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(Message started by: mylane on May 30th, 2004, 10:53am)
Title: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by mylane on May 30th, 2004, 10:53am

share it here.... ;D


post away ;)
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by keensryche on May 31st, 2004, 7:50pm
When I started drinking. It made me an alcoholic, but it also has streighten my faith. I know God can help me over come any addiction.
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by okasantina on Oct 3rd, 2004, 3:28am
Shame to say but when i fought w someone i really love!!! The one who is always there beside me at so many times of my life...through ups and downs...she was always there for me.......ME BAD! really BAD! [smiley=icon_worship.gif] [smiley=wall.gif] [smiley=smash.gif]

[smiley=cat36.gif] Mama! :)
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by norkay on Oct 3rd, 2004, 10:24am
It's when my dad got married again.I was very dependent on him and never thought he gonna think about getting married again.We were very closed and just the two of us living together (since my two bros both  had already their own families and my sis lives here in HK,i'm the youngest) that i felt like i couldnt manage to live by myself. I bacame very rebellious and did everything i knew he hates me to do like drinking a lot and got drunk very often,i learned how to smoke 'til i got addicted,staying very late outside at night and even stew away from home,I also learned how to go to bars,disco houses which i never did before and the worst was ....i turned my back from the Lord :'(.I stopped my participation on church activities ( i was a very active and a leader of youth organizations of our church)for very long time and that i felt happy when i saw my dad cried about it because i really wanted him to see and show how bad i was hurt.He still got married though despite of what i was doing that i was really really hurt.Thats the time i decided to come here in HK and live with my sis which is my second home.Its here where i found myself back.I came to realise everything i did and felt really sorry for my dad.I cried so much and it took me so long to recover.I realised how much i love him and how important he is to me.He deserves all the respect and must be loved so much.I realised we all want to have our own families and we know we cant give much attention and care for him and that he really needs somebody to be with while he's alive.Now i have changed a lot although there are still many things to be changed on myself.This is my biggest mistake i have ever done in my life, HURTING THE MOST SPECIAL PERSON IN MY LIFE,MY DAD.I destroyed my health,i created a very bad image of my self to my relatives and people who know me.But i am glad for what i am now.I thank GOD so much,i believe HE was always with me even when i was in big troubles and dangers.I believe i am now doing better and doing for the best.Now i have accepted my step mom and i must say,she deserves full acceptance and to be respected just like dad. ;D
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by okasantina on Oct 15th, 2004, 10:52am
I feel u there Kris....its great to know how a person knows its own mistake...in my case till now i stil suffer for what happened to me and my mom...my conscience keeps on bugging me...though we two are both ok now...i just love her so much that i dont want to loose her.... :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by mylane on Oct 15th, 2004, 10:56am
hmmmm....since we are talking about parents  getting married again....

one thing i know is IF my mother will get married again...I will tie her and put her in a bodega or basement....and then I will hire someone to beat up or kill the man.... (i cannot do it myself since i will be busy guarding her...lol);D
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by okasantina on Oct 15th, 2004, 11:00am

on 10/15/04 at 10:56:49, mylane wrote:
hmmmm....since we are talking about parents  getting married again....

one thing i know is IF my mother will get married again...I will tie her and put her in a bodega or basement....and then I will hire someone to beat up or kill the man.... (i cannot do it myself since i will be busy guarding her);D



GOSH CUZ! [smiley=omfg.gif] [smiley=omfg.gif] I didnt know ure that violent cuz....hahahahah! i forseen u doin that to ure mom...its not an action film ... a horrrow suspense w comedy hahahah!
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by thebeast on Oct 15th, 2004, 7:30pm

on 10/15/04 at 10:56:49, mylane wrote:
hmmmm....since we are talking about parents  getting married again....

one thing i know is IF my mother will get married again...I will tie her and put her in a bodega or basement....and then I will hire someone to beat up or kill the man.... (i cannot do it myself since i will be busy guarding her...lol);D


I dont get this. Dont you want your mother to be happy? Listen your mother is a big girl. She raised you if she wants to go out and do the nasty with another guy and marry him its her right. Hell she deserves her happiness. I know its hard but hell life has got to continue. If the women finds love dont make things difficult for her. You should encourage her to go for it.
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by mylane on Oct 15th, 2004, 11:29pm

on 10/15/04 at 19:30:23, thebeast wrote:
I dont get this. Dont you want your mother to be happy? Listen your mother is a big girl. She raised you if she wants to go out and do the nasty with another guy and marry him its her right. Hell she deserves her happiness. I know its hard but hell life has got to continue. If the women finds love dont make things difficult for her. You should encourage her to go for it.


AMEN

here goes the lecture from a priest....gosh....taking things so serious again.... ;D
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by okasantina on Oct 16th, 2004, 1:01am

on 10/15/04 at 23:29:58, mylane wrote:
AMEN

here goes the lecture from a priest....gosh....taking things so serious again.... ;D



buahahahahhahhaahah!!! lmao
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by kianna_andrea on Oct 16th, 2004, 1:26am


;D Lol.  :-X  ::)  ;D  ;D  ;D
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by norkay on Oct 18th, 2004, 1:42am

on 10/15/04 at 10:52:01, okasantina wrote:
I feel u there Kris....its great to know how a person knows its own mistake...in my case till now i stil suffer for what happened to me and my mom...my conscience keeps on bugging me...though we two are both ok now...i just love her so much that i dont want to loose her.... :'( :'( :'(



I thank you Tinz...well, based on my experience,i think you have to find a time to talk to your mom about how were ur  feelings when u had that misunderstanding.A conversation with her about it will make you both closer or even very close to each other.I know there so many things both of you havent said to each other.In this way,it will make you both feel better.You know,when dad came here to HK and it was our first time again to see each other since our misunderstanding, it was still hard to let my pride went down but i have already realised that time how bad or evil i did to him so i tried my best to talk to him like we used to do but i didnt want the past to be reminded again.Yes we talked and able to say anything but i never felt better that we havent talked about what happened between us because i was really wanting to ask sorry.The next time he came back, i planned to find a way to go to the topic which we could possibly touch about our misunderstanding.We were able, thats the last time i cried on his chest and released all what i've been wanting to say.After that, i felt much better, very comfortable that just incase(since we dont know what will happen next on our lives), atleast i have said my apology to my dad,accepted and be able to say "i love you",before anything could happen. ;D
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by norkay on Oct 18th, 2004, 1:56am
;D
on 10/15/04 at 10:56:49, mylane wrote:
hmmmm....since we are talking about parents  getting married again....

one thing i know is IF my mother will get married again...I will tie her and put her in a bodega or basement....and then I will hire someone to beat up or kill the man.... (i cannot do it myself since i will be busy guarding her...lol);D



LOL Mymy ;D ;D ;D..i know ,what you mean.You want to try everything just to stop your mom from  getting married again and you know you cant do anything if she really wants to thats why you are telling your way of stopping her that way....in a funny way, am i right? ;) ;D

Well,dont you like that we have someone here acting like  priest,like Joel?....ha ha ha ha!...but i appreaciate you there Joel ;) ;D
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by Hernando on Oct 18th, 2004, 3:30am

on 10/15/04 at 10:56:49, mylane wrote:
hmmmm....since we are talking about parents  getting married again....

one thing i know is IF my mother will get married again...I will tie her and put her in a bodega or basement....and then I will hire someone to beat up or kill the man.... (i cannot do it myself since i will be busy guarding her...lol);D


hahahhaha....I can't help but laughed ;D
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by okasantina on Oct 19th, 2004, 4:35am

on 10/18/04 at 01:42:01, norkay wrote:
I thank you Tinz...well, based on my experience,i think you have to find a time to talk to your mom about how were ur  feelings when u had that misunderstanding.A conversation with her about it will make you both closer or even very close to each other.I know there so many things both of you havent said to each other.In this way,it will make you both feel better.You know,when dad came here to HK and it was our first time again to see each other since our misunderstanding, it was still hard to let my pride went down but i have already realised that time how bad or evil i did to him so i tried my best to talk to him like we used to do but i didnt want the past to be reminded again.Yes we talked and able to say anything but i never felt better that we havent talked about what happened between us because i was really wanting to ask sorry.The next time he came back, i planned to find a way to go to the topic which we could possibly touch about our misunderstanding.We were able, thats the last time i cried on his chest and released all what i've been wanting to say.After that, i felt much better, very comfortable that just incase(since we dont know what will happen next on our lives), atleast i have said my apology to my dad,accepted and be able to say "i love you",before anything could happen. ;D


Thats it Kris... the PRIDE thang...i hate that word! Though how can i pass it? or control this unsought emotion.  We as their children should not have no right to put our pride w respect to our parents...YES! Its bad i know i am subconsciously aware but why this PRIDE has to do w battling, arguing...though we all know parents will not do bad for their own children.  Its me! who has the problem.  When i had a serious problem ... its my mom who is the first one i cried and lean on. The PRIDE has already eaten by tears of Sorry... :'( Nowi need her more than anything else ... i never  could ask for more... I am greatly deeply sorry :-[

Dang .... this thread makes me cry...... ahuhuhuhu!
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by norkay on Oct 20th, 2004, 3:24am
Hugsssssssssssss there Tinz :D.....take the chance while you still have the oppurtunity to show how you love your mom.Oh yeah!  this really makes me cry too...remembering what dad said to me after our reconciliation, "cry now and say anything you wanna say to me,because once i am "gone",even though how much you cry and scream my name,i will never never hear".... :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by thebeast on Oct 20th, 2004, 1:24pm

on 10/15/04 at 23:29:58, mylane wrote:
AMEN

here goes the lecture from a priest....gosh....taking things so serious again.... ;D


Who said I was serious? When you think about it a Priest probably wouldnt want your mother to get married again. And I know he wouldnt want her to go out and do the nasty. So how can u compare me to a Priest?  ??? The fact is after being in a marriage for a while both males and females dont want to get married again. Marriage isnt easy. It can be stressful those first few years. Then after the tuff part is over the relationship sets in. You get used to the one u are with. Then something happens and its not as easy to do the things that you did with your previous partner. Some may think its to difficult to deal with. So they stay single.
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by killerabbit on Oct 20th, 2004, 1:49pm
fall in love
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by beth on Feb 11th, 2005, 9:47pm
trusted men! lol
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by okasantina on Dec 14th, 2005, 5:28pm

on 10/20/04 at 13:49:44, killerabbit wrote:
fall in love




::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::)
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by CooCHie on Jan 4th, 2006, 10:27pm

on 10/20/04 at 13:49:44, killerabbit wrote:
fall in love


How  about jump in love ::) ::)bump in love ::) ::)...and mah favorite...bend ovah love [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=icon_drink.gif] [smiley=whip.gif] [smiley=whip.gif]
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by CapuchinO on Feb 11th, 2006, 5:00pm
could i just skip all that coochie???


being impatient... [smiley=wall.gif]
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by Wicked_Witch on Feb 14th, 2006, 4:18am
I do not know which of these can be considered my biggest mistake-letting go of the one i love? or for totally trusting someone who betrayed me in the end?
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by bad_day_me on Dec 4th, 2006, 9:53am

biggest mistake!!!married to someone i never love and lived with him for 9 yrs,trying to keep the relationship worked but still it failed out...
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by CooCHie on Jan 19th, 2007, 4:00am

on 02/14/06 at 04:18:37, Wicked_Witch wrote:
I do not know which of these can be considered my biggest mistake-letting go of the one i love? or for totally trusting someone who betrayed me in the end?


You can picked both I dont mind Pards....lol. ::) ::) ::) ::)shits happens.
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by wildheart41004 on Jan 21st, 2007, 2:33am
took my first drink
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by bad_day_me on Jan 28th, 2007, 6:30am
::) ::) ::
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by CeL on Aug 24th, 2007, 9:26am
loving and sticking with the wrong person and letting go of the good one  [smiley=wall.gif] [smiley=wall.gif] [smiley=wall.gif] wrong choices can really be so devastating in the end
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by Gracia on Sep 6th, 2007, 7:37am

on 08/24/07 at 09:26:28, CeL wrote:
loving and sticking with the wrong person and letting go of the good one  [smiley=wall.gif] [smiley=wall.gif] [smiley=wall.gif] wrong choices can really be so devastating in the end


You have to ask guidance from above all the time Pakner.  But then, if its meant to happen then it will happen.   There are reasons behind it.  You may think it as  a wrong choice but what if God allows that happen because He has someone spared for you better than those you've already met?  Hmmm that is something to look forward to. Someday, you will thank yourself for making that wrong choices. [smiley=thinking2.gif] [smiley=thinking2.gif]
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by CeL on Sep 6th, 2007, 9:35am
i appreciate so much ur concern and ur wisdom pakner....i think maybe thats the reason behind every unsuccesssful relationship and i do wish that there's really someone who's out there just waiting for the most unexpected timing to cross my street and bump my way, someone worth it....and someone i deserve, not perfect but suited ;D ;D
Title: Re: The Biggest Mistake You've Ever Made
Post by Wicked_Witch on Sep 8th, 2007, 6:00pm

on 09/06/07 at 09:35:07, CeL wrote:
i appreciate so much ur concern and ur wisdom pakner....i think maybe thats the reason behind every unsuccesssful relationship and i do wish that there's really someone who's out there just waiting for the most unexpected timing to cross my street and bump my way, someone worth it....and someone i deserve, not perfect but suited ;D ;D


Manay, it's true that shit happens but miracles happen too
:-*


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