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Title: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did not. Post by Wicked_Witch on May 2nd, 2006, 7:49am This topic will be about some stories we heard concerning online relationships. Anyone is free to write a story here but the names of the people involved will be kept in confidentiality. So the names of the characters involved will just be fictional as we write it although it really happened or is happening to some people we know or don't know. It can be a friend, an officemate, a friend of a friend or anyone else. Some has success stories and some have disappointing or frustrating ones. If needed, we can also give advice to those who ask for it. All they need is give us the situation and why it is confusing them. DISCLAIMER: We are not here to judge anyone but we will be here to give moral support to those who were hurt and cheer those who made it and are living happily with the partner they met online. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on May 2nd, 2006, 8:35am For a starter, I will post one with a happy ending. This is the story of my sister's neighbor. Linda (not her real name of course) is an ordinary employee working as a legal secretary in one of a law offices in Quezon City. Since the laywer has flunked bar exams, their clients are only limited to those who cannot afford the fees of qualified lawyers. Most of the time, people only come to have some documents notarized. Linda uses a computer, her boss said it will make their small office look dignified. For this reason alone, we can already surmised that she is underpaid. But she doesn't mind coz she is not doing anything else but sits in the office and wait for potential clients. Besides, she has no choice but to accept the job since she can't find anything else. So most of the time, she just sits idly in the office surfing the net, mostly to check her astrology reading for the day. And if someone would come and would want to talk to her boss personally, she will just dial his number at home and tell him he is needed. The office is located just in front of his house. On one of those idle days, she was getting bored and remembered a friend's comment about yahoo chat. She downloaded everything and was soon checking chatrooms. She found one she likes and she would just sit there and watch while chatters talk to each other. After a few months, she has made some friends and learned to really chat. One time she got a pm from a man. He is from Egypt. Linda is still single at 28. Not pretty but she has a bubbly personality. She also has a boyfriend working in a garment factory. Linda has two younger sisters who are both in highschool. Her mother sells vegetables in the market. Her father has long been gone to who knows where. They were just renting a one-bedroom house. To make the story short, Linda and the man got to know each other well. And was soon meeting each other regularly online. He is older than her by 12 years and a divorcee with no children of his own. After a year, he came to see her in the Philippines. And since they are already comfortable with each other, their first meeting in person was not as akward as they first thought it would be. He fall in love with her some more. And a year after, he came back to marry her. He bought a small house for her mother and sisters because he promised to take care of them. He sends her money regularly too, now that they are married. Linda did not love the man but she has a good heart. She is grateful for everything he has done for her and her family so she broke up with her boyfriend and refused to have an affair with him or to even see him again no matter how much she has come to love him in their 4 years of relationship, no matter how much he tried to convince her that her husband will never know. The husband even gave her mother some money so she can put up a store in front of their house. Linda left for Egypt last month, leaving behind her teary-eyed mother and sisters who promised her they will take good care of each other. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on May 3rd, 2006, 5:45am Story # 2. Evelyn comes from a broken family. Her father is a big womanizer who likes young women. He has a good job as a management consultant and earns a lot too, so he can afford to date anyone he fancies. Because of his lifestyle, his wife left him and brought their two kids with her, Evelyn and her young brother. And so they started living their own separate lives. The financial support they receive monthly from her father enable them to have their own lifestyle and kinda spoiled Evelyn. She hangs out with the wrong sets of friends who thinks nothing of having sexual relationships with boyfriends after boyfriends. She learned how to chat and even got daring with the men she met online. One day she met a man who talks fancy. She got so attracted to him that she disregarded her other friends and concentrated on him. Soon they started talking about kinky stuffs which really excites them both. They would try to seduce each other that it gets them both masturbating while chatting. They talk of how and where they both want to be touched and what they would both want to do with each other if they are really having sex for real. Until it got to a point that the man now wanted her badly and in person. So they agreed to meet. He gave her the address of his condominium and the time he would be home. They talk some more of how "hot" it was going to be for them now that it's going to be for real. Evelyn found the condo right away. She was not surprise when the man at the reception area handed her the key to his room, she expected it. But she also knew that she was early. Feeling so excited now, she went straight to the bedroom. She took a shower, dimmed the light and was lying naked on the bed waiting for him when she heard the door opened in the living room. She striked a seductive pose and waited for him to open the bedroom door. The man, coming from outside couldn't make anything out of the darkness inside his own bedroom so he turned on the light. They both stared in shock at each other. It was the father and his daughter. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Gracia on May 5th, 2006, 3:55am Witchy, i saw Melissa Mendez last night in Star Patrol, she was at the airport meeting her boyfriend, an American-Japanese whom she met in the chat room. Never thought an actress like her will enjoy chatting too. Oh well, seems the guy is nice and hope it ends well between them. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on May 6th, 2006, 7:40am Yes, Grace...I saw her too. And I think a lot of people find online chatting quite interesting. I mean the single ones who are looking for a possible partner in life. Even Sharon Cuneta's daughter KC when she's abroad spend a lot of time chatting online also. I read about it from a teen magazine. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on May 10th, 2006, 8:32am Story # 3. Mylene is a sexy looking girl. She has big breasts and a beautiful body. She has this exotic look of a typical filipina. She only got as far as second year in high school but got bored with school and decided to go to Japan. She has been working in Japan for 6 years now, occassionally coming home at the end of her contract. Mylene is not a sociable person. She only cares about money and how to get it. She learned how to chat thru a friend who bought a computer for her younger brother in the Philippines. She rather liked the idea that there are men on the net who would go crazy over her because of what she can show them. Later on, she got smarter and was soon seducing several older men from different countries into having a relationship with her. She was a very smart girl, full of charm. She always know the right thing to say to all her boyfriends. Sometimes she play coy with them, sometimes aggressive. If they asked to see her naked on cam she accomodate the requests making them believe that she was doing it out of love for the guy. She has even promised to marry several of them, too. Soon money kept pouring in from the stories she made up so they will take pity on her. When the Japanese Embassy put the hiring of entertainers on hold, she decided to brave it out and hide with friends instead of going back home to the Philippines when her last contract expired. She doesn't want to go back home because there is no guarantee that she can still go back to Japan. She likes the easy money and the popularity she enjoys working at nightclubs. For a while she was able to maintain her lifestyle by charming japanese men. She speaks the language fluently by now so it's easy for her to fool unsuspecting customers. In no time at all, she was able to save lots of jewelries and electronic equipments which she planned to send to the Philippines to her family, along with lots of money. But one day her luck ran out. She was caught by the immigration while performing at a smaller night club. From the apartment she shared with some other girls, she was handcuffed and was brought straight to the jail at the immigration office. They padlocked the apartment and she was not allowed to bring anything other than the clothes on her back and her wallet which only contains some smaller bills. Her savings and the jewelries are inside her big suitcase which she kept under lock and key inside her cabinet. From the jail, she soon found out that she will be sent home directly from the jail to the airport. They will not even allow visitors to bring anything to her other than foodstuffs. In short, when she went home, she was forced to leave behind everything she has saved. She did not even have any money on her person. She lost all her contact numbers. She is home now but can't even find work at nightclubs here in the Philippines because at 28, she was "too old" to work as a GRO anywhere. Now, she just go to internet cafe's when she has money and chat with her boyfriends online asking them for more money. But at internet cafe's she will have a hard time finding a way to show anything to anyone on cam. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on May 17th, 2006, 10:57am Story # 4. Rosalia came from a poor family. She has worked really hard to help his father augment the family income but it seems that however hard she tried, it's still not enough. What with 3 sisters and a jobless older brother who is married and with 2 kids and still lives with them. It really pisses her off that he married someone who is lazy and as poor as they are. She made a promise to herself that someday she will not be poor anymore. In their neighborhood....she has a friend whose family operates an internet cafe. She always go to the cafe to talk to this friend. She taught her how to chat too. So sometimes when it is a busy at the cafe, her friend would let her use one of the available computer. She got addicted to chatting when she started to meet men online. Some of them would flirt with her outrageously and she basked in their attentions. Some would even joke about marrying her. That's when she got the idea in her head that why not? And so she started to sort out her options. Since the only serious one he found is an old man, she concentrated on him though she hates the idea that she's only 28 and he was a lot older than she is. But she sees him as a means to an end. And when the old man came to the Philippines to see her, she was the star in the neighborhood. They are all envious that she's marrying a rich american man. Actually he's not rich. But he can afford to spend a lot because the monthly pension he gets every month being a ranking officer in the Navy is big enough since he lives alone. So even though she feel embarassed being seen with a 60 year-old man everytime they go out, she swallowed it all. They got married on the old man's second visit to the Philippines. And it took them 3 years before she was able to join him in the US. And in all those years, he has kept sending her money regularly since she resigned from her job complaining it doesn't pay her much. The old man has loved her a lot so he give her everything she asks for. And she did nothing but enjoy her life. Even took a boyfriend who was around her age. When she got to the US, she only waited to get her permanency status and filed for a divorce stating in her complain that the old man cheated her by not mentioning he can't have children anymore. The old man was devastated by this turn of events and wished he has been wiser. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on May 18th, 2006, 8:22am Doesn't anyone has some story to share? I am sure someone has heard of something. If it's a success story then so much the better. I may run out of stories to tell though I have heard a lot. :P |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by nOrKAy on May 19th, 2006, 2:04pm Nice thread of you, Witchy. But wait, I'll be back on this. Shucks, I dont know how to start. There's one story about this that always makes me teary----unsuccessful. I will tell the story later. ;) |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on May 22nd, 2006, 3:59pm Hurry....I love reading stories about people's lives for real, be it a happy ending or not. We always learn from it. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on Jun 20th, 2006, 12:08pm Story # 5. John is an Australian who has remained single until he reached the age of 42. He has been chatting for 2 years but mainly to pass the time. Sometimes he would just browse or read news. He leads a very quiet life. He doesn't smoke or drink and doesn't like to party. John is also a hardworking person. He is a dentist. Up until the death of his mother 2 years ago, he has not thought of settling down and having his own family, a wife and kids. Until 28 years-old Leny came to his life. They met in a chatroom when he tried room hopping out of boredom. He got curious by her popularity, she was witty, the life of the room really. At first, he would just go to the room and watch her while she chats with her friends. He did that for 3 weeks. He wanted to talk to her in private but she was always busy with her friends and he doesn't want to take her away from her friends. That is if she will ever give him the chance to talk privately. He tried to work his courage but get too shy everytime he sees her. It didn't take long before he started to hurry home just to check if she was already in the room. Sometimes she came sometimes she do not show up and when she failed to appear, he went to bed largely disappointed that he did not see her on that particular day. From what he gathered in the room, she was single and was working as a cashier in a famous supermarket in Manila. One day, he got the surprise of his life when she defended him against some rough chatter, another regular in the room. He was being accused of being a pervert, lurking in the shadow. He was embarassed by the incident and wanted to explain he was not what he was accused of being. And he was more surprise when Lenny pm'd him to apologize in behalf of her friend. They started talking and was soon getting closer as Leny found out that he was really a decent man. John found out a lot of things about her, including having a 3-year old daughter out of wedlock. AS months passed by, John realized that he was falling in love with the girl, and that scared him. He knew that she felt something for him also because she spend more time with him and less time in the chatroom. And on occassions, she always send him e-cards which really made him happy. He knows her family is poor. Her father worked as a jeepney driver and her mother cooked dishes which she sells in front of their small apartment. She also has 2 younger brothers one in high school and one in college. Leny only spent two years in college before she got pregnant. Because she mistakenly trusted her boyfriend. When the boyfriend suggested for Leny to get an abortion, she slapped the boyfriend and never looked back. She also voluntarily suggested to her family that she will stop school and find a job instead so the money can be used instead for her brother's college education. John also knew where she lives, as he has sent her flowers on special occassions too. They have never spoken of anything concerning their feelings for each other. It was just like a mutual understanding between them. It came to a point that John could no longer hold back his feelings for her so he made a decision. Leny tiredly wait for the long line of passengers to move so she can board the FX passenger car en route to their house in Guadalupe. It has been a long day and she missed her daughter. And she still has to walk some distance to get to their house. She was almost home when her celfon rang. It was John. Leny could not believe it. John was in a hotel near her place. They went to dinner that night and John propose to a crying Leny. Leny is in Australia now and they have 2 more kids, both boys. But John adored Leny's daughter. And he could not believe his good fortune because Lenny turned out to be a wonderful, caring woman. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by CeL on Jul 7th, 2006, 12:41pm wonder when can i hear urs manay witch...i need an inspirational story from someone i personally know to be able to keep on hanging and hoping that something good might came up too in my life with these so called "online relationship"..... |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 13th, 2006, 8:33am Mine? Hahahahah! That's a laugh, manay! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] I will surely let you know if I get lucky. :P Meanwhile, let's read some more. And this is my 6th story. This one I personally heard from someone I met the other day. The guy is a Filipino, an Ilonggo but he lives in New York and work in a hospital there as a nurse. Has been living in NYC for 33 years and he's 50 now. (Don't even think about it, I swear we were just talking :P). Anyway, he told me about the girl he met online right after his divorce. (Yes, he's been divorced for 8 years now.) She works in Dubai I forgot what the job is. Anyway, he told me they had been talking for a couple of months already. He lives alone in his own condo unit and said he really wanted to have someone in his life now. Said he's over his ex-wife who is another pinay but has met in the US. He told me he was already applying for a fiancee visa for that gf in Dubai. The girl has two young kids but he doesn't mind coz he really like her and she wants to make her happy, and that includes her kids. She was very sweet and very loving to him and he likes her looks. (He has seen her on cam.) One day, he saw his gf online. Planning to play a joke on her, he used another ID and pm'd the girl. When she asked for a pic, he photoshare with her a pic of his younger cousin, half Filipino/half american. She was impressed and told him how good looking he is. They got to talking. At one point, he asked her if she already have a bf, she said she's very available and looking. When he asked for a pic of her, she volunteered her webcam. His first view of her was her ample cleavege. She told him to wait while she "fix" her webcam. He told me that at that point he was already seeing green! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] Anyway, it took her a couple more minutes for her to "fix" her cam. And by that time he has already seen her short-shorts. (she was standing up, he said, apparently trying to "fix" the cam). Finally she was "able" to focus the cam on her face. He told me he was already seething in anger by that time and wanted to smash the girl's face on cam! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] But instead he calmly continued the conversation. He asked her if she likes him and if she's willing to marry him and live in Canada. (He told her he's from Canada and he has his own business, a car dealership.) He told the girl that he really like her and has fallen in love with her right away and want to make her his wife! The girl said of course she would want to marry him and told him how lonely and poor she is and if he will not mind her two fatherless kids. He told her he didn't mind and that he love kids. When he can't take the jealousy anymore, he started to give her hints. He told her that he doesn't want to live in Canada but wanted to live in the US. The girl said she didn't mind as long as they are going to be together. Then he told her he wanted to live in NYC specifically because his parents are there. Then he told her he will get a job as a nurse at ___( he mentioned the name of the hospital he works for). All the time he was looking at her face on webcam to see if she is getting suspicious of him. When he told her he has bought a house at the same address she knew of him, the real bf, that's when she finally caught on! She saw her reaction on cam and he said she was speechless for a while. That's when he told her who he really is and what an opportunist she is! That he is withdrawing the fiancee visa application he has sent at the Embassy here. OMG!!I was really laughing the whole time he was telling me this story! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] We were using voice chat at that time, the phone chat at PM? And his accent was more pronnounced coz he was so angry! Then he told me the next time he will have a relationship online, he vowed to stop the girl completely from going online! Nyahahahaha! Sorry! But I would rather stay single than leave chat! |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by nOrKAy on Jul 31st, 2006, 7:32am This is a story of one of my friends, which I requested him to blog about, when he mentioned between our conversation about their umcoming wedding anniversary. The day I met Kristie, I will never forget. I was at Ft. Drum, NY and I was on a Philly Chat room. Some asshole was bothering this woman and I stepped in and started arguing with him, saying some pretty funny shit. I guess Kristie thought it was nice and funny what I did for that woman. So she sent me an Instant message. We talked online that night 'til the very early hours. I remember her trying to give me her number. But when she typed it all out on one message it wouldn't show up. And I thought she didn't want to give it to me. So sent each number at a time. I was going on a 6 day field problem that next day so I told her that as soon as I got back I would call her. When I was done and back in my room, the first thing I did was flop on my bed with my ruck sack still on my back and called her. Even though I just got back from doing a 25 mile road march and was dead tired. The first time I heard her voice was like hearing an angel speak. I was suppose to go down to Wilkes- Barre, PA 2 weeks later with my friend Mike and she was suppose to bring her friend at the time Rachel. But I didn't want her to get the wrong impression of me from my friend. So instead I went down to my Parents house and was suppose to meet her in Philadelphia the week prior. [next post] |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by nOrKAy on Jul 31st, 2006, 7:33am [continuation] November 13th, 2004, was the day I finally met her face to face. When I got home I told my parents what I was doing and they thought I was nuts, but they wished me luck anyhow. When I got to Philadelphia's 30th St. Station, I called Kristie and let her know I had arrived. She told me that she couldn't make it cause her friend hadn't arrived at her house yet. She asked me to take the EL to 69th st, then to get on the Norristown Express. Thats when I started to get nervous and thought she might be sending me on a wild goose chase. But still I said okay. I called her again when I got to Norristown. She then told me her friend Rachel who was driving her was still not at her house, that she should be getting there shortlyand that it was a 30 min drive to get where I was at. Thats when I got really nervous, but still I waited for her. I called my Favorite cousin Trish, she thought I was crazier then my friends and parents combined. She offered me some excuses to leave if I didn't like her, I kindly turned them down. But still considered them. Three and a half hours later, 6 calls and half a pack of smokes later. She finally shows up. When I saw the car pull up, I quickly pulled my hoodie over my head and stuck my hands in my pockets. And as they walked by, I caughta glance of her face and thought she was to beautiful to be true. My intentions were to sneak up on her (a trick I learned from my Dad), but just as they were about to walk into the train station they stopped. Kristie comes over to me and goes "are you Karl?" And I look at her and ask are you Kristie? So we start walking over to the car and I allowed myself some space between me and them for two reasons. One I was waiting for the gang of guys to jump out of nowhere and throw me in a van and never be heard from again. And two, to enjoy the wonderful view, which was Kristie's rear end. So I jump in the backseat and we start goin to get Kristie's car from the shop, the whole way there I sit in the back quiet as hell thinking there is no way in hell she is going to like a guy who looks like me. So we got to the shop and they told her it should be an hour or an hour an a half longer. So we walked over to the Wendy's that was next to the shop. We got our food and the whole time I was eating Kristie kept staring and smiling at me. I thought it was annoying, but at the sametime cute and a sign that she had liked me too. We finished our meals an went back over to the shop. Rachel was sitting in the front passenger seat of her car listening to music I think it was Eminem. And Kristie and me were behind the car, she gave me a love tap and I started chasing her around. She sat on the trunk of Rachel's car, I stood right in front of her and kissed her on the lips. I don't know what I was thinking, it just felt natural to do it. I thought she was goin to Slap the hell out of me , instead she got this huge smile on her face and giggled a lil. When her car was done, Rachel left to go to work. While Kristie and I went to the mall. We walked around a little bit, she got a phone call. When she got off the Phone, she said her mom and uncle were up at the mall too. She asked me if I wanted to meet up with them at the Food Court. I was thinking "what are you crazy I just barely met you and now u want me to meet your mom?" But of course I said "sure." So there I was with her mom, her uncle Dale and Kristie. Her mom was asking me all these questions. I stole one of her mom's fries and her mom gave me the meanist look. So then we went back to her place and I guess my charm must of worked on her mom because she told us I could spend the night, but I had to sleep on the extra bed in Kristie's room. But Kristie told me there was no way I was goin to do that, that I was going to sleep in her bed that night. So we went upstairs to her room in the Atticand got ready for bed. As I layed there next to her I was getting the feeling that Iwas falling in love already. We started making out and I stopped and asked her if this mean we are going out? She goes what do u think and so I rolled on top of her. The next morning (her birthday) I had to leave to go back up to my parents house to get ready to go back to Drum. The rest is history. Now 20 months later, we have been married for 11 months and I couldn't be more happier. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 1st, 2006, 12:46pm Awww...what a sweet and inspiring story, Krissy! I'm so glad he let you post it here. Please extend my warmest congratulations and best wishes to both of them and that I hope they will stay in love and happy for the rest of their lives!! Wohoooo!!! I have some stories ready for posting but I can't find the time to post right now due to my busy sched. But one of these days I'm gonna sit and write them. Again thank you, Krissy. :-* |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by nOrKAy on Aug 3rd, 2006, 7:06am It is, Witchy. ;D Actually, Karl [the owner of the story] is a good friend of my ex-BF whom he lived with in Korea some years ago. Then we were chatting on line when it was timely, he said he was blogging about the near anniversary of him and his wife and so I requested him to tell some story on how they finally made to make their online relatiosnhip real, so I could post it here. Yes, he didn't mind . I actually gave him the forum address. ;D Anyway, I still can't get into my own story. It would be a very long read. LOL. But it would be fine to share, so I will try. ;) |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 4th, 2006, 5:47pm Actually I have my own story but it's a failure story so I don't know if I can publish it here. Cel want's an inspiring story from me but mine will want you instead to pull your hair out in frustrations. ;D Let me gather up my courage. ;) |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on Sep 21st, 2006, 6:23am Story # 7 William (not his real name) is a 60-year old chatter from another asian room. We have been friends for a few years now. Though I have changed ID, we have kept constant communications whenever we are not busy. In the past, he has always been excited whenever he talked of his Filipina gf he met in the same room. He has been to the Philippines 3 times. The first time was of course to meet the girl. He even stayed in her house on his previous visits. They were planning to get married. They have even adopted a daughter to make theirs a real family. On his last visit here, they were out with some other chatters and Will thought it was odd that they were joined in by another guy Asian guy on that night. He thought nothing of it though because all their other chat friends were there. A few weeks after that, Annie (not her real name, too), on one of his regular phone calls informed him that she has to go to another country to earn some money. Will offered to help of course. But it was odd that she doesn't want to accept financial support from him. Will is a retired-Navy man and worked at a security agency right now. So aside from his monthly pension, he also receive big pay from his present job so he can afford to help her financially. Will thought it was noble of Annie to try to make both ends meet by earning the money herself so she gave her blessings to work abroad. They still talk regularly even when she is in another country. Occasionally, he would call Manila to talk to their "adopted" daughter and to send money for her studies. She's in grade school now. Things has continued to run smoothly for them, talking regularly about their plans to get married when the Annie finished her contract abroad. And though it seems Will was the one who always made the effort to contact her, he thought nothing of it thinking maybe it's expensive for her to contact him. Sometimes he gets frustrated coz no matter what time he tried to call her, she never answered his calls. It has been going on for sometime now and Will sometimes complained to me. I never gave him my honest thoughts though coz I knew how much he loved the girl. But I did tell him something the first time he told me Annie went to this country to "work". But of course he dismissed my warnings as ridiculous since they have met three times already and he believed they were both "in love" with each other. About a week ago, he pm'd me to tell the bad news. One of his chat friends told him Annie has gotten married two months ago to the Asian guy who was with them when they met last. He immediately called his gf to ask if there was truth to that story. Not knowing how to get out of it, Annie finally admitted the truth to Will. She didn't admit though to being married, just that she found someone else. But Will source is very reliable and so he believed his friend. The girl is one of Annie's closest friends but she took pity on Will because he is a very nice man and a good friend to all of them. So inspite Annie's instructions not to tell Will, the friend did. She even told him that Annie went to that country under the sponsorship of the guy as his wife. Will was devastated by the unfairness of it all. He had great hope that they will have a life together. Now he's out there nursing a broken heart and told me he was not sure he can ever trust any Filipina again. I tried to console him by saying Juana's fault should not be blamed on Maria even though they are both Filipinas. But right now his pain is so great so he's not listening, and that is understandable under the circumstances. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on Sep 22nd, 2006, 5:02am Lol Joel, you should have posted it under my topic "Betrayal, how do you cope up with it?" I think this is more suited there. This one is online love stories. :P But thank you sharing it with us. ;) |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 11th, 2006, 7:44am Bill is a 55-year old widower and a retiree from his days in the US Navy. He and his first wife were not really in love with each other when they got married. She was a good friend whose husband died in a freak car accident. She has 3 small children when that happened. And a year after that, the landlord threatened to evict the mother and her 3 kids for not paying the rent. Bill could not let that happen so he took them home with him and married her 2 years after that. Being a high ranking officer in the navy, he was able to support his new family without the mother ever needing to work. Even when she passed away 20 years ago, he never shrinked from his duties to his adopted kids and sent them all to college. Now free of any responsibilities, he seek a wife he can love for the rest of their lives together. He met Nina, a 30 year-old pinay through another Pinay who lives near him. Before long, they had been talking regularly on the net. Last year, he came here in the Philippines to meet her and he liked her more. And she agreed to marry her. So he didn't mind that he spent a lot of money while he was staying with her. When he went back to Texas, he immediately put their plans into notion. He consulted his Pinay neighbor of the best steps to take. He filled out some forms and sent some to Nina and told her to apply for a visa at the US Embassy. Luck must be on their side because she was granted a visa just after one try. Bill was very happy. His dreams will soon be fulfilled. He sent her money for her medical exams and a little more for her everyday expenses. But when the results of the exam came, Nina found out that she was 2 months pregnant. She didn't dare have an abortion, she was scared of that. So she just opted to tell Bill about it. Bill was stunned. They have known each other for more than a year and she was only 2 months pregnant. That means she was having intercourse with another guy though she has agreed to marry him. He wrote Nina a long e-mail explaining to her that he can't marry her anymore because she can't be trusted. That if he met Nina, it wouldn't have mattered to him if she has a passel of kids. But getting pregnant while her papers are being processed is something he could not accept. He told her not to bother writing back. Now Bill is lonely again and wary of Filipinas. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by thebeast on Nov 14th, 2006, 2:29am FACT OR FICTION Tom is an american living in Luckenbach, Texas with Willie and Waylon and the boys. Tom is a fine young handsome man. He has been going the Yahoo chat rooms for about 5 years. 2 years ago he meet a middle aged attractive, exotic type of woman by the name of Yuki in one of those God forsaken asian chat rooms on Yahoo. Yuki is a divorcee. She is from Bali, Indonesia. She is an attractive, exotic type of woman with 2 children. Her religious faith is Islam. Her opinion of the male gender is that they are all out to break her heart. Tom has never been married and God only knows how many kids he has, but the few kids that he does know about, he loves and spoils very much. Tom is all american and a sinner but still a christian. He has a good heart but has a bad reputation in the asian chat rooms which is not deserved. He is the target of mostly jealous, insecure, hypocritical males above the age of 40 and maybe some females who like to yap a lot. Anyway Tom's opinion of the female gender, at least from a relationship point of view, is that they are backstabbers. He has the scars to prove it. From the moment Tom saw Yuki on cam, he was head over heels in love. It took Yuki a little longer to fall for Tom because she was a slow mover. This online romance continued off and on for about 2 years, but the amount of time they were actually together was about 9 months due to several break ups. Yuki never trusted Tom which resulted in the ultimate parting. Well....that was one reason anyway. Another reason is Tom was getting the idea that all Yuki cared about was money. She was giving hints to him about money all the time. Tom doesnt know for sure if she just wanted money or not, but Yuki sure was giving a lot of hints. Tom wanted to keep their romance a secret and Yuki agreed this would be best. And she promised to do this. Tom is not the cornball type of man that likes everyone, who is on Yahoo chat, to know his personal and romantic business. The jealus, insecure, hypocritical males above the age of 40 and female yappers can take this personal information and use it to create havoc, outllandish rumors and questions that can hurt the feelings of both Tom and Yuki. Anyway one day, not to long ago when Tom, and Yuki were having another fight, her cam broke. Tom made the comment that this wasnt going to work with no cam. After hearing this comment, Yuki took the fight to a whole new level. This in turn made Tom take the fight to another level as well. Plus Tom was also thinking about all the times Yuki was giving him the send me some money hints. So Tom ended it right then and there. When Yuki realized that Tom ended their romance, she was hurt and Tom was hurt as well. But soon this hurt turned into vegence for Yuki. She went on a witch hunt. She would pm other females and try to dig up any kind of dirty information she could about Tom in order expose him to the rest of Yahoo chatland. Not bothering to ask for dates or relevance at all. Tom is a bit of a flirt, but when he is in a relationship he doesnt do it. Tom has a different way to deal with his pain. He blocks everything out about Yuki. He deletes her pics on his pc. He takes her number out of his contacts on his cell. He doesnt pm her or accept any pm from her. He takes her off his chat list. He erases everything about her from his life. This may seem cruel to some. But Tom has been through this before in both the real and unreal worlds. This is a system that works for him so that he can get on with life again. This system infuriates Yuki even more. She then starts to yap. And the yap she yaps about is only half truths. It is the way she sees it. All it does is create more hurt. This is what Yuki probably wants. She wants to hurt Tom. Well...Tom told me it did hurt. Not due to the jealous, insecure, hypocritical males above the age of 40 and the female yappers who used the info for thier benefit, but due to the fact that Tom still cared about Yuki and she broke the trust. Tom knows Yuki pretty well and he thinks she feels bad for what she did now. Tom wants Yuki to know it is okay. She can stop feeling bad. He understands that love can make anyone do stupid things. So best just to leave it alone. Because they cant see eye to eye. There isnt no good guy, there isnt no bad guy, its just Tom and Yuki and they just dont agree. I dont know what Yuki's plans are now. I talked to Tom and tried to console him. He got drunk this past weekend and made a complete fool of himself. He said he was gonna take a break from the Yahoo world. He is gonna focus on whats important to him. Find another activity to do because he is tired of being labeled as a womanizer. In the future, if any of you see him online, dont pm him with hey chill out or relax or its just yahoo chat. Why not just pm him with Hey tom...I can relate to that. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 14th, 2006, 3:40am Lol Joel, keeping us in suspense, eh? That's ok, just don't forget what you started here. ;D |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by mrs_nj on Dec 18th, 2008, 4:16am I made it. I met my husband online. Who would have guess....I didn't even expected...some things just happen with or without knowledge...it still baffle me sometimes. |
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Title: Re: Online Love Stories....some made it, some did Post by Wicked_Witch on Jan 27th, 2009, 8:23am on 12/18/08 at 04:16:14, mrs_nj wrote:
You are one of the lucky ones, Annie. I know a lot who didn't make it even years after years of hoping and wishing. |
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