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(Message started by: isseymiyake on May 11^th, 2005, 5:49pm)

Title: Will You Go For A Married Person??
Post by isseymiyake on May 11^th, 2005, 5:49pm

what if the person you like or love is married? will you continue or go for the relationship? what if they're previous marriage was there big mistake, will you understand them? what if they're doing something about the marriage because it's not really working out?(seperate, divorce,etc)

Title: Re: Will you go for a married person??
Post by mylane on May 11^th, 2005, 7:08pm

nice thread and tough questions ;D

Title: Re: Will You Go For A Married Person??
Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on May 11^th, 2005, 7:12pm

This Thread Is Being Moved To The "Love & Marriage" Section.
~Moderator~ Family, Friends & Society

Title: Re: Will You Go For A Married Person??
Post by gracia on May 12^th, 2005, 3:38am

In my opinion, a marriage no matter how rocky, can still be save if both will work out...however...if there's third party waiting...then working out is impossible. I would say that if a person is married ..means he/she is married...even if they're working something like separation or annulment...still it would be nice for a single person not to get involve...because i'm pretty sure, he/she is not helping. It would be sensible for a man/woman to get into a relationship when both are free.....just think about this....imagine yourself to be in their shoes....definitely you don't want it happen to you in the future. KARMA!

Title: Re: Will You Go For A Married Person??
Post by mylane on May 12^th, 2005, 4:32am

KARMA!!! thats the word.....scarry ;D

Title: Re: Will You Go For A Married Person??
Post by Norkay on May 12^th, 2005, 7:04am

I am saying it once and firmly,I am not gonna be a cause of a broken family.I will never go for a married person.But since there are cases that we fall in love or get invloved with someone who doesn't live in the same state/place with,we sometimes make mistake.However,I will still stick on not going on with him once I knew he is married.I would not either give him options or agreements like IF he gets separated,divorced with his wife,then I am willing to go on with him.No way.Instead, I will leave him right away no matter what explainations he would give.Ofcourse I will expect him for explainations and more lies in order for him to make me stay in the rocky relationship.

I am sure I'll be extremely hurt from falling in love with him, but I am surer for more troubles,problems and pains, or even lose everything,while he loses his family too if I stay with him and go on with my blindness.

Ohhh this is so sad to think :'(....I'm scared to death.....oh God ,no no no! I'm sure You will grant me the "one I asked for". ;D

Title: Re: Will You Go For A Married Person??
Post by mylane on May 13^th, 2005, 7:45am

easy for us to say NO NO NO especially if we are not in this kind of situation.

Remember, it is hard to make a decision ones the heart is involved.....like they always say....All is fair in love and war.... ;D

Title: Re: Will You Go For A Married Person??
Post by gracia on May 13^th, 2005, 10:46am

when the heart is involved...its either you'll be selfish or selfless

Title: Re: Will You Go For A Married Person??
Post by mylane on May 30^th, 2005, 9:23pm

on 05/13/05 at 10:46:15, gracia wrote:

when the heart is involved...its either you'll be selfish or selfless

It’s like being caught between the devil and the deep blue sea....the DILLEMMA!

Title: Re: Will You Go For A Married Person??
Post by beth on Jun 1^st, 2005, 2:43pm

dilemma oh gawd !!

Title: Re: Will You Go For A Married Person??
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 8^th, 2005, 3:43am

Maybe I will if he is no longer living with the wife. Sometimes an annulment or a divorce takes a long time if not hard to obtain. If the wife is already living with someone else...I dont see any reason why the husband cant do the same. It would be like having an unspoken mutual agreement between the husband and the wife. And it surely would not make me uncomfortable or guilty that I cause the separation.But i will not be the cause of a broken marriage.