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(Message started by: kimmy_baby01 on Feb 1st, 2004, 12:23pm)

Title: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Feb 1st, 2004, 12:23pm
how real can an online relationship be and how far can it go??

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by ReeBop on Feb 1st, 2004, 12:46pm
I'll get back to you on that one, kimmy.... ;)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by keensryche on Feb 1st, 2004, 12:59pm
With all those internet dating services, you never know.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by mylane on Feb 1st, 2004, 8:04pm
hard question kimmy...we betta hear it from those lovers that met online....

but for me i think trust, desire to meet and being patient are the key to make it work.... ;D (just my opinion)

not to mention lots of phonecards too ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Feb 1st, 2004, 10:38pm
ya i guess you need lots of phone cards... lol

but making an online relationship works is really very hard.. i've tried it n it didn't work, so now im sticking to "strickly friends" on the net. if he wants me then he should get a plane ticket n go here in pi... hehehe

AND YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!!!!!!  :D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Nani on Feb 2nd, 2004, 6:06am
are u referring to me kimmy lol

:Ppssst i know lol

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Feb 2nd, 2004, 10:40am
yes nani honey its you  ;D and ya i know that you know  ;) muahhhhhh!!!!

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by bige on Feb 2nd, 2004, 12:01pm
:D :D :Pyea I believe there is but its kinda hard till ya meet you know but I plan on seeing a few one day and that one other person too thats out there somewhere.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by mylane on Feb 2nd, 2004, 7:22pm

on 02/01/04 at 22:38:52, kimmy_baby01 wrote:
AND YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!!!!!!  :D


how come im always the last one to know?  :'(

hey i need some chikka there!!! i need to know kimmy.... ;D

BT:

well in online relationship u got to developed certain level of trust and ofcourse intimacy.... ;D

but i would suggest lots of phonecards still ;D

hehehhehe...

now where is keen? wonder if he got lots of phonecards for analyn....lol ;)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by cygnusanalogman on Feb 2nd, 2004, 9:42pm
I wonder if those long distance phone operators ever blush when they listen to conversations from overseas :P  ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by gracia on Feb 5th, 2004, 12:41am
they say true love hit anywhere......out of a hundred there might be 5 or less......though more failues happen than success...one has to risk to find out if its true love or not.....or one will never know.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by badfurball on Feb 6th, 2004, 1:37am
it is possible - i have heard from friends whom have had online relationships and then married...
i am dating a beautiful young lady from online right now...anyone care to guess who that would be?

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by ReeBop on Feb 6th, 2004, 12:11pm
I like making everyone guess too.... ;)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by mylane on Feb 7th, 2004, 10:24am
am i included in the guessing game? ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Feb 10th, 2004, 5:25am
i'd like to beleive it could work

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by mylane on Feb 11th, 2004, 8:09pm

on 02/05/04 at 00:41:43, gracia wrote:
they say true love hit anywhere......out of a hundred there might be 5 or less......though more failues happen than success...one has to risk to find out if its true love or not.....or one will never know.



in addition to gracia's statement

the internet has taken the place of the church, a club or school in as far as meeting people is concerned...

while im not saying we dont get to meet interesting people outside the net anymore, what im also saying is that the use of the net has become so widespread that almost everyone is in the net - for work, school and play...meeting people thru this venue has just become a given.

we've  made many good friends on the net -- that is something we should be  proud of. what i dont get is how come some people would give a negative tone to the fact that two people met on the net -- giving it a sleazy, sometimes sinister air. maybe this is why people are hesitant to date someone the "just met on the net"

just an observation ;D



Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Feb 12th, 2004, 1:46am
i'm not saying that it could "never" happen. One example is joey n casy.. hey they ended up together... all i a m saying is that it is so hard to make it work and it it so hard to find someone that will be strong enough to go through all teh complications of an online realtionship... and as for me, i'd rather prefer that the man go over here n stay with me here in my country rather than me leaving everything i have here to be with him.... coz i can leave my family n my work  :P

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by tarantada on Feb 12th, 2004, 2:07am
kimmy, why not get a man from here? same country where u in? so there will be no complication :)

im sure lots of guys that u can meet online same country as u in right now ;)


but then again i do believe that love works in mysterious ways.....even through the internet

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by ray69 on Feb 13th, 2004, 3:08am

on 02/01/04 at 12:23:22, kimmy_baby01 wrote:
how real can an online relationship be and how far can it go??


i have no idea. haven't experienced it. but if im still free, it can work if there is a constant communication and the relationship should elevate to a mature one. i mean, at least they should meet.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by ray69 on Feb 13th, 2004, 3:10am
and off course intimacy lyk someone said is a factor also...

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by whyanime on Feb 16th, 2004, 7:40pm
Well depends on how you two get along and your personalities (if they mesh well)

I met my boyfriend (Westrx7 or Badazz_Buklao) online, we did the long distance thing for awhile, and the phone bill whew (every month it was close to $200)...thank goodness that is over with...we're now living together and loving it...and have future plans together.

I think that about 1 out of every 100 internet relationship works.  It takes commitment, trust, and knowing that sooner or later one or the either will have to move.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Feb 17th, 2004, 12:09am
tarantada the thing is i'm not actually looking for true love anywhere  ;D coz i'm tired of looking. if he comes then let it be... but it really puzzles me how an online relationship works... I know that it can work coz i have so many MARRIED friends who met their partners on the net.... maybe all it needs is lots of patience n lots of call cards  ;D ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by ray69 on Feb 17th, 2004, 11:58pm
hey kimmy baby, how bout ur ebs . did it work?

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Feb 22nd, 2004, 10:35pm
ray i haven't met any of my friends on the net.... i'm kinda shy n scared  :D i am a wacky girl in here but i'm the shy type in person... now would you beleive that?  :P

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by okasantina on Mar 2nd, 2004, 1:04am
My kimmy babyyyyyyyyyyyyy :-*!! missed you online!!

Well how would you know?? mayeb you already experienced it thats why ure asking huh huh huh? hehehe ;D

True love can happen yes... of course why not? it can happen anywhere so why not here in net right?

Its much better now than b4 cause we can use the chatting, email, cams and everything just to be with someone unlike b4 only mails in post but there are some couple that their relationship clicked so theres no impossible to it.

As long as there is love, trust, honesty and faithfullness and that intimacy and passion to one another....and Communication as well....and Patience! :o ??? ::) ;D

asusssssssssssssssssssss!

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Mar 2nd, 2004, 3:33am
yep tina i've tried it  :P remember i had a an online bf before? cokane1967.... i was even asking casy for some advice on how to make it work  ;D... but then i guess it just wasn't ment to be.... But i can say that i did love him. I wanted to take the relationship further like spending time together in person but it never happened.. lack of communication on my part i guess... But hey as i've said i want to believe that it could work  :P ;)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by okasantina on Mar 23rd, 2004, 10:50am
Love yes on net is possible ;) but true love on net?? questionable ???

Maybe  seeing each other personally can lead to true love. ;)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kianna_andrea on Apr 3rd, 2004, 6:54pm
I just don't think it could work! End of the question.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by thebeast on Apr 4th, 2004, 11:33pm
Its hard but it happens. But i wonder what the percentage of it working is? I bet its low for every sucess i bet u have 100 not so successful kinda deal. What i dont understand is all of the single attractive and nice ladies over in PI. There must be a higher ratio of females to males over there. Online relationships would be hard for me cuz i dont want to lie about stuff and make promises i could never keep.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by mylane on Apr 5th, 2004, 3:26am

on 04/04/04 at 23:33:52, thebeast wrote:
What i dont understand is all of the single attractive and nice ladies over in PI. There must be a higher ratio of females to males over there.


as far as I know, PI don't have any male shortage....theres a lot of guys in PI especially in my place ;D

but i agree that the ratio of females is higher than male and not just in PI.... :)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kianna_andrea on Apr 5th, 2004, 11:29am

on 04/04/04 at 23:33:52, thebeast wrote:
Its hard but it happens. But i wonder what the percentage of it working is? I bet its low for every sucess i bet u have 100 not so successful kinda deal. What i dont understand is all of the single attractive and nice ladies over in PI. There must be a higher ratio of females to males over there. Online relationships would be hard for me cuz i dont want to lie about stuff and make promises i could never keep.


well Joel it's like this: My's right there isn't any male shortage here in the Philippines,..... and Filipino men are nice and good lovers as well (and the sweetest too I may add) :).....I can even picture myself growing old with a Filipino man....  :)  It isn't like Filipinas don't like Filipino men or that they find something wrong in them that they have to resort in having online relationships with someone so far away, with a different race and culture and stuffs.... I think it's just that sometimes you can't command your heart to choose who to like and who to love.... it just happens.... no matter how hard you try not to feel it.... online or wherever... but ur right though... online relationships are hard... but then again to some it worked.... well I guess everything happens for a reason,..if it's meant to happen then it's going to happen...if it's not then it's not...  :)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by MissFartyPants on Apr 27th, 2004, 6:25am
I'd like to think that the more effort you put into doing anything, the more poignant it becomes.

It's VERY hard as one can imagine, but shouldn't it be all worth it if you truly love that person?

I guess it's a question of one's willingness. How bad you want the relationship to work. Compromise/s and sacrfice/s.

But I personally think it's possible.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Apr 28th, 2004, 1:27am
kia i couldn't have said it any better. Pinays dont hate pinoys... And i am not a man hater too  ;D maybe love just happens when its about to happen. When its the right time. May it be on the net or not... As for me, i'm not inlove n i guess i am not looking for it now too. But when it comes, well i'd be more than willing to make it work.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kianna_andrea on Apr 30th, 2004, 9:36am
:) finally.... someone answered.... I was just about to delete my post... I felt like hanging in there...feeling like a fool... thanks cat and kim...  :) maybe someone's "allergic" to my post lol...  :D Anyway,... kim... you're right...don't go looking for love... it has it's own time, reason and season.... it should be looking for you...  :) Goodluck....

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by okasantina on Apr 30th, 2004, 6:40pm

on 04/30/04 at 09:36:08, kianna_andrea wrote:
:) finally.... someone answered.... I was just about to delete my post... I felt like hanging in there...feeling like a fool... thanks cat and kim...  :) maybe someone's "allergic" to my post lol...  :D Anyway,... kim... you're right...don't go looking for love... it has it's own time, reason and season.... it should be looking for you...  :) Goodluck....



What waz that again kianna baby?? ::) ::) ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by MissFartyPants on Apr 30th, 2004, 11:40pm

on 04/30/04 at 09:36:08, kianna_andrea wrote:
:) finally.... someone answered.... I was just about to delete my post... I felt like hanging in there...feeling like a fool... thanks cat and kim...  :) maybe someone's "allergic" to my post lol...  :D Anyway,... kim... you're right...don't go looking for love... it has it's own time, reason and season.... it should be looking for you...  :) Goodluck....


You're welcome Kianna.

I agree, don't go looking for it, for when you do - it's almost always the "cheap substitute" -- it will come to you when you least expect it  :)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by thebeast on May 1st, 2004, 7:17pm
I never said pinays hated pinoys or vice versa. I said the ratio is probably higher there for women than say somewhere else. Seems to be lots of single women and lots of single older women, but this is probably typical for a mostly catholic society.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by MissFartyPants on May 2nd, 2004, 3:00am
Hmmmm I'm thinking we've (Pinays) got higher standards than most  ;D

We don't settle.


Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by teagirl on May 2nd, 2004, 5:47am

on 05/02/04 at 03:00:30, MissFartyPants wrote:
Hmmmm I'm thinking we've (Pinays) got higher standards than most  ;D

We don't settle.


LMAO!!!

True love on the net? To quote Ebenezer Scrooge,

"BAH HUMBUG!"

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on May 4th, 2004, 5:28am

on 05/02/04 at 03:00:30, MissFartyPants wrote:
Hmmmm I'm thinking we've (Pinays) got higher standards than most  ;D

We don't settle.


wwaaahhhhoooooooo!!! Pinays RULE!!!  ;D :D ;)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on May 4th, 2004, 5:30am

on 05/02/04 at 05:47:13, teagirl wrote:
LMAO!!!

True love on the net? To quote Ebenezer Scrooge,

"BAH HUMBUG!"


may you are soooooo damn sweet  ;D :D ;D :D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by marleychelle on May 10th, 2004, 4:52am
i like to believe myself as it never happened to me coz i think its all actin at the end of the day u stil gotta see each other in person before true love thing attack..... opinion to it i think its just a way of meetin who ever it is u will meet:P:))

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by MissFartyPants on May 11th, 2004, 2:52am

on 05/04/04 at 05:28:11, kimmy_baby01 wrote:
wwaaahhhhoooooooo!!! Pinays RULE!!!  ;D :D ;)



Oh yes we do http://www.1freeworld.net/groups/YaBBImages/woot.gif

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by marleychelle on May 17th, 2004, 7:21am

on 05/04/04 at 05:30:16, kimmy_baby01 wrote:
may you are soooooo damn sweet  ;D :D ;D :D


LLMMAAOO@kimmkleklek [smiley=woot.gif]

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by deerhunter74105 on May 18th, 2004, 12:32am
i would like to think its  possible  although i havent  anyone online  yet:( [smiley=heartbeat.gif]

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Jun 24th, 2004, 12:06am
you can find true love in the most unlikely place you could ever imagine. But i dont think that you can have a relationship if its "just" on the net. You can start here but you'd have to spend time together in person before you can say its true love... Yes it could happen n it has happened but making an online relationship work is harder than the real thing, how can you be sure that your lover is telling you the truth???.... lets face it... The net is the perfect way to create so many diff lies. he/she could tell you sooooo many things that he just made up... my advice would be... dont fall inlove with someone you havent been with in real life... typing "i love you" in pm it so easy to do. But telling someone face to face that same thing is not that easy.. you can look in her/his eyes n know if he/she is telling the truth... get time to know each other.. then have sex... nyak nyak nyak  ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Analyn on Sep 22nd, 2004, 4:33am
:-/ :-X   :-X

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by okasantina on Sep 28th, 2004, 12:22pm

on 06/24/04 at 00:06:56, kimmy_baby01 wrote:
you can find true love in the most unlikely place you could ever imagine. But i dont think that you can have a relationship if its "just" on the net. You can start here but you'd have to spend time together in person before you can say its true love... Yes it could happen n it has happened but making an online relationship work is harder than the real thing, how can you be sure that your lover is telling you the truth???.... lets face it... The net is the perfect way to create so many diff lies. he/she could tell you sooooo many things that he just made up... my advice would be... dont fall inlove with someone you havent been with in real life... typing "i love you" in pm it so easy to do. But telling someone face to face that same thing is not that easy.. you can look in her/his eyes n know if he/she is telling the truth... get time to know each other.. then have sex... nyak nyak nyak  ;D



ANd what about the feelings?? ::) ::)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by nelson3082000 on Oct 27th, 2004, 10:12am
yes true its good to see in person but all starts here doesnt it :) :) :) :)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 5th, 2004, 11:59pm
its as good as the couple make it,it can be just fun all be the love of your life

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by meyie on Nov 8th, 2004, 11:45pm

on 06/24/04 at 00:06:56, kimmy_baby01 wrote:
you can find true love in the most unlikely place you could ever imagine. But i dont think that you can have a relationship if its "just" on the net. You can start here but you'd have to spend time together in person before you can say its true love... Yes it could happen n it has happened but making an online relationship work is harder than the real thing, how can you be sure that your lover is telling you the truth???.... lets face it... The net is the perfect way to create so many diff lies. he/she could tell you sooooo many things that he just made up... my advice would be... dont fall inlove with someone you havent been with in real life... typing "i love you" in pm it so easy to do. But telling someone face to face that same thing is not that easy.. you can look in her/his eyes n know if he/she is telling the truth... get time to know each other.. then have sex... nyak nyak nyak  ;D



well said lol..does it have  to be in order????

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 9th, 2004, 1:56am
no order make it up as we go lolz

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by killerabbit on Apr 27th, 2005, 9:51am
Realistically..hard to say...there are some success stories yes.But how do they stack up to the unsuccessful ones?Long distances require sacrifice.Well hell any relationship requires it but I think long distant relationships are more demanding.And stressful.And it all ends in bitterness.One of the two has to give up something to make the one of the two.Date locals,better fer ya:P

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Norkay on Apr 27th, 2005, 12:49pm

on 04/27/05 at 09:51:42, killerabbit wrote:
Realistically..hard to say...there are some success stories yes.But how do they stack up to the unsuccessful ones?Long distances require sacrifice.Well hell any relationship requires it but I think long distant relationships are more demanding.And stressful.And it all ends in bitterness.One of the two has to give up something to make the one of the two.Date locals,better fer ya:P

Since i'm the one who's reading this,let me give my thought about what you wrote.But wait, YOU date locals and don't suggest others or me since it's you who I see can't take challenges on long distant relationship.LOL.
I don't think either long distant love affair is demanding.I would rather see close or personal love affair as like that since you are both seeing each other and that, more responsibilities have to be given and taken from each other.


BT:
Having love affair with people online isn't always a smooth sailing experience. I met another guy off of the internet who looked incredibly beautiful in his photos and on webcam, but in person he was nerdy and not attractive to me at all. He was totally different from what I expected in too many ways for me to be able to accept him.

In conclusion, I think that online dating should be something that should not be given too much expectations. If you talk to somebody online for years who say, lives in another country or even just by neighborhood, you have a 50/50 chance of actually enjoying their company in person. My ex-boyfriend and I found that in person, we were both a lot different from what we expected each other to be like. Fortunately, we liked each other's company in person even more than online. There was only one thing and the biggest thing we differed ,our plan. He wanted "it" to happen like now,when I was never ready or didn't even have the thought of getting into "it" at that point and that I was the one who gave up on him, thinking that he wanted it right at that moment (or within that year to marry me) ,how much more  can he wait for more or many years? I was 25 when we met.



Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by killerabbit on Apr 27th, 2005, 6:20pm
If I have offended,then I am sorry and retract my statements.I was in a bad mood at the time.Got in a fight with my roomate here because she accused another roomate of vandalisim.I had to throw her out(she was behind on payments anyways) for her false accusations.I was fair although.I allowed her the courtesy of trying to prove these claims and when she failed (even the police verified that) I let her go.All I ask is peace from the people I shared my house with.That all arguements be taken somewhere else.But she was stubborn or just totally blonde!
Anyways to add to my prior post,I would love to think that love can flourish even through long distances.Its the romantic in me.And yes its very different when two meet.Natch,I stuck muh foot in muh mouth too far let me stop.:P

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Norkay on Apr 28th, 2005, 7:59am

on 04/27/05 at 18:20:26, killerabbit wrote:
If I have offended,then I am sorry and retract my statements.I was in a bad mood at the time.


You didn't offend anyone.It's your idea and you are always right in your own.I just shared about what I believe and think about online love affair since I found your idea totally different from mine.

But please,don't take your bad mood and leave here.

Sorry to hear the news, but ah  :o. a female room mate  ::)  :o

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Aftr_it on Apr 29th, 2005, 8:56am
Sooner or later :-[ Knowing my luck much later ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 8th, 2005, 7:56am
It's really hard falling for someone on the net. But given the chance it might work. Especially if both parties has invested a lot....emotionally, that is, and is willing to invest even more of whatever is needed. All it need is the willingness of both parties to make it work  I mean there has to be no lies between them and has great affection for each other and a lot of patience and understanding. Communication plays an important rule of course. But let's face it, one of the reason some fails is that there are lots of temptations here on the net. I mean you meet someone else, get to talk to him, get to like what he says, and before u knew it, you are already falling for the other person. And this goes for the men, too. Anyway, actual or on the net, there is no guarantee that anything will last long as in living happily ever after. I would rather leave it to fate and destiny, coz i believe in it.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Saffire_65 on Jul 16th, 2005, 2:16pm
[BT:
Having love affair with people online isn't always a smooth sailing experience. I met another guy off of the internet who looked incredibly beautiful in his photos and on webcam, but in person he was nerdy and not attractive to me at all. He was totally different from what I expected in too many ways for me to be able to accept him.

Does look ever matters in internet relationship? Well if you love him/her then accept him/her as what he/she is. Like a fav. quote of mine says.....Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright  [smiley=icon_drink.gif]  ;)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 26th, 2005, 4:24am

on 04/27/05 at 09:51:42, killerabbit wrote:
Realistically..hard to say...there are some success stories yes.But how do they stack up to the unsuccessful ones?Long distances require sacrifice.Well hell any relationship requires it but I think long distant relationships are more demanding.And stressful.And it all ends in bitterness.One of the two has to give up something to make the one of the two.Date locals,better fer ya:P



You sure its what you really want to do, wabbit? Can you really resists the allure of sweet pinays around you that are based here in PI? Just asking ;)


Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 26th, 2005, 4:35am

on 07/16/05 at 14:16:38, Saffire_65 wrote:
[b]BT:[/

Does look ever matters in internet relationship? Well if you love him/her then accept him/her as what he/she is. Like a fav. quote of mine says.....Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright  [smiley=icon_drink.gif]  ;)



For that, saffy....i wanna see u get hooked up with a cross-eyed, one arm shorter than the other, from head to foot he wears different  bright colored shirt and pants and socks and shoes, unkept hair, likes to pick his nose, gap-toothed-uneven teeth, ears like a wabbit and smells like a skunk too! Nyahahhaaha!!
[smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] Hey...its my dream man!! At least no matter where I leave him no other female would bother to take him away from me. ;) ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Forgettable on Jul 26th, 2005, 10:56am

on 07/16/05 at 14:16:38, Saffire_65 wrote:
Does look ever matters in internet relationship? Well if you love him/her then accept him/her as what he/she is. Like a fav. quote of mine says.....Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright  [smiley=icon_drink.gif]  ;)


Very good advise/quotation, Miss Saffire but I was aware I was posting about "True Love On The Net"and not under "Faith and Belief".

If you say "look" is not the first thing to make you fall in love with someone you met in the internet, I honestly don't think I believe you on that.If to fall in love with someone you can see and talk everyday,well yes, I can fall in love with him by other reasons/ways.

Personally, look doesn't really matter to me as long as...like what Wicked Witch said.....hahaha...you made me laugh there Witchy  ;).I am easier to fall in love with a guy by his sweetness, thoughtfulness and most of all by his patience.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by earthlingorgeous on Jul 27th, 2005, 12:29pm
Well Guys... here's what I have to ask all of you now... to wish for me and Jeff that all the cosmic forces would really conspire to give us what we mostly desire.

I have found my true love here on the net... chat mostly and especially in AC room....we've been together for a year and a half now.... but we are still waiting for the future to be our present... were working on something ... I will inform all of our supporters and fans out there who are so nice to us and supporting us all the way.

Yes net love needs lots of TRUST... this is the first thing you have to learn.... you should read my post on hmmmm whats that about love I can teach you.

True love on the net is really available... its just so sad that some abuse the system ... some play... some lie ... some cheat ... some some lol!

It doesn't really matter who goes to who's place first or who gets to meet who the first... the most important thing is you HAVE to meet!!!

I'll update you guys what happened to mine or what will happen in the next couple ofmonths.  CHeers!

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by earthlingorgeous on Jul 27th, 2005, 1:04pm
And well hmmmmm .... its true looks count also in net love coz really its the first thing you get to notice before you really get to know the person inside.

I'm so lucky my love is soooooooooooooo gorgeous... he is my sexy nerd ;)) nice abs ... sexy lips ... gorgeous eyes ;)) he is soooo damn HOT! and he is all MINE!!!!

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 28th, 2005, 3:42am
See? Im right about looks, earthy ;DI will not believe anyone who says otherwise. Unless of course you have known the person personally before falling for her/him. Let's face it, looks counts a lot. At least with the first impression. But I will never go so far as to say it counts more in a relationship. Maybe we are not really looking for someone who is totally gorgeous, because good looks can also be found with someone who has a pleasing personality. Like the way he carries himself for example. Lots of "not good-looking person" has charisma...and it makes them look gorgeous in the eyes of some.

I hope so too, earthy, that you and Jeff stays together for the rest of your lives coz I can see how much he cares for you. ;)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by gracia on Jul 28th, 2005, 9:46am
oh where is meyie now....she had a very .....hmm what can i say...frigid experience about looks.... ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by beth on Jul 28th, 2005, 9:22pm
looks eh? who was deceived by looks? ;D hmmm....

well looks not everything, but witchy does got a point there bwahahaha.....
in online relationship we need very high trust, cuz u can see them everyday on the cam... and u cant hide anything because when you meet him/her in real, the truth will appear asap [smiley=roll.gif]... and u'll get grumpy when his/her looks or personality were soooo very different when you met in real compare to when u talked over the internet.
And dont forget about his/her habits... maybe they got habits that they think it was normal but for you is very disgusting bwahahaha ever think about that?

But most of all.... l'm happy for u and jeff, earthling ;D congrats ;)

hmmm.... now back to meyie... hmmm.... do you think she will share to us about her experience on looks eh, partner? ;D ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by earthlingorgeous on Jul 29th, 2005, 11:47am
Well I was just so lucky that Jeff is so dang gorgeous ;)) Ofcourse looks is not everything.  There are lots of cute fishes in the ocean. But if not for Jeff's morethan looks...I don't think we won't go this far.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 30th, 2005, 5:45am
Gracie and Beth...i'll inform Meyie right away that she's wanted in this thread ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by IGGY_COSTA2003 on Jul 30th, 2005, 6:30am
ALL I KNOW IS. IT WORKED FOR CASY N ME..... IT TAKES MORE TIME AND EFFORT, BOTH PARTIES HAVE TO BE OPEN AND READY FOR IT....... COMMUNICATION ON AN EVERYDAY LEVEL.AND HONESTY. REMEMBER. LOVES IS A GROWING THING... DONT TOSS IN YOUR HAT B4 U R SURE. <<<<<<<<<<< LOVES CASY

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Forgettable on Jul 30th, 2005, 6:56am
Wow, here comes the best example!


Unfortunately Joey, we don't all have the opportunity you and Casy had in order to be successfull as you two, are.But it's very good and we're very thankful for the hope and encouragement you have brought to this thread.  ;)


Keep up your hope everyone.  :)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Coochie on Jul 30th, 2005, 7:04am
;D ;Dearth and costa more power to you both...I guess trust, the true love for each other, devotion, and  sacrifice must play an important rule when it comes to online relationship. ;D ;D

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by BeCool_in_Bicol on Aug 1st, 2005, 5:04am

on 07/30/05 at 06:30:37, IGGY_COSTA2003 wrote:
ALL I KNOW IS. IT WORKED FOR CASY N ME..... IT TAKES MORE TIME AND EFFORT, BOTH PARTIES HAVE TO BE OPEN AND READY FOR IT....... COMMUNICATION ON AN EVERYDAY LEVEL.AND HONESTY. REMEMBER. LOVES IS A GROWING THING... DONT TOSS IN YOUR HAT B4 U R SURE. <<<<<<<<<<< LOVES CASY


[qoute]wish someday i cud be able to speak these same lines in this very same thread too.....but with whom ??? now thats the million-dollar question ;D[/qoute]

Don't worry, Manay..someday you will have your share of the excitement and happiness of being in love and being loved in return, for real. Just hang in there ;)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Saffire_65 on Aug 29th, 2005, 3:42pm
Bleah!!! internet romance just not for me  [smiley=icon_super.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] lets get drunk hehehhehe

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 30th, 2005, 3:01am

on 08/29/05 at 15:42:32, Saffire_65 wrote:
Bleah!!! internet romance just not for me  [smiley=icon_super.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] lets get drunk hehehhehe


I hope you meet the most goodlooking and the most wonderful and the most loveable guy on the net and I hope he falls in love with you... next time you come online, Saffy![smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by earthlingorgeous on Aug 30th, 2005, 8:29am

on 07/30/05 at 06:56:33, Forgettable wrote:
Wow, here comes the best example!


Unfortunately Joey, we don't all have the opportunity you and Casy had in order to be successfull as you two, are.But it's very good and we're very thankful for the hope and encouragement you have brought to this thread.  ;)


Keep up your hope everyone.  :)


Yeah... keep the faith...besides online relationships can go as far as you want to take it...take it to the reality level is upto the two of you.

Iggy and Casy yeah...I know them too...good luck to us guys...and to others...may you find what you deserve...

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Fallen on Nov 14th, 2005, 8:33pm
Next question pls

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 15th, 2005, 3:01pm
internet romance is good but as many have typed its about commitment and honesty and yes the comment made dont jum into deep until u are sure when u are sure go for it full steam ahead

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Saffire_65 on Nov 15th, 2005, 4:14pm

on 08/30/05 at 03:01:45, Wicked_Witch wrote:
I hope you meet the most goodlooking and the most wonderful and the most loveable guy on the net and I hope he falls in love with you... next time you come online, Saffy![smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]



Awwww ty my twinnie witchy. If I found that most goodlooking and most wonderful and most loveable guy on the net would you please please allow us to borrow your broom so that we could fly to our dream love island for a weekend escapade?   ;)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 16th, 2005, 2:38am

on 11/15/05 at 16:14:30, Saffire_65 wrote:
Awwww ty my twinnie witchy. If I found that most goodlooking and most wonderful and most loveable guy on the net would you please please allow us to borrow your broom so that we could fly to our dream love island for a weekend escapade?   ;)


Awww shuckz, Twinnie! I can't believe you have just replied to this! I have posted this some 3 months ago! Hahahaha! But of course, your wish is my command, girly!(winkz)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Nov 16th, 2005, 12:29pm
well online relationship is hard cuz the distance n honesty is the best key... talking everyday, communicating everyday, sharing all things, open all things, make that person is the person that know the other the most. once you trust em, then it will be good but if its not the its hard, n we should forget it.

congrats for casy and joey ;) l wuv yah both :)
also for earth n jeff ;) my best luck fer yah :)

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 16th, 2005, 1:57pm
yes good luck to casy and iigyfull costa i wish them the best with there new baby soon and jeff and earthy be good and have a good realtionship, internet relationship has to be both commited and sayin to the one u love that u actually love them not makin them wait,

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Saffire_65 on Nov 16th, 2005, 2:04pm
hahah well said nelson! but why do i always have to wait.   ::) guess he never truely loves me huh.. ohwell life goes on  :P

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Nathy on Dec 11th, 2005, 11:14am
Why I don't believe that... ???

::) But defenetly the phone operator cards would like to answer this.... :P

[smiley=icon_drink2.gif] [smiley=icon_drink2.gif] [smiley=icon_drink2.gif] for the phone operators... [smiley=drummer.gif]

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by honey_dew on Jan 1st, 2006, 1:48am
::) ::) :PdONT KNOW. NEVER EXPERIENCE YET.

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by Justine on Jan 3rd, 2006, 1:03pm
Love can come from the most unexpected places.  I guess we just have to keep faith that true love will come, whether we believe in true love on the net or not

Title: Re: true love on the net??
Post by CooCHie on Jan 4th, 2006, 10:55pm

on 02/05/04 at 00:41:43, gracia wrote:
they say true love hit anywhere......out of a hundred there might be 5 or less......though more failues happen than success...one has to risk to find out if its true love or not.....or one will never know.


I guess the risk you take, persistance, loyalty, and expectations to each other contribute to the success of true love on the net.  As you said it Grace, you will never know if you wont take that risk.  As some might say, you can be what you can be on the net.  As other sum up, you fall in love first of how they type. I have notice that most people in chat tend to be more open to themselves when they are behind their computers.  The risk they take behind the computer seems less compare to when they are face to face with someone.  And that feeling  of being secure  develops as each type or talk to  each other over the net.  Some are very shy facing the real people.  And some, are  just dont care cause  to them they  cant see the reaction and what  the other person might do because they are not real in their perception.  This is a cyberworld.   There are  some who take advantage your being insecure, and yet there are that are honest and true.   Take the flight, and take the risk...but then you have to prepare yourself the consequences of that risk!!!It could be painful yet it could be great if it will turns out to be your greatest expectation for both of you then I'm pretty sure it will be a long lasting relationship!!!
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