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(Message started by: mixin4livin on Feb 12th, 2006, 5:33am)
Title: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a relat
Post by mixin4livin on Feb 12th, 2006, 5:33am
"Language Barrier"Does it Effect a relationship?

Let's see everyones openion about it. I'm posting a link below please feel free to click on it and checkout a small egsample (it may take a few minuites to load).



http://www.funlol.com/funpages/language-barrier.html
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Wicked_Witch on Feb 12th, 2006, 7:51am
Of course it does. How we communicate with each other is very importants so there will be no confusions. Take this this joke for example:

Subject:  FW: New EUR-English
   >
   >
   >>
   >>
   >>European Commission has just announced an agreement whereby English
   >>will be the official language of the European Union rather than German,
   >>which was the other possibility.
   >>
   >>As part of the negotiations, the British Government conceded that
   >>English spelling had some room for improvement and has accepted a
   >>5- year phase-in plan that would become known as " Euro-English".
   >>
   >>In the first year, "s" will replace the soft "c". Sertainly, this
   >>will make the sivil servants jump with joy.
   >>
   >>
   >>The hard "c" will be dropped in favour of "k". This should klear up
   >>konfusion, and keyboards kan have one less letter.
   >>
   >>
   >>There will be growing publik enthusiasm in the sekond year when the
   >>troublesome "ph" will be replaced with "f". This will make words
   >>like fotograf 20% shorter.
   >>
   >>
   >>In the 3rd year, publik akseptanse of the new spelling kan be
   >>expekted to reach the stage where more komplikated changes are possible.
   >>
   >>Governments will enkourage the removal of double letters which have
   >>always ben a deterent to akurate speling.
   >>
   >>Also, al wil agre that the horibl mes of the silent "e" in the
   >>languag is disgrasful and it should go away.
   >>
   >>By the 4th yer people wil be reseptiv to steps such as replasing
   >>"th" with "z" and "w" with "v".
   >>
   >>During ze fifz yer, ze unesesary "o" kan be dropd from vords
   >>kontaining "ou" and after ziz fifz yer, ve vil hav a reil sensi bl riten styl.
   >>
   >>Zer vil be no mor trubl or difikultis and evrivun vil find it ezi tu
   >>understand ech oza. Ze drem of a united urop vil finali kum tru.
   >>
   >>Und efter ze fifz yer, ve vil al be speking German like zey vunted
   >>in ze forst plas.
   >>
   >>If zis mad you smil, pleas pas on to oza pepl.
 
See? How are we going to understand what the other meant if we will have a hard time understanding what we are trying to say to each other? [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Justine on Feb 12th, 2006, 8:13pm
lolol sistah!

True though, good communication maintains a relationship well.  Some people in relationships speak the same language and still encounter problems rising from poor communication, what more for those people who speak different languages...
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Wicked_Witch on Feb 13th, 2006, 2:04am
I agree, sistah. I have read somewhere that lovers only need body language, but it's not applicable all the time, eh? You should see a "clip" of these language barrier RJ sent me, it's a hilarious conversation about a german coast guard and the mayday call from an american sinking ship! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Justine on Feb 13th, 2006, 5:14am
hehe...send it to me
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Wicked_Witch on Feb 15th, 2006, 3:44am

on 02/13/06 at 05:14:53, Justine wrote:
hehe...send it to me


I have to ask RJ to send it to you. I don't have the link anymore and he was the one who send me that one. Can you imagine having a relationship with someone, then all the while he was trying to get you pregnant and you're doing your best to avoid it coz you both misunderstood each other? Or a girl still waiting for the guy to come back because she thought the boyfriend just went out to buy something when the other guy has already told her he's going away for good?
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Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by mixin4livin on Feb 27th, 2006, 7:28am

on 02/15/06 at 03:44:42, Wicked_Witch wrote:
I have to ask RJ to send it to you. I don't have the link anymore and he was the one who send me that one. Can you imagine having a relationship with someone, then all the while he was trying to get you pregnant and you're doing your best to avoid it coz you both misunderstood each other? Or a girl still waiting for the guy to come back because she thought the boyfriend just went out to buy something when the other guy has already told her he's going away for good?
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The Link is posted above , click on link and click watch vedio . Anyway heres the link again  ;Dhttp://www.funlol.com/funpages/language-barrier.html
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Justine on Feb 27th, 2006, 9:56pm
lol yea, I finally saw that lol
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Gracia on Feb 28th, 2006, 4:52am
In a relationship, sometimes if not most of the time, we communicate  just for the sake of communication, but we're not open.  We share stories of others but failed to share our very own because of some few reasons, shyness for one.  We feel embarrassed because the other might interpret it differently or worst it might angered him/her. It's kind of awkward too.    It might bore her/him. Men in general tend to be quite secretive too, not communicative or if ever they talk, it's not about themselves but others.  Men in general are not comfortable to talk about their feelings, emotions all the time.  One is enough for them.   Oh well, a long  lasting relationship needs to communicate daily, openly and with all honesty.  

Am I making sense? LOL
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Wicked_Witch on Feb 28th, 2006, 5:14am
Gracia, what you said make sense but I think RJ was referring to like for example a relationship between a Pinay and a German who both do not speak english?
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by mixin4livin on Feb 28th, 2006, 10:13am

on 02/28/06 at 05:14:35, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Gracia, what you said make sense but I think RJ was referring to like for example a relationship between a Pinay and a German who both do not speak english?


Hey Witchy don't be so rude on Grace ... Think she has a point too. If there ain't propper communication between the couple the love life wont be a success. To comunicate the language barrier does effect.. thats what she meant if Im not mistaken ;D
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Gracia on Mar 2nd, 2006, 5:00am
Nahhh RJ....Witchy is not that.....clarification is always best ;D...i'm sure you guys understand what I meant...so that all that matters ;)

Problem was...i can't open the link RJ pasted here....so here I am ..barking up on the wrong tree [smiley=spank.gif]...but I don't have regrets telling that, it's just that, it was what i'm feeling that moment and i need to have it out...for some reasons. ::)  I'm no good in that area too :'(
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 2nd, 2006, 5:13am

on 02/28/06 at 10:13:46, mixin4livin wrote:
Hey Witchy don't be so rude on Grace ... Think she has a point too. If there ain't propper communication between the couple the love life wont be a success. To comunicate the language barrier does effect.. thats what she meant if Im not mistaken ;D


Idiot! What Grace posted really make sense and it's true ...but I thought you were asking about "language barrier"? Which means they are communicating but hardly understanding each other? Don't go patronizing people, stick to your topic.
::)
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Gracia on Mar 3rd, 2006, 5:53am
Cool down guys.....we don't want another misunderstanding...especially not because of what i'm posting...pleaseeeee........let's be merry and be happy...life is too short to waste on petty things... ;D
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by mixin4livin on Mar 12th, 2006, 1:36pm
http://www.youtube.com/v/noUyaoGlvBg
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 13th, 2006, 1:16am

on 03/03/06 at 05:53:36, Gracia wrote:
Cool down guys.....we don't want another misunderstanding...especially not because of what i'm posting...pleaseeeee........let's be merry and be happy...life is too short to waste on petty things... ;D


Nahhh...don't worry about RJ and me, Grace, we are so comfortable with each other we can say anything to each other without feeling bad about it. I think in my past life he was a pest to me, like a younger brother maybe? One that I used to drown in a tub, or in a pond because he always steal my dolls? [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Zed_Sg on Mar 28th, 2006, 8:00am

I say it does..it can create misunderstandings especially if ur accents are very different from each other.I remember one time being misunderstood because of my (Singapore) accent.She even said my accent sucks lol. :-[
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 30th, 2006, 5:49am
I'm sorry to hear that, Zed. But then who knows? Maybe it's a blessing in desguise that she chose to misunderstood ur intent? Im sure you get lucky the next time. Just hang in there. :-*
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by bad_day_me on Nov 24th, 2006, 2:31pm
language barrier...is not a problem...if u can't understand each other do the sign language..i bet it works!!! ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Nathy on Nov 24th, 2006, 3:09pm
Well, what about body language? ;D ;D

Language is really important, at the first time I know my hubby, he didnīt speak much English and I didnīt speak Spanish too. We had really much problems within our relationship, I remember once I had to wait at least 30-40 minutes for him to reply my email in English. Itīs so hilarious.

But I know a couple here. Sheīs Rumanian, canīt speak Spanish and her husband is Spanish. She has just arrived to Spain for almost 4 months and theyīve met in one of the restaurant. I donīt know how they comunicate because the girl didnīt speak Spanish but they have been together now for almost 3 months. Now her Spanish is getting better, but...how come she talks to her partner without understanding each other  ??? ???
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 28th, 2006, 4:53am
Nathy sis, when two people are in love, their hearts understands a lot than more than mere words can say. ;)
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by bad_day_me on Dec 4th, 2006, 9:33am


when two people are in love, their hearts understands a lot than more than mere words can say.>>>>>:


youre absolutely right mom.....

   when two people inlove they can understand each other!!
Title: Re: "Language Barrier"Does it Effect a r
Post by bad_day_me on Dec 20th, 2006, 1:28pm



           ;D ;D ;D guess this is our problem....lmao!!!!!!




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