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(Message started by: cebuanalyn on Mar 9th, 2004, 7:07pm)
Title: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by cebuanalyn on Mar 9th, 2004, 7:07pm
hey singles... this is your chance of telling the world of what you feel being single all these years  :-X mymy is this for over 30 only? or over 20?  ;D


Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by cebuanalyn on Mar 9th, 2004, 7:17pm
Several years ago, some researchers with far too much time on their hands “discovered” if you’re a single woman over age 35, you might as well convert your hope chest into a coffin because you’re out of luck in your husband quest. According to their study, the good ones are all taken, and even the bad ones are gone.

Wow..no wonder... married women now are crying buckets..because they are the one who has the bad ones...hehehe
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by madd on Mar 9th, 2004, 7:33pm
It stinks being single.
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by mylane on Mar 9th, 2004, 7:46pm
single where?  lol  ;D

being single has lots of advantages as in lots IF u know how to use it. First, ofcourse your not commited,  you can date as many guys/gals you want. Less pressure also.


But same as it goes it has disadvantages too,  when you have someone there to care for u and u feel the same way, the feeling is unexplainable.....

Joy or Curse....it all depends on the person on how she or he can take it.  

are we talking about single for life or just single for the meantime?

Rather than spending your  time ranting and raving about the non-existent state of  your love life , better  spend it doing meaningful things with your life.


now i'm waiting for gracia' violent reaction ;D
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by gracia on Mar 9th, 2004, 7:49pm
single could be a curse and a joy....depends on how u want to view ur life.  Lots of single men/women are happy, they consider it their vocation.  Some are mad at it coz they want to get married and seems the right one didnt come along.  Same as married men or women.  Love is not at all joy, if few were crying its because its part of life. Lots of singles cried too..how come they never find the right one!...some have regrets and some dont and  that's how life operates.  Whatever vocation one chooses to be, there's always sadness and joy, failures and success.  Its a trial and error case and without risking it, made life a bore.  Its always a choice that an individual has to make  and it's always risky. No guarantee that it will be always a bed of roses and as sweet as chocolates forever.
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by ray69 on Mar 15th, 2004, 3:16am
IMHO,
singleness as Joy.
1. you can go anywhere and anytime.
2. you can buy anything without someone preventing you anywhere anytime.
3. you can eat anything anywhere anytime.
4. you can wear anything anywher anytime.
5. you can call anyone anywhere anytime.
6. you can sleep anywhere and anytime you like.
basically, ur free if you're single.

singleness as a Curse,
1. when you're tired, no one will give you a warm massage.
2. no one will cook food for you.
3. no one will take care of you when ur sick.
4. no one will make you laugh when ur at your lowest point.
5. no one will remind you of your appointments.
6. its hard to watch movies alone.
7. its hard to eat at food courts alone.
8. its hard to go to resorts alone.
9. its hard to sleep during winter alone.
10. its hard to be alone when you like to make love.
11. its hard to be alone when you still like to talk to national issues, emotional issues, etc.
etc..so many to mention.
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by mylane on Mar 15th, 2004, 3:30am
quote originally posted by ray69


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when you're tired, no one will give you a warm massage


damn dude, thats why there's a lot of massage parlor so you can go get a nice and warm massage.


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no one will cook food for you.


lots of fancy restaurant and they really serve best food


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no one will take care of you when ur sick.


go get a private sexy and hot nurse to take good care of you when ur sick



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no one will remind you of your appointments.


go buy a PDA= Personal Digital Assistant


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its hard to go to resorts alone.


dude thats where the excitement begins, u go to the resort alone and hook up with some hotta babes


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its hard to be alone when you still like to talk to national issues, emotional issues, etc.
etc..so many to mention.


very simple...call me ;D
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by ray69 on Mar 15th, 2004, 3:34am
hahahaha thats great....give me your number and ill call you...
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by mylane on Mar 15th, 2004, 3:47am
again? u lost my number again? damn.... :-/ ;D
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by okasantina on Mar 15th, 2004, 9:24am
Single for me is a curse if there is suffering and emptiness in your heart.  :-/

Single is a curse if  you feel that your life is Not Complete! ::)

Single is Joy if u want freedom and not selfishness but theres a feeling of being alone. ;)

asusssssssssss!!!
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by ray69 on Mar 16th, 2004, 6:30am

on 03/15/04 at 03:47:25, mylane wrote:
again? u lost my number again? damn.... :-/ ;D


ok i remember now...ive saved it in my mobile phone....ill call u @ night when you and i are alone....hahaaha
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by gracia on Mar 22nd, 2004, 9:43pm
to all SINGLES out there a message to all of u:

Love is like a butterfly, the more you chase it the more it eludes you.  But if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you lest expect it.  Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to whom its worth.  So take your time and choose the best.  Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we know how to be grateful for the gift.
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by cebuanalyn on Mar 23rd, 2004, 1:45am
oopss..that was hitting below the belt of singles gracia  ;D


"There's only one way to have a happy marriage and as soon as I learn what it is I'll get married"


...hmm. but how will i know ???  ???  ;D  :D i better wait and see..lol
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by gracia on Mar 23rd, 2004, 7:56pm
its not hitting below the belt ann.....its just reality..a fact...i read it in a magazine and i copied it. ;D
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by cebuanalyn on Mar 24th, 2004, 6:26pm

on 03/23/04 at 19:56:15, gracia wrote:
its not hitting below the belt ann.....its just reality..a fact...i read it in a magazine and i copied it. ;D



i better not believe you then gracia, for it's not based from your experience  >:(  :P i don't believe what i read only, it has to be proven and tested .....hehehe
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by cebuanalyn on Mar 24th, 2004, 6:37pm
uh uh...but i have to believe this  ;D


Lies About Singleness

1) -  My life means something because I have a boyfriend or girlfriend, husband, wife and or children.

2) - That being alone, or feeling lonely is "forever and a day".

3) -  A person alone without a "significant other", is of less value, or to be pitied by those who are "with" someone in their lives.

4) - Singleness or being alone is a curse, and you will never "feel" complete until you have another person in your life.

5) - Clock is ticking, you are running out of time to find the answer to your loneliness.



"Truths About Singleness"

1) - My life does not mean more just because I have a boyfriend or girlfriend, husband, wife and or children.

2) - Being alone, or feeling lonely is not a feeling that remains forever.  While it may come and go at different times and events in our lives, it is not permanent, the night gets over and the sun comes up for us.

3) - We are always valuable to JESUS, as a matter of fact, there is no other time in our lives when we have more freedom to go anywhere and do anything for our LORD than when we are single, but never alone.

4) - Marriage and children are not "the answer", that makes everything all right in our lives. More than 50% of marriages today end in divorce when people try to get rid of their loneliness by marrying anyone they can.  Unfortunately, they find that this was not the cure or the answer for personal loneliness.

5) - Time is not the true issue, some of the most fulfilled people alive broke out of the "time" fear, drew close to the LORD and waited for the HIS personal answer for them.


now, how's that?  :-X
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by gracia on Mar 24th, 2004, 7:58pm
ann, lets not find reasons and look at clippings to see where life lies or where one situation lies.  Singleness is never a curse as long as one is happy about his being single.  Those who feel that something is missing, then they have to keep on looking till they got the answers.  Life is always a challenge, a beautiful journey that one has to enjoy. :)
Title: Re: Singleness: Joy or Curse?
Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on Feb 21st, 2005, 8:44am
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