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(Message started by: pure_evil_demonz on Dec 12^th, 2005, 8:34pm)

Title: why are people alone
Post by pure_evil_demonz on Dec 12^th, 2005, 8:34pm

tell how you can have family like uncles, aunts, mothers, fathers, and children and be alone. you love someone and they go away or cheat on you . you love again and it only works one way. is the person just unloveable or not mean for someone to love. so please describe your answers

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by la_shy_girl_90802 on Dec 12^th, 2005, 8:52pm

on 12/12/05 at 20:50:38, la_shy_girl_90802 wrote:

:)when i got married it waz the most wonderful thing i ever felt and then some thing happened and now im getting a divorce so i guess it waz never ment for me to be happy :'(

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by pure_evil_demonz on Dec 12^th, 2005, 9:00pm

sorry shy girl i know the feeling i am divorced my wedding day was gr8 too but it ended badley then i had a girlfriend and she is in nyc now and i am in nc like seven hundred miles away i really don't think she loves me or she would be here i had her here and she wanted to go back to nyc so i sent her and she hardley calls or writes so it is hard to cope with that factors in my life i feel as no one wants me at all or i am not worth being here...

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by feso on Dec 12^th, 2005, 11:57pm

http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c126/dj_feso/fasdfa.jpg

does this answer your question????thats me singin to myself like a jackass......singing duwop or shubop shubop...or something like that sound really ridiculous....lol....thats why im alone....feel free to laugh

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by Wicked_Witch on Dec 13^th, 2005, 12:11am

I think this topic is best suited at the "Love and Relationship" section ;). Some are alone by choice, some are alone under some circumstances. But I think mosly because they are the independent sort of people. Some don't even want to be bothered taking care of or looking after someone else. And too, we are used to living with our own families and not share the house of someone else unless we share with the expenses also? Or they allow others to share the place where they live?

Feso...what is ur pic doing here?? :P

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by feso on Dec 13^th, 2005, 12:34am

oh...hi witchy....i was just explainin why im alone

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by nOrKAy on Dec 13^th, 2005, 12:29pm

That's a good looking picture of you ,Feso. Now, another one for the girls to vote. ;D

Well, actually, this is a question for myself, as well.

First, why am I alone and my family are not with me? Because of job locations, we differ.

Second, why am I alone/single ? ( if this is what this topic actually refering about ) Simply because, no one likes to be with me. Hahaha. Joke. :P Seriously speaking, I choose to still remain single. Having said that, I don't mean I am not open to any relationship, if there's any offer.LOL. Again,seriously, I still want to see what I really want in life,what really is my choice and most of all, what really is planned for me. ;D

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by jamit2you on Dec 13^th, 2005, 1:13pm

:)idont know why im alllllllllll alone but one day soon i hope i wont be alone any more ::) ihope any pray santa will bring me that one and only wifeeeeeeee so iwont be alone any moreeeeeeeee :'(

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by Wicked_Witch on Dec 13^th, 2005, 3:47pm

on 12/13/05 at 13:13:34, jamit2you wrote:

:)idont know why im alllllllllll alone but one day soon i hope i wont be alone any more ::) ihope any pray santa will bring me that one and only wifeeeeeeee so iwont be alone any moreeeeeeeee :'(

Get ready, Jamie...SAnta's dropping me in your chimney on the x'mas eve so you won't be alone anymore! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]With me, you will regret you ever asked Santa to give you someone!! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]Co'z I'm more of a punishment than a gift!! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by jamit2you on Dec 13^th, 2005, 6:17pm

welllllll illllllllllll be right there ta catch ya comeing down the chimmy so we can have fun fun wichy :) ;) ;Dwahoooooooooooooooooooooooeeeeeeee well im alone right now cuzwell ok idf every one want ta know iv been married 2time frist wife iv got 2great kids one son and one daughtermy son has 5kids that3sonsand 2daughtersthat5grandkids and my daughter has one son and one daughter and one on the way so imgoing ta be grandpa 8time :) now my second wife iv got no kids she was a nut she tryed ta burn me she went crazywhen she drank iv not seen her in 15yrs ithought iwas divorice from her but found out differnt well i befree from her very very soon so now im trying to find some one to be with im tired of been aloneiv not been with in any one stedy in long time becuse ???iwell ibleavein being with just one person not 2or3so this time im hopeing to find the right lady to hope 2live the rest of my life with :)but iv got hurt on job3yrs agoand had all this court stuff going on and now its all most over the court stuff so ill be abeto be free and done with thingso ican work on finding awife to live with nd no be alone any more well that my boreing life said really quick hope ididnt bore every one to death have greatday ;D

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by la_shy_girl_90802 on Dec 13^th, 2005, 6:25pm

hey im only 22 i have all the time in the world to fine that true love but 4 now im going to stay single 4 a long ass time ......... or feso you can change my mine 4 me :P :P :P jk

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by pure_evil_demonz on Dec 13^th, 2005, 6:34pm

well my being alone is by cercamsance... me being single is not by choice i am divorced and had a girlfriend and it did not work out and still confusing... wondering what i did wrong ya know... tring to figer why life has turned me down this road... i wonder what is planed for me in the future... what the man has planed for me... and wondering have i missed my calling ... and is this the punishment for not doing what i was called to do... or is it just to be a life experence that is the question... of being uterley alone in the world

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by pure_evil_demonz on Dec 13^th, 2005, 6:34pm

by the way these are good answers i hope i get more of them

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by nOrKAy on Dec 14^th, 2005, 5:24am

on 12/13/05 at 18:34:07, pure_evil_demonz wrote:

Pure_evil_demonz, I can feel some sort of desperation there. This is the only answer I can give. PERFECT TIME WILL COME AND TELL. I believe, that's not a punishment, but something given to learn,from the mistake or wrong decision you made. So, hang on , bro! ;D

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by earthlingorgeous on Dec 14^th, 2005, 11:21am

on 12/13/05 at 18:34:07, pure_evil_demonz wrote:

Hello pure_evil_demon:

I agree with what Krissy said, there's perfect time for everything...
and sometimes like what u cited on ur first post... about old members of the family getting after some time ... well the youger generations have their own life to live... the old ones gone through the same before... so the older ones are left alone I hope not feeling lonely though...but sometimes they feel lonely too...feeling neglected and unwanted...but its because there are younglings to take care off the older ones are left ...

about the cheating or the leaving of the other partner... there's a reason for it and well unless we are in that situation we can never really know for sure... the one's who gut hurt are so hurt that they only have in mind the hurt that happened to them and can't analyze what when wrong when their partner leave them....
... but its the cheater who has bigger fault coz she/he didn't respect the other persons feelings when she/he did that...

i am mostly alone... specially when I do my work... i have to concentrate and write...I am alone but not lonely though...but sometimes I want time alone and be left alone too...space for myself...

we are alone because;
1) we choose to and;
2) situation calls for it

we won't be alone if;
1) we choose to and;
2) the situation calls for it too.

The thing is we choose what happens to our lives and we are affected by what's happening in our environment, weather we like it or not. This happens.

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by pure_evil_demonz on Dec 14^th, 2005, 10:27pm

well earthling... i feel there are some situations we have on control over now matter what it is... but i understand your answer... and i like the input you give me... i like to be alone but not utlertly alone like i am now.... and cooch no matter what i am still here just alone lol

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by Wicked_Witch on Dec 15^th, 2005, 5:43am

on 12/14/05 at 22:27:34, pure_evil_demonz wrote:

.... and cooch no matter what i am still here just alone lol

Does this mean you need Cooch to be with you? ;D

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by Gracia on Dec 24^th, 2005, 3:57am

being alone is often a choice made by the person concern. he/she has reasons why he/she wants to be alone...but i'm sure...only very few wants to be alone forever.

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by CapuchinO on Dec 25^th, 2005, 3:52pm

Nobody wants to be to be lonely::) ::)...but it sometimes happen..and sometimes we need to be alone...and i am always trying to enjoy it ...but...i guess you would never be alone...you just too lonely to see it... ??? ??? ??? i am lost my self...help :P :P

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by ReeBop on Dec 27^th, 2005, 2:57am

Yes Cap, being alone does "happen". In no way, shape or form do I fit in this current decade of shinyness and bling factor. I read way too much, find out things on my own without asking unless I have to and don't care if my things are bigger and more shiny than someone elses. This attitude seems to scare women in my area to death. I do believe however, that II have found the right person for me if she believes in me....;)
Yes, the holidays at this time of year are hard for me....

Title: Re: why are people alone
Post by Justine on Dec 27^th, 2005, 10:45pm

on 12/27/05 at 02:57:49, ReeBop wrote:

I do believe however, that II have found the right person for me if she believes in me....;)

True there. A person who truly loves you will be someone who's able to understand your past, believe in your future and accept you as what you are today.