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(Message started by: gracia on Jan 11th, 2004, 6:09am)

Title: How Do U Deal With Repetitious Offense?
Post by gracia on Jan 11th, 2004, 6:09am
mostly i heard...they never forget a single mistake their love ones made...how about if its being repeated twice, thrice or more...what will u do?  lets just say a mild offense...nothing major...

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by mylane on Jan 12th, 2004, 7:54am


fool me once shame on u

fool me twice shame on me

fool me thrice give me the gun i'll do it  myself ;D

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by bige on Jan 12th, 2004, 1:16pm
easy solution find yourself the biggest bridge take a sheet tie one end to the brige and the other end to your belt loop then jump.  lolol then right me back after your done doing that if your ok I will tell ya the next trick. lolol jk

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by Slice_of_Asia on Jan 12th, 2004, 2:23pm
repetitious offense?  it's not in my vocabulary.

that first boo boo is all they get.  im no punching bag.   :)

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by Slice_of_Asia on Jan 12th, 2004, 2:28pm
how would i deal with it?  i would just say "see ya..."

cheating on the other hand, there's no excuse for that.  no second chances.  (is this part of the repetitious offense?  i dont even know).

Gracia can you elaborate on "repetitious offense"?  I might just be babbling here for no reason.  

But anyway, that's my feeling.

where are my dawgs at...i need back up !

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by shastamcnasty on Jan 12th, 2004, 5:15pm
I used to curse this s l u t  i used to date out all the time, but i told her i had Terretts syndrom ;)

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by Slice_of_Asia on Jan 12th, 2004, 7:05pm
ok...you cuss at them, you hit them...what else dawg  ;D

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by thesweeetest_thing on Jan 13th, 2004, 12:45am
I agree Dawgy..cheating is a big No-NO for me....no second chances and a big, fat BYE BYE baby ;D :P

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by thesweeetest_thing on Jan 13th, 2004, 12:48am
Dawgy do you notice we get to know about Byron so much more through this Forum thing?He gets scarier by the second ;DMylene and BopBop I can't find the IGGY button in this Forum? ::)

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by okasantina on Jan 13th, 2004, 9:56am
As long as i still feel him...as long as i still have the patience .... as long as i still have the respect to myself then no need to worry about forgiving... ::) :)

But there is an END to everything!!!! Compromise is only an exception... ;)

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by mylane on Jan 13th, 2004, 7:36pm

on 01/13/04 at 00:48:48, thesweeetest_thing wrote:
Dawgy do you notice we get to know about Byron so much more through this Forum thing?He gets scarier by the second ;DMylene and BopBop I can't find the IGGY button in this Forum? ::)



hahaha ching....no iggy button....mike is not yet updating some features of the board he so busy....we can ban some poster though....lol ;D

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by ray69 on Feb 17th, 2004, 1:47am
do a reformat thingy..haha ;D

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by okasantina on May 19th, 2004, 3:15am





FORGIVENESS.........Understanding and applying this teaching of forgiveness by Jesus, will free anyone from negative feelings .  " it is more blessed to give, than to receive " Jesus in Acts 20:35

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by MissFartyPants on May 19th, 2004, 4:26am
Repetitious offense? No patience at all.

I get rid of the offender. How? I ain't tellin  ;D

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by need4speed8dalejr on May 19th, 2004, 6:53am
What are talking about here?

Forgot to put the toilet seat down? Drank your last cola? Didn't wash the dishes??

Come on people!! Relationships are not Rocket Science. If just takes patience.

It seems like most of you have the dating standards of Jerry Seinfeld. He once broke up with a gal because she eats her peas one at a time with a fork.

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by okasantina on May 19th, 2004, 1:43pm
Forgivenezz will zet you free.....


[smiley=angel.gif]



He, never said ' except that one...because it would be so hard to forgive.....or ' except that one, because that offense is too great....or ' I'll understand that you can't do that just yet......No, not in even one verse did He ever justify unforgiveness !!!

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by MissFartyPants on May 21st, 2004, 6:00am

on 05/19/04 at 06:53:32, need4speed8dalejr wrote:
What are talking about here?

Forgot to put the toilet seat down? Drank your last cola? Didn't wash the dishes??

Come on people!! Relationships are not Rocket Science. If just takes patience.

It seems like most of you have the dating standards of Jerry Seinfeld. He once broke up with a gal because she eats her peas one at a time with a fork.


Doesn't matter to me. I have absolutely NO tolerance at all with anything repetitive. Neither do I have patience. If someone or something annoys me, I don't put up with it. I don't have to.

If that puts people off ---  well it should! I'm comfortable being alone.



Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by need4speed8dalejr on Jun 1st, 2004, 12:30am
Cat,  ;D

I feel that the words in your post sound ohh so familiar.

Let me tell you a story that I think the time has come to tell you.

In my early twenties I dated a girl. Her name was Cathy. She was artsy, creative, moody, passionate, mysterious, spoiled, a little bit crazy, smart & ohh so very different. She was great for me, and we always had a good time laughing and seeking out adventures together. I often felt that she was ahead of her time, if there is such a thing. She would always start trends never follow them. She craved attention and deep inside I felt she was unhappy. Unhappy with life type of thing. She wrote many blog entries to herself and would fill up notebook after notebook of her thoughts, most of which was tempered with a touch of sadness. She once told me that she was destined to go through life alone, and that true happiness was not in the cards for her. I laughed at the notion of such a though, but in time came to know that her statement was very accurate.

I see alot of her in you Cathy. The same notions of life and love unfufilled. Of wantings and needs that are forever out of your reach. In your blog entries you write with such a passion and a style that opens your heart and soul for all to see, but it too is singed with this undercurrent of eternal sadness. I don't know if you see it or not, but it's there. I see it.... I feel it.

You might scoff at what I have told you. But it is all true. The last I heard she was off traveling the World in search of happiness. I do know that she can never truly be happy, for what she understands as happy, is but a mirage dancing in front of her.  [smiley=award3flip.gif]

True happiness lives inside of each of us. Once you accept that, and understand that no other person can complete you as a person so long as you are unhappy with yourself, and that searching for happiness in other people is but a temporary mask you wear. Then and only then will you be able to tolerate your partner leaving the toilet seat up and eatting their peas one at a time with a fork.  ;D ;D

Cathy, I want you to know that I am not picking on you, nor am I preaching down to you. If it sounds like that, it's not. I just had to tell you my experiences and how your writing reminds me so much of someone else. [smiley=afro.gif]

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by Bite_Me on Jun 1st, 2004, 5:08am
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.
They say that repetition is the best form of emphasis.

Maybe some people commit the same offense over and over again for underlying purposes. Or perhaps they are chronic offenders? But then again, i'm one so don't ask me about it (@lolz).

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by MissFartyPants on Jun 8th, 2004, 6:01am
Hi Dale,

I have a tendency to get sidetracked while I'm babbling/gathering my thoughts. I thought it best to post my response in "It's My Blog" section. I have left so many cliffhangers for you anyways, so consider it as payback time  ;)

I hope you don't mind.

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by gracia on Jun 20th, 2004, 9:19pm
guys....am talking about minor offenses here...cheating like having another women or men..is a major offense. So i would generally respect when a woman say..i wont tolerate that..or cheating is a BIG NO...in my case..i really don't know what will happen, i can think of possible actions i might be having..but the soft and hard part of me seems on sparring...so its so stressful to think...so i just say...i'll cross the bridge when i get there...

anyhow for minor offenses, based on my experience, i think i can forgive seven times seventy-seven times.  Its so pity to quarrel on pety matters..not worth a single stress.  Or maybe i'll get filled up in time??? I'm praying for patience anyhow...None of us is perfect...my imperfections will remind me that others are imperfect too. ;D

Title: Re: how u deal with repetitious offense?
Post by kim on Dec 17th, 2004, 11:18am
Been there done that...

When i was younger and so much naive i have had boyfriends that cheated on me... But the worst was probably when i had a bf became so voilent after 2 years of going steady... He abused me verbaly and Physically. The reason why i put up with taht was becasue i was young and inlove. I was affraid to lose him.

Repetitious offense depends on what kind of offense was made. If he Left the tooth paste open or forgot to take out the trash that forgivable but the offenses that has no excuse are hitting and cheating on your partner...

Title: Re: How Do U Deal With Repetitious Offense?
Post by Need4Speed8DaleJr on Jul 5th, 2005, 8:31pm
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