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(Message started by: mylane on Sep 4th, 2005, 5:50pm)

Title: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by mylane on Sep 4th, 2005, 5:50pm
Many people said that LOVING is the sweetest and greatest part of someone's life.

What is the loneliest part of loving someone then?

Post any kind of situation that made you sad because of loving someone.

Post away! ;D

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on Sep 4th, 2005, 11:57pm

You Know What They Say...

"The Hardest Part of Loving Someone is...

Letting Go".

And I Couldn't Have Said it Better Myself Ehh. [smiley=catsmiley.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Sep 5th, 2005, 2:39am
The hardest part in loving someone is when you find out in the end that you only wasted your emotions, time and efforts invested on him, in the relationship. Because he is NOT worth it.[smiley=rock.gif]  [smiley=rock.gif]Now that really suckz!. [smiley=bigcry.gif] [smiley=bigcry.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by periwinkle on Sep 5th, 2005, 5:10pm


~ not being loved back in return....

~ letting go even if you still feel something for the person...

~ pretending not to feel anything anymore even if your heart is saying otherwise....

~ not being able to let that someone know what you really feel...


~ seeing the person you love, love someone else....


Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Sep 6th, 2005, 2:23am
Im sorry to hear that, Jimbo. But just hang in there. I do believe that there is always a special someone for each of us. ;) If you lost the one you have right now, that means she is not the one for you. Love sucks but still.....

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by mylane on Sep 6th, 2005, 8:36am
hardest part of loving someone is the thought that no matter what you  do, you  will never have him/her back again because he/she married someone else by accident. And you were late to object...blame the traffic...LOL ;D

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by mylane on Sep 6th, 2005, 8:40am

on 09/05/05 at 17:10:19, periwinkle wrote:
~ not being loved back in return....

~ letting go even if you still feel something for the person...

~ pretending not to feel anything anymore even if your heart is saying otherwise....

~ not being able to let that someone know what you really feel...


~ seeing the person you love, love someone else....


Dang! you got it all right...girl friend Kianna... ;D

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by gracia on Sep 6th, 2005, 5:13pm
the hardest part of loving someone is when you happens to forget yourself

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Sep 8th, 2005, 12:23am
Yes, Gracia. Some people tend to give all the love they have to that one person. I think it is best to leave some for yourself.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by pEriWiNkLe on Sep 9th, 2005, 7:53pm



on 09/06/05 at 08:40:16, mylane wrote:
Dang! you got it all right...girl friend Kianna... ;D


Maye.... ;) :)

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by thebeast on Sep 9th, 2005, 8:13pm

on 09/05/05 at 02:39:35, Wicked_Witch wrote:
The hardest part in loving someone is when you find out in the end that you only wasted your emotions, time and efforts invested on him, in the relationship. Because he is NOT worth it.[smiley=rock.gif]  [smiley=rock.gif]Now that really suckz!. [smiley=bigcry.gif] [smiley=bigcry.gif]



Edith I dont think you wasted anything. You probably learned something but I hope it dont make your outlook on the male gender in a bad light. Were there not any good times at all? Even when relationships turn bad..I have learned there is some kind of good in them. There has to be something or else you would of never gotten involved in the first place.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by gracia on Sep 10th, 2005, 3:59am

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Even when relationships turn bad..I have learned there is some kind of good in them. There has to be something or else you would of never gotten involved in the first place.


I agree with you beast....for me perhaps it won't matter if the relationship ended up badly as long as i did my best, i worked at it and inspite of that, still fail...then maybe there's someone out there who's more deserving. I don't hold grudges nor call it a waste especially if i can recall few moments that i was loved back in return too. It would be best to let it go, and keep the good memories.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Oct 29th, 2005, 4:36pm
hardest part of loving someone is when u love him so deeply then in the time being you have to let go, the thought of everything n memories are hard to forget, that sux!

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Fallen on Nov 14th, 2005, 9:13pm
Well the hardest part of lovin someone is when she or he tells u to stop lovin that someone

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Nov 14th, 2005, 10:19pm

on 10/29/05 at 16:36:16, dOnUtz 9urL wrote:
hardest part of loving someone is when u love him so deeply then in the time being you have to let go, the thought of everything n memories are hard to forget, that sux!

I agree with ya Beth [smiley=wall.gif]
Life suxxx sometimes but you only live once Beth...
Memories are to be treasured...happy times makes you smile...Just be happy!!!! ;D ;D  [smiley=love.gif]Just remember feeling being love is a beautiful thing!!!

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 15th, 2005, 1:40am

on 11/14/05 at 22:19:58, CooCHie wrote:
I agree with ya Beth [smiley=wall.gif]
Life suxxx sometimes but you only live once Beth...
Memories are to be treasured...happy times makes you smile...Just be happy!!!! ;D ;D  [smiley=love.gif]Just remember feeling being love is a beautiful thing!!!


I know, Cooch. I just wish all the memories we kept of them are all good ones. Coz with bitter memoriez comes regrets also, right? Would it not be nicer if we can think of that person and only have good memories of you two together? (Sigh!)

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 15th, 2005, 1:44am

on 09/09/05 at 20:13:40, thebeast wrote:
Edith I dont think you wasted anything. You probably learned something but I hope it dont make your outlook on the male gender in a bad light. Were there not any good times at all? Even when relationships turn bad..I have learned there is some kind of good in them. There has to be something or else you would of never gotten involved in the first place.


Nahhhh, don't worry, Joel. Everything bad that happens to me, I charge it to experience and try to learn something from it. I still like men, believe me!(grinz)

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Nov 16th, 2005, 11:20pm
My Favorite line "Being loved by someone you don't love is irritating. Loving someone who doesn't love you is tragic; but loving someone who loves you is a dream.
<>Likewise; to need someone more than you want is insecurity. To want someone more than you need them is lust. So could love be defined as keeping an equal balance of need and want for someone? Maybe love is not just about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship? Surely it's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end? Or is it just the wisdom of the fool and the folly of the wise? "
So to me; love is when thoughts of but one woman fill your heart, when she means more than life to you. When you know you would do anything for her and shall die if she is taken from you. Desire is when you ache to see her and touch her, when she causes your body to burn and tremble… Desire does not demand love before it can ensnare you…But desire with love creates a powerful bond…That is the bond I seek to form that is the type of relationship - A romantic relationship based on trust, passion and desire thus forming an unbreakable bond

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Saffire_65 on Dec 10th, 2005, 2:35pm
my favourite line is... to be able to love someone is wonderful but to be loved back by someone you in love with is blisssful.

The hardest part is when two lovin souls not able to communicate at the same wave length.  Lots of misunderstanding .... hence the heartache and tears.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Jan 4th, 2006, 7:31pm
The hardest part of loving someone, when u feel the pain!  Love supposedly wonderful but sometimes sux .  Shits happens.. especially if you meet an a hole..it just  goes  right though.lol ..no hole no shit. Life is a b i a c t h !!!:P [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=woot.gif] [smiley=woot.gif] [smiley=woot.gif]LOVE IS LIKE A BOX OF CHOCOLATE, IT TASTES SO SWEET AND SO ADDICTIVE  WHEN IT GOES  INTO YOUR SYSTEM AND ATE IT ALL. YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT WHEN YOU KNOW YOU CANNOT GET IT !!!

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by okasantina on Jan 4th, 2006, 8:52pm
The hardest part would be when u r aware that he/she has someone already and u keep on letting ureself to love that guy/girl.  Stupidity? i dunno...i guess its just the way how love is and its hard u know.... :)

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jan 5th, 2006, 8:06pm

on 01/04/06 at 20:52:17, okasantina wrote:
The hardest part would be when u r aware that he/she has someone already and u keep on letting ureself to love that guy/girl.  Stupidity? i dunno...i guess its just the way how love is and its hard u know.... :)


Tell me about it, Tina! I can only wish...[smiley=bigcry.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by somebody on Feb 25th, 2006, 9:31am
These posts are depressing.  ;D


Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by mixin4livin on Feb 26th, 2006, 3:38am
The hardest part of loving someone is SEX. Can't wait till that moment LOL ;D (" I agree with u somebody")

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Feb 28th, 2006, 5:19am

on 02/25/06 at 09:31:59, somebody wrote:
These posts are depressing.  ;D


Come on, ms. somebody, we are trying to cover all grounds here so we will have a variety of subjects to talk about ;)As depressing as it is, you know we all have melancholy moods.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Matthew on Feb 28th, 2006, 7:50am
The hardest part about loving someone is being loved in return... :'(

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Mar 1st, 2006, 9:30pm

on 02/28/06 at 07:50:58, Matthew wrote:
The hardest part about loving someone is being loved in return... :'(

well depends on who is giving the love and getting the love [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif]If you are getting the love and giving the same love its beautiful....but if you are just giving the love and no love in return...its painful in the butt...then that is when love stints...its pain in the a-hole

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 2nd, 2006, 5:17am

on 02/28/06 at 07:50:58, Matthew wrote:
The hardest part about loving someone is being loved in return... :'(


Huh????

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by somebody on Mar 7th, 2006, 6:41am

on 02/26/06 at 03:38:25, mixin4livin wrote:
The hardest part of loving someone is SEX. Can't wait till that moment LOL ;D (" I agree with u somebody")


Omg is that all guys think about? lolz..no wonder i am the way i am  ::) ::) ::)

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by wildheart41004 on Mar 7th, 2006, 4:05pm

on 03/01/06 at 21:30:48, CooCHie wrote:
well depends on who is giving the love and getting the love [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif]If you are getting the love and giving the same love its beautiful....but if you are just giving the love and no love in return...its painful in the butt...then that is when love stints...its pain in the a-hole



it's said best in the song "some fools never learn" the line is "it's only love if you're loved in return"

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by somebody on Mar 11th, 2006, 12:29am
The hardest part of loving someone is when you still love him and he stops loving you.  

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Matthew on Mar 11th, 2006, 4:41am
finding somebody to love.....that's the hardest part :'(

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by somebody on Mar 12th, 2006, 12:49am

on 03/11/06 at 04:41:37, Matthew wrote:
finding somebody to love.....that's the hardest part :'(


You are kidding me?

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Matthew on Mar 12th, 2006, 7:42am
maybe i found SOMEBODY... ;D
maybe not.....

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 13th, 2006, 1:21am
Hehehehe! Nice ID, somebody, now you got Matt confused I think. You better tell him if you're available or not! ;D

Of course finding somebody to love is hard. These things are not like something you can buy from a store when you take a fancy to it. But it hits you the harder when you lose it. Don't worry, just keep on waiting/looking. Just don't set too high a standard.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Matthew on Mar 14th, 2006, 7:34am
vote for pedro

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Matthew on Mar 14th, 2006, 7:41am
The hardest thing:
when u literally starve to buy a valentine's day gift for your love....
      Then she returns it to spend the money on her other boyfriend

when u sacrifice resposibilities to come home early to spend some time
       And she is gone for 2 weeks

when u change your life completely to support her
        And she takes u for granted

when u are sick and unable to work, yet you put in 70hrs a week to give her the world
      And she says she doesn't love you

When u have to sleep alone......

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by kim on Mar 14th, 2006, 9:04am
It is better to love and hae lost than to have never loved at all....

Dont cry coz its over, smile coz it happened....


The hardest part of loving someone is losing them to death. Because no matter what you do you can never ever have them back again. Remember there is always hope as long as you are still alive. If you really really love someone then do what ever it takes to have her/him or to win them back again. But how could you do taht if death has already taken your love and you can no longer get him/her back no matter ho much you cry or no matter how much you pray to every single god you know of just to give back his/her life?

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Matthew on Mar 14th, 2006, 9:22am
when someone dies there is closure.....when someone has placed distance between you and love ....well to know they are alive and doing, maybe, better....its a pain that doesn't fade.... :-[

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Matthew on Mar 14th, 2006, 9:24am
besides...life is a cycle..... [smiley=music-smiley-023.gif] [smiley=angel.gif] [smiley=angel.gif] [smiley=angel.gif]
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by somebody on Mar 14th, 2006, 10:36am

on 03/14/06 at 07:41:22, Matthew wrote:
The hardest thing:
when u literally starve to buy a valentine's day gift for your love....
      Then she returns it to spend the money on her other boyfriend

when u sacrifice resposibilities to come home early to spend some time
       And she is gone for 2 weeks

when u change your life completely to support her
        And she takes u for granted

when u are sick and unable to work, yet you put in 70hrs a week to give her the world
      And she says she doesn't love you

When u have to sleep alone......


awwwww

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Mar 15th, 2006, 7:44pm
Being apart from each other!!!! :-* :'(

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Fugi on Mar 16th, 2006, 10:46pm
Loving someone is like a verb... U gotta work on love every day so it's never gonna be easy.. U gotta take the good with the bad and meet each other halfway... But true love can overcome anything...

P.S. coochie loving someone online can work too but you have to be patient and you will be rewarded... Guess that bf isn't imaginary anymore lol... u got busted now go to my room and tell me all about it :P

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Mar 16th, 2006, 10:52pm
Oh well, my imaginary Bf is so far awayyyyyyyyyy ...shush dont spoil my dream Fugi ..you think you can catch me ...try again ya smart azz:o ;D and btw... i tell you my secret if you tell me yours....wanna go to my room now...wink wink :) :)
And btw ...he knows who he is!!!!And im not tellin :-X

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Fugi on Mar 16th, 2006, 10:59pm
Coochie you know i don't have secrets for you but hey i'll go to your room that's my pleasure... so that means you gotta tell me yours instead and don't start with that victoria secret thong cause i already found that under your bed while i was hiding  :P


Coochie now your nose is growing cause first you said he was imaginary and now u claim he has a name  :o

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Mar 16th, 2006, 11:04pm
wow your trying to bust  a move eh Fugi?...told ya  im slow ...but still you cant catch me... ;D ;D ;D...remember, im the one who is playing hard to get now ;D ;D

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Fugi on Mar 16th, 2006, 11:09pm
No coochie you GOT busted... Just tell me who he is  :P unveal your secret  ;D
Do you really think that i would make an effort to chase you.... I have my pride lol and besides you would never stand a chance no matter how hard u tried :P

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Mar 16th, 2006, 11:12pm

on 03/16/06 at 23:09:37, Fugi wrote:
No coochie you GOT busted... Just tell me who he is  :P unveal your secret  ;D
Do you really think that i would make an effort to chase you.... I have my pride lol and besides you would never stand a chance no matter how hard u tried :P


Oh shuks you want me to  take off(unveal) my secret now? ;D ;D ;D ANd by the way you will stand a chance of getting hard by the time i catch you...Bwaaaaaaaaa hahahahaha [smiley=whip.gif] [smiley=whip.gif] [smiley=whip.gif] [smiley=whip.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Fugi on Mar 16th, 2006, 11:15pm
ofcourse coochie cause got busted... btw no need to take something else off i kept the victoria secret thong as a souvenir lol

Coochie  ::) first i needed to chase you and now you are switching roles again  >:(   This is not a role play ya know that's another room lol... make up ur mind dangit  :P

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Mar 16th, 2006, 11:20pm
Keep it but dont laundry it fugi...smell does wonder ya know ;D

Ok now back to regular programming....i need to rest..gosh you are fast and furious Fugi [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif]Still im not tellin :-X

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Fugi on Mar 16th, 2006, 11:26pm
coochie after all the times you farted in it... do you really think i'm gonna take the risk it to smell it.... damn you are even crazier then me lol... so keep dreaming i'm not gonna get addicted to you

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by nOrKAy on Mar 20th, 2006, 7:09am


The hardest part of loving someone, is when you need to force the person to love you back.
--from the movie The Wedding Date

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 22nd, 2006, 3:51am
the hardest part of loving someone is when you have to give up a lot just to have him

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by nOrKAy on Mar 22nd, 2006, 11:08am


Very true, Witchy.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Matthew on Mar 24th, 2006, 5:35am
The hardest part about loving someone is even knowing if your being loved...

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 24th, 2006, 7:36am
another hard part of loving someone is when the time is up and you have to let go.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Saffire_65 on Apr 4th, 2006, 2:16am
The hardest part of loving someone is when sensible and mature form of communication failed to reach the other line.   [smiley=wall.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Apr 4th, 2006, 9:54am
the hardest part of loving someone is when thinking rules over communication.  Communicate more and think less.  Is that possible?

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Apr 4th, 2006, 6:47pm
i think it all depends on the level of thinking of the partner, grace.

the hardest part of loving someone is when you have to share that person with someone else and you can't do anything about it. you are NOT even supposed to do anything about it coz she was there first.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by feso on Apr 6th, 2006, 2:46am
some of the hardest parts of loving someone is that u will encounter dayz that challenge ur way of being........or challenge ur choices.....its alot of challenges but if u truly love a person these challenges seem nothing more than stupid trivial things u can do without.....i hear u gals and guys talking about communication..........if u dont have communication then.....u might as well fall in love with a blow up doll or a robot........the hell u gonna be doin when ur gf/ bf on those days when ur jus laying there with minds drifting of one another.....jus staring at each other blindly?.........im a great communicator and i cannot stand a person that cant be themselves and let their personality shine out

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Apr 8th, 2006, 8:00am
lol alex..i hear ya...but what about those couples who communicates but can't say what they want to straight? you know....like they dance around each other not wanting to offend?

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Zed_Sg on Jun 20th, 2006, 6:24am
For me, when we have to separate and won't be able to see each other because of jobs,or business. It sucks.Well it's so hard for me. :P

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jun 28th, 2006, 9:41am
Well, Zed..that's a part of the excitement and worries of loving someone. But the hard part also is loving someone and you are not sure if the person is being honest and loyal with you. Like when you hear things from trusted friends?

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Jul 2nd, 2006, 8:47pm

on 06/28/06 at 09:41:09, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Well, Zed..that's a part of the excitement and worries of loving someone. But the hard part also is loving someone and you are not sure if the person is being honest and loyal with you. Like when you hear things from trusted friends?


Hmm you have been flirting again pards behind my back? shame shame ;D

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 5th, 2006, 11:09am
Pards I swear am loyal to all of you! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Jul 5th, 2006, 6:29pm

on 07/05/06 at 11:09:21, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Pards I swear am loyal to all of you! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]


Yeah yeah Pards, I heard that line before... [smiley=furious3.gif] [smiley=furious3.gif] [smiley=furious3.gif] [smiley=silly.gif] [smiley=silly.gif] [smiley=whip.gif] [smiley=whip.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 6th, 2006, 8:08am
:-*

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Jul 6th, 2006, 8:56am

on 07/05/06 at 11:09:21, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Pards I swear am loyal to all of you! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]


Yeah right Pards, I heard that before...and you told me you will wait for me forever....dangit, you change your bf more than you change your panty....I see how you work!!!!You nose is getting bigger every minute of a day. [smiley=smash.gif] [smiley=smash.gif] [smiley=smash.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Jul 6th, 2006, 8:57am

on 07/05/06 at 11:09:21, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Pards I swear am loyal to all of you! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]


Yeah right Pards, I heard that before...and you told me you will wait for me forever....dangit, you change your bf more than you change your panty....I see how you work!!!!Your nose is getting bigger every minute of a day. [smiley=smash.gif] [smiley=smash.gif] [smiley=smash.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 7th, 2006, 4:53am
Ouchhh! You're getting too violent again, pards! :-*

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Jul 7th, 2006, 12:24pm
the hardest thing of loving someone.....is when that someone doesnt love u at all  :-/ :-/ :-/ whewww been there done that  ::)

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 4th, 2006, 6:04pm
The hardest part I think is when you knew you have to give up but still you hang on hoping things will change for the better soon.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by bad_day_me on Nov 22nd, 2006, 4:40pm
the hardest part of loving someone is when he can't accept all his mistakes and he can't love u in return.... :'(

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by bad_day_me on Nov 22nd, 2006, 4:41pm
the hardest part of loving someone is when he can't give

respect in return.....

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by bad_day_me on Nov 24th, 2006, 4:49pm
the hardest part of loving is when you show all your love

and he can't love you in return...... [smiley=balloon3.gif] [smiley=balloon3.gif] [smiley=balloon3.gif] [smiley=balloon3.gif] [smiley=balloon3.gif] [smiley=balloon3.gif] [smiley=balloon3.gif]


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Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 28th, 2006, 4:46am
The hardest part of loving someone is when he can't admit he has changed and kept you in the dark when in fact, he has fallen in love with someone else, but still want to keep you ::)

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by ClumsilyIdiotic on Nov 28th, 2006, 4:36pm

The hardest part is when you were friends before you become a couple. When things doesn't work out, it's impossible to go back to just being friends again. Not because the friendship has become a consolation, but because it's hard to identify the friend from the ex boyfriend.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by bad_day_me on Nov 29th, 2006, 1:44am
yes your right clumsily.....ive been in that situation before with my x hubby!!!now it's hard to bring back that friendship we had before coz we cracked up.....

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by bad_day_me on Nov 29th, 2006, 3:54am
the hardest thing of loving someone is when u find alot of cracked ups from him....hope he told everything first before you found out from another person.....thats really difficult..

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jan 24th, 2007, 11:28am
the hardest part of loving someone is when you have given him everything, love, time, your heart...and in the end, you found out he's not worth it coz he's doesn't need and want "complications" of a relationship. in short...he's just leading you on, more hurting is when the  guy's just entertaining himself at your expense.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by bad_day_me on Jan 27th, 2007, 10:06am

on 01/24/07 at 11:28:16, Wicked_Witch wrote:
the hardest part of loving someone is when you have given him everything, love, time, your heart...and in the end, you found out he's not worth it coz he's doesn't need and want "complications" of a relationship. in short...he's just leading you on, more hurting is when the  guy's just entertaining himself at your expense.



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Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Feb 3rd, 2007, 8:01am
Another hard part is when he has broken up with you and you see him around treating other girls much like the way when you two first started. Doesn't it makes you feel like you want to hire the best booter and hacker on the internet and pay him with every last penny you got? Hehehehe!

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CooCHie on Feb 18th, 2007, 10:14pm

on 02/03/07 at 08:01:05, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Another hard part is when he has broken up with you and you see him around treating other girls much like the way when you two first started. Doesn't it makes you feel like you want to hire the best booter and hacker on the internet and pay him with every last penny you got? Hehehehe!


There is  a short word for that pards, isn't jealousy?  lol [smiley=furious3.gif] [smiley=furious3.gif] [smiley=furious3.gif] [smiley=furious3.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Feb 20th, 2007, 10:41am

on 02/18/07 at 22:14:47, CooCHie wrote:
There is  a short word for that pards, isn't jealousy?  lol [smiley=furious3.gif] [smiley=furious3.gif] [smiley=furious3.gif] [smiley=furious3.gif]


Hehehehe! Pards, I hate it when someone tries to outsmart me. I should be the one to break off first! Nyahahahah!

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by annie_marie on Aug 24th, 2007, 2:30am
The hardest part is giving him everything, including sharing your life, the past, present and future, believed in him, trusted him, yet he ended up marrying someone else...

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 24th, 2007, 2:33am

on 08/24/07 at 02:30:53, annie_marie wrote:
The hardest part is giving him everything, including sharing your life, the past, present and future, believed in him, trusted him, yet he ended up marrying someone else...


Wow, Manay, I think if that happens to me, I will give them a box of live grenade on their wedding day!
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Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by annie_marie on Aug 24th, 2007, 2:37am
I was tempted to, but, hey, he was not worth of my time.... After I shed gallons of tears, I realized how lucky I was for not marrying him.

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Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by menchang on Aug 24th, 2007, 4:50am
[quote author=annie_marie link=board=affairs;num=1125845403;start=80#86 date=08/24/07 at 02:37:16]I was tempted to, but, hey, he was not worth of my time.... After I shed gallons of tears, I realized how lucky I was for not marrying him.

    [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif][/qthats gud tita ann......dont ever ever waste your tears on someone whos not worth it!!!!.....

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Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Aug 30th, 2007, 11:44am
is dreaming, hoping, wishing that everything will end like a fairy tale story, "........and they live happily ever after".....but all of a sudden, he disappeared like a thief in the night, popped like a bubble floating on the air, melt like an ice cream under the sun, evaporates like dewdrops over the morning leaves......someone help me im drowning in tears  [smiley=bigcry.gif] [smiley=bigcry.gif] [smiley=bigcry.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 31st, 2007, 11:02am
geez...you are being hard on yourself again, manay...that's should be one for online frustrations too, you know  [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Sep 1st, 2007, 3:35am

Quote:
is dreaming, hoping, wishing that everything will end like a fairy tale story, "........and they live happily ever after".....but all of a sudden, he disappeared like a thief in the night, popped like a bubble floating on the air, melt like an ice cream under the sun, evaporates like dewdrops over the morning leaves......someone help me im drowning in tears  


Pakner, compose a song with that same title...we can sell the piece to Ryan Cayabyab....come on....remember there's brighter side always.
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Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Sep 1st, 2007, 4:44pm
Pakner im actually a frustrated poet  ;D and talking about the brighter side....hhmmmm i need to see mr. sunshine somewhere before the solar eclipse take over hahahaha

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Sep 3rd, 2007, 10:33am

Quote:
Pakner im actually a frustrated poet  Grin and talking about the brighter side....hhmmmm i need to see mr. sunshine somewhere before the solar eclipse take over hahahaha


Pakner, you're viewing Mr. Sunshine now, problem is, you're having a hard time deciding which one is. Nyahahaha!
     

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Sep 4th, 2007, 10:32am

on 09/03/07 at 10:33:19, Gracia wrote:
Pakner, you're viewing Mr. Sunshine now, problem is, you're having a hard time deciding which one is. Nyahahaha!
     


[smiley=omfg.gif] this is a breakthrough in Science....Earth now has multiple sun  [smiley=huepfenicon111.gif] hhhmmmm Pakner, HE need to shine brighter over the other so i cud notice HIM ;D

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Sep 4th, 2007, 12:50pm
You've been confused of sodium lamps and sun Pakner...Nyahahahahaha

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Sep 4th, 2007, 5:29pm
is it me or just my imagination  ;D [smiley=killer.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Sep 6th, 2007, 4:51am
must be you Pakner [smiley=music-smiley-023.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Sep 6th, 2007, 2:29pm
wake me up then Pakner  ;D

anyways, going back to the subject.....before ur better half entered ur life, whats the hardest part uv experienced about love Pakner?

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Sep 7th, 2007, 9:04am

on 09/06/07 at 14:29:59, CeL wrote:
wake me up then Pakner  ;D

anyways, going back to the subject.....before ur better half entered ur life, whats the hardest part uv experienced about love Pakner?


Hmmm...happy to say Pakner, my better half entered my life when I was 16 going on 17 and prior to that, it was just crushes and infatuations.  He was the first relationship I've wandered for 9 years before settling down.   The hardships happened when he went to Riyadh to work.  Communication really sucks towards the end of his stay in that country.  He worked there for straight 3 years and he had no vacation at all.  I have a phone but he never call...for whatever his reasons I respected it as long as the letters were constant.  On the last year, I gave up because letters came so rarely and while I'm doing my best to communicate as often as I could like mailing two letters in a week and in return I got one letter once in a blue moon.  I was fed up and I stop communicating.  I wandered to Boracay to treat myself with my best buddy here.  I was still 24 by then and thinking I was still young, doesn't matter if I lost him.  I mean I will never force myself to him or to anyone for that matter and chasing a man was never in my vocabulary.  You only have to say the word and I'll leave you in peace.  Closing the relationship through letter is futile, so I was thinking I'll wait when he'll be back and by then we can have proper closure.

He came back without my knowledge.  He asked his sister-in-law to call me in the office and poof he was on the other line.  I was shocked Pakner, never expected it.  I don't know what happen, I had my litany prepared but not even one had been mentioned.  Guess love works in a very mysterious way.  A year after that we got married.

Awww my love story Pakner.  
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Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Sep 7th, 2007, 12:12pm
Pakner i was stunned by what iv read, i cant believe that uv been into an agony in ur relationship with ur better half right now. this is quite inspiring and i share u in ur sentiments about unfinished business in a relationship. its like reading my very own story about the recent relationship i had (guess u know with whom) and based on ur revelation Pakner, i can keep my hopes alive....who knows at the right time il see him right down the stairway of our office building staring and waiting for me to come down for a big warm hug ;D hayyyy im daydreaming again hahahaha

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Sep 7th, 2007, 1:20pm

on 09/07/07 at 12:12:21, CeL wrote:
Pakner i was stunned by what iv read, i cant believe that uv been into an agony in ur relationship with ur better half right now. this is quite inspiring and i share u in ur sentiments about unfinished business in a relationship. its like reading my very own story about the recent relationship i had (guess u know with whom) and based on ur revelation Pakner, i can keep my hopes alive....who knows at the right time il see him right down the stairway of our office building staring and waiting for me to come down for a big warm hug ;D hayyyy im daydreaming again hahahaha


Aww Pakner, when I say "I'm fed up" I died everything including hope.  All I'm after when I get to see him again is to close the book.  He did not agree when I did it on letters and so I said to myself, since I'm not eager to jump into another relationship, maybe the closure can wait. So I enjoyed life with no attachment.

Pakner, in your case, it would be best to give up hoping because it's kind of reverse pyschology...the more you wait, the more it eludes you.  Forget him, then chances are he might comes back to you at a very unexpected time. If not, then at least you've moved on.

My motto was, "if we're meant for each other, no matter what happens he will comes back to me".  God will make a way. Perhaps If I had another relationship before he comes back, I would have lose him forever because I used to stand my decision and hurting someone for my happiness is not my style. I prefer to suffer.  And since my intention is good...God blessed me.

If I'm in your shoes Pakner, I'll give ultimatum to myself as to when will I wait and if still he won't come with that given waiting period then I'll move on.  Life is too short to waste on waiting.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Sep 8th, 2007, 1:21pm
I thought when i said that if July ended without hearing anything from him, i could say that "it's over, im moving on without him in the picture, Pakner"....but if its really a true and real feeling u have for someone, its hard to let go especially if there was indeed no proper closure between the two of you.

Its easy to say "I already forgot him" vocally, but deep inside...in the deepest corner of ur heart and mind, the hope is lurking that someday in time destiny will reverse its coarse and bring him back to you.

Late this afternoon Janna pm'd me and ask what his id was....coz she thought she had seen same in the room. And i was stunned of my reaction....i got enthusiastic and anxious, feel scared and even in the middle of a busy work, i abruptly entered the room hoping its really him, hoping i cud have the chance to talk to him again, excitement was all over me....but to no avail, coz its a different person.

I dont know...maybe i was just too emotionally attached to him and have had plans way beyond the first day of meeting in person....and until now i cant think what fault have i done to him to deserve the hurt.

Il get over him entirely, maybe not now....not tomorrow but time heals all wounds they say it just takes time...no deadline, il just woke up one day that i can think of his memories with a smile on my face, with no feeling of regrets and looking forward to experience another "risk of the pain of lossing" which they call LOVING.... ;D

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Sep 10th, 2007, 5:49am

on 09/08/07 at 13:21:40, CeL wrote:
I thought when i said that if July ended without hearing anything from him, i could say that "it's over, im moving on without him in the picture, Pakner"....but if its really a true and real feeling u have for someone, its hard to let go especially if there was indeed no proper closure between the two of you.

Its easy to say "I already forgot him" vocally, but deep inside...in the deepest corner of ur heart and mind, the hope is lurking that someday in time destiny will reverse its coarse and bring him back to you.

Late this afternoon Janna pm'd me and ask what his id was....coz she thought she had seen same in the room. And i was stunned of my reaction....i got enthusiastic and anxious, feel scared and even in the middle of a busy work, i abruptly entered the room hoping its really him, hoping i cud have the chance to talk to him again, excitement was all over me....but to no avail, coz its a different person.

I dont know...maybe i was just too emotionally attached to him and have had plans way beyond the first day of meeting in person....and until now i cant think what fault have i done to him to deserve the hurt.

Il get over him entirely, maybe not now....not tomorrow but time heals all wounds they say it just takes time...no deadline, il just woke up one day that i can think of his memories with a smile on my face, with no feeling of regrets and looking forward to experience another "risk of the pain of lossing" which they call LOVING.... ;D


I understand you perfectly Pakner, you are just in love.  Maybe my case was different in a way because I've been patient for so long...I felt so tired ....i think the libra in me works Pakner....i've been weighing things...what would I get in prolonging my suffering when I have the option not to?....what if it's just me feeling so miserable and he's out there probably happy and contented?....if I have to continue behaving like this I'll get old early (that's a no  no)....there's life aside from love life....so I decided to enjoy the other aspect of life all else will follow.  

Everything is planned by God Pakner, perhaps it's best to lift it all to Him and ask His guidance in your everyday decisions. If he comes back then he will and if not, then he's not.  Maybe there's a reason why you keep on waiting or maybe time will come that you'll get tired and venture again.  In the intervening time, it's best to enjoy whatever is at hand.  Be happy, be joyful, be at peace, those are character traits to stay young.  

;)

as the quote I've got long time ago:

Life is a one way street, no matter how many detours you make, none of them leads back. So enjoy life's moment as none of them will happen at the same way again.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Sep 10th, 2007, 9:38am
you are very right partner. but then yeah, when u are IN LOVE, it seemed like noone can replace "him" noone better than "him" nothing can ever defeat him. it was true.... when u fall in LOVE everything turn back the other way around.....
So well.... cant blame anyone when they FALL IN LOVE   [smiley=freak.gif] [smiley=freak.gif] [smiley=freak.gif] [smiley=freak.gif] [smiley=freak.gif] [smiley=freak.gif] [smiley=freak.gif] [smiley=freak.gif] [smiley=freak.gif] [smiley=freak.gif]      [smiley=love2.gif] [smiley=love.gif] [smiley=iloveyou.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Sep 10th, 2007, 12:00pm
On that note Pakner....let's party and enjoy of what we have at hand right now  ;D [smiley=icon_dance.gif] [smiley=icon_dance.gif] let's invite all the singles in the house and oohh the not-so-single too  [smiley=icon_drink2.gif] [smiley=icon_super.gif] [smiley=icon_drink2.gif]

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Sep 11th, 2007, 3:44am

on 09/10/07 at 12:00:36, CeL wrote:
On that note Pakner....let's party and enjoy of what we have at hand right now  ;D [smiley=icon_dance.gif] [smiley=icon_dance.gif] let's invite all the singles in the house and oohh the not-so-single too  [smiley=icon_drink2.gif] [smiley=icon_super.gif] [smiley=icon_drink2.gif]


FALL IN and OUT LOVE PARTY
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Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Sep 12th, 2007, 5:23am
Talking about singles  ;D im suggesting to put up an association of single sisterhood and brotherhood in ac1 nyahahahaha........any suggestion, recommendation and opinion??

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Sep 12th, 2007, 8:28am
Awww Pakner...be the president.....I will be supporting you all the way...

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by CeL on Sep 13th, 2007, 11:01am
awww gee thanks Pakner, but i think im not capable yet to handle such a sensitive position  ;D sexytary position will be fine with me for now Pakner ;D

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by teagirl on Dec 15th, 2008, 7:58pm

...is accepting him for who he is.

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Gracia on Dec 16th, 2008, 8:05am

on 12/15/08 at 19:58:40, teagirl wrote:
...is accepting him for who he is.


AMEN, doki.  nyahahahaha!

Welcome back!!!!!!

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jan 27th, 2009, 8:27am
....is when he loves someone else?

Title: Re: THE HARDEST PART OF LOVING SOMEONE
Post by B.CooL ExpresS on Feb 6th, 2009, 8:16am
...is when u can see him but cant let him hear nor smell ur farting  [smiley=icon_super.gif]  [smiley=oops.gif] its supposed to be "THAT SUCKS!"  [smiley=silly.gif] [smiley=silly.gif]



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