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(Message started by: mylane on May 17th, 2004, 12:33pm)
Title: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by mylane on May 17th, 2004, 12:33pm
Can a relationship last without sex? or with  sex makes relationship last ?


Let hear ur opinion guys....

Be mature enough to answer the question ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by gracia on May 20th, 2004, 2:54am
if there's commitment mylene...it will last!
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by okasantina on May 21st, 2004, 5:36am
I dont think zo.... :-/ gud that my ex got me  firzt and i believe zeX haz really zomething to do with it w regarz to relationzhip ...  i agree w my mom  ...

But if u azk me....in thiz generation we have now...Itz impozzible.... why? Ill pozt why  laterz..... ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by deerhunter74105 on May 22nd, 2004, 10:03pm
NO  i dont think so  unless  your too old to have sex  an them parts  quit  workin hahahahahaha :D [smiley=roll.gif]then  yes  i think it would  last :))
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by mylane on May 23rd, 2004, 8:40am
Rod is talking about seniors citizens...ahihihihi ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by okasantina on May 27th, 2004, 3:51am

on 05/23/04 at 08:40:00, mylane wrote:
Rod is talking about seniors citizens...ahihihihi ;D


Hahahah why cuz?? Is Rod in his senior already??!! :o :o :o geesh i didnt know that ...i better tell it to chelle!!! so she can bring viagra w her....hahahaha! LOL! ;D ;D [smiley=huepfend003.gif]

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Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Hernando on Jul 12th, 2004, 8:49am
Does a plant needs water? its like answering this question.

Ofcourse SEX is vital part of human relationship, unless  you're in a platonic relationship then you wont be needing one.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Jul 14th, 2004, 11:28pm
fisrt of all sex is not a bad thing. And we should not think of itas something shamefull. the reason why i'm so open about sex is not because i am a will sex craze biatch but because i want everyone to realize that its ok to talk about sex and its even ok to have sex. just as long as you practice safe sex. I personaly dont lke casual sex or on night stands.....  ;)

Sex is part of a mature an adult relationship. hernando is right when he said that unless you are in a platonic relationship, it wouldn't last without sex... but.... if for some reason some accident happened or my parter got ill n can no longer have sex then that won't be the end of our relationship...

i can say this because i have been in this situation. I had a bf once who got ill. He was paralized from waist down. Doctor said he might not recover at all. Before he got ill we were already sexually active. But i didn't leave him just coz of that because i loved him. Then for some miracle he got better n was up n runnign in no time. We broke up coz of a diff reason but it wasnt bout the lack of sex  ;)
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by thebeast on Jul 15th, 2004, 12:49am
yes a relationship could probably last without sex. sure would be a boring relationship. Sex actually helps a relationship get better is what I always thought.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by need4speed8dalejr on Jul 16th, 2004, 7:01pm
This dude must be in one of those sexless relationships. [smiley=grin3.gif]


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Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kianna_andrea on Jul 19th, 2004, 5:29am

Yes and no... depends on the situation. I believe humans are passionate creatures... And being that, the need to love and feel loved is natural. And making love is one way of expressing the love and passion that two people share with each other... but there are other things as well that can be done as an expression of one's love... It's not always about being physical,... not always about having sex, though I have nothing against it. It feels great to be loved,... it feels good making love.... but it doesn't always have to be about it. Sometimes cuddling and kissing is even more intimate and passionate for a woman than having sex. Sometimes even a simple touch on the hand,... or being held is far more memorable and touching than sex... I think what I'm trying to say is sex in a relationship is normal. If two people really love each other and responsible enough, I don't see anything wrong with that. But being in a relationship is not just because you need someone to sleep with... getting physical is just one of the many factors that can make a relationship last... it doesn't have to be the center of everything...
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kimmy_baby01 on Jul 23rd, 2004, 2:08am
Sex should not be the center of the relationship. Its just the cherry on top ot the ice cream  ;)

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Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 16th, 2004, 7:11am
go kim u got it right
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Freeflow on Nov 16th, 2004, 10:31am
;Dabsolutely no!
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Nov 17th, 2004, 5:29am
dale  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Sex is an expression of ones intense feeling for the other peroson. Although sex can be doen without love, it is much more fullfilling and lasting if there is love involved...

THis may come as a shock but i dont do "one night stands?  ;) tis coz i dont have sex.... i make love.... with the person that is close to my heart.... So when i'm near climax n shout out "ohhhh baby i love you" i really mean that  ;D ;D ;)
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by nelson3082000 on Nov 17th, 2004, 12:17pm
true kimmy its much more intense with a person u love and the feeling is there
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Apr 13th, 2005, 9:44am
so say i'm the local horny ass prick of ac1  ;D if thats true or not in real life thats for me to know n for others to experience  ;D... i mean find out  ;D ;)...

Sex feels good n its addictive to specially if the guy is good. but love is still better than sex  ;)
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 5th, 2005, 1:19am
Late reply again ;DLike I said, sex is an expression of your feelings towards another person. So it should be a part of any relationship. Unless both parties are not interested or one or the other cant have and/or do it.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Hernando on Sep 26th, 2005, 7:10pm
Sex is just a spice in a relationship, not its main ingredient which is love.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Sep 27th, 2005, 3:03am
amen to that hernando n welcome back  ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by killerabbit on Sep 27th, 2005, 7:35am
If there is no sex in a relationship then something is wrong in the relationship.Especially if both parties are healthy both mentally and physically.Of course I am just bitter cause  my ex wife and I spent 2 years before separation and divorce without sex.I thought it was my duty as a husband to be there even though I wasnt "getting any".It didnt help.
Of course my next relationship was strictly based on sex and no love.And it didnt last either.Love has to be there.No love no sex and no lasting relationship.Thats my thought.I dont know. ;D ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Sep 28th, 2005, 1:30pm
Good point wabby. If both of you are healthy in body n mind i dont see why sex cant be a part of your relationship. WE must not look at sex as something bad because it isnt. ITs an expresion of your feeling for your lover.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by thebeast on Sep 29th, 2005, 12:06am
Should never use sex as a tool in a relationship
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Saffire_65 on Oct 1st, 2005, 2:40pm
Sex is an act of how one expresses one deep emotion for the other. If sex is present without any feelings of love, we call it lust. Sex should not be acted as a tool to satisfy one lustful desires but a tool to express the depthness of your true burning passion, respect and admiration towards your partner. I believe the question is in referal to online relationship where physical contact is absent.  In most online relationship the ladies apparently able to conquer or curb their burning desire to have sex with their partner and yet stay faithful. Unfortunately for some male species they have the tendency to break relationship because they are not able to control thier basic needs, hence had to resort to some physical contact elsewhere be it with a one nightstand or casual sex friends. So again the question here rely alot on each individual whether or not they wanted to make the relationship work and reap the sweetness of thier long awaited victory with their online partner in the near future.

No offence guys. Just my opinion  ;)
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Sweet and Sour on Oct 1st, 2005, 10:42pm

on 10/01/05 at 14:40:20, Saffire_65 wrote:
Unfortunately for some male species they have the tendency to break relationship because they are not able to control thier basic needs, hence had to resort to some physical contact elsewhere be it with a one nightstand or casual sex friends. So again the question here rely alot on each individual whether or not they wanted to make the relationship work and reap the sweetness of thier long awaited victory with their online partner in the near future.

No offence guys. Just my opinion  ;)


Now,the question goes to men.LOL.Talking about "online" relationship, what can we women do,in order to keep you away from cheating or let's say prevent you from going out and look for sex? And why can't you keep yourself away,when women can? LOL.


on 09/27/05 at 07:35:50, killerabbit wrote:
If there is no sex in a relationship then no love.Love has to be there.No love no sex and no lasting relationship.Thats my thought.I dont know. ;D ;D


You spoke through personal experience,so that's more than a thought.It happened to you,so you should know. ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by MissFartyPants on Nov 18th, 2005, 8:57am
Hmmmm ....


I personally feel that sex or any kind of intimacy takes a LOT of commitment. Even if there is physical attraction on both sides, but you don't have that strong "bond" between you two ----- it takes two to Tango.

I often ask male friends why a man would not have sex with a hot female even while that female is throwing herself at him? It amazes me that a guy at this day and age would actually say "No" to sex. Not just any female, mind you --- a real hottie. But then I was told that it would take a man to have feelings for a woman before jumping in bed with her. It doesn't have to have fireworks and promise of love in between and aftrewards...

(Man, I feel like my head is not where it should be right now ----- I have no idea what I'm talking about or if I do have a point. I don't think I'm getting there. Ha!)


Ooo as for the question: Hmmm.... I don't think a relationship would last without that physical union either. Let's face it, this isn't Romeo and Juliet generation anymore  - that era is long gone. (Not being a cynic here, just being realistic.)

Okay folks, you may shoot me now.  ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by mixin4livin on Nov 29th, 2005, 2:22am
OK Let me cut the crap and say out loud and straight... NO SEX NO LOVE... NO LOVE NO LIFE.... Heared Many stories that neighbors get bussy when the husbands are at work.. so why let some one else use your bed.. keep banging lol... Sex is an excersize for love and life ... If Adam didn't Bang Eve either he loves her or not..we wouldn't be here using this forum LMAO

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Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by okasantina on Dec 22nd, 2005, 7:22pm
YES if were talkin about friendship...but NO if were talkin about couples
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by somebody on Dec 23rd, 2005, 6:14pm
Yes, I could date someone w/out sex in any way, shape, form.  But he would eventually dump me.  ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Dec 27th, 2005, 5:51am

on 12/23/05 at 18:14:41, somebody wrote:
Yes, I could date someone w/out sex in any way, shape, form.  But he would eventually dump me.  ;D


So your "Yes" is actually a "No"? ;D I agree with Cathy, Rj and the rests, sex is an expression of how much you really care for the other person. Although it should not be done like a game or a past time. It should not be a "proof" of how much you really care about your partner. There should be a strong commitment on both sides. Afterall, there are some ways on how you can vent your frustration towards the other person if she won't give in to all your wants and needs. Maybe women are a little more cautious about this but that's coz if something goes wrong, women gets hit the harder.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by somebody on Dec 31st, 2005, 2:53am

on 12/27/05 at 05:51:52, Wicked_Witch wrote:
So your "Yes" is actually a "No"? ;D I agree with Cathy, Rj and the rests, sex is an expression of how much you really care for the other person. Although it should not be done like a game or a past time. It should not be a "proof" of how much you really care about your partner. There should be a strong commitment on both sides. Afterall, there are some ways on how you can vent your frustration towards the other person if she won't give in to all your wants and needs. Maybe women are a little more cautious about this but that's coz if something goes wrong, women gets hit the harder.


LOL I need to talk to you women about this subject more often.  You guys have some deep thoughts/insights into sex.  

I know that sex is pretty much vital to having a healthy relationship but there are so many other better ways of expressing your love for each other too.   I am afraid of the relationship becoming too focused on sex.  At least on his part.  Do you guys know what I mean? That's why if I really could, I'd spend the rest of my life not doing it unless I want to conceive. lol It's not that I don't have hormones..it's that I'm afraid of ruining whatever I have with that individual.  I have a problem with trust.

I wish there weren't guys on this part of the forum..that way I can openly discuss this with you ladies in more details.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Dec 31st, 2005, 5:40am
Lol, that's what condoms and contraceptives are for, so you don't gt preggy when you have sex. Sex can be bautiful when there are emotions involved or some sort of a commitment to the other person. Free sex? It might relieve you of tensions but will never make you feel better if you have a bad reason for doing it.                                  


And don't worry about the guys here, they are all deaf and blind !!  [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by somebody on Feb 25th, 2006, 9:04am

on 12/31/05 at 05:40:22, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Lol, that's what condoms and contraceptives are for, so you don't gt preggy when you have sex. Sex can be bautiful when there are emotions involved or some sort of a commitment to the other person. Free sex? It might relieve you of tensions but will never make you feel better if you have a bad reason for doing it.                                  


And don't worry about the guys here, they are all deaf and blind !!  [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]


I am not afraid of getting pregnant (yes I am lol but there are ways to avoid that).  What I am afraid of is that the person I am with will start to value the sex more than he values me.  Don't get me wrong, I love sex but I don't love sex more than I love the person I am with.  I realize many people start to love the sex more..and it starts to become too much of a focal point in a relationship.  To the point where other things become less important..or is minimized...I just don't want that to happen bc I don't think sex is everything or should be the main thing in a relationship.  Maybe I am just old fashioned or I am idealist when it comes to love&relationships.  Or maybe I've just met the wrong guys.  I just know that sex is a very powerful thing and it can overshadow other worthy aspects of human relationships.

Damn I wish there were only females here. Then I could be a lot more honest and direct. lol.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Feb 25th, 2006, 1:31pm

on 02/25/06 at 09:04:24, somebody wrote:
I am not afraid of getting pregnant (yes I am lol but there are ways to avoid that).  What I am afraid of is that the person I am with will start to value the sex more than he values me.  Don't get me wrong, I love sex but I don't love sex more than I love the person I am with.  I realize many people start to love the sex more..and it starts to become too much of a focal point in a relationship.  To the point where other things become less important..or is minimized...I just don't want that to happen bc I don't think sex is everything or should be the main thing in a relationship.  Maybe I am just old fashioned or I am idealist when it comes to love&relationships.  Or maybe I've just met the wrong guys.  I just know that sex is a very powerful thing and it can overshadow other worthy aspects of human relationships.

Damn I wish there were only females here. Then I could be a lot more honest and direct. lol.



GO AHEAD N BE MORE OPEN  ;) As you've said before we dont know you personaly and vise versa. This is actualy the perfect medium for you to ask for other ppls opions. Who knows we might help you a lot  ;D

Men cant help it if they love sex. Its the way they are built.  This fear of yours could prevent you from opening up to your partner. Sex is not a bad thing. It is the expression of your deepest emotions. If you dont want yor relationship to be based on sex then make extra initiatives to let him know that you are not just a sex toy but a parter too. Let him know that you have tons of other qualites that he can love as much as he loves you're "lovemakings"

OK i might get voilent reactions when i said "Men can't help it if they love sex"... If it will help i'll also say.... MEN CANT HELP IT IF I LOVE SEX A LOT TOO?  ;D ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by somebody on Mar 6th, 2006, 10:10pm

on 02/25/06 at 13:31:04, kim wrote:
GO AHEAD N BE MORE OPEN  ;) As you've said before we dont know you personaly and vise versa. This is actualy the perfect medium for you to ask for other ppls opions. Who knows we might help you a lot  ;D

Men cant help it if they love sex. Its the way they are built.  This fear of yours could prevent you from opening up to your partner.   If you dont want yor relationship to be based on sex then make extra initiatives to let him know that you are not just a sex toy but a parter too. Let him know that you have tons of other qualites that he can love as much as he loves you're "lovemakings"

OK i might get voilent reactions when i said "Men can't help it if they love sex"... If it will help i'll also say.... MEN CANT HELP IT IF I LOVE SEX A LOT TOO?  ;D ;D


Maybe I have a hard time understanding it all because I have never MADE LOVE before.  I have had sex w/someone I love but I never felt it was beautiful in any way/shape or form...lol or that it was an expression of our feelings.  Maybe it was the way we did it.....maybe it was bc we were more focused on the sex than we were on each other...I don't know.  
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Mar 10th, 2006, 9:14am

on 03/06/06 at 22:10:22, somebody wrote:
Maybe I have a hard time understanding it all because I have never MADE LOVE before.  I have had sex w/someone I love but I never felt it was beautiful in any way/shape or form...lol or that it was an expression of our feelings.  Maybe it was the way we did it.....maybe it was bc we were more focused on the sex than we were on each other...I don't know.  


Wow really you haven't "made love" to anyone ever? How old are you girl?
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Matthew on Mar 10th, 2006, 10:39pm
NO....were are adult HUMANS....without proper contact of any form is detremental to our very existance
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by somebody on Mar 10th, 2006, 11:40pm

on 03/10/06 at 09:14:16, kim wrote:
Wow really you haven't "made love" to anyone ever? How old are you girl?


Mid twenties  ;D

Nope, I don't think I've ever made love.  Had sex a million times though.  ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 12th, 2006, 1:33pm

on 03/10/06 at 09:14:16, kim wrote:
Wow really you haven't "made love" to anyone ever? How old are you girl?


I think she meant having emotional feelings when having sex. Not just opting for physical release? But I wonder how can there be no feelings involve when you're doing it with someone you love? Unless it's a quickie and I don't believe you do it in a hurry all the time, somebody?
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by mixin4livin on Mar 12th, 2006, 11:36pm
A relationship will not last long without sex. It's a must that we should have sex during the relationship or before marriage. See below, an egsample what happens if we don't... ;D


http://www.youtube.com/v/Vs0qTUi3L5o
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 13th, 2006, 12:42am
Lol, RJ...that guy must be a super dumby if he can't recognize a real female from a false one. Girls, do you know that it's easy to tell if a guy really loves you or just want to have sex with you everytime you have sex with your partner? ;)
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Mar 14th, 2006, 8:17am
I'd want to hear what you ahve to say on this mama witchy....

With me i just feel it for some reason. I think its in the way he kisses and the thigns he do after sex
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by somebody on Mar 14th, 2006, 10:54am

on 03/12/06 at 13:33:38, Wicked_Witch wrote:
I think she meant having emotional feelings when having sex. Not just opting for physical release? But I wonder how can there be no feelings involve when you're doing it with someone you love? Unless it's a quickie and I don't believe you do it in a hurry all the time, somebody?


How do I say this w/out being too graphic?  ??? ;D

Ok, when you think about making love, what do you imagine? You imagine a lot of kissing, slow movements, tenderness, etc.  It doesn't mean I don't like raw sex (LOL) but no, I have never experienced making love.  Doesn't mean we didn't have feelings for each other..but it just wasn't loving, sensual.

;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by mixin4livin on Mar 14th, 2006, 1:53pm

on 03/13/06 at 00:42:47, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Lol, RJ...that guy must be a super dumby if he can't recognize a real female from a false one. color]

[color=Green]Think u are the biggest Donky I have ever seen living in the Phills... LMAO.. didn't u know that there are gays (she male's) who has everything like a woman(expet the virgina) lol
;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 15th, 2006, 2:30am

on 03/14/06 at 13:53:05, mixin4livin wrote:
Think u are the biggest Donky I have ever seen living in the Phills... LMAO.. didn't u know that there are gays (she male's) who has everything like a woman(expet the virgina) lol
;D


Now who is being a dumby here! Are you saying you have never heard of a gay person having sex transplant? Sheez...get out of the mountains and mingle with us, RJ!

Kimmy, when your instinct fails, you can easily recognize the type who only like the sexual part of the relationship. Some men would just get up and dress as if he can get out of the room fast enough then say "i'll call you, ok?", on his way out after having sex. Some would fall asleep right away. Some would avoid any type of conversation. Some would get off of the girl right away and roll over his side of the bed and see what's on TV. Some do not want you around when he's with friends. He invite the girl out alright, but only because he knows there will be the sex afterwards. And take note, that everytime you two go out, you always end up having sex.
On the other hand, the guy with emotional involvement would be thoughtful enough to ask you if you're hungry, or linger on top of you and just careful not to crush you with his weight, some would roll over but will pull the blanket on both of ur naked bodies. After the sexual act, of course. Some would gather you in his arms while they sleep. Some would start talking to you about important events that happened to him that day. If not important...then something personal. He likes to invite you all the time when he's going out with friends. He invites you everywhere as if he wants to show the whole world that you're his girl. He introduces you to his close friends or family. And sometimes he's happy to just be with you, minus the sex.


Quote:
Ok, when you think about making love, what do you imagine? You imagine a lot of kissing, slow movements, tenderness, etc.


Wrong, somebody. It's not how u do it. It can be wild or it can be slow, but it's what happens after sex that will determine how u feel towards each other.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Mar 15th, 2006, 12:03pm
wwwaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!! NOW I MISS MAKIN LOVE!!!!! WWWAAAAAAAA  :'( :'( :'(

YOu know mama witchy you kinda stabbed me in the heart witht his one. Everything you said is 100% true which is why its sad not having someone to love.

Guys keep in mind that you may get a girl that wll blow your brains out everythime you have sex with her but if you treat her right and love her the way she should be loved, you'd be amazed how happy both of you will be. Not only in bed bt all though out your life. From the moment you wake up in the morning till the time you go to sleep
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by ClumsilyIdiotic on Mar 15th, 2006, 5:53pm

on 03/06/06 at 22:10:22, somebody wrote:
Maybe I have a hard time understanding it all because I have never MADE LOVE before.  I have had sex w/someone I love but I never felt it was beautiful in any way/shape or form...lol or that it was an expression of our feelings.  Maybe it was the way we did it.....maybe it was bc we were more focused on the sex than we were on each other...I don't know.  


I hear ya. I've only been with one and one quarter men in my lifetime, technically. I have had problems coming to terms with the act itself or anything that might lead to something I wasn't ready for. Call me a late bloomer. For reasons I don't want to get in to right now.

Anyway, my last relationship was the first time I have ever been truly intimate. Just don't ask me what my age is.  ;D It was all just physical. I have longed to feel the sparks when your bodies touch, to have a sense of connection, sharing not only your body or discovering each others needs and what pleases each other -- beyond that. A union of two people in love. Isn't that how it's suppose to be? I mean not all the time of course.... but it is important.

That is why I completely agree with Edith and some of your sentiments too.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Mar 16th, 2006, 8:28am
Woowwwww.... I guess i could say that i'm lucky and at the same time unfortunate coz i have "made love" to someone and boy was is memorable.... The way he shows his love with his tender kisses and just tby the way he looks at me. The way he touches my cheeks with the back of his hands... Everything he did was filled with over flowing love... But... obviously we broke up or else i would have been married by now right?  ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Fugi on Mar 18th, 2006, 2:31am
My opinion is that a relationship can't last without sex... when there is no intercourse you are talking about a brother-sister relationship ... I think that no sex or bad sex is one of the main reasons why partners cheat... If your partner isn't satisfied in her/his relationship/marriage there is a big temptation to look for sex with someone else...

Sex is something  that should take place between ppl that love each other and its very important to talk about sex-life when you aren't satifised and try to work it out together... Having sex with different partners or involving other ppl isn't a sollution and definately not the right way to stick together... When you are together for a long time sex might get boring but there are always ways to add some exictement like for ex. seduce ur partner by wearing a sexy outfit and take control over him... Try find out what your partner likes and meet each other have way... Be open minded and enjoy lol

P.S. it's also important to give each affection and to enjoy each others company... Affection that doesn't need to lead to sex everytime... It's just great way to share affection with your partner... Let your partner know that you still find her attractive and give her attention no matter how long you are together it's always a wonderfull feeling for a partner to know that she/he is still loved, appreciated and cared about!
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 18th, 2006, 3:44am
In all honesty, sex is an essential part of any relationship. It makes you closer to each other. And inadequacy in bed should not make one feel less about the other person. Unless you choose that person expecting she/he will be that good in bed. If you are the knowledgeable one then you can always teach your partner about the different ways you can pleasure each other. And I am sure that if you have a strong bond toward each other then the other will not take it as an insult or embarassment. Sex can be beautiful to two people who share each other's feelings. And having sex in a relationship is NORMAL. But if the girl do not share your view about sex, give her time. She will get around to it sooner or later. Just be patient. Show her she can trust you. Show her it doesn't matter that much to you. And you will be surprise one day how affectionate she can be when you have fully gain her trust.

Cathy and Kim, wouldn't it be nice to make love to a sweet man who is so crazy about you? Oh la la! [smiley=love2.gif] [smiley=love2.gif] [smiley=love2.gif]. Snuggling to him after sex, cuddling...my oh my! where art thou, my Romeo?
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Fugi on Mar 18th, 2006, 6:34am
I have to agree with you there witchy... It's a great feeling to snuggle up together and to kiss each other after having sex... Falling asleep into each others arms and waking up the next morning thinking about the night before.... if you are lucky, those butterflies might tickle again so u can start all over again lol  :P

P.S. look under your bed witchy... you never know, your romeo might be hiding under your bed ... waiting to be found ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 19th, 2006, 5:06am
He's not, Fugi :'( I looked and looked everywhere and he's not here and I couldn't find him anywhere! Maybe he's out looking for me, too? :-* BRB...gonna check the mailbox. Hehehehe!
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Mar 19th, 2006, 5:41am
Sex is a very intimate and delicate thing. If both partners treat it as something precious then it will be a vital part of their lasting relation. But if they mistreat it then it will be the cause of their break up  ;)
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by somebody on Mar 19th, 2006, 7:28am

on 03/15/06 at 02:30:48, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Wrong, somebody. It's not how u do it. It can be wild or it can be slow, but it's what happens after sex that will determine how u feel towards each other.
Then I've only made love a few times in my life.  :-X
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 20th, 2006, 3:59am

on 03/19/06 at 07:28:36, somebody wrote:
Then I've only made love a few times in my life.  :-X


Don't worry, I am a firm believer that there is always someone out there for everyone. Someone who is meant to be your half, half of your soul and half of your heart. Then however plain your lovemaking is, it would seem like you have died and gone to heaven for the sheer ecstasy of the feelings involve, somebody ;)
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by RJ on Dec 1st, 2006, 9:50am

What Ever Said In Here Is Crap.. People Who Don't Have Work @ Home.. Straight Up Right - Me Say... No Relationship Lasts Without Sex..
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by bad_day_me on Dec 1st, 2006, 1:58pm
A relationship can survive without a healthy sex life only if both partners feel that they do not need sex to be apart of what they have. Unfortuanley sex is such a natural human need that you might initially not feel the need for sex, but desire can suddenly come upon you and then you have to face the fact that your personal needs have changed and your partner may not be able to fulfil that need. If you are mature enough to make appropriate decisions than your relationship might survive.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by RJ on Dec 1st, 2006, 2:25pm

Song Applies "Young Hearts Run Free" Dry Relationships Without Sex Lasts No Long...
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by bad_day_me on Dec 1st, 2006, 2:37pm


Song Applies "Young Hearts Run Free" Dry Relationships Without Sex Lasts No Long... <<<<


reply:yeahhh yeahhh yeahhh!!!  amen....
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 10th, 2007, 1:13pm
Negative. Sex is and will always be a part of the relationship of two grown-ups. First, it's to give in to the feeling of lusts, then second, it's an expression of how and what you feel towards the other person. So if you are not ready for sex, don't go into a relationship. Keep on playing hard-to-get. Hehehe!
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by CeL on Aug 23rd, 2007, 4:58pm

on 07/10/07 at 13:13:44, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Negative. Sex is and will always be a part of the relationship of two grown-ups. First, it's to give in to the feeling of lusts, then second, it's an expression of how and what you feel towards the other person. So if you are not ready for sex, don't go into a relationship. Keep on playing hard-to-get. Hehehe!

has it been ur style all these time manay??? nyahahahaha

Can a relationship last without sex? <<------ what sort of a relationship is being asked here....pardon me i hate being sued for implying a different thought hahahaha so clear this first before i started spitting my own words
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by menchang on Aug 24th, 2007, 4:20am
uuhhhmmmmm i think ill have to ask that to my partner ehhh!!!!...... ;)
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by menchang on Aug 24th, 2007, 4:22am
[smiley=icon_thanks.gif]..thanks tita e
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 24th, 2007, 4:22am
Loka, what is your own opinion? do you think you can go on without sex? hehehe!
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by menchang on Aug 24th, 2007, 4:45am
:P nyahahahahahahaha......abay hindi ako bato ha at lalong im no saint soooooo..poede e text nalang ang sagot ko hahahahahahaha.... ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by kim on Aug 24th, 2007, 8:48am
wow this forum is picking up again.... anyway, as momma said... sex n relationship ate partners  :P. they're like big mac n fries. you can have one of each but its better when they are together  ;)... for one thing sex is not a bad thing and having sex... or better yet... making love with the person who makes your heart beat is not a crime too.  ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 28th, 2007, 11:01am
I agree, Kimpot daughter....a relationship without sex is hard to have, mostly on the men's part. I think it's natural for men to feel that way because they are more aggressive than women. Maybe a couple can go for a while without sex, but in the end, either it happens or you go on your separate ways.
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by CeL on Sep 1st, 2007, 1:44pm
AMEN to that Kimpotz....i have different categories to with it....f**kING for sleepers, SEX a mutual way of satisfying the human urge, and MAKING LOVE are for couples..... ;D ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by CeL on Sep 1st, 2007, 1:45pm
:o my wordings changes...is this auto-correct?
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Gracia on Sep 4th, 2007, 4:22am
If the couple are both active I don't see any reason not to make love.  Failure to do so means the love is gone. Thus, to stay in the relationship is futile.  Their relationship  is doomed.

On the other hand, for couple aging 80 yrs old and above, I think making love is very optional, very rare maybe or none at all, just purely companionship...so the relationship can last here without making love.

However, to couples who encountered severe illnesses, sickness, accidents that causes them to become incapable of performing the act, I think that is exempted to the rule.  If love is there, the partner will stay with him through thick and thin...considering the situation I think relationship can last without making love.  If one give up a good relationship merely because the partner is incapable then I find the person so shallow.  

Any violent reactions???  Just my opinion! ;) ;)
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by dOnUtz 9urL on Sep 4th, 2007, 9:14am
I follow your opinion, partner  ;D  ;D
Title: Re: Can a relationship last without sex?
Post by Wicked_Witch on Sep 11th, 2007, 3:16am

Quote:
:omy wordings changes...is this auto-correct?


Yes, manay. The Forum admin wants to maintain it's "decency" so words that are too "harsh" are being replaced by something mild. Hehehe!
To answer your question, the relationship being spoken here is between couples who are free or allowed to have sex.

And I agree with everything you said, Grace. However, in some cases, sex plays a big role in the harmony and excitement of the relationship. Because at the end of the day, one or both partners would look for a way to express how much they have missed the other and of course would eventually led to some cuddling and whatever. But that is also providing they both have active sex life. If they don't, I guess it will not matter much if they do it or skip it.
      ;)

As for being old, there comes a time in our lives when we get to this stage, "The mind is willing  but the body is not."  [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif]


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