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(Message started by: okasantina on Aug 3^rd, 2006, 12:06pm)

Title: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by okasantina on Aug 3^rd, 2006, 12:06pm

You were falling for MR. DAMN near perfect and then - bam! - he had to go and pull one of these "oh-no-he-didn`t" deal breaking moves....

Like...."Oh no! its your bday today!" :o

* His definition of good sex maybe...Wham! Bam! Really good sex? Wham! Bam! Bam! Sure, we appreciate a guy who is goal oriented, but we want more than a two pump chump.

* He actually put his fingers to his lips and shushed you...

what else...share some and talk about it ... ;D

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by astrobloke on Aug 3^rd, 2006, 4:38pm

He borrows your clothes without asking?

Your mother actually LIKES him ?

How about this one?
My mother told me about a guy she dated before meeting my dad. He bought her a box of chocolates and took her to a movie. Inside the cinema he ate all the chocolates he bought for her. [smiley=roll.gif]

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by okasantina on Aug 4^th, 2006, 8:30am

on 08/03/06 at 16:38:13, astrobloke wrote:

nice one there astro....give me some more..... ;D ;D

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 4^th, 2006, 5:36pm

Lol, Astro. Your mother sure dumped the guy, eh? ;D Maybe I'm slow tonight but I don't get the gist of this topic. Are we supposed to post stuffs that men does that gives us the idea "it's time to move"? Or are we supposed to post stuffs that men do that are discouraging/disgusting that makes us feel we want to reject the guy?

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by okasantina on Aug 4^th, 2006, 9:08pm

on 08/04/06 at 17:36:16, Wicked_Witch wrote:

This is a thread of the things when is the right time to DUMP a DUDE .... you can post or make a thread about the idea of what your saying....."its time to move"... but what im applying here is .....stuff that when a guy has to be dumped....so thats it.... ;)

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 12^th, 2006, 5:55am

Oh ok. I got it, tinz. Sorry but sometimes i get mixed up. ;D so you want to know signs that says it's time to move on or dump the guy? Here, let me give you some telling signs.

1. He never calls as often as he used to. And when he does, he's always in a hurry. Meaning: he thinks calling u is only obligatory and so when he has called, his "job" is done. conclusion: he's no longer interested in you.

2. So you call his house. But he's never around. Either he's out or has just left. When you happen to catch him in, he would be in the shower, or having his meals. And you leave a message to pls. call u back when he's done with whatever it is he's doing at that "precise" moment.. Half an hour has passed away and still no call. You called again only to be told he has just left.

3. He forgets important dates.

4. He hangs around with a new cute girl in his office telling you they are just buddies but he spend more time going out with friends when the girl is with them, than he spends time calling you or going to your house for his regular visits.

5. You called, his mother answered the phone. She knew who you are, but no warmth in her greetings and told you her son is out and don't know when he's coming back then hang up the phone. Meaning, the future mom-in-law is not crazy about u.:P

6. The lyrics of the song "Sad Movies" is a clear indicator you have to let go.

7. You go out and you always have to pay for everything. Sometimes he invites you out to dinner and when it's time to pay the bill, either he forgot his wallet, or the manager won't honor is credit card. (He knew it has expired even before he invited you.) A freeloader to the max, time to kick his butt and do it hard.

8. Online. You are in PM with him. He has trouble replying to ur message right away. Told you he has bad connection or is lagging. As you both go on, he mistakenly typed something "telling" in your pm box. Meaning it was meant for someone else and it was flirtatious words also. You will be lucky if he mistakenly types the other girl's id in your pm! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]

9. Online. He brought up the subject to see you in person though you have not mentioned anything about it. He went on and on about what he plans to do when he gets to wherever you are. Everyday you talk and he kept on and on about his plans. As the weeks and months passes by, all of a sudden he stops talking about it or mentione very little about it in your conversation. And then when the time comes, he made some lame excuses on why it's impossible for him to go at that time.

10. Online. The most doubtful and worrysome. He/she won't tell you his/her exact address or phone numbers at home. You insist and he/she gave you a phony number with explicit instruction not to use it because he/she is seldom home.

11. You went online. His/her ID was online but suddenly logs off. Or you both has been online for sometime already but he/she has never made any attempt to PM you. Eventually, he/she did but seem preoccupied and replies to you in one-liner. "yes, no, maybe, sorry, really?, good,...(then type this in the end, and this is the classic one..) BRB (but never came back.)

You want some more, Tinz? I really have an active imaginations, eh? ;D

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by Gracia on Aug 15^th, 2006, 9:18am

when he lifted his hand to hurt me physically. Goodbye!

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 16^th, 2006, 8:17am

Lipstick on his collar when he comes home at 2 am? A hairbrush in his car compartment with several long strands of hair when you have short hair? ;D

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by nOrKAy on Aug 25^th, 2006, 5:14pm

LOL. This is a funny thread of you Tinz, but a good one. ;D

What about this. One of the funniest true stories I heard from a friend.

A girl is going to visit her boyfriend in his apartment. And while the girl is on her way, her BF called.

BF: "Are you on your way now?"
GF: "Yes"
BF: "Hey, please drop by to the store and buy me a pack of Marlboro Lights. I ran out, eh."
GF: "OK". By the way, have you eaten your breakfast? I already had mine. "
BF: "Good for you, I still haven't eaten anything yet. What about buying me a set of McDonald? Set 5, but change the drink into strawberry shake."

[smiley=roll.gif] what a turn off !

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by CooCHie on Aug 25^th, 2006, 5:34pm

;D ;DPards covers it all...and dont forget that part where you are in pm and all of a sudden, you got a response back saying something that is not meant for you...like...damn I just saw her naked dude...remember that pards...still got the kicked of it...hahahahahha :)

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 28^th, 2006, 8:11am

Hahahaha! who can forget it, pards? The idiot mixed up his pm boxes he thought he was typing to another about viewing a naked female on cam! What a turn off! [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by bad_day_me on Nov 24^th, 2006, 2:46pm

dump that dude when he is always questioning you for no reason..........and can't show you the word respect!!! dump him right away!!!! >:( >:( >:(

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by bad_day_me on Nov 24^th, 2006, 2:57pm

dump that dude!!!! when he keeps on fooling you even you noticed it!!! im sick of that...i even caught him nd still denying it!!! >:( >:( >:(

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by Wicked_Witch on Dec 1^st, 2006, 8:07am

do not justify any of his actions because you would be lying to yourself. just dumped the jerk, period.

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by okasantina on Dec 19^th, 2006, 2:44am

Yeah...ok....alright....is that all??

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by bad_day_me on Jan 20^th, 2007, 1:46pm

::) ::) ::)
okey i dumped him..... ;D

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by wildheart41004 on Jan 20^th, 2007, 7:36pm

what abot :Stuff that says..."dump the dudette"? :P

Title: Re: Stuff that says..."DUMP THE DUDE"
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jan 24^th, 2007, 11:05am

on 01/20/07 at 19:36:43, wildheart41004 wrote:

what abot :Stuff that says..."dump the dudette"? :P

Sure. But you need to have reasons to do so.