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(Message started by: kimmy_baby01 on Apr 14th, 2004, 2:38am)

Title: how open are you about sex??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Apr 14th, 2004, 2:38am
are you prude? or are you vocal?

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Apr 14th, 2004, 2:46am
i am very open about my sexuality as you can see  :P but that doesn't mean that i'll open my legs to anyone who flirts with me... i may talk this way but its damn hard to get me to bed  ;) i believe that when you are in a relationship with someone sex becomes a big part of that relationship. because if you are not sexually compatible you're relationship wont work. it is your responsibility to tell your partner what you want or what turns you on... even if it involves barbed wires  :D and ask him/her too what he/she wants... sex is not something thats shamefull. when two person engage in sex it always becomes a comfirmation of how you feel for each other.. if its just for fun or if there is love involved... so lets all go out n have sex  ;D ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by mylane on Apr 14th, 2004, 8:48pm
and by that kimmy....

Thats why your the mod of ALL ABOUT SEX....

ahihihi ;)


BT:

lol...kimmy..involves barbed wires? that is so kinky....ahahahha....

the topic SEX is always been an interesting topic for everyone...whether they admit it or not....

i'm open minded when it comes to sex topic....topic is so normal since i been around with men everyday.....

one thing i know is that there is always a big difference between the theory and application...lol ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Apr 25th, 2004, 9:38pm
well i got lots of theories that i havent tried out yet  ;D but i promise to share it with everyone when i do  ;D

A moderator has to do her job right?  :P

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by need4speed8dalejr on May 11th, 2004, 1:32am
Let's see here...

I think I am pretty open when it comes to sex. I like to communicate openly with the gal Im with. I love to hear what she likes and wants, which makes me happy.

Simple really.

I do however draw the line when it comes to TMI.
That is "Too Much Information". Like when my Sister or other members of my family starts to talk about their sex lives. That's just too much. I really don't want to have to deal with those images the rest of my life...LOL  :o

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by Hernando on May 12th, 2004, 9:42am

on 04/25/04 at 21:38:36, kimmy_baby01 wrote:
well i got lots of theories that i havent tried out yet  ;D but i promise to share it with everyone when i do  ;D


Kindly apply all that theories to me ;)

and please share it to me first and dont mind everyone.

spank that butt, kimmy baby :-*

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by keensryche on May 12th, 2004, 4:21pm
I'm very open, What do you want to know?

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by mylane on May 17th, 2004, 9:06pm

on 05/12/04 at 16:21:15, keensryche wrote:
I'm very open, What do you want to know?



you sure we can ask anything? just say so cause i'll start firing some questions...lol ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by keensryche on May 18th, 2004, 5:45pm
The Dr is; IN

What question do you have Mymy? How can I be of service?

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by gracia on May 20th, 2004, 3:10am
I'm prude to others, but am willing to engage to any possible discussions with my husband for the betterment of the relationship.  But that doesn't mean am close minded, i still read to what's been written hoping to learn something......especially from kimmy ;D not from mylene of course...she's all theory no application. ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by mylane on May 20th, 2004, 9:38am

on 05/18/04 at 17:45:56, keensryche wrote:
The Dr is; IN

What question do you have Mymy? How can I be of service?



Whats you shoe size, keen? ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by mylane on May 20th, 2004, 9:39am

on 05/20/04 at 03:10:43, gracia wrote:
not from mylene of course...she's all theory no application. ;D


grasyada is coming back with a big challenge. ;D

ahihihi....I already applied some, some are not YET. lol ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by keensryche on May 24th, 2004, 9:55pm
My shoe size is 10.  

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by mylane on May 27th, 2004, 9:55am
Keen, whats your motto in sex? ;D :P

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by keensryche on May 28th, 2004, 10:04pm
"Do to others, what you want them to do to you"

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by MissFartyPants on Jun 9th, 2004, 6:13am
Sex and sexuality is probably the ONLY topic under the sun I try to keep an open-mind of. Saying that though, I still have to draw the line somewhere.


For married couples: I believe there shouldn't be any limit. (MY thoughts anyway).

For UNmarried couples: Hmm. Tough. This is where I draw the line.  ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by thebeast on Jun 17th, 2004, 12:46am
I dont understand why any adult would be uncomfortable about talking about sex. How else are you gonna learn what each other likes. If you wanna do it with someone hell just do it. That dont mean to have sex with everyone either. That means you have to use your judgement and make good choices. I think anyone above the age of 20 and who hasnt had sex yet can be unhealthy and at the same time a person under 20 and who has had sex with with just about everyone they have come into contact with is unhealthy as well. There has to be some kind of equalibrium there. Yes there are religous things to consider as well, but you have to also remember we are human beings and and a human being is a passionate creature. If you have no desire to be passionate in a sexual way with someone, Im willing to bet your life isnt all what its cracked up to be. Is it better to wait till you are married? Maybe so, but then again maybe not. Values and principles are good to have but stubborness along with good values and principles can lead down to a lonely dark road with no passion at all. Soon everything will be dull and numb.

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Jun 22nd, 2004, 4:57am
i got some things that i havent tried yet that i "might" try when i get married. But i beleive that married or not, if your sex life is active you should communicate with your partner about the things you like n dont like about sex... coz if not you'll just end up unhappy n faking orgasms  :P... THe guy might think he's a sex machine n likes doing all sorts of kink stuffs... if you are not really in to that then you wont enjoy it no matter how hard he tries... tell em what you want... weather it ma be leather straps n chuffs or pink bunny dresses  ;D hard or soft. fast or slow. quiet or loud  ;D :D ;)

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by mylane on Jul 9th, 2004, 1:39pm
This a question for the guys, i did not bother to make another thread for this.

Would it be a turned off or on for you if a girl is active and dominant than you in sex? Why?

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by need4speed8dalejr on Jul 9th, 2004, 4:51pm
I had a couple of GF's that were what you might consider "Active" and only one that was truly "Dominate".  :o

All the "Active" GFs, I can honestly say I had a real good time with. They knew what they wanted and were not affraid to tell me exactly if I was doing things correctly or not. These gals were not shy! Never a dull moment.

As for the only truly "Dominate" GF that I had...that was kinna cool for awhile. She was a lotta fun too. But after awhile it got to be too much. She would have to have her way with everything. What movie to go see, what section of the paper I got to read. Where to spank her. LOL There was no give and take, so our relationship was short but intense. Ahhhh...memory lane. [smiley=cool.gif]

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by need4speed8dalejr on Jul 16th, 2004, 7:10pm
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Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Jul 23rd, 2004, 2:15am
QUESTION: Would you like your partner to be open to you about sex n tell you what n how she/he likes it?

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by Hernando on Aug 10th, 2004, 10:58am

on 07/23/04 at 02:15:02, kimmy_baby01 wrote:
QUESTION: Would you like your partner to be open to you about sex n tell you what n how she/he likes it?


yes ofcourse, it is important to have an open communication in all matters including sexual satisfaction ;)

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by nelson3082000 on Oct 27th, 2004, 10:17am
if you have a good relationship you should be open about everything but not with others but i guess that doesnt stop ur mates after a few beers hahahha ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by gracia on Oct 27th, 2004, 10:14pm

Quote:
if you have a good relationship you should be open about everything but not with others but i guess that doesnt stop ur mates after a few beers hahahha    


just wondering if beers play an important part here ???

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 1st, 2004, 2:48am
na gracia not with me i was just sayin when my mates drink they say a lot of crap but sometimes its funny and there sexual exploits

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Nov 8th, 2004, 10:22pm
when a woman is tipsy she tends to get kinky but when a man is drunk he tends to get limp  ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 16th, 2004, 7:09am
hey i can say that works opposite to me kimmy the more i drink the harder it goes,ouch hope it dont expolde ;D ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by Freeflow on Nov 16th, 2004, 11:29am
;) i'm brave .. but cannot answer to this simple question... gotta talk with my menthor 1st...  wait a second...
;D it said hey i am not open it's not my job ! my job is rocking hard !
cheers

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by nelson3082000 on Dec 6th, 2004, 7:35am
very opena nd ready for action

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Dec 6th, 2004, 9:15am
really nelson? thats odd. You're probably drinking beer with viagra

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by nelson3082000 on Dec 7th, 2004, 5:05am
na no viagra it goes well with the beer or with out

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by beth on Jan 27th, 2005, 10:27am

on 05/20/04 at 03:10:43, gracia wrote:
;D not from mylene of course...she's all theory no application. ;D


wanna learn from, me partner? ;D am all books  ;D ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by beth on Jan 27th, 2005, 10:42am

on 06/17/04 at 00:46:01, thebeast wrote:
I think anyone above the age of 20 and who hasnt had sex yet can be unhealthy


unhealty eh keen? ;D
so they are sick? ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by beth on Jan 27th, 2005, 10:50am

on 10/27/04 at 10:17:37, nelson3082000 wrote:
if you have a good relationship you should be open about everything but not with others but i guess that doesnt stop ur mates after a few beers hahahha ;D ;D ;D


hmm.... should l write about the beer in the book? hmm.... is that connected?

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by norkay on Jan 28th, 2005, 5:43am
I am very open about anything....as long as you don't use me  ;D

I am very willing to learn  8)  :P, so expect a ton of questions ,hehehe!  :P

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Feb 3rd, 2005, 10:14am
ok question... if you are in the middle of love making and you are not enjoying it will you tell your partner what to do?

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by okasantina on Feb 4th, 2005, 5:47am

on 02/03/05 at 10:14:37, kim wrote:
ok question... if you are in the middle of love making and you are not enjoying it will you tell your partner what to do?


No i will not say anything ... but all i will do is to get his hands and make it move the were i like  ;) Then whisper to him ... oh dear .. ure so damn good! ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by norkay on Feb 4th, 2005, 6:47am

on 02/03/05 at 10:14:37, kim wrote:
ok question... if you are in the middle of love making and you are not enjoying it will you tell your partner what to do?


I will hate a man who doesnt know how to find out what pleases me  ;D :P..hehehe....

Well,that sucks Kimmy.For me ,i will pretend like my leg cramps then i will scream "ouch!" and give him a heavy punch.Then,the foreplay will have to start again.hahahaha! LOL! :P :P

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Feb 7th, 2005, 9:47am

on 02/04/05 at 05:47:49, okasantina wrote:
No i will not say anything ... but all i will do is to get his hands and make it move the were i like  ;) Then whisper to him ... oh dear .. ure so damn good! ;D


I jsut hope he doesnt notice that you are doing all the work n that he sux bad at sex tina  ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Feb 7th, 2005, 9:49am

on 02/04/05 at 06:47:17, norkay wrote:
I will hate a man who doesnt know how to find out what pleases me  ;D :P..hehehe....

Well,that sucks Kimmy.For me ,i will pretend like my leg cramps then i will scream "ouch!" and give him a heavy punch.Then,the foreplay will have to start again.hahahaha! LOL! :P :P


Kris make sure you give him a nice good punch ok? but dont punch him on the balls or else it will end everything  ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by nelson3082000 on Feb 15th, 2005, 5:24am
you have to be very open these days to an extend as it i guess really depends on the guy and gal on how open they both are.

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by norkay on Feb 21st, 2005, 12:36pm

on 02/07/05 at 09:49:01, kim wrote:
Kris make sure you give him a nice good punch ok? but dont punch him on the balls or else it will end everything  ;D



Well Kimmy,if the problem is "there", i'm gonna do that to end everything.Why? Dont i have the right to get a better one? LOLS....joke ;D :P

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Feb 22nd, 2005, 7:05am
kris we all have the right to look for better ones but in this world, most of the women are better than men  [smiley=huepfenicon111.gif] [smiley=clap.gif]... SO if ever you cant find any good men dont lose hope sis... They are jsut so damn hard to find  ;D ;)

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by norkay on Feb 22nd, 2005, 9:56am

on 02/22/05 at 07:05:14, kim wrote:
SO if ever you cant find any good men dont lose hope sis... They are jsut so damn hard to find  ;D ;)


Ahh sis,i thought you say you gonna recommend someone or look one for me  :P ;D ;)

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by nelson3082000 on Feb 22nd, 2005, 9:58am
ouch no punching in the balls please

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Feb 24th, 2005, 4:04am
kris i'll let you know if i find one thats worthy  ;D eerrrr but can i test drive him first?  ;D So that i'll know for sure if he is qualified ;D ;D.. JK  :P

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by norkay on Feb 25th, 2005, 5:11am
Kimmy,why you and not ask me to? Hehehe! I think i'd better let you know something about what i want then,then you can let him interviewed by your self.I'll do the last signature.Hehehe!  ;D


Anyway,i'm sometimes afraid being very open talking about sex.There were times guys asked me how cool I am talking about sex things with them.I said I can talk about everything,depending how i think of the guy.I dont want to think he may use me,when he gets horny.LOLS!


Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Feb 26th, 2005, 5:43am
i know what you mean kris. Most men think that if the word sex comes out of a girl's mouth that means that we want to have sex with them  :(.. Talk about being shallow  ;D... Why cant me be more like women. Like use their heads sometimes  ;D :P

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by okasantina on Dec 14th, 2005, 5:23pm
There is nothing wrong w being open regarding sex...actually its very important to discuss about it especially when two people are inlove...in that way they can talk about their likes..ways...sensitivity...asking what, how, where, and when to do...not to become timid and selfish...its their right to know whats ure own thoughts particularly in makin love... ;) :)

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by Nathy on Dec 23rd, 2005, 10:22am
I'm kinda person who never hesitate to talk about this to my gals, in fact some ppl think that I'm crazy...hahahaha...

But I don't mind to talk about that...so what will we discuss then... ;D ::)

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Feb 28th, 2006, 1:26pm
One good think to communicate is to not fake an orgasm at all... If he isn't doing it right don't moan.  A guy in his right mind would certainly notice that he is not doing it right if he feels that you are not enjoying it  ;)

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by feso on Mar 8th, 2006, 6:41pm
PLEASE WOMEN DO NOT FAKE...............LET THAT ASSHOLE KNOW THAT HE NEEDS TO MASTURBATE MORE OR..........NEEDS TO WIGGLE IT RIGHT OR............DONT BE AFRAID TO LET HIM KNOW HOW U LIKE IT............IF HE SUCKS AND U KNOW IT.........BETTER TELL HIM OFF!!!! ive had it done once or twice and its like training a dog............u tell him sit but he wont get it till his third time!!!!.....

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Mar 9th, 2006, 10:58am
I'm begining to like ya already feso  ;D

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by feso on Mar 9th, 2006, 6:38pm
well hey u gotta tell it how it is.............u dont want this guy walking away thinkin hes the god of sex jus cause ur a good actor..........nah..... jus tell him "hey uh........u know what do it this way and that way..........otherwise these guys will never learn.......im still learning but not right now cause im livin the single life.......... :(

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by kim on Mar 10th, 2006, 7:53am
Its not easy to be in the level of a relationship where in you can talk about sex that openly but it is very important to reach that level coz if you dont it will only lead to frustration.

One technique would be to just watch your partner how he or she pleasure himself or herself. Its will greatly open your mind as to how they like to be touched  ;)

Title: Re: how open are you about sex??
Post by Wicked_Witch on Apr 4th, 2006, 6:42pm
Maybe if i am already so comfortable with my partner I can be open to him about what I want.



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