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(Message started by: mylane on Mar 21^st, 2004, 2:08am)

Title: Is LOVE Really Forever?
Post by mylane on Mar 21^st, 2004, 2:08am

Is love really forever?

Or just the figment of one's youthful bliss. You are young and in love.

Then you got married, had kids and grandkids and you find yourselves still clinging to each other, would that still be love or commitment?

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by gracia on Mar 21^st, 2004, 7:18pm

i think love and commitment goes together in that case mylene....love dies love grows love stays. But what i know is, it has to be nortured so it will grow and stay forever. :)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by mylane on Mar 22^nd, 2004, 3:13am

but yet there is a case where love is not involve but only commitment.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by gracia on Mar 22^nd, 2004, 8:48am

for me mylene...love is forever. :D

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by keensryche on Mar 22^nd, 2004, 9:58pm

Depends on where and how it's pertained.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by kianna_andrea on Mar 23^rd, 2004, 2:47am

It is,..... but then again,... sometimes it's not :-/. I know one way or the other love dies... but still in some cases,..love grows... ::) I guess what I'm really trying to say is that no one can really attest that love is forever until one really find one that do... (I hope I'm making sense in here :P) But I agree in what gracia said... I guess when two people are looking in the same direction in loving one another, and they have the commitment and the perseverance to make it work,...love can be forever with them.... but the thing is, sometimes when we're inlove.... we live in a world of fantasy?..or make-believe ??? I mean,... it's like when you're in-love.... everything in the world seems perfect... you're giddy and excited and restless and just soo full of love that you think nothing's ever gonna be wrong,... it's like living a dream... and then something, someone,....or somehow along the way....things happen.... and you fall out of love.....and after sometime there you are again,... trying your luck to find a love that you hope would last forever....Hay naku basta,.... for me.... if you're lucky enough to have finally found someone that you feel you could share a love that's forever with,...don't ever let him go,... and try all your heart to nourish the love you two feel for each other..... and for those who hasn't found one yet.... :P I guess you're just not lucky enough,.... or maybe you haven't found the right one .... yet...but how can one know when they finally did??? ??? oh well,..that's another thing to ponder on ::) (sigh) :-/ The wonders of love,..... I don't think love can ever be defined or explained........... it is just sooooooooo complicated.... it's starting to make me nuts! I'd rather go....... bye!

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by mylane on Mar 23^rd, 2004, 4:34am

love is forever BUT the feeling is not...which only means i still have a chance to other gurls boyfrends...lol joke...ahahahhaa ;D

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by gracia on Mar 23^rd, 2004, 7:49pm

mylene.....i think ur trying to convince urself that the feelings wont last forever so u can play another game with some else. :o

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by mylane on Mar 23^rd, 2004, 7:58pm

hahahha...nah gracia...just stating some facts cause it happens all the time with some people around us.... ;D

and hey gracia, i'm a good girl...lol ;D

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by mylane on Mar 24^th, 2004, 3:34am

Love between two people? no one knows.

Love is forever, it's just a matter of looking for someone whom you will spend forever with.

But "LOVE" as a whole is eternal.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by okasantina on Mar 24^th, 2004, 11:54am

Love is forever when ure perception is "I wanna grow old with you" ;)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by Hernando on Mar 28^th, 2004, 10:32pm

I wanna grow old with you? that reminds me of the movie Wedding Singer :)

Sometimes when I watch a movie, I see elderly couples, probably in their 60's or 70's, who are still very sweet to each other. I find it very inspiring. And, it makes me believe that love can last forever and I’m not just being blissful.

But I also know that, more often than not, it isn't always the case. They are probably the lucky few who have found a love that lasts forever.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by thebeast on Apr 5^th, 2004, 9:23pm

Is love really forever? Something happened to me over the christmas break that might relate to this. I was in my hometown for chrsitmas and my daughter and I were doing some last minute shopping at Wal Mart. Well I ran into an old flame of mine from high school and i talked to her for a while. We were together for about 8 months. This was the longest relationship i had ever been in during that time. While i was talking with her, I remembered how much I thought I had loved her and how crazy about her i was. I remember praying that we would never break up and i also remember the stupid shit i did when we did break up due to my heart being broken. But whats strange is i had forgotten all about it and i didnt feel this way still. My point is while maybe i did love her at that time, but as i grew older and wiser over time I got over it to the point where i had completely forgot about it. People talk about answered prayers well what about unanswered prayers. Im glad GOD didnt answer that prayer because if he did I would not have the daughter i have today. So is love really forever? Im not sure. But time and new experiences has away of making u question and forget about the past. :)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by okasantina on Apr 6^th, 2004, 1:53am

[/center]“When you
look at love,
you're looking
into the face
of appreciation.” [center]

It is a combination of passion and commitment, but without any intimacy. This is where two people make a commitment to each other based on their passion. Unless intimacy develops over time, this relationship most likely will end. Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time....

Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence.....

It is like ...To be loved is to live forever in someone's heart ;)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by mylane on Apr 23^rd, 2004, 5:29am

so cuz tina, we arrived at this formula.... ;D

love, lust and friendship = forever love

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by cebuanalyn on Apr 23^rd, 2004, 5:47am

it is..if you're already 40 or 50 above..'coz you don't have enough time to find for more love :P

well.. when i was 18..i thought that love is forever...but it's not..i love again..and thought that this time it's really forever..but still not..so is it really forever? hmm..hope it will be :D

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Apr 28^th, 2004, 1:41am

on 03/28/04 at 22:32:48, Hernando wrote:

i love that song.. grow old with you... And yes i do believe that Tru ;De love is forever. ITs just that we often want to think that the current love wi have is the true love of our live which is not always the case... if you love n lost that means its not the true love that is ment for you.

In the begining of a relationship it is categorized as passionate love... and ass the years go by it becomes or should become mature love. I'm not saying lose all the passion n just stick witht he commitment. Its just that in real life its not all colorfull n bright. If you go though fights, agruments and everything else it is jist part of life.

I'm a hopeless romantic girl even if i seldom act like the horny bitch ass of ac1 ;D :P And i think every girl wants to be the princess in a fairytail. But i have learned to accept life as it is n try to be more realistic ;)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by killerabbit on May 5^th, 2004, 10:25pm

Love suxs!case closed. >:(

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by marleychelle on May 10^th, 2004, 4:42am

forever in love thing dont really exist coz u only feel its forever when ur in the climax of bein inlove, but then again forever in friendship does and when this friendship move on to the next level then u feel like ur in heaven then next more lever forever thing is K.O. this whole thing is like playin play station or whatever it is u want to play everything has end as for love really forever thing this word thing is a whole lotta crap. However there were this guy somewhere USA that keeps his wife inside thier home and stil sleep together the thought of it kinda fascinatin but the thought of sleepin with dead body i dont know about that at the end the day this forever thing can slip in sometimes just like anyone of us. ??? ;) :o

cuz can u figure this one out:P:))

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by mylane on May 10^th, 2004, 8:47am

on 05/05/04 at 22:25:05, killerabbit wrote:

Love suxs!case closed. >:(

lets file an appeal in that case.... :-/

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by madd on May 10^th, 2004, 6:17pm

on 05/05/04 at 22:25:05, killerabbit wrote:

Love suxs!case closed. >:(

I agree 100% >:(

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by need4speed8dalejr on May 10^th, 2004, 10:32pm

No...Love really isn't forever...

But a prenuptial agreement is!! :D

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by MissFartyPants on May 11^th, 2004, 1:19am

ummm forever doesn't exist ::)

Yes, I agree, Love sux - most of the time.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by need4speed8dalejr on May 11^th, 2004, 2:16am

Cathy said "Love sux- most of the time"...

I take it from your statement that the noise I hear off in the distance is your relationship Roller-Coaster stuck on hyper drive, hurtling up and down the peaks and valleys of the great big track called your life....

....with your Hoobastank soundtrack playing from the cotton candy stand, while clowns in denim overalls with bright red noses and white make-up twist mulit-colored ballons into small animals for the sugar happy kids. Oblivious to the girl in car number 4 of the coaster who rides around and around the tracks overhead, in a never ending circle of fate.

I hope whoever said "life is easy" was seriously mis-quoted. ;)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by MissFartyPants on May 11^th, 2004, 2:37am

on 05/11/04 at 02:16:44, need4speed8dalejr wrote:

Love or life isn't a fairy tale. No matter how bad we wish it to be. We live, love, suffer, hurt - cycle goes on again and many other things in between. Everytime we get hurt, we pull back - reassess. Kick ourselves for being stupid and yet, even while we're sulking we never really loose any hope. Suckers we still are.

I'm classic example. I used to spew-forth fire everytime I open my mouth. Until an angel come along with a bucket full of water. He's no knight in shining armor coming to my rescue. Heck, I needed no champion. All he did was break me. (Snap out of it, Cathy!)

Blame Dale, he's got me into preachy mode. ::)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by MissFartyPants on May 11^th, 2004, 2:44am

And........ I hope that I won't be coming back here to take back my statements.

Even if I did ......

I really wish I don't have to.

But if pains comes a knockin on my door again --- I'm going back to knitting. Spinsterhood, here I come. ;D

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by need4speed8dalejr on May 11^th, 2004, 9:35pm

Well Cathy,

Put me down for a oversized wool sweater, and a scarf. [smiley=lat2.gif] [smiley=lat2.gif] [smiley=lat2.gif]

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by MissFartyPants on May 11^th, 2004, 9:48pm

Why Dale, thanks for the vote of confidence ::)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by need4speed8dalejr on May 12^th, 2004, 2:27am

Seriously Cathy, you left the door opened for that one.

I meant no harm, I really want you to be happy, and I posted it without any malicous intent on my part. I am forever pulling someone's leg and if your offended then Im sorry...K? :-[

While that may be the case...it doesn't get cold here for 6 months or so... [smiley=cat36.gif]

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by MissFartyPants on May 12^th, 2004, 2:39am

on 05/12/04 at 02:27:22, need4speed8dalejr wrote:

awwww Dale, I'm not offended at all. Seriously. I intended to leave the door open - as it is still open. The same can't be said for the windows, tho ::)

Just feeling weird today. It'll pass ;)

Thanks :-*

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by okasantina on May 13^th, 2004, 11:58am

Its like when ure inlove its monkey see ...monkey do :D
Mirroring each otherz movementz...hmm let me think... ??? ??? ???
Some men cant stay faithful, even when theyre already with gorgeous girls....are they sick? So how can love be forever?? ??? ::)
Maybe if u feel that you wanna grow old together w him/her for a lifetime thatz it! no matter what...i think ??? ::)

[smiley=thinking2.gif]

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by Bite_Me on May 13^th, 2004, 12:24pm

How come when we speak of "love" we always think its a man-woman relationship? Or a love for a partner at least. Its never like a love ofr a friend, a love for a pet, love for children, or love for pizza (@lolz).

Here's a related article about this thread.

"I love you", are three little words which are frequently placed together to express a feeling. Nothing more. All too often when people say "I love you", the receiver of the words forgets it means nothing more. "I love you" is thought to mean "I want to spend the rest of my life with you", "Let's get married", and "I love only you" It doesn't. It expresses a feeling.
I love you doesn't mean that you'll be compatible together in a relationship. You could love someone very dearly, but it doesn't mean you're 'right' for one another. You could have very different views on politics/ the way to live life/ where to live/ music, and still love each other. People seem have forgotten that it's possible and more likely to love someone you won't get along with all the time.
It doesn't mean they love only you. It's possible, and very easy, to love quite a few people at once, although none will be in quite the same way. What is it about "I love you" which causes people to think it excludes the possibility of loving others? To find out if they do or not, you need to ask them, not take it for granted.

Of course, some people aren't in touch with the feeling "I love you" expresses either, and yet still say it. Even worse is when one person says it and means it, and the other says it merely to return the compliment. Returning the compliment immediately reduces any respect for the words "I love you", and doesn't leave much space for the feeling of love to grow later. It introduces what is usually the first big lie in the relationship, and what is a joining built on lies? Worthwhile? In this case, I love you doesn't even mean "I love you". Instead it means "Your nice, I don't want to hurt you" (which they are by lying), or "I want to have sex with you, so I'm pretending to love you".

The words "I love you" have long ago become more than the sum of their parts, and this is part of the reason why so many relationships end up on the rocks. People are no longer either saying what they mean, or hearing what is meant.
Please, when next you go to say the three words, remember what "I love you" doesn't mean.[i][/i]

Ok, i'll shut up now.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by okasantina on May 13^th, 2004, 11:31pm

I think ive red that b4 in other community? ??? ::) ;D

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by Bite_Me on May 15^th, 2004, 10:09am

Oh well Tina, i'm new here. You don't expect me to go over all the posts in two days, do you??? :P

I will in time though. Patience is virtue.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by okasantina on May 15^th, 2004, 10:32am

Oh well of courze my dear Cleo...you have all the time to pozt and read...zurely u can enjoy here.. have fun pozting dear..... ;D ;)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by marleychelle on May 17^th, 2004, 7:12am

in which community have u red that cuz [smiley=gossip.gif]
why i wanst aware of that? [smiley=thinking2.gif]

love forever? cant be borrow one

lets do the math shall we [smiley=detective.gif]

this question is like askin will u eat fillet migneoun forever? [smiley=omfg.gif]

hell no i got to change menu im gonna be sick if i eat that forever even if its one great meal, gimme a break [smiley=clown.gif]

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by deerhunter74105 on May 18^th, 2004, 12:29am

:-*hmmmm very interistin chelle but i think love can b forever with the right person cause if you truly do love someone you would go to any lenght to make it last forever [smiley=love2.gif] but if your open minded you can always spice it up a little [smiley=chilipepper.gif]
by allowin your mate too change his or her menu once in awhile :o ok i'll shut up :D :D

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by mylane on Jun 1^st, 2004, 7:48am

on 05/11/04 at 02:37:40, MissFartyPants wrote:

Love or life isn't a fairy tale. No matter how bad we wish it to be.

I agree love or life is not a fairy tale.

Quote:

We live, love, suffer, hurt - cycle goes on again and many other things in between. Everytime we get hurt, we pull back - reassess. Kick ourselves for being stupid and yet, even while we're sulking we never really loose any hope. Suckers we still are.

This why we need to bear in our mind, that every experiences we encountered, we should not forget the lessons that we've learned and not to do the same mistake again. ;)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by ray69 on Jun 6^th, 2004, 11:08pm

is love really forever? im still finding out....

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by mylane on Jun 7^th, 2004, 12:47pm

on 06/06/04 at 23:08:27, ray69 wrote:

is love really forever? im still finding out....

well raydude, betta update me with the result. ;D

by the way, welcome back ;)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by cebuanalyn on Jul 2^nd, 2004, 4:53am

i will say yes or no... when i'm dead... i will be back to be the "dead witness" ;D

seriously... am still finding out too.. but ain't it true that everytime we're in love it always is forever? and we only say it's not...when we're already out of love ???

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by mylane on Jul 2^nd, 2004, 8:56am

on 07/02/04 at 04:53:31, cebuanalyn wrote:

but ain't it true that everytime we're in love it always is forever? and we only say it's not...when we're already out of love ???

Love is an emotion, and it does change, could be for the better or for the worst.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by gracia on Jul 20^th, 2004, 1:24am

ahhh forever is just a state of mind. We all dream that when relationship is at it's peak...we always pray or wish or dream that the feeling will last forever....but upon encountering the downhill of the relationship doesnt mean its ending..nortured again to let it grow. That's the spice and that makes it challenging. Life is not easy but could be simple ;D

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by killerabbit on Sep 9^th, 2004, 4:50pm

Love to me is like a form of energy......no matter what form it takes...burn it....freeze it...break it up in to tiny pieces...it will always be forever...and can never be truly destroyed.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by theragon on Sep 10^th, 2004, 7:26pm

I've sat here pondering that statment, for quite awhile. (hours) What is "love", and how long is "forever"? Jesus, speeking of his father, said
"God is Love", and to us He said "Love your enemies".
and "Love one another". Whatever love is, it has to be more then a feeling, like hunger, thirst, or lust. At least I hope so--- I've wagered my whole forever, on His LOVE being eternal.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by norkay on Sep 20^th, 2004, 2:29am

Awwww Thera ;D,i cant find any better idea than yours ;) ;D

Love is forever,only lovers change.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Oct 6^th, 2004, 12:12am

Every single person wants love to be forever.. even the cold hearted criminals wants someone to love them... But as so many ppl have said... Life is not a fairytale...

But love si still or can still eb forever. Its just a matter of findign the right person to love... I've been badly burned... scared.. bruised (or what ever term you may call it) by love that if i was not as strong as i am i would have killed myself already... I have loved and i have cried like so many hopeless romanic people in this world. Every relatioship we always wish that he'd or she'd be the one... Wishing that the feeling will never end. BUt in most cases it does end... It doesnt mean that we shoudl give up on love... Hurting is part of loving... When you get hurt and fall down, pick up youself and move on... Dont' go looking for love because you will always end up looking for the wrong person in the wrong places. Let love find its way to you... Every body deserves to be loved ;)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by okasantina on Oct 14^th, 2004, 11:48am

I feel the love truly exists wheneve i watch Forever in my heart :) hahahaha...corny ba? LOL! Love can be forever its the best thing that God even given to us...to love and to be loved....I am just dissapointed why other ppl take the advantage of having a divorce...its like..ok ill marry u now....but if i see theres something wrong between us..ill divorce u tomorrow ok? GEESH! Is there no any other chance??? What for?? :-[ ::)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by scottman on Oct 14^th, 2004, 7:15pm

The only way love can be forever is if the two people in question understand that it changes. All things in life are impermanent, including emotions. So the way you feel about your "lover" will change over time; it's still love, but it goes through different levels and states as time passes. Its not really that complicated, it just needs to be accepted.

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by meyie on Nov 10^th, 2004, 4:47am

on 09/09/04 at 16:50:59, killerabbit wrote:

Love to me is like a form of energy......no matter what form it takes...burn it....freeze it...break it up in to tiny pieces...it will always be forever...and can never be truly destroyed.

i share same thoughts lol..

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by meyie on Nov 10^th, 2004, 4:48am

might sound crazy..but for me love is forever....the true love..may be romantic...platonic..or whatever....will always be in my heart..might take a new form, but will always be there...arghhhhh..

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by mylane on Nov 11^th, 2004, 5:21pm

since nelson mentioned about happily ever after.... ;D

Men are born to deceive women

and women to believe men

it does happen... it's not about being dumb or watsoever

it's just the natural flow of life...

and they live happily ever after.....

ahihihihi....joke ;D

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by kim on Dec 17^th, 2004, 5:35am

Love is forever... Only the lovers are not... ;)

Title: Re: Is LOVE really forever?
Post by okasantina on Jan 23^rd, 2005, 5:48am

Love can be Forever if it will last longer....

Title: Re: Is LOVE Really Forever?
Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on Jul 1^st, 2005, 10:01pm

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