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(Message started by: CeL on Sep 4^th, 2007, 9:52am)

Title: CELebrating CELibacy
Post by CeL on Sep 4^th, 2007, 9:52am

Hi...still thinking of what to post here while looking forward for a great 2 weeks of vacation next month. my calendar is still awaiting an invitation where i cud spent 14 days, away from my demanding work and boring days at home...

get to know more of the spicy life in Bicol express and the wilderness in Bicol's jungle....see ya around for more!!!

Title: Re: CELebrating CELibacy
Post by Gracia on Sep 4^th, 2007, 12:46pm

on 09/04/07 at 09:52:10, CeL wrote:

Wow! This is extremely exciting. I can't wait to read your post/s Pakner. I'm a great fan of yours. Don't make us wait too long. Much as I'd like you to invite to come to Cebu but then on second thought, I was thinking who would love to spend her vacation baby sitting a three month old baby boy, 4 year old girl who thinks she's 18 and 8 year old confused boy who's undecided whether to find a job or go to school.

See ya around within those 14 days Pakner, don't evah hide. [smiley=icon_super.gif]

Title: Re: CELebrating CELibacy
Post by CeL on Sep 4^th, 2007, 4:47pm

on 09/04/07 at 12:46:53, Gracia wrote:

I'm a great fan of yours...... Much as I'd like you to invite to come to Cebu but then on second thought, I was thinking who would love to spend her vacation baby sitting a three month old baby boy, 4 year old girl who thinks she's 18 and 8 year old confused boy who's undecided whether to find a job or go to school.
[smiley=icon_super.gif]

you made me nervous there pakner :-/ but oohhh how i love to visit cebu one day....im quite sure ur 3 angels wont bug me at all, i love children and i even want one of my own someday ;D questions is...is there anyone who wud ever wanna daddy my baby?

Title: Re: CELebrating CELibacy
Post by CeL on Sep 4^th, 2007, 4:48pm

**thats question hahahaha geeee when it comes to men i usually get nervous

Title: Re: CELebrating CELibacy
Post by Gracia on Sep 6^th, 2007, 3:17am

on 09/04/07 at 16:47:35, CeL wrote:

Pakner, I'll bet my left ear on that question. Just don't be picky. Nyahahaha. I got a text the other day, i hope you haven't receive this one yet because I will share it to you whether you like it or not.

the most tiring thing to do? --- THINKING

the most expensive? ---- SMILE

the hardest to regain? ---TRUST

the most painful? ---- LOSS

the easiest escape? ----PRETEND

the most challenging? ---[/b]TO MOVE ON[/B]

the bravest thing to do? ---TO LOVE

You want me to put an ad in all classified ads Pakner? I will not charge you much. Nyahahahaha

Title: Re: CELebrating CELibacy
Post by CeL on Sep 6^th, 2007, 10:25am

thats new to me pakner, thank you for sharing.

as for the ad thing hhhmmmm ok post it away and il just reimburse the expenses from the possible candidates that il be able to get out of ur effort Pakner nyahahahahaha ;D :D

Title: I AM A WOMAN
Post by CeL on Sep 13^th, 2007, 11:42am

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d149/cel_1203/3.jpgWhen I was twelve, I thought my crush was the most handsome guy in the universe. I barely knew his name but I kept his image hidden in my heart. I even thought we’d end up married when I reach twenty-two.

Now, I’m thirty. Still single and when I look back at my childlike fantasies, I can’t help but laugh at myself. Things are difference now. I have become a different person. I am no longer the kind who would cling on to love like a kid seizing some new toy. I’m through with looking at a man’s physical attributes alone as I have found, sadly, the hard way, how it can be used as an instrument of deceit. After being crushed, burned and twice shy, I resolved to choose carefully the next time I fall for someone else.

A number of men have come into my life, last of whom I deeply loved. However, circumstances go against us and I don’t want to dwell on them and keep repeating the story over and over again. I’m a funny type of person, tough on the outside but in the inside, I’m vulnerable. It’s a camouflage to hide the sentiments and failures I had with my relationship online. But let’s not all go about that, mistakes and negative experiences should mold someone into a better and tougher person, not to make them give up for something more fruitful and successful in the future.

But let me tell u this, if you have an online relationship, it’s hard to keep on waiting and assuming that you would still end up together taking into consideration the distance and the fact that men will always be polygamous. If they aren’t, then perhaps they can’t stand to be left alone for longer months and years without a partner and decide to look for your substitute in the long run. Either way, it’s unfair for us women who crazily keep on assuring ourselves that our boyfriends are faithful one-woman-man. Moreover, there is the possibility of finding someone new here. Someone who, besides having the same interest as yours, shares your idealism. It’s not impossible that you slowly begin to realize your feelings have already developed towards a chatmate. But I am not stupid to resort to that. The last thing I’d ever do is jeopardizing a relationship, especially mine.

If a break up really happens, you can be sure I’m not the one who caused it. And then again, call me a liar if a male chat addict woos and tells you, hope to die, that he doesn’t have a special someone around him over the end of the rainbow: he does! So better not allow yourself to fall into the sly male trap in the first place. Now, let not these statements drive you into thinking that I’m a feminist, much worse, a lesbian. In fact, I believe marriage will come to me in a year or so. Hopefully, stable enough to raise a family. The question now is, will it still be the same man? Maybe, But if by chance it won’t, then it’s going to be his big loss. For I am also capable of giving the most passionate love no one has ever imagined. I can be a superb cook, a submissive wife, a dedicated mom and a hardworking yaya, all at the same time. I can be that because I am a woman. And I tell you; I still can live without a man if I really want to..... I am not selfish. Neither am I afraid of commitments. I guess I was just meant to be born beautifully independent. Most of all, I am wise.

Title: Re: CELebrating CELibacy
Post by CeL on Sep 24^th, 2007, 9:03am

A THOUGHT TO PONDER:

"...the only true painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained..."

Title: Re: CELebrating CELibacy
Post by Gracia on Sep 25^th, 2007, 4:05am

on 09/24/07 at 09:03:12, CeL wrote:

A THOUGHT TO PONDER:

"...the only true painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained..."

It's kind of mind boggling and emotional torture. For me nothing is more painful than it is hand in to you in cold right into your nose at a very unexpected time.

Title: Re: CELebrating CELibacy
Post by CeL on Sep 25^th, 2007, 10:46am

Hay pakner.....its is indeed a torture both mentally and emotionally