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(Message started by: mylane on Jul 26th, 2005, 6:28am)
Title: LIVE-INS
Post by mylane on Jul 26th, 2005, 6:28am
do you agree or disagree?

post away ;D
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by gracia on Jul 26th, 2005, 11:54am
Personally I don't agree.  I will not give my man  the opportunity to get rid of me easily...  [smiley=thump.gif] and vice versa.
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by tarantada on Jul 26th, 2005, 8:44pm
disagree... its beyond my values.
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 27th, 2005, 9:52am
What can I say but Yes. I have done it. No regrets either. I guess this depend on the circumstances and the couple under it.
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by gracia on Jul 27th, 2005, 10:43am

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What can I say but Yes. I have done it. No regrets either. I guess this depend on the circumstances and the couple under it.


I agree though...depends on couples opinion, agreements and principles.  They have their reasons...it might not be right to others but still they are entitled to it....and i respect that.  
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 27th, 2005, 1:07pm

on 07/27/05 at 10:43:23, gracia wrote:
I agree though...depends on couples opinion, agreements and principles.  They have their reasons...it might not be right to others but still they are entitled to it....and i respect that.  



Well said, Grace!!
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by Forgettable on Jul 29th, 2005, 5:53am

Myself disagree, otherwise,what a shame on me considering myself a Christian.I have no comment to those who practice this way, that's their principles or level of their morals,although, whatever reason they have,it's still a mortal sin.
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 30th, 2005, 5:17am

on 07/29/05 at 05:53:18, Forgettable wrote:

Myself disagre.I have no comment to those who practice this way, that's their principles or level of their morals,although, whatever reason they have,it's still a mortal sin.



Kryss..did u notice u just made a comment? :PMortal sin or not, people make their own choices, some are bad, some are good. Knowing what is right and what is wrong can not be a base of how one acts under some circumstances. Why do u think we are living in an imperfect world? ;DWe cannot judge the next person just because he/she did not follow the Ten Commandments. And Im sure there is a balance there somewhere.
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by gracia on Jul 30th, 2005, 5:48am
I guess since it's God who'll do the final judgement in the end...He might give us generous considerations with regardst to our imperfections.....only He knows.  But as long as we know what we are doing, then we are ready  to tackle whatever complications or sanctions that God has prepared for us.  Only we have to make ourselves ready for the consequences.  Whatever happens, we are liable to ourselves, to what we have done.
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by Coochie on Jul 30th, 2005, 6:58am

on 07/30/05 at 05:17:09, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Kryss..did u notice u just made a comment? :PMortal sin or not, people make their own choices, some are bad, some are good. Knowing what is right and what is wrong can not be a base of how one acts under some circumstances. Why do u think we are living in an imperfect world? ;DWe cannot judge the next person just because he/she did not follow the Ten Commandments. And Im sure there is a balance there somewhere.


I agree with you there witch ..as long as you dont kill someone, to me you are still a christian and still doing good things in this world.  For me, it is the same as having sex with someone that you are dating without marriage..what is the difference?   I wonder?  You just live together...Just a thought....lol
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by beth on Jul 30th, 2005, 8:00am
well myself dont agree ;D
but l'm agree with my partner, we all got our own agreement, principles n responsibilities.
Only God knows what you did thow heheheh ;D noone can say u do some sin or not cause they even don't know what you are doing hahaha...
as for the 'sex' thingy... some believe in sex b4 marriage n some don't...
so if u believe on sex after marriage but wanna live-in then do it w/o sex lol lol but if u are agree with sex b4 marriage then feel free lol roflmbo ;D ;D
stick to your own principles ;)
Title: Re: LIVE-INS
Post by Forgettable on Jul 30th, 2005, 8:32am

on 07/30/05 at 05:17:09, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Kryss..did u notice u just made a comment? :P


I'm very aware I did.


on 07/30/05 at 05:17:09, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Mortal sin or not, people make their own choices, some are bad, some are good. Knowing what is right and what is wrong can not be a base of how one acts under some circumstances. Why do u think we are living in an imperfect world? We cannot judge the next person just because he/she did not follow the Ten Commandments. And Im sure there is a balance there somewhere.


I understand.

About this way, which we call "live-in" ,of living with,having sex with someone else without marriage is one of the things I consider mortal sin.It includes on my faith as a Christian.Sometimes, we read too much of others' comments,sometimes, we missed to read something.There's a continuation after I said myself disagree. I have no comment to those who practise,but it's still a sin.I don't understand what does one believe into if someone says "no,it's not a sin".Nevertheless, I should always respect one's view on that.I know I also have practices which you think sin ,but I think no.

As Gracie said, we are accountable of everything we do or to every choice we take.You are accountable with your choice,I am with mine.It's like, if I would be living alone in my entire life because I didn't want to live with him without legal marriage, it would be a big lost of mine.L:(L. Again,it's my belief and I always respect and try to understand situations, and differences.  :D


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