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Title: Falling Out Of Love Post by mylane on Jan 12th, 2004, 11:16pm Have you ever experienced waking up one day, suddenly realizing that you don't love him/her anymore? post away... note: im not writing a book lol...im just feeding u guys with some interesting topic ;D |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by okasantina on Jan 13th, 2004, 10:03am YES! YES and YES mymy cuz.... Its when my world only rotates only for him for so long.... :o Till one day i woke up and felt that i dont feel anything...first i was worried why? Then i thought of tiredness, boredome, unwanted, unloved, disrespectful, hatred... ??? ::) What can i do? i felt it!!! Cant even think of gaining it back again.... So i believe that once u love a person and u know that he/she knows is loved keep the most of it...dont waste any time of giving it...cause time will come ull regret it. ;) |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by JINX_x_JINX on Jan 16th, 2004, 6:37pm Quote:
my2x when ya gonna start posting yours ::) ::) ::) ??? kk my2x aint writting a book darn book was already passed in the publisher already :o :o :P |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by bige on Jan 23rd, 2004, 12:17pm fallin out of love hmmmm. You can do this wow. Maybe. I never fell out of love matter of fact I still love that person but I have moved on it wasn't for me. Love is a tricky word. If you fall in love means you build a relationship with someone then when you break you leave that relationship but here is the thing all of the things in the middle of meeting and breaking you experienced life with that person so I am going to say yes I still have love for her but no I do not want to be with her nor talk to her. Weird but hey its life lolol. |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by mylane on Feb 10th, 2004, 3:32am a good frend told me that there is no such things as fallin out of love.....either u give up on a relationship or the person itself.... one way or another all i can say is, it happens and its not a good feelin.... |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by ray69 on Feb 17th, 2004, 3:49am feels lyk im cursed, or having a bad dream.... |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by kianna_andrea on Feb 21st, 2004, 1:34am It happens,..... and when it does... believe me... you want to die.... How can you love someone with all your heart and then you just wake up one day and realize that you don't anymore? It's the scariest thing ... and the hardest part of it all is letting that someone know... :'( |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by thebeast on Feb 23rd, 2004, 1:59pm I dont think ever fall out of love, but i sure as hell fall into it. So pull up a chair friends and listen to my ideas of love and love loss. Usually 2 reasons y u fall out of love. 1)lack of communication and 2) one of the other partners cheated and the other partner cant accept it. I dont believe u really fall out of love due to attraction, this is a crock. The reason arent attracted is somehwhere along the way you lost communication. You start thinking u are old and not supposed to do the things u did when u were first together. Well who the hell said u gotta do this. Not me. Im gonna live a life thats full of passion with a woman. Im not gonna let lack of communication and the fear of getting old get in my way. Now for the heart that has been scorned by an unfaithful love. This is probably the hardest thing to accept and the reason y most people fall out of love. I know i have been unfaithful and i have been on the receiving end as well and i know when this happens everything changes. All kinds of fellings felt here like jealousy, trust, loss of dignity and respect just to mention a few. One thing is certain if u decide to make a go of it. U cant hold grudges and u cant hold on to what happened everytime an argument starts. U have to totally forgive and forget and concentrate on what matters most. |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by okasantina on Mar 2nd, 2004, 1:14am ::) It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails. You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes, but you will never do anymore that take the life out of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body, love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions and commonalities that two people share. And just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its ways. Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of love will come to you in full flower. Take hold of it and celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on. When this happen to young people, they too often try to grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a gift that just as freely, moves away. When they fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on. They want answers where there are no answers. They want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other person no longer love them, or try to get their love to change, thinking that if some small things were different, love would bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that if they go far away and start a new life, their love will grow. They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery. You need to know this about love, and accept it. You need to treat what it brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart. If you find yourself someone in love with you but you don't love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage; do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with yourself. All our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different. If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it nor to assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time. Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them. The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away. Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its time, its own season, its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery. BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE. If you keep you heart open, it will come again... So i guess the contrary to this is Falling out of love?? ;D Tina ??? ::) |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by gracia on Mar 10th, 2004, 7:30pm falling out of love??? oh please not that! snatch my cellphone, my wallet, my cheap material possessions....just not fall out of love! Anyhow....i dont want to think about it, it might lead somewhere i might regret. I'm optimistic kind of person........so we're always in love! |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by mylane on Mar 10th, 2004, 8:59pm on 03/02/04 at 01:14:20, okasantina wrote:
very nice cuz tina.... especially this part...just enjoy it while it last. ;D but come to think of it, this fallin out of love dillemma is really hard once u already married the guy/ gal. it is hard in the bf/gf part too but not as hard when it comes to the married person. Lots of things to consider like the kids. |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by gracia on Mar 11th, 2004, 7:54am If its meant to happen then it will happen. It's difficult..very difficult especially if one is not ready...but God is there to be with us all the way. We only have to remember that He is there. ;D |
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Title: Re: Falling out of love Post by okasantina on Aug 13th, 2004, 10:54am ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) |
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Title: Re: Falling Out Of Love Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on Jul 1st, 2005, 10:11pm This Thread is Now Closed Moderator ~Love & Marriage~ |
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