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(Message started by: mylane on Feb 27th, 2004, 2:57am)
Title: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by mylane on Feb 27th, 2004, 2:57am


Do you want to be left alone until you're okay or feeling alright?

OR

You want your honey to settle it right away?


How do you want it to be handled?

waiting for gracia's answer ;D
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by gracia on Mar 3rd, 2004, 7:31pm
if i feel like in rage mylene...i wanted to cool down first.  I dont discuss matters when we're both in heat or even one is in heat. it's no use. I dont want to talk when am angry, there's a tendency i can utter things i dont mean, and feel sorry after.  I prefer to give cold treatment than mean words.

And when am angry My...i'll tell my husband...dont talk to me yet...try later.  Well he got sense too to follow orders ;D

One thing i hate most is fighting and shouting and throwing things..
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by mylane on Mar 10th, 2004, 7:10pm
shouting and throwing things...thats a live show where all the neighbor eavesdropping and giving their different opinion....

i remember my female neighbor said once "if i could only lift the fridge i would throw it in ur face (hubby's face)"

that's really funny since you can hear their quarrel.... ;D

BT:

i wanna be left alone and talk later when  i'm calm...cause i'm so  bad when i'm not...its proven. ;D
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by ReeBop on Mar 10th, 2004, 7:17pm
I remember having neighbors that fought all the time.  Especially when he was drunk.  He would always pound and kick at their door when she locked him out and the police were called several times.  I'm glad when they moved out.
When my new neighbor moved in, she told me of all the holes and damage in the apartment....apparently from punching through the walls, kicking and throwing things.  Even her metal front door was replaced because of dents on the outside and the inside!

:o
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by ray69 on Mar 15th, 2004, 1:57am
The proper thing to do is to be calm when ur in deep arguments. I cant do that. I want to release all the anger thats keeping the hot charge inside me. I envy those who can control their emotions. ::)
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by okasantina on Mar 15th, 2004, 5:59pm
When im mad.....i just cry....but i cant talk...but if i am really really mad.........i talk even while i am crying sayin everything....that makes me calm. :-[

But if he is mad...ill just lay low and wait till he calm down.  :-/

I dont like fighting...i want to reassure that at the end of the day our misunderstanding is gone and settled. ;)
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by kianna_andrea on Apr 3rd, 2004, 7:16pm
:-[ When I'm hurt.......... I just cry. I cry until there's no more tears left....... I may move on and learn to smile again after that but it's hard for me to let go of the pain or to forget about it totally. Sometimes I can get really emotional and say a lot of things that I normally wouldn't say........ sometimes I wish for the other person to hurt the way I'm hurting,.... to feel the pain so that that someone will know how much I hurt... Now I wonder is pain really part of loving?  :-[
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by okasantina on Apr 3rd, 2004, 10:14pm
Why live in pain when you dont have to?

“The pain associated with relationships has more to do with fear, than love.”

It is just that for some reasons, many people assume negative emotions are a part or element of love.

Kianna ... Love is not painful, it feels great! The pain and hurt we feel doesn’t come from love, it comes from our doubts, fears, anxiety, perceived rejections, broken trusts, anger, jealousy, envy, etc.   ;)
Love feels warm, open, joyous and filled with a deep sense of appreciation. ;)

Pain steps into a love relationship when you switch it from a "wanted relationship," into a "needed relationship." You don't NEED any one relationship. Want? Yes. Need? No. :) ::)

hmmmm i think i should post a new topic on this.... LOL!
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by kianna_andrea on Apr 4th, 2004, 9:37am
when I'm hurt I usually just cry....  :-[ If I'm hurt real bad,...I cry 'til there's no more tears left... it's true,.... and then I would hate myself for when I wake up the next morning my eyes are so swollen and puffy.
  Sometimes I can get really emotional during arguments and I tend to say things that I will be sorry for after I've calmed down. It's just that when I'm hurting I want to hurt the other person too the way I am hurting....... I know it's not nice for usually nothing can be resolved when I act this way... but I don't stay mad too long.... It's like a spur of the moment thing for me. It's like one minute I'm really really mad,...then after some time... I'm not anymore. A quiet look or a hearfelt sorry though is enough for me to forget an argument. Sometimes even a simple touch on my hand will do,..or a hug...
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by keensryche on Apr 4th, 2004, 3:06pm
I wrote a poem/song on this subject. Thought I'd share it to those who didn't read it on Kianna's poem topics.

            I still love you

Loves not always fun and bright
troubles will come your way
we don't agree on what we say
and it sometimes will cause us to fight

Emotional anger will take control
our views will disagree
frustration and love has got to be
in order for us to become 1 soul

Love will sometimes try and hide
when mad and not thinking
words can hurt when your speaking
no one wants to give up there pride

I'm not ashamed to admit my own errors
because I'm not always right
God knows I'm not looking for a fight
cus my hearts big and I'm a man who care

As I look back through the years
the good times and the badI woul
most of the times fun, but some sad
living through the laughter and the tears

Thanks you so much for always being there
helping me through my mistakes
admitting my faults is what it takes
for some men saying "I'm sorry" is rare

I know there's times we don't agree
I know there's times my eyes don't see
I know I sometimes say things I don't want to
and even though we don't see things eye to eye, I still love you

For who you are I still love you
For what you've become I still love you
If right or wrong I still love you
Now and forever I still love you
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by okasantina on Apr 17th, 2004, 10:23pm
Wow! whatta lovely poem keen :D NICE JOB! ;D
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by marleychelle on May 17th, 2004, 8:15am
hmmm ohhh my well when im mad i just keep it in me the worst part is when i axplode i explode like a volcano, pack up my stuff and go vrooooooooom vroooooom.

And if the explanation is all bull god thats the time i cant bare listenin to it and throw the cellphone at him if he caught all the cellphone i threw at him he can have a mibile store by now hhhahahahahahhahahhahahah

PS but i learned bein high tempered isnt right at all the times so i change now i just leave when i feel im ready to burst 8)
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by keensryche on May 18th, 2004, 5:38pm
Thanks Tina.  ;)  8)
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by mylane on May 25th, 2004, 8:02am
lol cuz chelle.....ahihihi...i will get u mad at me and u can throw all that cellphone....i dont mind at all ;D

very lovely poem keen  ;)
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by keensryche on May 25th, 2004, 11:11pm
Thanks Mymy
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by okasantina on May 27th, 2004, 3:45am
yw keen ;) ;D
Title: Re: LQ: LOVERS' QUARREL
Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on Feb 21st, 2005, 8:50am
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