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Title: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by okasantina on Aug 16th, 2004, 10:02am Birth Order a vital consideration, they say in can influences differences in personalities among children in the family. GUESS WHO? The FIRSTBORN: ( Achievers and Leaders ) Until a second child comes along, family members and friends usually shower firstborns with attention. As a result, many firstborn kids grow up with a lot of confidence. THE MIDDLE: ( Identity Seeker ) May feel that he was born too earlyto get the attention that the "baby" of the family gets. Sometimes middle children have to try a little harder to be heard or noticed. THE YOUNGEST: ( The Happy Child ) Unburdened by the high expectations that many parents have for their eldest children, last borns are likely to experience greatere success than their siblings. THE ONLY CHILD: ( Self- Confident Kid ) Sometimes over-protected, sometimes pampered, onlu children often prefer their own company and have little trouble keeping themselves occupied. Which on those are u? Do u like it being the eldest? youngest? middle? or the only child? and why? share some and post awayyyyyyyyyy..... ;) What's your birth order? |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by killerabbit on Aug 24th, 2004, 6:01pm Eldest ;D |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by mylane on Aug 25th, 2004, 9:13am I'm was only child for almost 4 years then my parents decided to have another child. In short, I'm the eldest though I look youngest. ;D |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by kianna_andrea on Aug 25th, 2004, 9:22am I am my Mom and Dad's only child,.... I was an only child for almost 11 years, but then my Mom re-married, and I had three brothers from my Mom, and 1 brother on my Dad's side. I'm the eldest on both sides and the only girl. :-[ (that's why I wish so much to have a sister :-/) sounds topsy-turvy huh? :P |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by thebeast on Aug 27th, 2004, 12:25am Kianna, I am the youngest and I was told by both my parents I was a mistake, but a good mistake. Both my parents probably think differently now though. I think expectations of me were more at least from my father. My mother just wanted me to be happy. Being the youngest does have its advantages. I got away with more stuff than my older brother and sisters did. :D |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by kianna_andrea on Aug 28th, 2004, 1:38am I didn't know you're the youngest Joel... hmmm does that mean you were pretty spoiled? ??? .... Oh how nice it is to be able to get away with anything ::) ANyway, I think no child can ever be referred to as a mistake... Your Mom seems like such a great Mom, but I guess all Mothers wants the best for their child, all Moms want their child to be happy. My Mom used to tell me that. She never in any way stopped me from doing something, like what course to take in college. She's just always there to support me all the way. I know I'm not the "best" daughter, and sometimes I feel like I never thank her enough, or show her my appreciation for everything but she loves me all the same. I guess that's what being a Mom means anyway. Unconditional, Forgiving, Loving, ..... and everything |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by okasantina on Oct 19th, 2004, 5:02am I would utter im the Eldest among 2 brothers and one sis...Though the real eldest who is a boy died when he was only 2 months old i think ::).. I like being the eldest but sometimes i feel the pressure of becoming a good model to my bros and sis. And when i grew older...being eldest means a lot of things to me...Especially to my parents. I become more responsive, more concern...i know sometimes im not a good model to them...lol. I remember when my two brothers told me ...Hey sis! will u look to my wife for me? Then i said ...oh u have nothing to worry about bros...thats for sure... ;) And when they came home from a long long journey working outside PI ... My bros told me...SIS!!What have u dont to my wife??!! Now she drinks a barrel more than me! :o >:( Then i said...U want me to look for them right? lol! But the good thing is....Their wives become more hotter regardin sex ...buahahahhah! i gave them lectures eh :P ;D |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by norkay on Oct 22nd, 2004, 10:58pm I am the youngest, yes it feels good to be the youngest although i was once called a black sheep of the family and 'til now i am still considered a spoiled bratt but i dont wanna accept i am.I think dad just loves me soooo much and that he's always there to give what i want,support whatever i say and plan.The only thing i am worried about is,i was not taught with everything ,especially being independent,since my mom died early,that people may blame me or my dad if i wont be able to stand with my own.I keep praying and trying,thats what all i can do. |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by nelson3082000 on Oct 26th, 2004, 12:03am well im the oldest and i love it as i can pick on and boss around my younger sis and brothers,but seriously my father as of today as been told he has cancer and has only 6 months to live,so being the oldest will hold a lot of responsibility soon. :-[ :-[ |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by norkay on Oct 26th, 2004, 12:27am Oh thats very sad news Nelson and i'm very sorry to hear it :'(..I know how u feel.It's still impossible to cure cancer so the best thing you do is to entrust your prayers to the Lord. I hope and pray everything will be fine with your father and so with you :D..God bless. |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by need4speed8dalejr on Oct 26th, 2004, 12:41am I am a Middle Child. I have an Older sister, and a Younger Sister. We are all 4 years apart from one another. Ohhh...being a middle child has it's Up's & Downs. I only wish I had a brother. Ohh well...take life as it's given to you and be thankful for the life you have. Thinks could always be worse. [smiley=peace.gif] |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by Analyn on Oct 28th, 2004, 12:44am Eldest... with 4 brothers and 1 sis..Advantages: I'm the boss, their model, and always have the say to almost everything of my sibling's life...from decision-making to where to go to school (this one matters most, because the disadvantage is i'm the one who will send them to school, err, shoulder the expenses) ;D but am not complaining ... for I still am young-looking...hehehe |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by nelson3082000 on Oct 28th, 2004, 1:39am thanks kris ur words mean alot :-/ :-/ :-/ :'( :'( :'( |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by fish_drownedgurl on Nov 1st, 2004, 12:13pm im the YOUNGEST i have big bro.....we're only two hehehehe!!! a big fight ol the time between the two of us but i love him so much! lolz! sometimes i feel im the eldest acting moreeee older than him nyahahah!!! lolz |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by okasantina on Nov 17th, 2005, 7:36am on 11/01/04 at 12:13:45, fish_drownedgurl wrote:
He is the only bro u got fishia ;) btw how are you? ::) |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by Gracia on Nov 17th, 2005, 8:16am I'm the youngest and yes it had wonderful benefits. But then, it had its own disadvantage too...like, I only have a sister and unfortunately, she wasn't doing well in school, in fact she got married on her third year in college. As expected, my Mama was in rage, extremely rage. As a consequence, she was more stricter to me about this relationship thingy.....as her rules clearly stated: rule # 1...no bf while studying. rule # 2. if rule # 1 is being violated, forget school! Oh well, i want to finish my studies...thanks God I graduated in time...but i didn't say i obliged. opps don't tell pls |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Nov 18th, 2005, 5:39am hmmm.... ::) ::) ::) l dunno where should l put myself in the youngest or middle lol my mom got my bro then after a year she got me. well so it made me become the youngest. but to be honest, l never feel spoiled to be the youngest cuz my mom's family made me become a tough gurl, even most of the time become the model for my bro. the one that spoiled me is only my dad, but long time ago back when l'm only 5 l only met him once or twice a year. only for about 9 years then dad re-marry n they got a daughter, so it made me no longer to be the youngest. so, am l a middle or youngest ??? ??? ::) ::) hahahah.... |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by Wicked_Witch on Nov 20th, 2005, 11:23am Im the eldest. I have 6 sisters and 3 brothers so I naturally have the feelings of being "the boss". As a matter of fact, my siblings always refers to me as "the dragon". But they say it affectionately, of course!(grinz) And Beth, (I have a sister by that name also), if you acknowledge the "addition" then that makes you the middle. Hehehehe! |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Nov 28th, 2005, 8:14am hehehehe.... so I'm the middle 8) then I can poke up and down [smiley=roll.gif] roflmbo ! |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 29th, 2005, 1:08am Im the eldest of 4 , 2 brothers and 1 sister so im the leader and loves it sometimes as i can boss them around ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by nOrKAy on Dec 21st, 2005, 5:01am Yeah, you mentioned that on page 1, Nelson. |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by Justine on Jan 3rd, 2006, 10:52am Wow sistah, 9 huh... 4th among the brood here. 3girls, 3boys, can be a boss to 2 and a follower to 3 hehe |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by okasantina on Jan 4th, 2006, 8:23pm Which one needs to pity the eldest or the youngest? ;D |
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Title: Re: Eldest? Middle? Youngest? Post by mrs_nj on Dec 18th, 2008, 3:39am I am the 4th youngest. There are 5 of us...I am a rebel in my family. I like it though. I break all the tradition and form new ones as I go along. It was tough growing up when you have sister/brothers...when they boss me around...tsk tsk. Not anymore.... :D |
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