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Title: question for the men Post by somebody on Mar 7th, 2006, 6:43am How long could you wait to be sexually involved with someone you are dating before dumping her? What if your girlfriend started holding out...would you dump her after a certain period? Serious and honest replies only! |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Mar 7th, 2006, 7:37am i've been in this situation and th eguy dumped me after a while when i didn't want to make love to him yet.... But i do believe that not all guys are like that. They will love you for what and who you are and no for what you can give them sexually... On the other side.... Women dump men for the same reason too... ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by somebody on Mar 7th, 2006, 11:32am on 03/07/06 at 07:37:00, kim wrote:
yeah I actually know this pinoy who got dumped twice by long term girlfriends bc he did not believe in premarital sex. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by wildheart41004 on Mar 7th, 2006, 4:08pm there's alot more to a relationship then sex.if it's true love waiting shouldn't be a problem |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by feso on Mar 7th, 2006, 5:34pm eh for the most part i have awesome control of my wild thang so if i found a women that was tryin to see who could hold out on sex i would be a worthy opponent cause sex is great and all this and that but its not something i fiend for like a drug........its kinda like if u serve it to me on a table ill take it but its not a dish i starve for all the time but in any case..........its still the shizzy!!!! either way im never the one initiating the sex it always follows up because of the way i kiss or something so in all my relationships its always been cause of my gf so......... that option is there all they gotta do is take it......no way in hell im gonna say no |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by somebody on Mar 7th, 2006, 8:32pm on 03/07/06 at 17:34:51, feso wrote:
LMAO at your analogy....dish on a table? my god..is that how people think of sex? |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Matthew on Mar 8th, 2006, 3:45am My relationships never last long enough to jude how that works |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Matthew on Mar 8th, 2006, 3:45am judge is the word....damn typo |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Mar 10th, 2006, 8:32am on 03/07/06 at 17:34:51, feso wrote:
I NEVER INITIATE... not ever ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Matthew on Mar 10th, 2006, 10:42pm Damn I never innitiate....maybe thats why I don't ever get laid |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by somebody on Mar 10th, 2006, 11:36pm You guys have never initiate sex? No freaking way. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by thebeast on Mar 10th, 2006, 11:49pm Well I have to have a green light before i will go for it. But at same time the women shouldnt be turning the red light on if she gave the green light already. As far as sex goes..if its true love?...well that can work both ways..I will say it shouldnt mater if you do or dont wait..if its true love of course. If you dont have sex in a relationship...the relationship will suffer and sooner or later if its not attended to the relationship well stray..because one or both of the people involved will seek some kind of sexual attention. If the sexual attraction isnt there..really shouldnt be lovers in the first place. Now women can hold out on thier men and the men might go seeking somewhere else and vice versa as well...but the women might say after this happens....well he didnt love me anyway. But if the women really loved her man..y was she holding out on him in the first place? Due to some petty misunderstanding or argument? You can say you have a headache or not in the mood only so many times. If you do have a headache or not in the mood most of the time there is a problem with the relationship. Maybe the love or attraction is gone maybe its not but there is a problem. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by thebeast on Mar 11th, 2006, 1:05am on 03/10/06 at 23:36:26, somebody wrote:
You know I have read where this is pretty common in lots of long lasting relationships. It has even happened to me in a relationship. Women need to take a more active role. Guys sooner or later will get tired of initiating sex all the time. And then the woman thinks he is not interested in her anymore. And the man thinks that the woman isnt interested in him anymore because she never initiates sex. Also for all the women who never initiate sex and worry about being turned down...it may happen but not that much..because if you are agressive enough the male will be more than willing to return the favor. I think communication is the best thing but sometimes the most overlooked thing that will help in these kind of situations. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by feso on Mar 12th, 2006, 1:47am i never initiated cause for the most part i was always feelin it but since i hate being shut down and walkin away with um...........blue balls.....lol..... so i always had to wait till she was feeling it..........either way im like a switch..........all u gotta do is flick the switch to on mode......jus dont forget to flick it back down to the off position when ur done |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by astrobloke on Mar 12th, 2006, 10:11am If a girl is really the pure innocent type then I know not to expect anything and Im there for getting to know her and enjoying her company. On the other hand there are girls who play the sexual lure and tease and then play innocent when the chips are down. They talk the talk but dont walk the walk. I can spot these types pretty well and Im nobodies fool for long :P Somewhere in between is the one with a normal healthy sexual appetite. If things become close and intimate I would expect she would be ready after a few really good dates. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 12th, 2006, 1:15pm Matt, you should learn how to "modify" your postings to save time :P. Are women allowed to post in here? (Am a woman, I swear!). Cause the question is only for the men? |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by feso on Mar 12th, 2006, 5:13pm yes edith brings a good point..................come on ladies.............this is questions for men.............so post those questions........... |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 13th, 2006, 12:55am What else can I ask you, guys? You seems to have answered what I have in mind. ;D Wait, you guys have different feelings for every women you have sex with, right? I mean there are those you have sex with just for the fun of it, and there are those you have sex with because you have an emotional attachment with the girl? What I want to know is how do you treat each type of women in your lives? Like, when having sex with someone you care about, do you want to linger in bed with her? And for those you just want to have fun, don't you feel like even making "small talks" with her after sex? And "sex-for"money" is not included among the type of women I mentioned above, ok? Im curious.... Quote:
Joel, there are women who holds back because they are not sure if the guy is really serious with them or just want to bed them. It will be frustrating to have sex with someone you have started to care for, only to have them disappear from your life after having sex with them. That hurts, too. So I think some are just trying to protect themselves. These type of men are a big turn-off for us women. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by feso on Mar 13th, 2006, 5:07pm all the women ive had sex with were girlfriends so...............ive never had sex with sum girl jus for the f of it..........and i treat em good......cause for the most part im all about treating others how i'd like to be treated.......gotta put urself in other peoples shoes to understand thier reactions to mens stupid actions sometimes and i have to mentally distach my top head from the other in order to do this but the outcome of it is grand.........love being a talker with the girls i was with and i treated them good cause i never wanted them to go out and look for these qualities from anyone else but me |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 14th, 2006, 2:14am Dang, alex..you talk in the plural..are u trying to make me jealous? [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by thebeast on Mar 14th, 2006, 2:37am on 03/13/06 at 00:55:10, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Edith I thought my answer relating to the fact that a woman who wont have sex with a man due to some reason..but she has already had sex with them. And Edith I think you are a wonderful and charming woman...but the poor poor women trying to protect themselves excuse due to the fact she was hurt from a previous relationship or scared the dude is just trying to get in her pants is getting a little old. Most guys are not gonna get into the womans pants unless she wants him to anyway. There is no way in hell that anyone is gonna be 100% sure of anything. I dont think guys think about being sure of this or that so much. I do know this...I was once in love with a girl so much...i thought i couldnt live without her..well guess what? I did. And I am willing to bet everyone has said that to themselves at least once in their lives. I am older and wiser now. I not get sex no where near what I used to get when I was in my teens and twenties. I have responsibilities now so that is not possible and I am still happy. Most of the responsibilities I have now are due to the sex that I had when I was in my teens and twenties. Look I not want to jump in bed with every woman I see. I dont get sex nearly as much as I used to so there is no way that I look at it as cheap. I have never went to bed with a woman just for the hell of it. If I not get it I not gonna die but I know I like it. I am an adult now and I look at sex as an adult. One night stands serve their purpose as long as both understand whats going on. I not want anyone who dont want me. I not want to hurt anyone. So if the opportunity to get it becomes available and I want it and the other female wants it as well... what am I supposed to do? I dont make excuses and I not waste time asking myself whats right and whats wrong. If its something I would like to do I do it. If not I dont. I think women should have the same attitude. lol ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Mar 14th, 2006, 7:13am on 03/13/06 at 17:07:38, feso wrote:
Verrrrryyyyy well said feso deary... veeeerrrryyyy well said... In my country when we hear a guy talks this way or if we sence that he is this way then we give him "50 pogi points" ;D ;D ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Mar 14th, 2006, 7:17am like it or not, men and women are very different... As the title of the book says.. men are from mars and women are from venus... We have different views about certain things. And what mama witchy was saying that women tend to get protective when they feel that the man doesnt have the same intentions as she does. We dont hold back just to pester you guys or just coz we like to torture anyone. But sometimes even in a relationship where there is already sex involed we sometimes get this sinking feeling that the man only wants sex and nothing more. This is a problem specially if the woman already loves the guy. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU FELT THAT THE PERSON YOU TRUELY LOVE ONLY WANTS YOU FOR SEX? |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by somebody on Mar 14th, 2006, 11:00am on 03/14/06 at 07:17:22, kim wrote:
Thanks for completing my sentiments. Maybe it's mainly asian women but I have a hard time being intimate w/someone I do not have feelings for...or if I think he's basically in it for the booty. I dont care how heated the moment is...or how long I've gone w/out it. My mind always take over my body. ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by thebeast on Mar 15th, 2006, 1:23am on 03/14/06 at 07:17:22, kim wrote:
I agree with men and women feel differently about things. This is what makes men the way men are and women the way women are. I dont think its a bad thing though. I know I wouldnt want my woman to be like or even think like a man. I truely like the fact that women feel differently about certain situations. It is important in some situations to look at things from a womans point of view. It might not be right or wrong but it is very important to consider it. I think God created us that way to make life more difficult so both sexes will enjoy paradise even better. As far as sex goes? Well if a man only wants a woman for sex chances are he isnt gonna be faithfull anyway. Sex can both hurt or help a relationship. I think you should be wise about how you go about it. If you start using it as a tool to stay together its possible it could hurt the relationship. I think sex is important now...but I am willing to bet when I get in my 50s or 60s I probably wont be still thinking the same way but that dont mean I still wouldnt want it either. ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 15th, 2006, 1:57am Joel, the thing is, it was not a girl's intention to "light a fire" then keep the man "burning" and not do something about it. Sometimes it's the man's fault. Some men try their damnedest to lead the girl that way, i mean seduce her. And before "it" can actually happen, the girl suddenly realize she can't go on with it. Then she will be branded a "tease". I think that's unfair. Sometimes it's easy to go along especially if the girl really likes the man a lot. But setting a limit as to how far she can go is not being a "tease" on her part. It is just that...her limit. Unless of course they have had sex before. I was talking about first time for the couple. It doesn't necessarily mean that the girl is still a virgin. A girl can be not a virgin anymore and still say no to any sexual relationship with a man she is not sure of, no matter how much she is attracted to him. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Mar 16th, 2006, 8:35am to add to what mama witchy said... when a girl teases that doesnt mean she wast to have sex. When we start kissing someone that doesnt mean we want to have sex. women kiss because they jsut want to kiss... And whn we talk about sex that doesn't mean that we'll have sex with anyone and anytime. Men often misunderstand what the girl does... I once saw a movie of Jodie Foster about rape. She was flirting with the guy in a bar and the guy misread what she was doing and thought that she wanted sex so she got raped by several men while others were watching.... At the end the men got convicted... ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by keensryche on Mar 17th, 2006, 4:13am ??? Sex ??? What's sex ??? |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Mar 17th, 2006, 5:59am on 03/17/06 at 04:13:45, keensryche wrote:
EErrrrr keen do we have to produce some visual aids to help you understand and to explain to you what SEX is? ;D SEX: The property or quality by which organisms are classified as female or male on the basis of their reproductive organs and functions. ;D There are a lot more definitions of sex thatyou can rean on http://www.thefreedictionary.com/sex Now to be more specific. Sex or sexual intercourse is the inserting of the dickydoodle in the kitty cat. Pushing it in n out to create friction that gives pleasure and with the use of hydrolics the semen is squirted out during orgasm ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by astrobloke on Mar 17th, 2006, 9:09am Wow thanks Kimmy . I always wondered about all that [smiley=woot.gif] |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 18th, 2006, 3:50am on 03/17/06 at 04:13:45, keensryche wrote:
Come on over and let me explain to you in details, Keen. Then you can practice with Kim. :D Quote:
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Mar 19th, 2006, 5:48am on 03/18/06 at 03:50:22, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Mama witchy does this mean you will be the director and we will be the actors? :o ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by feso on Mar 19th, 2006, 10:07pm I WANNA BE A PART OF THIS..............supposedly i can be a good actor............ill be the milk man |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 20th, 2006, 3:36am on 03/19/06 at 05:48:39, kim wrote:
Hehehehe! I think at this point in my life I can direct it better than acting it, Kimmy...so I am passing on the legacy to you. [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] Quote:
As long as u do not expect us to pay u also, you're in, Alex ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by feso on Mar 21st, 2006, 5:55am oh yah im the MILK MAN!!!!!! ;)..........that sounds too cool........ [smiley=icon_dance.gif] [smiley=icon_dance.gif] [smiley=frog.gif] [smiley=woot.gif] [smiley=whip.gif] |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Mar 21st, 2006, 9:39am what does a milk man do feso? ;D ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by feso on Mar 21st, 2006, 4:49pm i come to deliver............milk ;) *eye brow raised*...............and for some odd reason i dont come out of ur house for an hour and a half....... and then its on to the next house.............edith's house perhaps.......i have alot of deliveries.........so what does the milk man do?............i come to ur house to lay u out!!!!!!! |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Mar 24th, 2006, 7:31am on 03/21/06 at 16:49:50, feso wrote:
a layman, a handy man, a milkman, my alex, u sure is a handy man to have around, eh? Come on over, make urself comfortable while I fix you a drink. what would u like to have? [smiley=icon_drink2.gif] |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Mar 24th, 2006, 8:51am dang.... now i'm gonna have a different view bout milk ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by feso on Mar 26th, 2006, 6:42pm lol kim......when u drink milk jus watch tv or somethin and dont think of me......dont even think about guys..........damn lol im sorry for killing the milk for u |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Apr 4th, 2006, 6:40pm kimmy didn't say she's going to be thinking of milk in a negative way. for all you know everytime kimmy drink milk now she will think of you, alex ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by feso on Apr 5th, 2006, 5:18am lmao im sorry kim |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Apr 9th, 2006, 7:41am on 04/05/06 at 05:18:19, feso wrote:
You should not be sorry. I think you should be flattered, Alex :P |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Matthew on Apr 11th, 2006, 7:27am I usually get dumped before the sex thing is even in question. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Apr 17th, 2006, 12:26pm on 04/11/06 at 07:27:11, Matthew wrote:
Now that i have seen what u look like i can never believe that :P |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by ClumsilyIdiotic on May 21st, 2006, 10:59am I'm genuinely curious... how many orgasms can an average healthy man have? I mean in a day? And I don't mean masturbating ---- with a female partner of course. No bragging, ok? LOL. Women are so welcome to answer my inquiry. I'll be googling til I get an answer here. Serious responses only please. By serious I mean sticking to the question. I'm doing some research and this will benefit mankind. LOL. ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on May 21st, 2006, 12:19pm Based in my experience (s), average men don't last for more than once, then they will have to take some rests. Unless the couple is doing it for the first time. Im referring to couples that are living together though. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Fugi on May 21st, 2006, 7:55pm witchy maybe u met the wrong men :P P.S. take cover and other load cumming up [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on May 22nd, 2006, 3:06pm Hahahahaha! Stop bragging and show me your best shot, Fugi! ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Fugi on May 22nd, 2006, 3:13pm no hard feelings witchy but i'm saving it up :P if u wanna see cumshots, rent an adult movie [smiley=whip.gif] [smiley=whip.gif] [smiley=spank.gif] [smiley=spank.gif] guess i deserved that ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on May 23rd, 2006, 6:02am No way! I never enjoy watching pornos unless it's a woman to woman ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Fugi on May 23rd, 2006, 11:44am on 05/23/06 at 06:02:42, Wicked_Witch wrote:
i don't enjoy watching porn unless i'm the actor [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] [smiley=roll.gif] |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Jul 10th, 2006, 9:25am on 05/23/06 at 11:44:35, Fugi wrote:
Well, I enjoy watching women coz they know exactly where to touch to get the other woman excited. As for you, Fugi...no way, I'm sure you will be a lousy actor. :P |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by thebeast on Aug 2nd, 2006, 2:26am I never got into porn....it isnt real and I am not participating and I dont even know the women in porn personally. Same goes for strip joints..I never been in one. It makes no sense to waste your money and go home all hot and bothered. And if you already have a relationship or a wife and or/ husband, and you go to strip bars..personally I think there is a problem in the relationship. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 2nd, 2006, 9:47am Believe me, Joel, porns are real. Just that those in the lead characters acts like robots it's easy to see they are stoned or something. But there also those that are exciting/interesting to watch. Pornos are like ordinary movies. It just tackles on the subject of sex primarily. And strip joints can be fun also to some people. It doesn't necessarily mean that those that spend money on places like that are having marital problems. What you are trying to picture is an "ideal" marriage. Well..that can happen for a while but after a time life (not marriage) gets monotonous married people tried to find some different kind of amusements outside the house. My late husband and I sometimes watch good porno movies together because it stimulates us not because we are having trouble seducing each other. Sometimes he went out with an-all male friends so I already have an idea of where they go. And sometimes I go out with female friends too and sometimes we end up at male strip bars. When I come home we would laugh together at what we both have seen to those places we have been. so you see, Joel? It's just a matter of understanding between spouses. Not necessarily because they are having marriage problems. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by thebeast on Aug 3rd, 2006, 1:22am on 08/02/06 at 09:47:17, Wicked_Witch wrote:
Yes I know Edith I am speaking from my preferences. I have never been in a relationship that lasted any longer than 4 years. But I still dont think I need porn to get me in the mood. If I ever did need something to get me in the mood I would prefer using some kind of perscription drug like viagra and there are even prescription drugs like that for women as well. As far as the strip clubs.... from being in no relationship kind of perspective, I choose not to go because to me its a waste of money and time. I would rather go to a regular club and have fun there. At least my chances would be improved of getting to meet someone that might be interested in me on an intelectual level and might even develp into something. The women in strip clubs are only interested in one thing...money.... not sex. As far as going to the strip clubs when you are married or in a relationship. I not so sure that is a good idea. I dont think I want to put myself in that kind of situation because if you let your lover or significant other do that then when that gets old... what's next? Call me insecure or whatever but I dont think I would want my wife or gf going to a strip club and I would hope she would feel the same way towards me. Temptation isnt something one should screw around with. And after a few drinks and a show, believe me, temptation is there. Even if there are problems in the relationship or not. That can even happen at a bar. Besides if you are happy with the one you love...why would you choose to go to one in the first place. I guess I am just old fashioned when it comes to stuff like that. |
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Title: Why on earth do men have nipples???? Post by okasantina on Aug 3rd, 2006, 11:27am Strange as it sounds ... it`s because all guys begin life as girls :o. "During the first six weeks in the womb, all fetuses develop as female and grow rudimentary genital tissue as well as nipples that have the potential to become functioning breasts," This i got from endocrinologist. At the seventh week, however, sex chromosomes kick in, mascunilizing the bodies of babies destined to be boys. "While the genital tissue grows into a penis and testes, the nipples are left as is, but w o any biological function. Freaky rack fact: Since men retain some breast tissue, a dude may develop real boobs ;D - if he takes megadoses of estrogen. Hmmm interesting ::) ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 4th, 2006, 5:26pm on 08/03/06 at 01:22:16, thebeast wrote:
It's very simple, Joel. To have fun. Because bars and strip clubs are not where affairs come from. Affairs come from the workplace, the neighborhood or among your aquaintances. If you respect your partner though, no amount of temptation can lure one into having an affair. I think respect, more than love is what I would look for in a partner. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by okasantina on Aug 4th, 2006, 9:38pm on 08/04/06 at 17:26:44, Wicked_Witch wrote:
By going to a strip club doesnt necessarily mean you have no respect to ure partner...the temptation is there..but whats the real reason why they go there??? its because of their partner itself...ask and you may know the real answer. Most of the affairs why couples become insecure is that of those "strip clubs" and that is what most affairs came from...imagine why men go on clubs??? why?? why they wanna hang out w those girls working on clubs? Cuz they are not contented in what they have! Anyway ...regarding to what Joel`s opinion...i believe and respeact his motives cuz not all men dont wanna go to club or strip clubs cuz its really just a waste of time and money...Men look for other women cuz of the lack of what their partners have...they are born to be polygamous. They are men ... w ego and their being macho u know... lol....so i would say most of the affairs come from bars and strip clubs...it may be 30% out of 100...the reast will come from what you saying...workplace...acquaintances and so on and so forth.... anywhere can be a place of temptation...its only a matter of faithfulness and loyalty to one another.... ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by thebeast on Aug 5th, 2006, 12:16am on 08/04/06 at 21:38:29, okasantina wrote:
Bravo Tina...I know for a fact Edith dont really mean what she types, she just wants to argue and make me look like the instigator. lol |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by thebeast on Aug 5th, 2006, 12:26am on 08/04/06 at 17:26:44, Wicked_Witch wrote:
LOL...If I were a woman...it would be very hard for me to respect the man I loved who was in a strip club with a half naked lady with curves shaking her breasts in his face and spending his money foolishly as she dry humps his lap. And I would have no respect for a woman who I was involved with at a strip club with some hunky stranger doing the same thing. And I dont think it has anything to do with being insecure. What it has to do is an action that someone does in order to make the person or relationship jealous or insecure. To me if a person knowingly does some action to make the other person jealous or insecure...the other person might be jealous or insecure..but what do you expect. If he or she isnt then there is a problem in the relationship. I am not one to be jealous or insecure for no reason. Being made jealous is different. There is something wrong with the relationship if the girl or guy you love goes to strip clubs and you will never convince me otherwise. Could be a financial problem, could be a sexual problem, could be lack of romance it could be lots of reasons...but still a problem. If he or she cant have fun with you...then you dont need to be togehter in the first place. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by nOrKAy on Aug 5th, 2006, 6:44am Joel, Some of your statements, I totally agree. Like when you're with somebody/in a relationship, you should avoid going to "dirty" places , where your mind can be poisoned and ruin the relationship, like this-- strip clubs. Because first question, why do you go to that kind of place? For fun? Damn it! What kind of fun are you looking for? Watching girls stripping? Stage show from those "dirty" women who have no intention but money, since that's their source of living? Because for me [if I were a man], I would rather spend money and time with my girlfriend everytime and as much or as often as we are able. Because if the relationship is really great, no problem, and everything is mutual on both of us, there is no reason why you still have the urge to go to places such as strip clubs. And yes, there is nothing to do with being insecure, jealous or anything, but I would feel bad if I find out my BF is going into strip clubs. It will be a big confrontation from me. I doubt if he wouldn't feel the same or even worse if he knows I also go to men's strip clubs. I am not trying to tie his neck either, I wouldn't just understand him going to strip clubs. I just don't agree with you having no respect with people who work, or with people who go in those kind of clubs. I just want you to know that ,for sure, most of those women working there don't like also those kind of work places. It's just their level of capabilties in having a source of living, as some do it just to go to school, feed their family, and still others never had the chance to have an education. So, no choice for them. Thus, they should still be respected. I should advise, however, to detach yourself and don't trust them, as they are always after on how much money they can get. As for the men who go to strip clubs, I can't say I don't respect them either, but can't trust them. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by thebeast on Aug 5th, 2006, 5:34pm on 08/05/06 at 06:44:06, nOrKAy wrote:
I guess I wasnt clear....Its not that I dont respect the people who work or even go to these places...its I wouldnt respect my GF or wife who went to these places. Respect may even be the wrong word. I just know I wouldnt like it and I wouldnt be happy with it. I understand that women are in certain circumstances that they need to do what has to be done in order to survive and even the women who work there and really dont need to because they could get jobs somewhere else....I dont even disrespect that. If you got the goods hell use it...in my opinion. I just wouldnt want the woman who was my gf or wife going there. In fact if she did go or even wanted to go...I wouldnt be a relationship with her any longer but we could still have sex with no commitment if she wanted to.... but I am willing to bet she wouldnt want that. LOL ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by okasantina on Aug 7th, 2006, 10:11am Whats the topic again? ::) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by thebeast on Aug 9th, 2006, 8:05pm on 08/07/06 at 10:11:43, okasantina wrote:
I think is it okay for a man to let his woman go to a strip club? Or should a man be okay with letting his woman go to a strip club? or was it something else...I dont know I got sidetracked. All I know is I wouldnt go for it. But if there are relationships that can handle that kind of thing...then that is cool..but I still think theres a problem in the relationship if that is the case. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 10th, 2006, 10:31am Well, maybe you guys are thinking of something along like a regular visit in those places. Nahhh....what I mean is more along the line of "have you ever done something crazy in ur life and enjoyed it?". Let's not talk about respect here. It's not the issue. The issue is are you liberated enough to allow ur wife or husband to see those places just for fun? ok..if not for fun, just for the experience? or just for the heck of it? |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Kitch on Aug 17th, 2006, 8:54am Waiting for marriage so can't answer |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Gracia on Aug 19th, 2006, 3:57am guess it all depends on his reason, if he'll say that they'll have a night out with his boss, I will allow him to go as long it won't happen so often. On the other hand, if he'll say that he'll like to go there because he likes to, i might as well set up a stage at home and start the show...i'll have to say to him, lets take turn since I also want to to go to bar watching all those macho dancers... [smiley=thump.gif] marriage is a work in progress and it's give and take.. [smiley=smash.gif] |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 19th, 2006, 6:53am on 08/17/06 at 08:54:20, Kitch wrote:
Lol, Kitch. I doubt if you ever go to those places while still unmarried. Quote:
Lol, Grace. I wish it were that easy to solve! But the problem is, sometimes men wants a variety in their marriage life. Not to cheat of course. Just to have fun outside the house and with some friends. And maybe see things that they have never seen yet? |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Gracia on Aug 22nd, 2006, 6:54am Quote:
I guess being a member in one of the religious community here helps a lot in our marriage. My husband was 33 when we got married, from the way I looked at it, he was into those bright lights already and had enjoyed the fun during those unattached days. Though I can say that most of the times, the type circle of friends will vary too. He's with some great guys here who happens to have retired from those scenes. I wish it never come back but if it does, I would demand the same freedom too. ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Aug 22nd, 2006, 12:58pm That's the way to go, Grace. I'm like that, I don't get mad, I get even. ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by CeL on Aug 31st, 2006, 5:43pm on 08/22/06 at 12:58:52, Wicked_Witch wrote:
is getting even will make the matter better or worse??? coz i believe in the power of open communication so i prefer to sit on the table, lay all our cards and negotiate....so enlighten me folks hehehe [smiley=angel.gif] |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by lou_la_lou on Aug 31st, 2006, 6:34pm ::)ohh boy |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Gracia on Sep 1st, 2006, 11:16am Quote:
am not sure pakner but maybe it's like putting yourself to his shoes and vice versa. in that way, you'll both know what and how does it feel. What good will that do to your relationship. i don't use the word getting even though, i use fair. Getting even is like initiating revenge to me...and i don't do revenge. And I don't do things he doesn't know. |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by CeL on Sep 1st, 2006, 6:21pm its all about mental battle then pakner ::) and im proud to know how u manage ur marrige life and ur work...not a lot can have success on both arena so my salute to u my dear pakner...in crime :D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Gracia on Sep 5th, 2006, 9:02am ouchhh...thanks pakner....i also have my ups and downs you know...I'll manage fine because God is there. My rescuer at all times. ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Sep 5th, 2006, 5:22pm Actually I am just applying the Golden Rule there "do not do unto others what you do not want others do unto you"....and this >>>>"what you can do, I can do better"...and it works all the time. At least they are aware of the consequences should they try any trick on me. ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Sep 20th, 2006, 1:14pm on 03/07/06 at 06:43:45, somebody wrote:
FYI: this is the original question for this thread ;D :P But i think i'd like to respond to some of the posts in here before i put things back in track. Feso's milk: Honey can ya drop by at my house n deliver some milk? how many orgasms does a man have... from ms clumsy: I had a BF once that can orgasm twice in a row... Porn for excitement: i don't see anything bad with watching porn with your partner to liven up the mood... strip clubs for money: amen bars for sex: amen again going to a strip club is disrespect to your partner: I don't think that it is a sign of disrespect if you go to a strip club as long as you release all your sexuall urge to your partner n not to someone else... But thats only my opinion. I respect krissy's n joel's opinion on this topic. Temptation in strip clubs: Crazy asit may seem i'd rather have my partner go in a public strip club watching naked women than having dinner with an officemate who's he is attracted too. Everywhere you go there is temptation. If you can't control it then taht just means that you are not yet ready to be in a serious relationship. If I were a woman...it would be very hard for me to respect the man I loved who was in a strip club with a half naked lady with curves shaking her breasts in his face and spending his money foolishly as she dry humps his lap and vise versa: Again another different opinio... It would actually be fun to go in a strip club n watch naked women with your lover... harharhar.. so you can get tips on how to strip dance for him... |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Aftr_it on Sep 29th, 2006, 3:53pm If I were a woman...it would be very hard for me to respect the man I loved who was in a strip club with a half naked lady with curves shaking her breasts in his face and spending his money foolishly as she dry humps his lap and vise versa: Again another different opinio... It would actually be fun to go in a strip club n watch naked women with your lover... harharhar.. so you can get tips on how to strip dance for him... I only showed up cos I thought you were dancing there Kimmy |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Aftr_it on Sep 29th, 2006, 3:54pm :o or was that you only showed up cos I was dancing there |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Oct 5th, 2006, 8:26am Dang, son! Make up your mind, will ya? :P Watching pornos, going to strip clubs, I think whatever we do will depend on the person's preferences. Like I said, some things may be interesting to us and some of the things other people do will be disgusting to some, also. So let's live and let live. Let's respect other people. Let's give them a chance to enjoy their lives the way they see fit. I'm not oppose to my bf or hubby going to strip clubs just for the fun of watching those naked women. But if he asks me for money so he can go there, now that's when it will piss me off. ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by ClumsilyIdiotic on Dec 15th, 2006, 5:06pm Don't roll your eyes at me but this is a serious question. I have recently wondered how it feels like for a man once you're inside a woman's 'thingy'. Apart from it being tight and warm and wet, what exactly do you feel? It always amazes me how the human body works, particularly the female genitalia. Another stupid question: Why do other men orgasm too soon even if the guy is not inexperienced? Is it due to lack of consideration on your partner or just too much excitement? Or all of the above? ;D |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by wildheart41004 on Feb 8th, 2007, 11:06pm you wouldn't believe me if I told you :P |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by ClumsilyIdiotic on Feb 8th, 2007, 11:51pm on 02/08/07 at 23:06:50, wildheart41004 wrote:
Please, humor me. ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Wicked_Witch on Feb 12th, 2007, 8:51am Yes, I am interested to hear it also from the men's point of view? |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by kim on Mar 23rd, 2007, 6:10pm I was talking to a friend just a few hours ago and she was ranting about this guy that he met who was soooo much of a gentle man taht she had to leave him coz she wanted a sex partner n the man wanted a wife... ;D ;D ;D.... This just proves that women do the same thing that men does ;) |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by okasantina on Oct 24th, 2007, 5:35pm Why do men always think of sex every second of their day? |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by Gracia on Oct 26th, 2007, 11:28am why men don't participate here? |
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Title: Re: question for the men Post by ReeBop on Oct 31st, 2007, 12:21am Sex? What is that? I forgot... Isn't it something to do with tacos? [smiley=taco.gif][smiley=taco.gif][smiley=taco.gif][smiley=taco.gif][smiley=taco.gif] |
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