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(Message started by: CooCHie on Mar 16^th, 2006, 7:28pm)

Title: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by CooCHie on Mar 16^th, 2006, 7:28pm

Types of Love(Footnote from Link 2love)

This section explores research about love and relationships and provides some of the results of studies and analyses.
The sources from which they are drawn are cited, and links provided to the online sites which will provide you with more in-depth analysis.

"Two California sociologists, Thomas Lasswell and Terry Hatkoff, have developed a Love Scale:

Romantic love --this lover thinks constantly about the loved one, is jealous, unrealistic, will tolerate anything, is sexually attracted by physical appearance, needs repeated reassurance he/she is loved in return. Typically lasts a few months or a few years (some anthropologists say it lasts 4 years, i.e. until the baby is through nursing and can walk and run. Then the love bond releases the more powerful males to find another female to impregnate with his genes.)

Best friend or companionate love --this lover enjoys the companionship and intimacy of a close friendship. It is a comfortable, slowly developing, trusting, committed relationship, not intense excitement, desperation, or sexual obsessions.

Unselfish love --the lover is devoted and self-sacrificing to the loved one, gives without expecting anything in return, is gentle, caring, and dutiful.

Logical love--the lover carefully selects the "right person" logically, looking for someone with compatible interests, similar education and religion, a harmonious personality, common values, and long-term goals.

Game-playing love --this person may be charming but is hardly a lover; he/she merely enjoys the dating game. He/she relishes the meeting, the impressing, the seducing, the challenge of a conquest but usually makes it clear there is little or no long-term commitment to the other person.

Is this true or not?>>>>post it away!!!!

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by Fugi on Mar 16^th, 2006, 9:40pm

I prefere the love we share coochie lol

The part where u get desperate chasing me and i play hard to get :P

We have the laughs, no commitment, no strings attached unless u wearing one lol
Anyways it's good to have you as my chatpartner... thx for all the good laughs and goodluck in finding the one for you... Don't forget i'll be your number one friend picking on u :P

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by CooCHie on Mar 16^th, 2006, 9:43pm

:)aww wuv you too Fugi..Can you chase me now....lets change place, i play hard to get u chase me now... :o :o :oYou can chase me cause im slower...remember Im an old fart ya know :) :) :)

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by Fugi on Mar 16^th, 2006, 9:49pm

Coochie the only way that would happen is when there is gonna be a big $$$ sign under your picture.... i would chase u with my big riffle :P

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by CooCHie on Mar 16^th, 2006, 9:50pm

;D ;D ;DHey i prefer a string ...string i can use to choke ...hehehehe ...can i choke it now ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by CooCHie on Mar 16^th, 2006, 9:51pm

Ok back to regular programming... commercial is over... ;D ;D

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by Fugi on Mar 16^th, 2006, 9:51pm

ok wake up coochie we both know that's not gonna happen back to the forum which love would you prefer

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by CooCHie on Mar 16^th, 2006, 9:53pm

I go for unselfish love and logical..with a spice of romantic love :) and a portion of companion love...when your as an old fart as I am, you long for that part ...someone who u will say someday...honey where is the beef? and still got the laff of your life till both your false teeth fall down;D

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by Fugi on Mar 16^th, 2006, 10:07pm

I would go for unselfish love, in a relationship it's about giving and taking and both partners should be on an equal step, also a bit of romance to keep the sparkles alife and it's nice to be surprised by your partner when growing old together so you still feel that she/he loves you and finds you attractive, and finally some best friend love cause i think it's nice to have a lover that's your best friend at the same time and you are able to discuss everything with her/him and that you are strongly connected to each other so there are no misunderstandings...

Just follow your heart when you choose your partner i'm sure everybody will meet mrs or mr RIGHT... she/he might be waiting around the corner... It's no use in looking for love... Love finds you.... goodluck and have a great day everybody

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 17^th, 2006, 4:28am

For the most part I think it's true, Pards. But if I have to choose which one better suits me according to their definitions...I would prefer Friendship/Companionate Love. Shucks, I never thought there was so much emotional problems involved in having a Romantic kind of Love. But now that I think about it, they are all real and they all happens sooner or later one way or another. Companionate Love is cool then. No pressures and the feelings towards each other are slowly built, making it more surely and lasting.
I would hate the Game-playing....and Logical Love sounds so....cold, as if there are no emotions involved, just compatability.
And Unselfish love sounds stupid. They shoot martyrs these days, that is if constant nagging from friends and families don't do you in first.

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by mytoyisaharley48 on Apr 7^th, 2006, 12:13am

Baby I agree with you ,but i think to put love in a category is what is wrong with love and romance today. there so many kinds of love not mentioned .I think humanity has spent sp much time studying love that we forgot what real love is. to say we have studied love is impossible and somewhat of a joke .how can you truely study love, can you map it out,put it under a magnifying glass,can we test it? My feelings about romantic love is sure to differ from yours,I think would be a wonderful thing for all humanity if we stopped trying to study it and just felt it.

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by thebeast on Apr 7^th, 2006, 2:04am

What about hot monkey love? ;D....Look I think its foolish to try to categorize something like love. Love is love and it can be shown in lots of ways. And one type isnt necessarily better than the other. I think it has a lot to do with the way a person was raised. If a kid was raised in a way where he was not loved or abused in some way..chances are he is gonna be the same kind of way. And I think there are lots of other categories of love as well. Tough love is one that is used a lot as well.

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by CooCHie on Apr 7^th, 2006, 3:54am

on 04/07/06 at 02:04:41, thebeast wrote:

What is Monkey love Joel? LMAO

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by Wicked_Witch on Apr 8^th, 2006, 5:40am

Dang...why are you guys biting Coochie's head off? She did not write it. It was just an excerpt from an article she found! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]

And baby? We do not categorized LOVE on purpose. But we see those different kind of love as it happens. They have just decided to put a name in some. Of course there are other types of love unmentioned. But the thing is, they do have a kind or type. :P

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by okasantina on Apr 8^th, 2006, 9:19pm

I think thats true Joel ;)

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by mytoyisaharley48 on Apr 9^th, 2006, 6:25am

sorry baby ,I just think love is felt not studied

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by Wicked_Witch on Apr 9^th, 2006, 7:53am

Nothing to be sorry about, we have it so we feel it. I think ours is the Bestfriends Companionate Love....sexually frustrated? [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] Joke, Papa! Mwahhz! :-*

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by CooCHie on Apr 9^th, 2006, 8:17am

on 04/08/06 at 05:40:40, Wicked_Witch wrote:

Dang...why are you guys biting Coochie's head off? She did not write it. It was just an excerpt from an article she found! [smile=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]

Thanks Pards..Yeah ..I just think its a topic to discuss and comment on ...

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by CooCHie on Apr 9^th, 2006, 8:26am

on 04/09/06 at 06:25:08, mytoyisaharley48 wrote:

sorry baby ,I just think love is felt not studied

Simple things can be so complex due to the fact what we all make it too complicated.... we study, research and so forth...we build and destroy things and scrutinize every bit of things we do to comprehend and make improvements and I guess this applies to everything we sense. And LOVE itself is too complex cause we create it that way. And giving and receiving them can be implied and understand in different ways in which the involvement of categorizing them is one way to comprehend and understand the complication of what love is. But then again, like what you said Jerry, love cannot be study..however, we study the pattern, behavior of how we fall out of love to make it better.

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by mytoyisaharley48 on Apr 12^th, 2006, 6:03am

well now that I have been spanked for opening my mouth ,it's time to get my foot out ,points taken lady's

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by Wicked_Witch on Apr 17^th, 2006, 1:33pm

on 04/12/06 at 06:03:38, mytoyisaharley48 wrote:

well now that I have been spanked for opening my mouth ,it's time to get my foot out ,points taken lady's

Baby....pls don't get discourage when we argue in here. :-* We do that to bring out the best in men. And you know that women tend to be argumentative when their men forget to say "yes, you're right dear" the first time they are asked? [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by bad_day_me on May 27^th, 2009, 8:40am

;D is there real love???? wish i have 1

Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by cuddlydereksun on Jul 21^st, 2009, 5:59am

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Title: Re: ***Types of Love which one you prefer?****
Post by Ligaya on Oct 8^th, 2009, 5:06pm

on 07/21/09 at 05:59:43, cuddlydereksun wrote:

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