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Title: How To Make Someone Stop From Liking U So Much? Post by mylane on Jun 18th, 2004, 8:57am Post away ;D |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by thebeast on Jun 18th, 2004, 6:17pm Well mylene all u gotta do is just be yourself. LOL ;D ;D ;D ;D. Is that enought smileys? |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by madd on Jun 18th, 2004, 8:41pm That was funny beast ;D ;D ;D |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by kianna_andrea on Jun 18th, 2004, 10:32pm I don't think beast's post answers the question though... Hmm... I wonder who likes mymy so much that she have to ask this question?.... ??? ;) |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by madd on Jun 18th, 2004, 11:01pm It doesn't Kianna. But it was good comic relief. Actually, you just be honest with the person and tell them the truth. If they still don't sotp liking you, then ignore them, avoid them. |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by kianna_andrea on Jun 18th, 2004, 11:09pm Ignore and avoid.... yes I guess that'll do. ;) But I still wonder,...is there really such a way to make someone stop liking you? I mean, you can't dictate anyone's heart and mind right?... For us girls, I think one way to make someone stop liking us aside from being honest is by being uh,...bitchy?...you know,..I think that will turn off the guy... yes I think that's it. ::) :P |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by madd on Jun 18th, 2004, 11:16pm That is a turnoff, but some guys are clueless. Actually either sex can be clueless. |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by mylane on Jun 19th, 2004, 1:59pm FYI, This is a general question and I did not post it for the benefits of me. |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by mylane on Jun 19th, 2004, 2:02pm on 06/18/04 at 23:09:57, kianna_andrea wrote:
Being bitchy won't help i guess. Don't answer the text messages, email and phone call. Hide for atleast a month. Make sure you not at home during weekend. Tell him your dating another guy. If that doesn't work, well tell him you like gurls than guys. ;D |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by kianna_andrea on Jun 19th, 2004, 11:46pm on 06/19/04 at 14:02:53, mylane wrote:
:D...good one MyMy .... |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by MissFartyPants on Jun 20th, 2004, 2:57am EXACTLY the problem I've had with my ex. He was starting to get into my skin. No matter how bitchy I get, he didn't seem to care. Ignore, avoid, I turn my cellfone off - the whole shebang. I think it's when I told him I'm seeing another guy, and that I'm having his baby that did the trick. ;D He's shipping off next week. Looks like he can't wait to get out of here. ;D I finally got rid of the stalker ex. |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by gracia on Jun 20th, 2004, 8:39pm tell him the real score first and foremost and then ignore ...he'll get tired pushing. Sometimes being "bitchy" can help pushing a man away, but on the other hand, they'll take it as a challenge too....which lead to a more dangerous actions, some men dont know how to handle bitchiness and they'll end up having revenge and that's scary ladies... |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by Slayer on Jun 29th, 2004, 3:22pm I just noticed that the more i get bitchy, the more they like me. so being bitchy won't work for me. |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by thebeast on Jul 4th, 2004, 6:43pm How about just being honest with him or her. That has always worked for me. If that dont work Im willing to bet that you are not letting your feelings known very well. Maybe you dont like him, but maybe you dont want him to leave you alone at the same time kinda deal. |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by need4speed8dalejr on Jul 4th, 2004, 9:05pm I agree with "thebeast", you must be sending mixed signals. If you made your intentions LOUD & CLEAR then that person should/would leave you alone. That person must see a glimmer of hope, and still pursues you because of this. You just need to be more forceful. Simple. [smiley=cool4.gif] I do agree that it is harder for women to get rid of possible suiters, men are often blinded with visions of them with their favorite but uncooperative woman. I do however firmily believe that women want to be pursued, and let me tell you a little story that I think explains what I am talking about. I worked for four and a half years in a store part time while I was going to school. When I started working there, I was very interested in a Philippine gal who already worked there. We often had our lunch at the same time, and for what seemed like 2 or 3 weeks straight I would talk to her and ask her if she wanted to get together to go out to dinner, go to a movie, whatever. She never said no, but after a few weeks of that I decided that I don't want to pursue someone who doesn't want to be pursued. I then started secretly seeing another gal who worked there, but that's another story. Case closed I thought right? Wrong! After four and a half years of working side by side with her, another guy started to send her flowers and little notes. I kindda chuckled to myself. She then talked with the assistant manager and persuaded her to call me into her office and have a little chat with me. She asked me if I had any feelings for the Philippine gal, and how I felt about her. This puzzled me to no end, and the only thing that I can think was that the assistant manager was just being nosey and was trying to dig up some dirt. I told the assistant manager that I only had "friendship" feelings towards the Philippine gal, and that she had her chance when I first started. After all, This was true. I did however still think she was attractive. After my meeting with the assistant manager, the Philippine gal started to date the guy who sent her flowers. It didn't hit me untill some weeks later that this gal held her feelings for me a secret and wanted to be pursued. I never could understand that. It still boggles my mind to this day. I can't understand why she just didn't come and chat with me, or if she was shy, pass me a letter. Ahhhh...but no. I firmly believe that she wanted to be pursued. Crazy Gurl. [smiley=kiss2.gif] I stop by the store from time to time and chat with the managers who worked with me, and they still tell me how she is doing. Sometimes when I answer my phone and there is no one there, I wonder if she is on the other end. While this story involved a Philippine gal, I know all Philippine gals don't act like that, so don't even go there Honey! It just so happened that she was Philippino. [smiley=peace.gif] |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by kianna_andrea on Jul 5th, 2004, 4:28am on 07/04/04 at 21:05:16, need4speed8dalejr wrote:
I guess this one's true. I can't speak for women in general.... but I think some Filipinas are like that. I'm not really sure why but I guess it's because Filipinas tend to be "pakipot" or "hard to get" as they say because they are used to being wooed and courted by guys. It's called "ligaw" here. It's like when a guy likes this girl he have to ask for permission first if he can court her. And courting here means going to her house for a visit, meeting her parents and going out on a date once in a while. Usually it takes about months. I even know some couples who took about 6 months or even a year of courting. (yes it's true) It's like a test of the guy's perseverance and good intentions and for the girl to get to know the guy as well. After the courting then it's up to the girl to decide. Usually when the girl says "I Love You Too" then it means they're officially boyfriends and girlfriends already. Sounds strange?... Lol... One more thing: Sometimes women tend hide what they really feel. Maybe it's because they don't want to appear aggressive or easy to get or flirty or cheap so most of the time, even if they do like someone, they try not to let it show. And this of course could give they guy the wrong impression. I guess that's what happened in Dale's case. 'Coz u see some Filipinas just don't go around telling someone that she likes him too or wants to be with him and all that. ( maybe me,..lol,..but not all Filipinas are like me! ;D :P) Maybe the one you've met was a 'lil "conservative" as they say. She likes you but she was rather shy about it... and c'mon,... women like to be pursued.... Who doesn't?.... It makes women feel rather special and irresistible. And about the "phone" thing,..... what does your instinct tells you?... Maybe it is her at the other end of the line. She must've liked you a lot considering she has to know your feelings for her before she accepts the other suitor. She must 've called because she wanted to talk and tell you something but she chickens out everytime she hear your voice. Believe me,..women tend to do "unexplainable" things for someone they really like. And calling that someone on the phone but not really talking and hanging up after the guy answers is one of those things... 've been there done that...It's crazy I know,...but women do crazy stuffs as well.... Aren't we the most "unfathomable" creatures on the planet? |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by mylane on Jul 5th, 2004, 8:50am Kianna, you exactly explain the way of courting in PI ;) very nice explanation. Its all about culture, its been like that eversince in PI eventhough they said that its kinda old fashion but most filipina still practice it. You will find it very uncommon to some filipina to be aggressive. Courting in an old fashioned way always works i guess. |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by MissFartyPants on Jul 6th, 2004, 12:07am Different strokes for different folks, yeah? (this should be on the Masturbation thread). Just my two cents on courtship, folks. Need not get any one's panties in a bunch. While the traditional courtship works for most women and perhaps the same women who still practice this has my genuine respect, I do however have my qualms about it. The way I see it, Dating/Courtship is merely a front for both men and women. Picture this: Boy tries his damnest to impress the lady in pursuit, lady tries her damnest not make her feelings much too obvious. For reasons only known to her. It is also my observation that men likes the thrill of the chase, and at times, vice versa. Life is much too short, if you ask me. There is just no clear cut way to test a man's sincerity while in courtship/dating period. I'd like to think I have a no-nonsense approach on just about anything. If I like the guy, I tell him. If I don't like him, I don't like him. As simple as that. Life is screwy enough as it is, why complicate it? Say the girl likes the boy she's going out with, spend the time getting to know each other as a couple. Instead of two people putting up an act. When the guy finally has the lady in the bag (excuse the pun), he will eventually shed his true colors - that's when things start to cook up. Thus, cutting to the chase ---- saving each other the time and the pressure. Ideally, that's how things should work, no? (to be continued --- will await your violent reaction/s) ;D |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by gracia on Jul 28th, 2004, 2:14am oh geeze, i can see myself on that girl Dale! I don't know why but on my teenage days (yeah am too old now)...it's too difficult for me to nod on a date or just even answer a simple question, how much more in telling/showing my feelings. Seems my tongue tied. Maybe a mixture of conservatism, shyness and fear (mama might caught me). But anyhow, if all guys has same attitude with you Dale way back, that you only have to ask once and if there's no positive response you gonna turn your back...most probably i'm still single by now ;D |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by need4speed8dalejr on Jul 28th, 2004, 4:57pm on 07/28/04 at 02:14:12 [quote, gracia wrote:
Well I was after her for the better part of three weeks!! I think that's enough time. Geesshh!! Let's see a gal go after a guy for that long. It just won't happen. I will persue a gal only so far...but she had better meet me half way. A gal who doesn't take a couple of steps towards me, realizes that I quickly lose interest in her. I really think the gal I posted about was shocked that even after 4 1/2 years I wasn't still interested in her. LMAO!! Women truly are uninformed about what a guy thinks about when it comes to women. Ohhh dear. |
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Title: Re: How to make someone stop from liking u so much Post by fish_drownedgurl on Nov 1st, 2004, 1:00pm how to make someone stop from liking you?? hmmm??? ill jez say stop ths i dont feel anythingg nyahahaha!!! kidding:P lolx but try it. might works??? lolz or be a boogerer infront of him yikes! i bet he will not even dare to look at yah! nyahahahha!!! |
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Title: Re: How To Make Someone Stop From Liking U So Much Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on Jul 1st, 2005, 10:22pm This Thread is Now Closed Moderator ~Love & Marriage~ |
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