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(Message started by: tarantada on Mar 21^st, 2004, 10:35am)

Title: AGE GAP
Post by tarantada on Mar 21^st, 2004, 10:35am

which do you prefer, your older than ur bf/gf or your gf/bf is older than you? what is the age of your oldest and youngest bf/gf?

How many years is the age gap? Does age really matter? or Age doesn't bother you much?

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by madd on Mar 21^st, 2004, 5:22pm

Age isn't so much an issue for me as is the maturity and personality of the individual. However, I wouldn't date a girl under 20. Reason being that its still a young age and they're still just getting their feet wet. Also, anyone below 18 is grounds for statutory rape, which I don't want to be dragged into. The same goes for older women. They have to be mature. I've known some women 10 years older than me and they make me wonder where their brains are. However since I would like to have kids someday, she would have to be young enough to have kids.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by cebuanalyn on Mar 21^st, 2004, 11:42pm

I prefer that the guy is older than me or is of my age.. Men matures late, so it's better that he is older than me.I'd rather be the one to be pampered than be the one to pamper... and i'd rather be with someone who can talk like me and discuss things together rather than being with someone who needs to be told and can't decide what he wants >:(.. hmm... there are those who are younger than me but more mature than me...but still, I can't see myself being with them... I still want you to be older than me just to be with me ;) i don't care if you are 2x older than me... as long as you are still functional :-X ..oopss..of course a good heart, mind and all.. ;) ..and you are not taking "viagra" hehhee.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by mylane on Mar 22^nd, 2004, 3:09am

I prefer to have an older partner but not old partner....again i like older guys but not old guys ;D

The youngest is the same old as me and the oldest is well just don't ask...lol :-/

Before I always thought that older guys are more mature than guys at my age but i'm wrong, it seems that most of the older guys act so immature compare to the guys at my age.

Well age doesn't really matter like i said age is just a number but just make sure not to have a partner whom is half wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy older than you....cause the generation gap would be one of the reason of miscommunication.

just an opinion ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by gracia on Mar 22^nd, 2004, 9:17am

age gap doesnt matter at all.....a bit older is preferable though. I like my man to lead the way, not that i lead the way. or i want to grow up and i want him to be there to guide me or support me. he'll give me room for improvement too. I dont think younger ones will give me that opportunity much less understand me. ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by thebeast on Mar 22^nd, 2004, 5:18pm

I took a 18 year girl last year. She was attending University of Texas Womans University. We had fun and the chemistry was there but we are just in two different generations. She is just starting to get out on her own and she needs to learn about these things. I would feel guilty for taking that away from her so i ended after the third date. So i have an age gap i try stay between 21 to 41.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by madd on Mar 22^nd, 2004, 8:19pm

on 03/21/04 at 23:42:40, cebuanalyn wrote:

Its not the age of the man that makes him mature, its the individual within him that does. I've known guys in their 30's 40's and 50's that are quite immature, and i've known guys in their 20's that are mature. And also vice versa. The same goes for women.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by cebuanalyn on Mar 24^th, 2004, 6:43pm

on 03/22/04 at 03:09:23, mylane wrote:

Well age doesn't really matter like i said age is just a number but just make sure not to have a partner whom is half wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy older than you....cause the generation gap would be one of the reason of miscommunication.

just an opinion ;D

mymy, i can even go to someone thrice my age :P... but as i said, you have to be complete still and your heart beats only for me :P..the first beat and the last beat i mean..for i'm sure your heart's last beat will be when you are with me..hehhe..joke joke joke... :P kidding aside, i prefer somebody not more than half my age..maybe +20 of my age and not younger than me ;)

even if you insist that you are mature even though you're younger than me..still, you won't have a "pogi" points to me..

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by mylane on Mar 24^th, 2004, 7:10pm

thrice as ur age? hmmm...that means older than ur dad and older than ur grandpa?

thrice as ur age...that is positive that his last beat is all yours ana :P

I'm not saying is not rite to have a relationship with a partner that is half way older than you. But there will be a generation gap like beast said....

Lemme ask u analyn...have u ever had a partner whom is half way older than you? ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by gracia on Mar 24^th, 2004, 8:46pm

ana, ur such a demanding creature...u want the first and the last beat....what's about in between ??? joking....anyway, the last will surely be urs as mylene said if u'll settle to someone who's thrice as ur age....

I agree with madd too, maturity is not base on age, its the personality within, but then generally, men at age thirty and up is more mature compared to younger ones. The outlook in life is different, more serious and more dedicated except to few though.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by cebuanalyn on Mar 25^th, 2004, 4:36am

on 03/24/04 at 19:10:21, mylane wrote:

Lemme ask u analyn...have u ever had a partner whom is half way older than you? ;D

not yet mymy..hope not.. ;D for i'm almost having my pension, and if i ever have a partner halfway my age, i will be changing his diapers ;D

and gracia, i'm really a demanding creature.. he has to promise that his heart beats only for me..first beat and last beat :D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kianna_andrea on Mar 28^th, 2004, 8:21am

Age matter to me......... I don't think I'll ever like someone younger than me?.... 'coz the girls are right,..women mature ahead than men.... (it's proven) I don't want to be anyone's baby-sitter!(kidding!) but seriously, I think in a relationship the man should be the one in-charge.... I love to be pampered and treated like a baby :P I know sometimes I can be childlike and act silly so I need someone who can understand that and have enough patience that hopefully he'll be able to help me learn eventually... I'm not childish...that's very different from being childlike.... but at my age I know I still have a long way to go where "maturity" is concerned. But I'd like to think that I'm mature enough in a way but there's always room for more. A person never stops learning as long as he lives.
Same as my age or older than me is okay though... but I'm not saying that I can love someone who's older than my Dad! ::) that would really be uncomfortable..... I have a cut-off.... 10 years older than me is okay...but other than that.... sorry no....:(

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Mar 28^th, 2004, 11:53am

i used to have a rule of not dating guys younger than me.. but i so happens that one of my greatest love was younger than me.. a guy i loved so much but had to let go coz of some complicated reason ;D so now age is not that big an issue to me... just not someone half my age or 3 times my age :D ;D ;)

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by MissFartyPants on Apr 27^th, 2004, 11:15pm

Ummm I have a thing for older men. Age doesn't bother me so much as long as he still have his hair.

From observation, I realize older men are more patient, the wisdom as they've been there done that, more understanding and of course they'd pamper you. Less hangups, no mind games, no going around in circles, list goes on.

My oldest sister married a guy 20 years her senior. I look up to them as an inspiration. She says their marriage goes stronger each day and she feels blessed through her hubby.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by thebeast on May 1^st, 2004, 7:21pm

Let me clear this mature thing up. Men dont want to mature early. If we matured to early, you women would call us boring. lol

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by okasantina on May 2^nd, 2004, 11:38pm

i guezz u r right there joel ::) ??? boring and annoyin too! [smiley=bigcry.gif]

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by okasantina on May 7^th, 2004, 12:09am

WOuld u date your dad's 50-yr old friend??? ;D :o

He iz hot and available but he iz a daddyz old friend :o will u ztill go out w him?? ;D

Well juzt look at Catherine Zeta Jonez and MIchael Douglaz or MInnie Driver and Harizzon Ford! (my favorite!). In fact he iz zo old he can pazz for your father. :ohehehe
YES! they are oldie but goodie!! LOL [smiley=whip.gif]

* AS long az he iz zingle, i dont zee any problem with it. Itz juzt a date after all and probably learn new insightz from him considering that hez much older and iz more eXperienced than i am ;D [smiley=woot.gif]

* AS long az he lookz like HARRIZON FORD WOWIEEEEEEEEEE!!! :-* why not? lol [smiley=freak.gif]

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by killerabbit on May 7^th, 2004, 12:14am

bruce willis said it best...ya cant choose who we fall in love with...it just happens :) :)

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kimmy_baby01 on May 7^th, 2004, 1:18am

the oldest age gap i've experienced is 20 yrs apat...it worked uot for a while but it has its drawbacks... by the way.. the guy is not white n i didn't meet him online :P he was a pinoy living in the same community i am ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by mylane on May 8^th, 2004, 1:02pm

cuz tina, if he is a hot papa then why not.... ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by okasantina on May 8^th, 2004, 1:05pm

AGE isnt such an important factor in a relationzhip. As long as you respect one another and your mature enough to handle a relationzhip thatz all that matterz ;D
Besides i read somewhere that they're alzo great in bed! :o ;D

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Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by mylane on May 8^th, 2004, 1:19pm

easy to say cuz but lets face it....generation gap is a big factor.... :-/

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by okasantina on May 8^th, 2004, 1:24pm

I know cuz.... age gap will be too much of an issue and we wouldnt be comfortable hanging out with my parents and friends LOL! Some may say that they are looking for a boyfriend and not a DAD! LOL Others would say that they are not desperate and would want to date someone wrinkly or someone smells like moth balls (no offensement) and someone that would remind them too much of their Dad...... oh my.... :o

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Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by mylane on May 8^th, 2004, 1:30pm

ok so becareful cause im looking for a daddy...lol ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by okasantina on May 8^th, 2004, 1:36pm

buahahahah cuz mymy....better find one ...LOL! ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kianna_andrea on May 13^th, 2004, 9:49pm

::) Tinaaaaaaaaaa...... so how about Madam Auring and her 21 yr. old lover?....(or is it 15? :o.... there have been rumors that he's just 15! ::))....... they're really uncomfortable to look at on tv.... it's like ewwwww :P

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by okasantina on May 13^th, 2004, 11:37pm

That sucks kianna baby :-/ :-X...i guezz she put and made zome voo doo trickz oh him thatz why he iz not on hiz own mind....LOL! Madam Auring zhould be in jail! ;D :o

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Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kianna_andrea on May 16^th, 2004, 12:14am

;D jail?..... hmmm yah I thinks so... on what ground?.... corruption of minor I s'posse ::) ;D lol.... voo doo tricks... magic spells.... potions probably?..... ;)

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by mylane on May 16^th, 2004, 8:45am

It shouldn't have been yucky if Madam Auring is a hot momma like Elizabeth Oropesa...well Oropesa married a 24 year old guy. And she in her late 40's.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Jun 22^nd, 2004, 5:06am

it might be true that age doesnt matter as long as you love the person.. but before you say "i do" so someone twice or 3 times your age better take into consideration tha fact that you might end up in a situation where in you are 40 years old n still as hot n horny as hell n your hubby is too old n wrinkled to get it up ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by gracia on Jul 2^nd, 2004, 2:59am

enjoy while the iron is hot! thats their motto maybe...for elizabeth oropesa and madam auring

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by need4speed8dalejr on Jul 9^th, 2004, 9:38am

The oldest age gap that I have ever experienced was when I was 23, and she was 32.

We met in a "learning environment". At first we were just friends and went out to dinner, movies & Museums together because she was married and I was seeing someone else at the time. When my relationship with my GF ended, she was right there to catch me. Ohh dear. [smiley=kiss2.gif]

I really enjoyed her company and she was very smart, sexy and good looking. She left her husband and got a divorce. We dated for 5 or 6 years. In the end it fell apart because of her kids and because we wanted to go in different directions in life. I think if she was 10 yrs younger and she didn't have any kids, we would be married right now. She was the best fit for me that I have ever found in a GF. I guess you can say that she "taught me" a few things. [smiley=grin2.gif]

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by mylane on Jul 15^th, 2004, 3:54pm

Maybe yes and maybe not.

Age does not matter when you love an older partner with all your heart. I think it just matter when you get older, what can a 40 year old woman do with 70 year old man?

make him horny i guess...lol ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by norkay on Sep 23^rd, 2004, 11:25pm

Tina, ;) you said age is not an important factor in a relationship.But then you commented at "who's your crush in AC1?" that Vince is already sixty? he he he! ;D ;D ;D...heh! i'm not reacting like i felt bad on your comment there ;) heh ;D,i just read what you said on this age gap thing heh ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by okasantina on Sep 24^th, 2004, 2:02am

on 09/23/04 at 23:25:44, norkay wrote:

hahahahah ~kris ,,,, its not ure `vince whom i am referrin to but its my crush who is a 60 yrs. old eh LOL! too bad my feelings died soon so i have a new crush alreadi hahhahahah...jk

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by norkay on Sep 24^th, 2004, 2:37am

Ohh Tinz ;D,thought you were refering to Vince(heinz_ketchup not my vince ???)me and Analyn were talking and welcoming eh;D

:-/i dont know why i feel more comfortable being with older men :-/ ???

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by okasantina on Sep 24^th, 2004, 2:41am

on 09/24/04 at 02:37:39, norkay wrote:

Ohh Tinz ;D,thought you were refering to Vince me and Analyn were talking and welcoming eh;D

:-/i dont know why i feel more comfortable being with older men :-/ ???

Its becuz u feel younger eh lol! when ure with them ure pampered and u feel that u are really cared by them... ;) ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by mylane on Sep 24^th, 2004, 2:45am

Under 18 is protected by law.

Over 35 is protected by nature.

The rest are fair game.

Don't shoot me guys...ahihihihi ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by killerabbit on Sep 24^th, 2004, 7:42am

Nature has a lot to do with it yes.But my Hero is Clint Eastwood.He had children well over the age of 35. ;)Natch

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by norkay on Oct 31^st, 2004, 12:26am

50 is old for me,under 30 is too young :P....i want to be always a baby eh!...LOL! ha ha! ;D
But i hope my idea about more comfortable and feel secure being with an older one(if i got one) wont change that it's not true. :P

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by nelson3082000 on Oct 31^st, 2004, 5:14am

wow for a secong i thought im out im younger then 50 but im over 30 yeah i win kris,but seriously does age really matter as long as they can stoke the fire everyhting will be fine.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kim on Nov 8^th, 2004, 10:56pm

age doesnt matter.. its the maturity of the person that matters a lot ;)

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 8^th, 2004, 11:04pm

well it does matter pass that viagra

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kim on Nov 9^th, 2004, 8:49pm

wel you got a point there neslon... are you pass viagra age already? ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by mylane on Nov 11^th, 2004, 5:33pm

what can a 40 year old woman do with 70 year old man?

hmmmmm ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 16^th, 2004, 7:01am

no kimmy its still workin well and in its prime. ;D ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Aftr_it on Feb 21^st, 2005, 12:54pm

:-[Does it matter or am I a dirty old man

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by okasantina on Feb 21^st, 2005, 1:08pm

on 02/21/05 at 12:54:10, Aftr_it wrote:

:-[Does it matter or am I a dirty old man

As what i noticed from u eh u look clean though to me eh ::) ;D :P

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by beth on Feb 21^st, 2005, 3:44pm

l think age doesnt matter... my grandpa iz 12 older than my grandma and they are happily married even till now when he is 95 yo ;D
But if u are 50 and wanna marry a 18 yo gurl, thats another issue [smiley=wall.gif][smiley=wall.gif] hahaha...
Honestly l like older man ;D l dont know why, but l feel more comfy, mebbe cuz they are more mature ;D

on 02/21/05 at 12:54:10, Aftr_it wrote:

:-[Does it matter or am I a dirty old man

u don't have to worry abt dat aftr ;) ur not old and u look ok ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by gracia on Feb 22^nd, 2005, 8:29am

age doesnt matter as long as you love the person...may he/she 90 or 100....just that u cant enjoy all the benefits :)

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by norkay on Feb 22^nd, 2005, 10:12am

I'm a bit confused what does this AGE GAP thing we are talking about here really all about.Is it just plain about age gap or does age gap matters when loving someone,or does age gap matters when marrying someone?

I think age gap has nothing to do when loving someone.But it's another issue,if marrying someone.As i have said before, 30 is young and 50 is old for me.So age gap isn't really an issue for me but if you say to marry someone with an age of 90 or 100 and you are a woman below 50 of age? Oh my.....lols.....i dont think/agree that's love anymore, it must be for personal reason.Hmmm maybe for the 'thick wallet',they say? :P

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kim on Apr 13^th, 2005, 6:38am

legaly age matters a lot specially if the other party is younger than 18. You could be in big trouble facing statutory rape cases or somthing else...

Emotionally, it matters because a 19 year old kid doesnt think the same way as a 30 year old person.

But in my opinion the age is just a number. It depends on the maturity of the person. Heck i've been with a guy thats almost twice my age but acts like a 12 year old kid ;D. My grand parents were 15 years apart in their age but they lived a very happy life. My mom is 5 years older than my dad n they seem to be doing just fine ;)

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Norkay on Apr 13^th, 2005, 9:05am

on 04/13/05 at 06:38:13, kim wrote:

Heck i've been with a guy thats almost twice my age but acts like a 12 year old kid ;D.

Twice your age and acting like a 12-yr old? :-/
He must be on his stage which they call second childhood. LOL! Hell...I can't take that anymore!
:P

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by mylane on Apr 13^th, 2005, 9:24am

Maturity does not come with age.

Most of the older guy I met act like a baby...lol lol ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kim on Apr 15^th, 2005, 6:19am

kriss i think he was in his second child stage already ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Norkay on Apr 15^th, 2005, 6:36am

on 04/13/05 at 09:24:41, mylane wrote:

Maturity does not come with age.

Most of the older guy I met act like a baby...lol lol ;D

Oh really Mylane? Hmmmm.Really,I like older men but what you have said which sounds like you have proven gives me thought. :P

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kim on Jun 1^st, 2005, 1:27pm

Ya kriss not all old farts are matures just take a look at my ex ;D n lyssa's ex ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Christian on Jun 15^th, 2005, 6:55pm

guys to be honest, i realy dont understand how you could pass up missing the love of your life just because he or she is not at the age you desire....
that stuff about guys maturing later than girls isnt actually true, perhaps physically so, but not mentally so~~ many guys i know are very mature at young ages. in my experience, a lot of girls only choose older guys not because of the maturity levels but because they like to feel pampered, they have less control of the relationship, safer etc. It is becoming more popular in Australia for older women to chase younger partners.
I have never actually had a girlfriend younger than me...not by choice, but by chance. the oldest woman i have dates was 18 years senior. I believe myself to be more mature than the average joe... but i think people generalize about this stuff too much. wouldnt it be sad if you misssed the love of your life because of such a vague broad generalization? hmmm... a lot of women are immature by saying men the same age as them lack maturity...it makes no sense... be rational~~

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Norkay on Jun 16^th, 2005, 7:30am

on 06/01/05 at 13:27:01, kim wrote:

Ya kriss not all old farts are matures just take a look at my ex ;D n lyssa's ex ;D ;D ;D

Ahahahaha Kimmy. LMAO! Well,he is old and mature.....he is just very good "player". LOL.

Hey Christian,
For me,It's just that I want to be always of my husband's baby and not me to baby him.It's weird to see myself doing that if my man is a lot younger than me.LOL. :P

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kim on Jun 16^th, 2005, 9:25am

Cristian....
Its nice to hear from a young man's point of view. It is true that maturity is not proportional to age. I once had a bf thats 3 years younger than me n he was more mature than i was. It depends on the interest that both of you have. If i would be dating a teen ager n he'd always want to go bar hopping and hanging out on discos or watching rock concerts well then that wont work. I'm way past that stage. I'm 28 (Just turned 28 last 14 by the way.. hehehe... :P) and i dont go out as much as i did when i was a teen ager. I cant talk about rock bands or how cool britney's underwear was or how Eminem looks cool in his new hair style. I dont use words like.. AWSOME n my sentences doesnt always end with a "you know"... ;D

I dont care much about the age if he's younger or older. What matters is that we get along well and that he loves me n i love him. ;)

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by thebeast on Jun 28^th, 2005, 2:04am

What are the defining factors of maturity? The way someone acts? Or the lack of responsibility. Personally I think when a woman says a male is not mature...its really her who is not mature. I have been called immature a few times..but only by people in here. I not know why really. Maybe its a culture thing..because here in the states if u are over the age of 21 and still living at home with your parents...u would be called immature. Now I know thats not the case in other countries due to the culture.. but it is a fact that its that way here in the United States.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Christian on Jun 28^th, 2005, 8:53am

im in total agreeance, i've seen a lot of girls date older guys because they thing guys the same as them "aren't mature enough'...turns out the older guy is often only wanting a good time with a younger girl....and often the girl is attracted to the older guy for his money or whatever....WHERES THE MATURITY IN THOSE RELATIONSHIPS? girls going for and older guy are often just wanting a more secure man, an older guy represents so called stability in a relationship etc... but i doubt theres more maturity, i think it really depends from person to person...

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Norkay on Jun 28^th, 2005, 11:22am

on 06/28/05 at 08:53:27, Christian wrote:

Well,I still prefer older men but these reasons you have mentioned Christian, are not mine.I have been in a relationship with a guy who had the same age as mine.We always fought each other.No one accepted to be weaker.Both wanted my/his pride to be one step higher than the other.I don't also base maturity on age because I believe there are lot of younger men who are smarter and more mature than those older ones.I only see myself more attracted to older ones.I also think that older men are more patient and calm to talk with about everything without heavy arguements.

Sometimes I also ask myself why I am more attracted to older men and it's unexplainable.I just do. It's like Miachael Douglas and Brad Pitt. Brad Pitt is a lot younger and so sexy, but I am more attracted to Michael.LOL.It's really hard to understand sometimes.

Anyway,I am not trying to let you feel down Christian since you're younger than me.Please don't get me wrong. I am just explaining since I have accepted I am more into older men. Although I never know, I might still would end with a younger one. In other words, although I say all these, I don't mean to dislike someone because of age difference.Bottom line is, "If you're the one for me,I'm the one for you. ;) ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kim on Jun 28^th, 2005, 1:16pm

on 06/28/05 at 02:04:01, thebeast wrote:

hhmmmm... now i wonder why they call you imature? ;D

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 9^th, 2005, 10:44am

Ouchh!! [smiley=thinking2.gif]You people did not put this thread with me in mind, right? ;DAnyway, everyone's right in saying age is just a # and its the maturity that should count most. At this point in time I'm not sure if i can still have a baby. But regardless, I dont think I would want to. Im at a point in my life , when I starts to look that is ;Dthat most of what im looking for in a man is just companionship. (( [smiley=omfg.gif] Didnt know I was looking???)But of course I still enjoy sex. I love it actually. ;DSo the man i want should still be able to have sex with me. [smiley=sla.gif] What I mean though is that it cant be a priority anymore in our life together.I want us to be able to talk about a lot of things....things that makes sense. That's why I dont date younger men. They always give me the impression that all they would ever want to talk about is sex. Some gets fascinated by the idea of doing it with an older woman..that's the one i want to avoid best. Coz more often than not, they are the shallow, stupid types., bums who doesnt have anything to show for in their growing up years.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by wicked1 on Aug 10^th, 2005, 1:31am

Another interesting topic .. Age shouldnt really matter , as long as the maturity is there , but whatever ya do , dont go below 18 yrs old unless ya want some quality time in a cell with Bubba!!!

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Saffire_65 on Aug 20^th, 2005, 2:48pm

Age does matter to me. I found younger men are very impatient and less sensitive towards their partners feelings. And i'm talking about great age difference here like 5 or more years age gap in between.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by earthlingorgeous on Aug 25^th, 2005, 8:14am

on 05/07/04 at 00:14:12, killerabbit wrote:

bruce willis said it best...ya cant choose who we fall in love with...it just happens :) :)

i second the motion...love knows no age nor boundaries nor distance...

however, personally I like my man older than me...for one I don't wanna baby sit, I wanna be the baby...

it doesn't really matter who is older or younger...but...if it's like that girl the other day at AC1 sky something was her ID and she was talking about how she falls inlove with a boy 4 years younger than she is and guess what she is only 18...the humanity of it...just ask peter ...

if she was my daughter I will restrain her...and if he was my son I will take him away and we move some other country just to avoid that girl...lol

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by kim on Aug 26^th, 2005, 7:02am

well heck if the old man is bruce willis i wont even mind ;D, There's something sexy about older men. ;)

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Christian on Aug 27^th, 2005, 10:28am

older women can be sexy as all hell too.....

monica bellucci and wang fei~~~ ;D

Game on~~~

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Justine on Aug 28^th, 2005, 8:40pm

It's true that we can't choose who to love. Love comes whether we like it or not. But of course, we all have preferences. I've seen a lot of disadvantages being with a man 13yrs older than me, didnt work and end well. The first guy I ever liked in a very long time is almost a decade younger than me, more lively, more fun and I must say just GREAT. I guess we both found something good in each other. To bad though, some good things never last. I still believe age gap shouldn't matter that much. People can always adjust for as long as there is enough love.

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by chantiq on Aug 29^th, 2005, 1:16pm

I really have no preference as to wanting a guy older or younger than me. As long as we jive and we're compatible, that's fine. I had this affair with a boy who was 10 yrs younger than me. I was 26, and he was 16. I would pick him up from school to go to rehearsals. We both were from the same theatre group at that time. But like "showbiz", too many people have a say about us being together. In the beginning I did'nt want it to be laid out in the open but he was persistent, saying others should'nt have a care about our personal lives. But the thing is, he was being groomed by the company's top honcho's to be "leading man" material coz he's got so much talent and charm. So I was, in a way, protecting his career opportunities. Needless to say I was looked upon as the "wicked one", who's a bad influence to this boy. Duh! I was'nt even the one who came on to this guy in the first place. For all I know they wanted him too LMAO! Anyways, like what my marz Justine said, some good things never last. We went our seperate ways. Now 8 years later, we remain friends still and text each other from time to time. By now I think everyone in that company know he prefers older women. He's dated quite a few in the biz who are much older than him. To date this guy is with an actress/government official who's older than him as well.

Ha! Showbiz... lech! LOL

Title: Re: AGE GAP
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 30^th, 2005, 2:22am

It maybe so ladies, but at this point in time I would rather much prefer to be with someone around my age. Younger guys are sure fun to be with. But then I only have just a few more years to be sexually active ;). What if that time comes when he would need some "lovin'" again and I cant give it to him anymore? Would I just allow him to get new "playmates" while I sit back at home? Actually I have someone I really like, right now. I wont give his age coz he might guess its him. ;)He posts here too, u know :PHe's goodlooking, funny as hell, witty and intelligent, though I dont understand his fascinations with older women, I'm still wary of him when he flirts outrageously with me.He spend hours talking to me and sometimes he would leave the room just to concentrate on me at PM. I always ask myself "is this guy for real?" [smiley=tier010.gif] [smiley=tier010.gif]I can dream though, can't I? [smiley=sweetheart.gif]But that's frustrating too! [smiley=wall.gif]He always ask me why I'm so hang up with age gap. But I dont want to sounds so pathetic so I dont tell him my worries :P