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(Message started by: nelson3082000 on Nov 18th, 2005, 11:07am)
Title: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 18th, 2005, 11:07am
Tell nelson all about it
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Nov 18th, 2005, 12:56pm
welcome to blogging mark bugger... but is dis ur blog ??? ??? ::)
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by CooCHie on Nov 18th, 2005, 4:35pm
;D ;D ;DOh Lordy!!!I thought Mandela died!!!Hahahaha..
Well cum Nelson...Be nice, I run out of kisses to bribe you out from jail.
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by okasantina on Nov 18th, 2005, 5:14pm
Welcome to the bloggin world nelson... just "DONT WHIP IT!" ok?  ;D  


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Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 20th, 2005, 2:10pm
;D ;Dyeah whip it good its gettin old now i agree ;D
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 22nd, 2005, 1:39am
Hi Nelson! Is this your blog or Mandela's? I'm confused?
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nOrKAy on Nov 22nd, 2005, 4:44am

on 11/22/05 at 01:39:11, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Hi Nelson! Is this your blog or Mandela's? I'm confused?


I am ,too. And we need to know.
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by CooCHie on Nov 22nd, 2005, 7:15am
Wonder when you going to start your blog Nelson!!!!
[smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif]Got my drink ready and waiting to read urs....Lets get it on!!!!! [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif]
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 22nd, 2005, 4:42pm
my blog is here just type waht ya want to know or say and ill say back or agree or disagree or post a comment lolz ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nOrKAy on Nov 22nd, 2005, 6:00pm

on 11/22/05 at 16:42:39, nelson3082000 wrote:
my blog is here just type waht ya want to know or say and ill say back or agree or disagree or post a comment lolz ;D ;D ;D


Hello Nelson,
If you opened this thread and use it as your "chat thread" ,then this is not called blog and I suppose it has to be moved to the right group where it belongs. Maybe to "Babble" section.





Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 23rd, 2005, 6:56am
Correct me, people..if I'm wrong. But isn't a Blog here supposed to be some kind of a diary where you post your thoughts and/or activities you want to share with the readers? Maybe someone can try to explain to Nelson what "blogging" here means?Please do not get offended. Just trying to help, Nelson?
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nOrKAy on Nov 23rd, 2005, 7:31am

on 11/23/05 at 06:56:04, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Correct me, people..if I'm wrong. But isn't a Blog here supposed to be some kind of a diary where you post your thoughts and/or activities you want to share with the readers? Maybe someone can try to explain to Nelson what "blogging" here means?Please do not get offended. Just trying to help, Nelson?


Exactly. It is here where ,in anyway, you express your self, feelings and talk about yourself as we welcome people to comment, react and respond.

I will be back here and see.


Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Nov 23rd, 2005, 1:38pm

on 11/22/05 at 16:42:39, nelson3082000 wrote:
my blog is here just type waht ya want to know or say and ill say back or agree or disagree or post a comment lolz ;D ;D ;D



duh mark bugger, l told you before what the meanings of ''blog''... [smiley=wall.gif]
this is suposse to be your daily activities, ur thoughts, emotions etc anything, but not abt others asking questions and u answered lol lol

u can read others blog, then u'll find out then things about blogging, k? 8)

do start or l'll kick your butt lol lol [smiley=whip.gif]  :P
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 23rd, 2005, 2:22pm
well ok then,
today i went visit my father hes got the cancer and is not expected to live long :'( :'(.
he was quite good today and we talk about things my future and all the wrongs and right thinks hes done in his life. it nearly make me cry like hes tryin to get peace before he goes.
i got to work today as im manager at my work and it keeps my mind focused or i would go crazy tryin to deal with things
im glad also im back here it lets me spill how i feel about everything and can try to ease my pain a little by typing it and relleasing some of my feelings and anger.
i come home tonight
i have a hrad work out on punching bag so i can release my anger that my dad is goin through so much pain and i cant do anything about it.
anyway i better go and sorry to all if it took me a while to  tell some of my life
im a real closed guy and dont really let a lot out most of the time so i will try to give some away  alot of times.
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 23rd, 2005, 2:35pm
There you go, Nelson! See? It's not so hard, right? And I'm sorry about your Dad. It's always been hard in a family to know that someone is dying. But sometimes letting go is best rather than see them suffer more, right? At least it will give you more time to make peace with him and to understand him more. My husband died a sudden death. And I regret that we never had time to talk about a lot of things. When he died, I was at a loss as to what I am going to do. But you have the chance, Nelson. Make the most of it, ok? And be strong.
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Nov 23rd, 2005, 8:03pm
mark bugger,
sorry if l was too hard on you, not picking on you but sometimes l got into my short temper ill mannered  :P lol

life is hard, thats a fact but God is always good no matter what happen in our life, He know what is best for His children. So does with your dad, must be hard for your family but you got the chance now to talk to him n know him better and make him happy. God knows what is best for him. easy to talk, l knowbut l know how hard it can be...

sometimes people dont realize how much we love someone till they will go or even go away already, then we feel the suffer that we love them dearly. but good for you now at least you got the time.
be strong k?
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by Levy on Nov 23rd, 2005, 8:33pm
I'm sorry to hear about your dad, Nelson... Just hang in there and be strong and most importantly, spend as much time as you can have with your dad. I'm pretty sure you and your family do love him a lot and that you will be sad by this situation.

But that's life... nothing remains constant.

Take care and all the best...*hugz*
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by earthlingorgeous on Nov 24th, 2005, 10:44am
awww nelson....i'm sorry to hear that about your dad....
yes writing is a good therapy... and its good you can say what you want anything you like... sometimes you just need to pour it all out...
be strong...have faith...be well... God bless!
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 26th, 2005, 11:58am
Thanks to all the comments girls/ladies it is good to talk about it and release it, yeah i go there everyday without fail to spend the time with him and to suport him as much as i can.Hes been there always supporting me through everyhting in my life and encourage me to always do my best,I guess sometimes as past in here i been below my best in some the comments i said and posted but know this i always things of u as good friends and anything i can help you with form this part of the world just call me or holla at me and im there.
   As about my day today its saturday and about 9pm at night usually im at home relaxing and in the chat room laughing and playing songs and havin fun, but today my boss is of sick and she asked me to come into work to cover for her.So the good guy i am i accpeted and should finish in about 1 hours time and be home 20 mins after that to chat and have some fun, My work is in the pharmaceuticals trade we manufacture all types of medicines and i work as a shift manager/production manager on the afternoon shift with about 45 persons i have to guide and have fun with it can be very demanding when these new 30 million dollar machines break down and the technicians are spending time tryin to fix them, we have about 25 lines here and the company makes about 300 to 400 million a year in production which is doin pretty nicely.
   Well since it is staurday night i will probably go home after work get home about 10.30pm and shower and get online to chat for 2 hours and then relax before goin to bed, will have to set my alarm clock for 6 am to go to church and then when i come home to some house cleaning and wash nelson the dog, he loves the washing part as he generally gets me as wet as he is by shaking himself when hes fully soaped up, which is fun i guess for him. i will dry him  and then feed him and then walk him as he loves his 1 hour walk every day if i dont walk him he gives me that u bugger u didnt walk me today look and he will dig up my garden, but i loves him hes big part of my family and i cant do witout him hes funny dog.
  Ok i better stop raving on and do some work, many reports to do and  a big presentation coim up for our operations manager on the past years performance, so take care all and hope ya like my posts :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by CooCHie on Nov 26th, 2005, 4:40pm
The only soothing word I can say,  just "HANG ON" I know its hard to go through  what you  have been dealing now especially that is very close to your heart. .  I have been there.  The trip to hospital, seeing someone go through pain...it was devastating...We all go through the face of suffering but just hang in there Mark...Yes, it is nice to write how you feel..this might be a good thing for you..Expressing your thoughts  which keeps your mind away from thinking of other things..and  also releases some of the tension  that you are feeling...I know its not much but just imagine some kisses and hugs from all of us!!!Be strong...
  :) :)And thanks for sharing us your day!!!
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by Jimbo on Nov 27th, 2005, 12:21am

on 11/23/05 at 14:22:04, nelson3082000 wrote:
today i went visit my father hes got the cancer and is not expected to live long :'( :'(.

I am sorry to hear Neslon :(  I can't say I know what your going through, because we are all different..  I can say, I can relate to how you feel...Its a helpless feeling to know you cannot stop it...I watched my late wife for over a year, and never delt with it then... You are dealing with it in a good way by venting your frustrations...Take care of yourself Nelson, and may God always be there for you and your Dad, you certainly are in my prayers
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by ChAntiQ on Nov 27th, 2005, 11:15am

I'm sorry to hear about your Dad Nelson.  My family also went thru the same hardship a few years ago.  We rejoice over the gift of one more day, and each day he wins his battle.  It is something that has put our own mortality in the forefront of our minds.

It occurred to me though that while his enemy is known, ours might not be revealed to us until that time comes. There’s the undiagnosed ailment, the drunk driver, the murderer, the freak accident, the natural disaster, etc. Any of these could cut our lives short. If we knew that destiny has set our end date for tomorrow, would we be happy with the things that we have done? How have we led our lives? Would we feel that we have properly spent the time that was given to us? How negatively or positively did we impact the lives of the people around us? If people recall our last utterance to them, would they say it was edifying or hurtful? Have we inspired people to live better lives or do we serve as a warning? What legacy would we leave behind? And I don’t mean in terms of money or property. That’s probably because I have neither! :P

We should seize every opportunity to really try and have a positive impact, even on PMS days. Whether it’s for family, friend or those who consider you their foe. I guess for each of us, there would be a share of people who would think you led a fruitful life, and a group that would think otherwise. Indeed, no one is perfect. I do hope that somehow, the ayesayers would outweigh the naysayers. But in the end, I really will only care about one. God… that He says “Aye!”
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Nov 27th, 2005, 11:50am
hullo there mark bugger,

just stopping by here, good to see you can open up yourself more with your blog, it made you better at least, right? helpful right? ;D

tc.
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 30th, 2005, 3:32pm
yeah it helps alot to talk and get the problems of my back
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Dec 24th, 2005, 9:55pm
mewwwwwyyyy kwismessssss mr mark bugger ;D tried to wake u up b4 for christmas but ur asleep :P blahhhhh

anyway, wish u a wonderful christmas, wish all your hopes and wishes come true.

have a wonderful christmas also nice holiday, God bless you and your family :)
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by Wicked_Witch on Dec 27th, 2005, 5:30am
Hey, bugger..how's your Dad? Hope you have a Happy New Year!!!
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by Justine on Dec 27th, 2005, 8:16pm
Hiya bugger, I didn't know you started your blog.  Hope you had a good Christmas.  How's your father now?  As I would always tell you, keep faith.  God works in mysterious ways.
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by daviefaescotland on Dec 28th, 2005, 6:57am


 happy new year mark ;D [smiley=icon_drink.gif]have a drink on me :P
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by CooCHie on Dec 28th, 2005, 4:11pm
HAPPY NEW YEAR MARK!!HOPE YOU WILL GET TO MEET THAT SPECIAL GIRL THIS COMING YEAR!!!IF YOU ARE SERIOUS ABOUT IT MY ADVICE YOU GO FOR IT.

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Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nelson3082000 on Dec 28th, 2005, 11:42pm
yeah coochie but she always goin to sleep when im awake and she always busy with her work [smiley=icon_dance.gif] [smiley=icon_dance.gif] [smiley=icon_dance.gif] [smiley=icon_dance.gif] [smiley=icon_dance.gif]
Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by okasantina on Dec 31st, 2005, 9:24pm
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Happy New Year!!! Nelsonnnn whip it lol!!!! Wishing you all the best in this world....!!



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Title: Re: Nelson Mandelas freedom room
Post by nOrKAy on Jan 19th, 2006, 10:34am



I wonder what's going on in here ,as well? LOL. Anyway, whatever Nelson is doing, I hope it's for the peace of his mind.  ;D


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