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(Message started by: mylane on Jul 2nd, 2005, 10:38pm)

Title: If there was one thing you could teach people abou
Post by mylane on Jul 2nd, 2005, 10:38pm
If there was one thing you could teach people about love, what would it be?


post away ;D

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by gracia on Jul 3rd, 2005, 4:45pm
i myself needs to know more about love but then at present all i've learned is that, it's always a give and take...but it would be nice if u don't expect anything in return to avoid hurt in the end especially  if  things don't happen in accordance to ur expectations.  Most of all, all i've learned is it's easy to talk about love but when ur in it, its just too difficult to handle most of the worst situations.

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by Norkay on Jul 7th, 2005, 6:04am
I will teach everyone to understand who I am,to understand what I want,to help me with my problems, to cheer me up, to be patient with me.....in other words, I will teach  them to PAMPER ME WITH LOVE. I am starving ,you know.  :'(

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by thebeast on Jul 7th, 2005, 8:00am
Whole lotta people, especially women, dont want to take any risk whatsoever. Its like they want it but they do not want to take a chance to even fall in love because of fear. Fear of being hurt, fear of looking like a fool(cuz they not sure if other person loves them), fear of age factor, fear of opposite religion, fear of not gonna get a long with the other person. Hell, there is a lot of fear factors involved. But u never gonna get any love at all if you dont take a chance. No different than going to vegas and betting on the black jack tables. If you lucky then it pay off big time. If not chalk it up as a learning experience and get back into life soon.

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by mylane on Jul 7th, 2005, 8:15pm
loving someone is always a decision.

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 8th, 2005, 3:33am

on 07/07/05 at 08:00:31, thebeast wrote:
Whole lotta people, especially women, dont want to take any risk whatsoever. Its like they want it but they do not want to take a chance to even fall in love because of fear. Fear of being hurt, fear of looking like a fool(cuz they not sure if other person loves them), fear of age factor, fear of opposite religion, fear of not gonna get a long with the other person. Hell, there is a lot of fear factors involved. But u never gonna get any love at all if you dont take a chance. No different than going to vegas and betting on the black jack tables. If you lucky then it pay off big time. If not chalk it up as a learning experience and get back into life soon.


Easier said than done, Joel. If I do that everytime and get heartbroken it will turn me into a bitter person. Thanks but no thanks. Waiting is just as cool and less chance of rejection. :P

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by gracia on Jul 8th, 2005, 11:54am
am a big fan of tea girl....I overheard her saying this to Ana..and am gonna post it here :)

L O V E    R E G A R D L E S S!!!

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by beth on Jul 10th, 2005, 2:55pm
Joel, it was right that the risks are too big sometimes and jeopardising our life could be very risky and heartbroken is not easy to handle, specially when ur kinda type of a person that hard to 'let go'...
But not taking any chances is also bad, how u gunna find out the love itself if you never try... so l guess we all just need to be wise , and alert when is the time to take the risk and not, trust what your heart said.


l'm still learning myself... to do.... unconditional love

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by kim on Jul 19th, 2005, 11:49am
if theres one thing i could theach about love... its that true love only comes once in a lifetime. So if you feel it in your heart that you have already found it then dont let it go. Fight for it... DONT LET GO...

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by mylane on Jul 19th, 2005, 12:02pm

on 07/19/05 at 11:49:43, kim wrote:
if theres one thing i could theach about love... its that true love only comes once in a lifetime. So if you feel it in your heart that you have already found it then dont let it go. Fight for it... DONT LET GO...


what if she/he is already married? do still have to fight for it and dont let go? ;D

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by kim on Jul 20th, 2005, 5:15am
thats a different story mymy  :P... MY ADVICE IS TO STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN OR WOMEN  ;D

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 20th, 2005, 11:31am
I learned early on in life that the best person you can depend on in life is yourself. So you gotta love yourself more than the next person. And that the good deeds you do for others will come back to you in tenfolds.

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 20th, 2005, 11:36am
Oh I forgot to say something more. I want to teach those who will listen that when a door of happiness closes...a new door of happiness opens. But sometimes we look at the closed door too long that we can not see the newly opened one even if it's right under our nose.

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by tarantada on Jul 26th, 2005, 8:47pm
love is never ever easy...nothing that good is ever easy anyways...it takes a whole lot of hard work, an endless amount of understanding and never ending patience :)

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by earthlingorgeous on Jul 27th, 2005, 12:19pm
Well.... hmmmmm.... I'm not an expert but I have my share of love and at the moment I'm at my greatest love in my entire life.

Love is TRUST ...
... this is the most important in all relationships that started online ... you can never tell who has he/she been talking with ... what he she is doing online or offline when you are not together

The COMMUNICATION (communicate)
... it is always important that you two always talk, have a routine time that you talk have quality time together it is not always the quantity...tell him/her everything you feel even if you feel it will scare him/her ... if your mad, sad, hungry, farty, horny, sleepy, crappy, whatever you are feeling you must be able to get the message across your love... it hurts or not you just have to pass the message.

UNDERSTANDING (open-mindedness)
... its not good to be two-dimensional... every individual is different in and unique ... each one has their own qualities... you must learn to understand each others short-comings but never compromise your morals.

BE EACH OTHERS STRENGT
... when one feels sad the other should try to make the other person feel better ... when the other is mad the other one should be the levelheaded ... when the other one feels useless make her/him feel he/she is the most important person in the whole wide world.

PATIENCE
... sometimes one of you will become the childish, the needy, the irritating or anything beyond your boiling point lol!!! but well we need to practice our patience with our love specially if you just talk online most of the time... its hard to snap at a time then stop talking ... eventhough you are very much irrate, disappointed or whatever... talk and be patient... you have to resolve everything beyond that day and not let a day pass without you to settling a dispute.
YOU ARE NEVER AFRAID TO TELL EVERYONE ABOUT YOUR LOVE
... more importantly if you two really love each other why would you hide it to the world. Yes its true its your private affairs but then if you got nothing to hide why not show the whole world.

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 15th, 2005, 2:08am
That we live in an imperfect world. Do not expect too much from someone or something, so when things do not happen in your favor, disappointments are lesser, and so is the pain.

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by mylane on Sep 1st, 2005, 12:42pm
It takes an intelligent boy to fall for an intelligent girl...ahihihi ;D

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by NorKay on Sep 1st, 2005, 12:45pm


on 09/01/05 at 12:42:43, mylane wrote:
It takes an intelligent boy to fall for an intelligent girl...ahihihi ;D


Hmmmmm. Is it because of ego? Pride? LOL. Hihi.  ;D

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by mylane on Sep 1st, 2005, 5:34pm
NOPE ;D

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by kim on Sep 2nd, 2005, 5:59am
kris its because an intelligent girl know very well how to cross her legs and it takes an intelligent guy to figure out how to make her spread em open  ;D ;D ;D....

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by NorKay on Sep 2nd, 2005, 11:12am


Ah I see,LOL. [smiley=018.gif] [smiley=clap.gif]  ;D

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by wildheart41004 on Oct 31st, 2005, 11:39pm
Dear Girls (from us guys)...

Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
____________________________________________________
It makes us feel SO secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.
____________________________________________________
Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them.

When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.

You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.
____________________________________________________
On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.

We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
____________________________________________________
Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
____________________________________________________
Yeah, you can quote me.
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Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Smile and say "thank you."

Let us pay for you.

Don't "feel bad."

We enjoy doing it.

It's expected.

Smile and say - everybody together now - "thank you."
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Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.
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You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.
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DONT flirt with guys when we're not around.

We'll find out. Trust us.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.

Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with YOU.
____________________________________________________
Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.
____________________________________________________
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.
____________________________________________________
Whatever happened to the word "handsome"?

Why does everything have to be "hot/sexy"?

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey
handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

But seriously sometimes looks arent everything. alot of guys who arent exactly "hot" will treat you the way you need to be treated

Claiming girls or guys to be "hot" shows immaturity.
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Girls, I cannot stress this enough: IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISCRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the
eyes....and say "i love you" ...



....and actually mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance (nice guys also finish last)

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 1st, 2005, 2:50am
Wow, wildheart..who is that annoying female, eh? [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]Joke :P But you're right...let's just hope the men will take note of these also that the things you don't like in a woman..the women feels the same way about these things also in a man. Ok, ladies...take note...THERE ARE sensitive men out there so please..... :-* ;)

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by CooCHie on Nov 1st, 2005, 6:22am
Very touchy WILD!!!! ;D ;DIt works both ways!!!Just remember ;D ;DWoman nags, guys dont listen..and the list goes on and on....Men hunt, Women fish...Women love to shop, men hate shopping..
Therefore, one thing we could teach each other is to compliment each other.  When she nags, you listen, when he watches a game, she goes shopping..
:o :)Then when he burps, she farts...and we all be merry and happy ;D ;D...How ever shits happens everyday!!!!! Just make the best out of it each day..Live for today, as if its your last day..Be happy!!!! ;D [smiley=huepfenicon111.gif]

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by wildheart41004 on Nov 1st, 2005, 4:15pm
well I didn't write this, I just posted it..and there is alot of truth to it. Just thought it was worth reading.

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 2nd, 2005, 3:51am
It IS worth reading, Wild, very interesting read, but what we are trying to say is this :IF MEN HAS COMPLAINS SO DOES WOMEN.  :PYou want a list? Im sure Cooch can supply you with more other than those she has already listed down above! ;D

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by wildheart41004 on Nov 3rd, 2005, 5:30am
I don't really think it is about complaining, I think it's more about a man trying to make a woman understand a man. if that made sense..lol

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by CooCHie on Nov 3rd, 2005, 6:18am

on 11/03/05 at 05:30:47, wildheart41004 wrote:
I don't really think it is about complaining, I think it's more about a man trying to make a woman understand a man. if that made sense..lol


We compliment at each other Wild...that is what Witchy  is trying to say I think....[smiley=icon_drink.gif]
what ever gender , we needs to understand each other..It is not just for as a man nor for as a woman..Hell, sometimes  I cannot even understand woman...we are so fickle minded..lol [smiley=smash.gif] [smiley=smash.gif] [smiley=smash.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif]

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by earthlingorgeous on Nov 3rd, 2005, 9:44am
Great post wildheart!

And like what coochie said its not necessary that men and women understand each other in every little way but compliment each other and we will all be happy!!!  ;D

Like in bed lol! Men and women compliment each other and the other doesn't have to ask why are you doing that? You just take it as its given and done lolol!  ;D (Am, I posting this? lol!) Hello mahal ko  ;D Just a thought lol!

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by wildheart41004 on Nov 5th, 2005, 12:29am
yeah I think you posted that..lol

Title: Re: If there was one thing you could teach people
Post by kim on Nov 23rd, 2005, 5:30am
wild... the truth is we (all the women) all want to think that men are really what you said they are. We are not man haters but if you get burned once or twice it get really hard to still beleive that men are all that good  :-/ :P ;D ;)



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