and pain also helps you define of your feelings more, how great is your pain is how great ur love too. I might curse while giving up...but i know i will smile in the end...there is always sunshine after the rain :)

Title: Re: ........Unconditional Love...........
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 8^th, 2005, 4:46am

I can give unconditional love to my kids, my siblings, my parents...but the man in my life? No way! There is no guarantee he can be mine forever. I need to leave some of the love burried in my heart..so when the time of the separation comes, wether he dies or take another woman...the pain would be lesser. Some people think they are in love....when the truth is that they are in love with the idea of falling in love. They conjure images in their minds of what two people in love should be. When they fail to find it, they find faults in the other person. Uncondtional love means being blind to the person's faults. It means taking him into your heart warts and all. But can u honestly say you can overlook something like ur the one supporting him, or that he flirts a lot, or that he only calls when he feels like it, or that he's afraid of commitments, etc..etc...the faults are countless. The idea is to use your heart and head at the same time, maybe not equally but it should be used nonetheless. So unconditional love for me is taboo. 8)