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Title: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by okasantina on Apr 3rd, 2004, 10:19pm Is love painful????? ::) ??? :'( Who hasn't experienced the pain of love? Or is it the pain of rejection? The pain of self doubt? The pain of fear? It's important to distinguish between love and totally separate feelings. ;) post away roomies....share ure thoughts and opinions k?? |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by mylane on Apr 4th, 2004, 4:09am i think its all on the matter on how u take love seriously. I myself take it things in different level. Not in the painful way. Lots of fish in the ocean thats why i dont go for seaweeds...lol ;D Its kinda hard when it comes to the point that u have to decide and make it final though. Only matter is once u made ur decision u have to stick with it no matter wat. ill post more later ;D |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by keensryche on Apr 4th, 2004, 3:18pm Because it's the greatest emotion in the world. Everything revolves around it. Jesus died because of it. That says it all. |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by kianna_andrea on Apr 5th, 2004, 10:52am Loving takes so much Does loving include hating? Does it include pain? I wonder. Can you love someone deeply without sometimes turning against them? Because loving takes so much----- it takes all of us so that sometimes there is nothing left. I think pain is part of the whole process of loving.... as some say, loving is not all bed of roses..... it's meant to hurt sometimes........ but if you'll open ur eyes you'll realize that 'tis better to feel pain but also feel love than never feel pain and not love at all.... (do I make sense? ???) And to keen, he's right.... just let me add something from Mother Theresa: " A living love hurts. Jesus to prove his love for us, died on the cross. The mother, to give birth to her child has to suffer....." |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by keensryche on Apr 5th, 2004, 5:48pm on 04/05/04 at 10:52:45, kianna_andrea wrote:
Amen Kianna, amen |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by thebeast on Apr 5th, 2004, 9:48pm Love is painful because love also feels good. Just like life and death or peace and war. Love is painful cuz when u are in it, u sacrafice so much. Think about it? You put all u have got in yourself into it. Its about someone else not you. So y the hell do u do it if it hurts so much. Well look what u get back. Sometimes u get 10 or 20 more times the amount of love back. So u say well this feels good so u give 30 or 40 more times back at the other person and it just builds and builds and builds then wham something happens and u are all of a sudden lonely and u have all this love to give and the idiot who took all your love all of a sudden dont want to give any back. So feelings of anger and regret and remorse and sadness set in. This is the pain. So u gotta figure out was it worth it. I say yes it was. Because what would the world be without it. U think the world is bad now well without love we would all probably be extinct and if not it would be a miserable place to live. It would be a living hell. Y does love hurt? U gotta take the pros with the cons. Its not supposed to be easy. :) |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by okasantina on Apr 6th, 2004, 2:03am on 04/05/04 at 21:48:26, thebeast wrote:
If you go into a relationship not feeling terribly good about yourself, you're more likely to become dependent on your partner to help you feel good about yourself. If we felt empty before they appeared in our lives, we fear the emptiness returning if they leave, so their staying with us becomes paramount. That dependency can create all kinds of fear and unhappiness when there's a perceived threat to you staying together. If we aren’t giving ourselves the acceptance we crave, we look to those around us to provide it for us. Again, none of this has a thing to do with the love you feel, but allot to do with the fear you feel. ;) |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by okasantina on Apr 6th, 2004, 2:09am Love is not painful, it feels great! The pain and hurt we feel doesn’t come from love, it comes from our doubts, fears, anxiety, perceived rejections, broken trusts, anger, jealousy, envy, etc. So why do we as a culture lump all those other feelings in with love? ??? ::) Perhaps its because we feel these uncomfortable emotions most often in association with our love relationships. Our primary relationships are important to us, so we assume these doubts and fears are all part of the loving experience. When we are fearful, angry, anxious, unhappy, or jealous, are we truly experiencing a state of love? They sure feel different, don't they? Love feels warm, open, joyous and filled with a deep sense of appreciation. ;D ;) |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by gracia on Apr 7th, 2004, 9:56pm pain is not at all bad....if anyone noticed...pain makes us more strong, gives us more strength....love alone makes us weak. Love makes us so dependent....pain makes us independent. Well, its just based on my experienced though...urs might be different. |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by mylane on Apr 11th, 2004, 9:44am i totally agree with u gracia 100 percent ;D |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by kianna_andrea on Apr 21st, 2004, 7:27am Love is painful because we as human are fragile creatures who easily get hurt... Love is painful because we feel,... because we have emotions.... Love is painful because if it's not...we'll never be able to learn the meaning of love... Love is painful because we give.... freely... without asking for anything in return.... Love is painful because sometimes the one we love doesn't feel the same way we do... love is painful because we ask too much sometimes...not realizing that asking too much of love or a lover can bank even the hottest fire... IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE SET THEM FREE.... Love is painful!..... but!!! inspite of this.... Love is everything it's cracked up to be... IT REALLY IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR, BEING BRAVE FOR... RISKING EVRYTHING FOR." :-[ |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by killerabbit on May 5th, 2004, 10:36pm Love suxs!!!!!!!!thats why! >:((gee someone is being negative) ;DLove is painful because its a constant exercise.To make love strong and keep it strong it has to hurt!So burn baby burn.Give me one more pushup! :D |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by marleychelle on May 10th, 2004, 5:18am love does suxxx then again why its painfull is it when red turns purple that sure is ouchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh:P |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by okasantina on May 11th, 2004, 5:19am Thangna chelle....nangitimmmmmmmmm!!!LOL! ( red turnz purple???) need zome dead meat!??? or double dead!!! buahahahahhahahahahha!!!!! |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by deerhunter74105 on May 11th, 2004, 8:54am no one said love would b easy right ?? [smiley=wall.gif] but whats life without love [smiley=spank.gif] |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by deerhunter74105 on May 11th, 2004, 8:56am ps chelle is this what ya mean by red turnin purple [smiley=spank.gif] [smiley=spank.gif]hahahahahahahaha |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by marleychelle on May 11th, 2004, 9:00am [smiley=clap.gif]yes my darlin rod ...................kinda..............one way of puttin it or lookin at it [smiley=love2.gif] |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by deerhunter74105 on May 11th, 2004, 9:04am :) [smiley=huepfenicon111.gif] well then if thats the case will ya love me forever [smiley=whip.gif] [smiley=icon_worship.gif] |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by okasantina on May 13th, 2004, 12:09pm Love iz not only painful ...... itz distressful... :-/ [smiley=wall.gif] [smiley=wall.gif] |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by marleychelle on May 17th, 2004, 7:36am every now and then we need to spice up our love life [smiley=chilipepper.gif] the more pain we get the more lesson about love we learn and eventually u will know how to balance the aftermath of love....... [smiley=chillpill.gif] yeah when u feel pain again take this>>>>>>>>>> [smiley=chillpill.gif] hahahhahahahhahahahahhahaha |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by mylane on May 30th, 2004, 1:24pm letting go of a person u've just learned to love reminiscing the good times u shared together shielding ur heart to love somebody trying to hide what u really feel trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from ur eyes thats explain why love is painful. :-/ |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by kianna_andrea on Jun 12th, 2004, 10:18am :-[ oh that's so sad MyMy.......... " If someone comes into your life and becomes a part of you but for some reason he couldn't stay,..... don't despair,...don't cry too much... Just be glad that your paths have crossed and somehow, he made you happy,........................... even for a while...." oh how such thoughts can make someone feel blue in an instant...such sad thoughts :-/ |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by tarantada on Jun 14th, 2004, 9:37am on 05/30/04 at 13:24:20, mylane wrote:
very painful indeed. :'( |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by cebuanalyn on Jun 18th, 2004, 5:02am is it? if crying a river is painful then maybe it is... but if you only cry an ocean..it's not painful but it kills :P but one thing i love to love is that: "IT IS BETTER TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST, THAN NOT TO LOVE AT ALL" :P it maybe painful or kills but what matters most is "you are ready to fall in love again and again" and be in pain too again and again...hehe |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by gracia on Jun 20th, 2004, 8:28pm just be optimistic when falling in love i guess. Don't expect too much and just be contented of what's been given. But "contentment" is so difficult to reach. We all are greedy in terms of love...that if only we can refuse to feel the pain, we will surely do everything to kick that out...and feel only happiness. But then the reality is...we do no what know what the future is holding..what we have at the moment might just be a passing scene...so better relax and savor the moment, enjoy what u have today, tomorrow might be different. ;D |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by Slayer on Jun 29th, 2004, 3:26pm on 05/30/04 at 13:24:20, mylane wrote:
I agree. I sometimes pray to have an amnesia after my ex and I broke up. But I'm so fine now, happy with my eddie ;D |
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Title: Re: WhY Is LOVE PaInFuL?? Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on Feb 21st, 2005, 9:17am This Thread is Now Closed ~Moderator~ Love & Marriage |
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