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(Message started by: kianna_andrea on Mar 6th, 2004, 11:13am)
Title: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by kianna_andrea on Mar 6th, 2004, 11:13am
            If a man tells you he needs some space,.... does he mean he wants to break-up with you?  
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by mylane on Mar 6th, 2004, 1:28pm
it all depends on his reason why he needed some space.

possible reasons are:

there is another party (another girl)
he is tired and bored with the relationship
he is falling out of love.
he is busy with some stuff (work, etc).
your not in the top of his priority.


same goes if a woman said she needed some space its either the relationship is over or it need some spice and excitement.

but most likely the statement that "HE NEEDS SOME SPACE" is just a informal word for breaking up.

well we all use the same statement once we are not that brave to break up with someone anyway....

just  my opinion. ;D
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by gracia on Mar 9th, 2004, 2:30am
if a man needs space...ask him what for?  then decide from there.....in making decisions though...u have two choices: either be humble and wait or use ur pride and give him the space he needs with no time limit.  He can disappear forever.  Though...weighing the reasons behind is so necessary.
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by ray69 on Mar 15th, 2004, 3:24am
its a case to case basis. if I would say anything lyk that, i would mean a cool off not break up.  Breaking up for me is something like ending the relationship.  Cool off is a process for a given amount of time in which you will know if you still love her. How? By knowing if you cant be without her.

Whatever the reason is during the cool off period, reflecting whether you should continue the relationship or not is a must.
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by okasantina on Mar 15th, 2004, 9:47am
Ive already heard that b4 ??? ::)

And i just let it go and understand what he likes to do....but it hurts huh :-[

Anyways ;D  it ends in good shape  ;)
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by okasantina on Apr 2nd, 2004, 8:54am
oh well if he needs space he can go to Mars!!! :( >:( ;D
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by kianna_andrea on Apr 3rd, 2004, 5:54am
:D lol Tins.... that's really funny..... yes he can go to Mars for all I care... ::) But he can't expect me to welcome him back with open arms!   >:(
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by teagirl on Apr 3rd, 2004, 6:20am

on 04/02/04 at 08:54:23, okasantina wrote:
oh well if he needs space he can go to Mars!!! :( >:( ;D


ROFLMAO---yeah, if he wants space, he can have the whole universe. Now, thats space!
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by okasantina on Apr 17th, 2004, 6:35am
Well i think Mars could be the d next thing to live in ::) ::)... and they belong there....Those MEN who have so many reasons  tra la la chuk chak chenes and everything.....can be there .... for free airfare.... ;D ;D

I think its all the same....if he needs space ... then ill say its better to break up w yah if u need space. Thats it! isnt that cool :-/ ;D


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Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by mylane on Apr 19th, 2004, 7:08am
hehehe cuz... ;D


If you need space join NASA baby (say it to him) ;D
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by marleychelle on May 11th, 2004, 8:54am
space in my ass thats is that lines is one crack of shit [smiley=fish.gif] it can only be another party coz it all fals into it either way u get f**k. hahahahhahahahahahhahahahahah [smiley=woot.gif]
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by killerabbit on May 11th, 2004, 9:07am
Men do need their space sometimes.All human beings need time alone to theirselves.If you trust their love for you then let him have it.If you dont ,THEN LET HIM HAVE IT!!LOL ;)
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by deerhunter74105 on May 11th, 2004, 9:08am
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             wow  sweetie  thats  bout right though  lol  i  would  think you  would b the  one needin  space though   cause i would  always b right there  by your  side [smiley=frog.gif]
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by marleychelle on May 11th, 2004, 9:13am
yeah rabbit i guess i been a space hater hahahahhahahahha
im just allergic to that words lol yeah i agree on u we all do but then again look at it on a dark side it does what i have typed hahahhahahalol
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by marleychelle on May 11th, 2004, 9:15am
as for u sweetie all i can say is ur the sweetest donnt letmme get use to it as i may get addicted to ur sweetness :) [smiley=heartbeat.gif]
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by deerhunter74105 on May 22nd, 2004, 10:00pm
:)i hope ya do  get addicted to mah  sweetness  cause your the whole reason  for  it   muahhhhhh :)
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by need4speed8dalejr on May 30th, 2004, 3:36am

on 03/06/04 at 11:13:35, kianna_andrea wrote:
            If a man tells you he needs some space,.... does he mean he wants to break-up with you?  


Kianna,

I am gonna tell you exactly what that means, and this may get me into hot water with all the guys out there for spillin' the beans, but what the heck. ;D

If a guy tells you He needs space, that means...

A- He wants to break-up with you.
B- He thinks the relationship is getting to be too much and that he needs you to chill for awhile. This tactic most likely is his way of trying to regain the upper hand  in the relationship(that means power).
C- He still wants to fool around with you, but doesn't want all the other relationship duties that come with you. (This is the most likely answer to your question).

If you really like him and want to surprise the daylights outta him, if he ever says that to you again you respond.. Yah, I was thinkin' the same thing. Trust me, that dude will question why you need space. Gets him thinking, and puts him off guard.

If you still want to keep him, then he will be back in your arms within a week, all insecure and wondering why you were gonna leave him. And if you want to keep him and he doesn't want to keep you, then at least he didn't see you hurt and upset, and that he will always wonder why you wanted space.

I know, I know....head games are wrong. But sometimes they just have to be used on these Space Cadets. Fight fire with fire I say!! [smiley=fireman.gif]  [smiley=firejump.gif]  [smiley=fireman.gif]
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by mylane on Jun 1st, 2004, 7:50am
thanks for the honest answer Dale. It brings out the best in you ;D ;)
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by MissFartyPants on Jun 8th, 2004, 7:08am

on 05/30/04 at 03:36:42, need4speed8dalejr wrote:
Fight fire with fire I say!! [smiley=fireman.gif]  [smiley=firejump.gif]  [smiley=fireman.gif]


Right on, Dude!  ;D
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by kianna_andrea on Jun 18th, 2004, 3:54am

That's real nice Dale..... I finally got a man's point of view on this topic.... and as Mymy said,.... thanks for the honest answer..... ;)

I'll keep those in mind.... ;)
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by gracia on Jun 21st, 2004, 8:40pm
what a great advice for ladies [smiley=icon_thanks.gif]
Title: Re: Does he need space or he wants to break-up?
Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on Feb 21st, 2005, 9:04am
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